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What happens when you blend the suspense of horror with the sparkle of holiday lights and a dash of personal reflection? Join me, Charles Campos Jr., and my fabulous guest Dani as we playfully grapple with horror movie trivia and the horror genre in general. Halloween was just a few days ago, why not right? Laugh along as we reminisce about our lively youthful escapades and Dani's unapologetic preference for her nickname over Danielle, setting the stage for an episode that’s as entertaining as it is engaging.

As the conversation takes a thoughtful turn, we ponder the pressures of holiday consumerism and the weight of maintaining traditions. We share our personal takes on navigating the chaos of holiday seasons while raising families, questioning the balance between joy and commercial pressure. With a mix of humor and sincerity, we discuss the societal shifts impacting parental mental health and the complexities surrounding gender identity discussions, reflecting on our own experiences and the world our children are growing up in.

Rounding out the episode, we dive into the powerful narratives of parental mental health, sharing candid insights on the emotional rollercoaster of raising a child with disabilities. With a blend of raw honesty and heartfelt stories, we tackle the profound challenges and rewards that come with parenthood, bolstered by a discussion on mental health awareness and the importance of support systems. And as we wrap up, prepare for a spirited debate on superhero abilities, all while channeling our inner self-hype with a sprinkle of fitness inspiration. Tune in, laugh, reflect, and join the conversation that’s as real as it is entertaining.

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Hello everyone, my name is Charles Campos Jr and
this is my podcast.
Confident, not Cocky.
I wanted to give a quickdisclaimer and I'll let you get
back to the episode.
I apologize ahead of time forthe audio not being the best,
for I am still learning as I goand I would continue to learn,
get better and bring you betteraudio and quality shows.
If you're hearing this, then Ireally appreciate you taking a

(00:20):
listen and I hope you enjoy theshow.
Thank you, appreciate youtaking a listen.
I hope you enjoy the show.

Speaker 2 (00:27):
Thank you.
As the saying goes, it ain'tcocky if you back it up.
This is Confident, Not Cocky.
The show where boldconversations meet relatable
real-life experiences.
Hosted by Charles Campos Jr,this podcast brings you
everything from the latesttrends and news to personal

(00:48):
stories that make you laugh,reflect and maybe even get a
little emotional.
Whether it's Charles flyingsolo or chopping it up with
special guests, nothing's offthe table and it's always
straight talk, Real and raw, nofilter.
So get ready for a ride that'sas fun as it is real.

(01:08):
This is Confident, Not Cocky,and this is your host, Charles
Campos Jr.

Speaker 1 (01:17):
All right, well, welcome in.
Do you want to use yournickname or your real name?

Speaker 3 (01:25):
We could go by, danny .

Speaker 1 (01:28):
Danny.

Speaker 3 (01:29):
Yes, with an N and an I, single N.

Speaker 1 (01:33):
Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah.
Well, for the audience, what isyour real name?
Well, you don't have to give meyour last name of course,
Disgustingly, it's Danielle.
You don't like your first name.

Speaker 3 (01:44):
Hell no.

Speaker 1 (01:45):
Why?
What's wrong with danielle?

Speaker 3 (01:48):
no, I feel like I don't have the face of danielle.
You know it's like what?

Speaker 1 (01:53):
what is the face of danielle have?
What does that look like?
It is a white girl.

Speaker 3 (01:58):
It is not somebody who is Mexican and Puerto Rican,
but apparently my mother saidshe wanted a name that I can
call you.
That's a boy and a girl name.

Speaker 1 (02:15):
Well, yeah, danny, I guess that makes sense.
Well, I appreciate you comingon.
Obviously, as you know, this isthe first episode of Confident
Not Cocky or Cocky Not Confident.
I can't even get my own damntitle of my own podcast
correctly, so there'll be somenerves here and there and, of

(02:37):
course, I'll have to learn as Igo, of course.
But, like I said, thanks again,hopefully we'll have some fun
here.
Um, so tonight we're gonna getto know each other on a
different level, because Idefinitely plan to open it up
the conversation, as I plan todo it with any guests on my show

(03:02):
.
So, like I said, like westarted off, um, don't be afraid
to hold anything back.
Obviously, I have notes herefor topics.
I don't know if you jotted downon any of yours, but if not,
it's okay, I'll keep theconversation going.
But if you like, uh, go aheadand just tell the people a

(03:25):
little about yourself what'sabout me?

Speaker 3 (03:29):
I would first say I'm a hilarious person.
Anybody who describes me wouldsay I am the life of the party
is that right?
That is very right is that,with or without alcohol and you
you're funny without no, I walkthrough the door and they'll be
like the pot is here, alcoholjust helps with it it loosens

(03:53):
you out, I know I smell thatwine from over here.
You're funny, that's strong ohyeah, that's what that 13
percent does is that 13?
13, but you know what thehighest is?
I had.

Speaker 2 (04:06):
What 17.

Speaker 1 (04:10):
You made it sound like you're going to have this
huge number like 45.

Speaker 3 (04:15):
For wine 17%.

Speaker 1 (04:19):
I don't know anything about wine, is 17 a pretty
strong one, hell yeah.

Speaker 3 (04:27):
Does it go higher than that?
Ask your wife, wife, whathappened last time?

Speaker 1 (04:29):
I gave her 17 does it go any higher than that?
No, I think 17 or 16 is aboutthe highest I've found so far
because even I mean I haven't, Ihaven't really dabbled in
drinking in a while, but even ina beer nowadays, a hard one
isn't 11%, 12% high for a beer.

(04:51):
I think so I mean that gets youbuzzed.
A normal beer is like what?
6%, 7%.
And they have some hard onesout there that are probably 13%,
14% nowadays.
Huh.
Yeah, I want to say yeah,they've been trying to come up
with higher wine percentages, soI've tried about one or two of

(05:12):
them and let's just say I don'tremember the nights that makes
sense for for one I understandit doesn't take much for you to
uh get lit first of all, I'mjust saying from what?

Speaker 3 (05:33):
I hear and what I've seen in the past back in the day
when I used to drink a lot, mytolerance was, you know, very
high.
I of myself.
Now, don't even ask me, don'teven ask me, I'm ashamed.

Speaker 1 (05:48):
How old are you?

Speaker 3 (05:49):
I am 27.
So back in the day, back in theday when I was like that young,
23, 24.

Speaker 1 (05:57):
So four years ago was back in the day to you.

Speaker 3 (05:59):
Four years does damage on a body.

Speaker 1 (06:03):
Back in the day is like 10, 15 years.

Speaker 3 (06:07):
Okay, don't give yourself like you're 40 years
old boy.

Speaker 1 (06:10):
I'm close.
I'm 36, 35.

Speaker 3 (06:14):
Okay, that ain't 40, though.

Speaker 1 (06:16):
Calm yourself down, it's close.
But yeah, either way, I knowthat Halloween just just passed
and I was, Would you say you're.
You're pretty in tune withscary movies, right?

Speaker 3 (06:33):
Oh yes, my favorite Halloween is the best holiday.
Oh yeah.

Speaker 1 (06:39):
So you think, if, if I give you a quiz on some how or
not, not even halloween, likescary movie trivia, you think
you'll do pretty good oh, I'mgonna try now.

Speaker 3 (06:54):
I'm intrigued to see myself so how about?

Speaker 1 (06:58):
how would you put a little stake on it?
Let's say, if I find a, uh, atrivia one, and I'm trying to
say like, if it's like best outof 10, let me questions for this
one.
There is, oh my god, how manyquestions.

(07:19):
I don't know if we're gonna doall 30 no, let's do disney I'll
win that, yes, disney songs.

Speaker 3 (07:26):
No, okay, disney movies.

Speaker 1 (07:28):
Alright, there's like 50.
It keeps going Like 100questions on this.

Speaker 3 (07:34):
I'll murder Disney.
Anybody who wants to go againstme on Disney, I'll murder you.

Speaker 1 (07:40):
You know what?
I'm going to give you the first10 here and let's see if you
can get 7 out of 10, right?
Just random's see if you couldget seven out of 10, right?

Speaker 3 (07:47):
Just random movie horror trivia oh shit All right.

Speaker 1 (07:48):
Pressure's on All right Number one In the movie
the Exorcist what is the name ofthe possessed girl?

Speaker 3 (07:57):
Pass.
I never watched the Exorcist.

Speaker 1 (08:01):
So you're a horror movie guru and you've never seen
the exorcist?

Speaker 3 (08:06):
so I always fall asleep on the exorcist.
For some reason I feel likethose movies just drag okay, so
you don't like the classic Idon't like anything that's like
I guess you could say likeexorcism wise, because I feel
like the whole let me take itout of your body and the whole

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life story and the priesttalking so much.
No, ok, so let's.
I'm more gory.

Speaker 1 (08:35):
OK.
So I was going to say let's tryto narrow it down.
Are you more of a slasher typefanatic?
Are you more of like gore type?

Speaker 3 (08:46):
of fan fanatic like slasher gore.
I like that and no, I'm not apsycho killer like do you have
you?

Speaker 1 (08:54):
have you seen the movie psycho that I've?

Speaker 3 (08:57):
not seen that one but I've seen I've seen slasher.
Now that was a very good show.
Now that was a very good show.
That, oh yeah, I think that'sthe one on netflix.
Yeah, that was.

Speaker 1 (09:10):
Yeah, it's gory and slasher, so you're more into
that so then are you are youinto the saw films?

Speaker 3 (09:16):
oh, all of them.

Speaker 1 (09:17):
I've seen every single last one of them like
hostile, hostile repeatedly oh,so you like that yeah, bloody
yeah, okay, I I make yourstomach turn while you're eating
yeah, yeah, I'm trying to seehere I don't know if they have
like a, a modern or what aboutpost-2000s horror movie?

(09:40):
I think that should be robbiealley, right let's see it's not
gonna give me the answer.
I don't think so, like thefirst one is in the movie Tusk
what animal does the old guy?

Speaker 3 (09:52):
oh, it's a walrus that's kind of easy he uses his
tibia for the teeth have youseen that movie?
I have seen it.
It's on Netflix.
It's very disgusting.
It's a very disgusting movie.
Who are the only two peoplethat?

Speaker 1 (10:04):
young Michael Myers spares in the.
I have seen it.
It's on Netflix.
It's very disgusting.
It looks crazy.
It's a very disgusting movie.
All right, who are the only twopeople that young Michael Myers
spares in the Rob ZombiesHalloween?

Speaker 3 (10:11):
Oh my God, that's an original.
So he spares his sister for one.
She's a baby.

Speaker 1 (10:18):
So the baby sister.
Yeah, that's right, so who'sthe other one?

Speaker 3 (10:24):
He kills his older one, the mom.

Speaker 1 (10:27):
Yeah, look at you.
Okay, all right, so you'redigging, you're digging down,
okay.
Now I don't know if I I don'teven know what this movie is In
zombies.
You've seen that movie 2016?
I think it's the one where thezoo animals become zombies.

Speaker 3 (10:45):
No, I haven't seen that one.

Speaker 1 (10:48):
That one sounds weird .
What song plays in the creditsof the Hills have Eyes remake
2006?
Who?

Speaker 3 (10:54):
watches the credits.

Speaker 1 (10:56):
It must have been iconic.

Speaker 3 (10:59):
I don't watch credits unless I know something's gonna
happen at the end.

Speaker 1 (11:03):
You think if I gave you the name of the songs you
would know, or you have no idea.

Speaker 3 (11:06):
Let me see, maybe I'll sing it for y'all.

Speaker 1 (11:08):
Painted Desert.

Speaker 3 (11:10):
Nope pass and.

Speaker 1 (11:11):
I Miss you.

Speaker 3 (11:13):
Nope pass 30, 25.
30, 25, no.

Speaker 1 (11:16):
In the Valley of the Sun.

Speaker 3 (11:19):
Nope.

Speaker 1 (11:20):
Hills and Valleys, no .
Or here Comes the sun.
If you had to take a guess,which one I have- he'll have the
sun.
I would say in the valley ofthe sun.
Let's see, I was right in thein the valley.
All right, a couple more.
Oh, here's a speaking of saw.
Which trap is not in the saw 3d?

(11:42):
Silence circle.
Circle Impalement Wheel.
Public Execution Trap.
Reverse Bear Trap.
The Brazen Bull oh, you knowwhat the Brazen Bull is?
That's a fucked up torturedevice.
Bedroom Trap.

Speaker 3 (12:01):
What was the third one from the end?

Speaker 1 (12:08):
I'll just say them again silent circle, impalement,
impalement wheel, reverse, beartrap, the public execution trap
, brazen bull reverse bear trapso you're saying that it was not
?
I don't think that one was no,it was the bedroom trap damn,
that was my next one, but let medo you know what the brazen

(12:29):
bull is no, but it sounded likesomething gory like I'm not
gonna lie.
The brazen bull is probably oneof the most just like a
torturous thing and I what aboutthe impalement?

Speaker 3 (12:46):
one public impalement .
That's how they started thewhole movie off of with the girl
she was hanging in the middle.
She's like brad, I love you, no, I love you.
And they're like you, bitch,you just want whoever's gonna
win oh, is that within the glass?

Speaker 1 (13:03):
yeah, and people were trying to break it.

Speaker 3 (13:05):
And she was over here like telling whoever was
winning, I love you that's right, that's right that was messed
up.

Speaker 1 (13:12):
That's, that's what women do, man.
They, they'll, they'll play youokay, pause no, like watch.
So obviously I don't have video.
So for the people watching, Ijust oh, is this where?

Speaker 3 (13:25):
they put you in the bull and they smoke you.

Speaker 1 (13:27):
Yeah, yeah.

Speaker 2 (13:29):
From the yeah, I was like from the movie.

Speaker 1 (13:32):
And they're screaming in the bull, so it's like a
bronze or a copper bull.

Speaker 3 (13:37):
I don't remember this one in the saw.

Speaker 1 (13:40):
They throw you into this bull and they light a fire
underneath you and the crazypart is that they put like
organs not like like humanorgans, but like people like
brass instruments, like hornshorns goes through the horn or

(14:01):
the nose of the bull.
So the people screaming inthere.
You don't hear the screaming,you hear like a whistling noise
coming out of the bull's noseand it's jacked up.
So people are basically likecooking alive.
So if you see how she's hearingthe whistling noise, it's

(14:22):
multiple people in there cryingfor their life.

Speaker 3 (14:25):
It was messed up.
But see, saw didn't use a bull.
To my knowledge, it was in Saw,I think.
I don't know four or five.

Speaker 1 (14:37):
I don't remember that either.

Speaker 3 (14:38):
It was the pig scene.
It was the one where the manpretended that he was a Saw
victim but he never was.
And then Saw actually capturedhim and at the end he had his
wife chained and he burned heralive and they closed her into a
pig.
It wasn't a bull Trick question.

Speaker 1 (15:00):
Maybe I don't know the lies We'll do two more.
Oh, this is probably one of myfavorite movies, but yet I
probably can't quote anythingfrom it.
Um, in the I spit on your grave, remix 2010, what is the plot?
Do you want me to give you thethe choices, or do you know

(15:22):
offhand?
give me the choices, becauseI've seen all of them, but
there's I'm trying to rememberwith the remake if anybody loves
that horror revenge movie,these movies are the movies to
watch.
Oh my gosh, all right.
So the plot a zombie rises fromthe grave negative yeah, okay,

(15:44):
there's one option, id, idk, Idon't know.
Okay, so a woman wants revengeafter being brutalized.
Okay, this is pretty easy.
And then this says parents wantrevenge after their daughter is
brutalized.
Skeletons come from thecemetery.

Speaker 3 (16:01):
A man smits on another man's grave see, isn't
the remake supposed to be like?
It's all the same, you'reoverthinking it well, no,
because have you seen one, twoand three?
Yeah, I've seen all of them sopart three is she wants revenge
for her friend because they werein the aa, but this is the
remake.

Speaker 1 (16:20):
oh, she just wants revenge for herself, yeah, yeah,
I mean, I thought it was gonnabe a lot trickier, but if you
know any part of this movie,you'll get that All right.
One more.

Speaker 3 (16:30):
She got them though.

Speaker 1 (16:32):
She did, she did Brutally.

Speaker 3 (16:34):
She did.
I gave her a high five.

Speaker 1 (16:37):
All right, I'm trying to find a tricky one.

Speaker 3 (16:49):
Oh one, oh, that's all right from what kind of?
Weapon did chewy die in thefriday, the 13th reboot.

Speaker 1 (16:52):
Oh my god, not friday the 13th.
I don't even know who chewy isme neither I only watched those
like one time but.

Speaker 3 (16:57):
I can do the sign so we got an axe, machete, antlers,
screwdriver, crossbow fire forsome strange reason for some
strange reason, I think it'santlers I think you say machete
because that's what jason uses,but watch you be the antlers.

Speaker 1 (17:17):
It was a screwdriver damn so I mean no, there's only
a couple.
Do you want?
Do you want to finish it, or?
Sure might as well what is thelowest rated on rotten tomatoes
of the following six?
So I'm gonna name you sixmovies.
Which one is the lowest ratedon rotten tomato?

(17:38):
Leprechaun 1993, with theoriginal one with Jennifer
Aniston.
Trash the Hill, have Eyes 2006.
A Nightmare on Elm Street 2010,saw 3D Scary Movie 2 or Human
Centipede 3.

Speaker 3 (17:57):
Oh, that one's disgusting.

Speaker 1 (17:59):
What do you think is the lowest?
Leprechaun that movie was trash.
And even the graphics it all 3d.

Speaker 3 (18:10):
What now?

Speaker 1 (18:10):
I'm devastated now I'm kind of curious what it has
I'm like very devastated.

Speaker 3 (18:14):
I love all the saws rotten tomato didn't have the
stomach for it.

Speaker 1 (18:19):
That's what it was is saw 3d, basically the final
chapter.
Like, is it because it I put insaw 3d?
Yeah, because then afterwardsthey start making the one with
like um nine percent chris rockthat was, that was spiral yeah,
but it's part of saw oh yeah, sothey made that one.

Speaker 3 (18:41):
then they made the Saw 11.
They also had there was anotherone that was like, not named
Saw, but it was the one- wherelike Pop, open something real
quick.
Saw wasn't dead, but it soundsso nice.
They like, brought the peopleback and they were trapped in

(19:04):
and man and man.

Speaker 2 (19:05):
I want to look up all the other different saws.

Speaker 3 (19:07):
Yeah, because, but that was the only one that was
last called saw saw.

Speaker 1 (19:11):
Besides saw 11 oh then because they didn't call
saw 10, I don't think did you gosee smile too, yet I did.

Speaker 3 (19:19):
It was a good.
Was it better than the firstone?
I like the first one better.
It's usually better the secondone.
I was like nah.

Speaker 1 (19:26):
Have you seen that Malignant?
What is it?

Speaker 3 (19:31):
Malignant.
Yeah, On Netflix oh yeah, thatwas a fucking twist that was
wild.

Speaker 1 (19:37):
No spoilers, but I just keep rerunning that police
prison scene.

Speaker 3 (19:47):
Jigs, jigsaw was it?

Speaker 1 (19:49):
oh yeah, jigsaw.
Remember when she she'sfighting all the or killing all
the police officers oh yeah it'shit.
But you know what I'm saying,like backwards and shit.

Speaker 3 (19:58):
I'm like what I remember being like.
You can't see my eyebrows andmy eyebrows are like going close
to my, like middle of myforehead I'm thinking like this
shit's ridiculous, but thisisn't entertaining as hell, and
that's why you gotta watch thathulu show I was telling you
about what?

Speaker 1 (20:16):
what?
No go ahead say it, no go ahead, say it grow grotesquery.

Speaker 3 (20:21):
Gross grocery?
How do you say it?

Speaker 1 (20:25):
I'm pretty sure it's grotesque.
Where are you getting a re now?
You got me looking it up.

Speaker 3 (20:33):
I'm looking up for y'all motherfuckers it's
grotesque.

Speaker 1 (20:39):
There's no re or anything at the end of it.
I hope if anyone listens tothis, they make fun of you for
that shit look it's grotesquerysee, maybe grotesquery or
grotesquery.
I think it's grotesquerygrotesquery.

Speaker 3 (20:58):
Either way, watch that shit on Hulu.
I am on the episode four and Iam literally turning like I
don't know who who to trust Isee I'm trying to get caught up
on and it's very gory.
So if you like saw movies oranything slasher gory, that's up

(21:18):
your alley see I'm trying toget caught up on those uh
america horror stories I gotback into those.
Man, I'm trying to think whereI stopped at there's so many now
, I think I stopped at the road.
Yeah, I was like no, no, thecamp one.

Speaker 1 (21:35):
I watched the slasher one the slasher.
Yeah, that was a good one too.

Speaker 3 (21:39):
That's where I left off when I didn't watch was with
lady g.
I'm sorry, Lady Gaga.
Oh, the vampire one.
Well, she's in more of the showthe hotel one yeah, that's the
vampire one.
Yeah, I couldn't watch it.
She just, I couldn't, Icouldn't.

Speaker 1 (21:54):
Really, I like Lady Gaga.

Speaker 3 (21:56):
Okay, who was your?
Which one was your favorite one?

Speaker 1 (22:00):
Well, I'm only up, I just finished.

Speaker 2 (22:03):
From the ones you watched.

Speaker 1 (22:05):
So the ones I watched was a slasher Roanoke, the
original one in the house.

Speaker 2 (22:13):
Oh the doomsday.

Speaker 1 (22:14):
The circus one, the doomsday one.
Remember they're in the shelter.
The witches one the witches one, so I've seen on those.
If I had to choose which myfavorite one was, honestly it
probably had to be the slasherone because I like how I like
how they had the clown and theother piece of the puzzle and

(22:35):
like how it all ended and howpeople were in purgatory like it
was good.

Speaker 3 (22:40):
It was better than the roanoke one.
But I'm an og, I would have tosay season one or the circus one
, the asylum one that clown yeah, yeah that was pretty crazy.

Speaker 1 (22:56):
and then, um, speaking about this, all
halloween stuff, I don't know Ifeel like I am in the minority
of this, but like, likeChristmas and like Thanksgiving,
halloween, like I don't knowwhy, I'm not all about that Like

(23:18):
, and it's weird because growingup we celebrated all the
holidays like Easter and shit.
I, I got baskets, I've alwaysgot presents, but like now that
I'm an adult and a parent and Ihave kids, well obviously it's
like I'm like over that shit,like low-key, like I I I think,

(23:41):
I think we keep this whole SantaClaus thing going for way too
long.
You know, I'm saying like Itruly believe.
If, if my wife would let me, Iprobably would have told my kids
that, you know, santa was fake,probably years ago.
Because I just think so let's,let's think about it this way.

(24:06):
So all these holidaysvalentine's day, uh, halloween,
christmas, easter I think it'sjust all a money grab.
It's a day to put pressure onpeople to spend money, get gifts
, decorate your house, spend allthis money and stress to make

(24:29):
sure you do this, this and that.
Like I don't, I don't care forit.
I mean, I don't know what.
What's your take on?
Just and not just a specificholiday, but just like a general
idea about celebrating thisstuff.
Like because I think it'soverrated as fuck, like when
people go all out and decoratetheir house and all this shit,

(24:56):
and then you know you gotcommercials and stuff with
everybody blasting oh,valentine's day, christmas,
thanksgiving like I don't know,I think it's all kind of getting
out of hand and if it was up tome, I probably wouldn't even
celebrate any of these holidayswith my kids, even even

(25:21):
christmas, and I don't know.
I don't know if I'm in theminority or that, or I don't
know what you think about thatso I do feel like they're extra.

Speaker 3 (25:30):
Like I won't watch the christmas movies anymore, I
won't listen to christmas music.
Um, I, just that I feel like isextra, but I will like
celebrate.
I don't decorate my house, Iain't even gonna lie.
I don't put my tree up,probably like two weeks before

(25:53):
Christmas, and will I take itdown.

Speaker 1 (25:58):
That's just to do all that to, to be like, well, I'm
too lazy or I don't want to, oh,I got gotta put my tree up like
what are you doing that for?
Are you doing that for yourself?
Are you doing that?

Speaker 3 (26:11):
for your kids.

Speaker 1 (26:11):
I'm doing it for my kids but at the same time that's
stress and you could say, oh, Iwas just putting up a tree,
blah, blah, blah.

Speaker 3 (26:22):
But it's every fucking year that you gotta do
it, and then you gotta clean itup, and I'm like to put that
shit away I just feel like youknow, okay, it's christmas,
here's your gifts, boom be donewith it.
Yes, but you guys do thefucking elves now.
That's a whole nother level andsee, and that's.

Speaker 1 (26:45):
I don't even want to be a part of that either, but
it's it's my mother that keepspushing that shit.
Same thing with, uh, easter.
She's like are you getting thekids baskets?
Are you doing that?
I never got my kids I know like, and I used to get them all the
time right.
But isn't that weird, though,that as kids we got all that

(27:07):
shit and now we don't evenreally want to do it, and I
think it's it's gonna get worseI don't even think my kids know
about the easter bunny.
I've never spoke of him like Iknow we did that uh egg hunt,
but that was just to just to doit.
But it's like what?

(27:27):
Like in a hundred years thisshit's not gonna be celebrated
like it was today or even 20years ago I really don't think
it is and I think it's to me.
I think it's just, it'spointless.
Like trick-or-treating.
I think it's pointless like Ihave four full like pillowcases
of candy.
Uh, just sitting here and likewe're not gonna eat all that,

(27:52):
I'm not gonna let my kids eatall that.
And like shit, like my Lorenzo,my oldest son's um costume
jacked up.
Now it's too mostly, it's toocold to be able to even go
trick-or-treating.
You have to wear a costume andhave two layers of clothes

(28:12):
underneath just to be able tobear it out there.
And for what like?
And I know it's for the kids, Iget it, it's for the kids to
have fun.
But at the end of the day itdoesn't benefit the kids because
either a, you're gonna let yourkids just eat all this candy

(28:38):
and they're gonna get cavities,or b you just let them have a
handful in the next couple weeksand you end up throwing away a
bunch of candy.
And I I don't know if I'm justbeing like a debbie downer, but
it's like I could go withoutcelebrating any holiday and that

(29:01):
that's just me.
Like the whole.
Like I said, if it was me Iwouldn't put a Christmas tree up
, I wouldn't put any decorations, I wouldn't do those stupid
elves and come Christmas I'd belike here, here's your gifts.
They're from me and your motherand okay, let's move on.

(29:23):
That's just me, I don't know.

Speaker 3 (29:27):
I would celebrate them to a certain extent.
So I don't do the Christmasmovies.
I ain't decorating the outsideof my house because all I see is
dollar signs.
When I stare at these housesfor any decorations of a holiday
, all I see is dollar signs.
For any decorations of aholiday, all I see is dollar
signs.
My immediate thought is y'allmust have money to be plugging

(29:50):
in these lights on the outside,this blow-up pumpkin, these
reindeers.
No, I already see my light bill.
I want that shit.
Keep that shit out.
Okay, I don't even want to plugthe tree in until I get home at
like 6 o'clock at night for thetwo hours of the extra bill

(30:12):
they going to pay me.
That's true.

Speaker 1 (30:16):
And I'm not trying to say you shouldn't celebrate
holidays, shouldn't celebrateholidays.
I'm just saying that I, if itwas totally up to me, I would
prefer not to celebrate anyholidays.
Tell my kids that this isn'tthat, it's not really this isn't

(30:37):
that, it's really this, andjust be done with it.
But I, I'm pretty sure I'mgonna be in the minority on this
and if not, then I don't knowif.
I don't even know if I'm gonnahave a comment section on this
shit, but if I do, put yourcomment on it down they're gonna
call you the grinch.
Oh I know right or krampus orsomething, and that's, that's

(31:00):
fine with me, I don't reallycare, but I don't know.

Speaker 3 (31:03):
Like, as I got older I've just become like maybe it's
because of all this inflationlike money and just everything
is costing so much more.
Like I remember when I was akid, like the disney, the
nintendo switch, the Disney, theNintendo Switch wasn't even

(31:24):
around.
Like you had to watch Disneymovies on VHS and then DVD came
out, blu-ray.
You were fancy to have that.
And then there was Nintendo DS.
Those were classics.

Speaker 1 (31:44):
What do you think is going gonna happen like in 20
more years?
We're gonna the kids are gonnahave chips in their heads.

Speaker 3 (31:51):
They're not gonna be playing outside.
They're gonna be indoorsplaying some game on their hand
that they can just blow up likeit's gonna be crazy because you
know they have.
They have glasses now yeah, thevr, the vr, shit, and like you
can even like interact, like youcould walk down the street and

(32:14):
scroll into your phone throughyour glasses and I am just gonna
be so like way ahead of what itis now like easily in the next
10 to 15 years Hell I wouldn'tbe surprised in five to seven
yeah.

Speaker 1 (32:31):
Remember, uh, they try to do 3d TVs.

Speaker 3 (32:34):
Oh my.

Speaker 1 (32:34):
God, you know that shit.
It was going to be this bigthing.

Speaker 3 (32:38):
Even now with the whole 3d?

Speaker 1 (32:40):
Yeah, but now you have uh the the goggles.

Speaker 3 (32:45):
Now imagine people who wear glasses.
Yeah, I wear glasses, so I hadto wear double glasses to watch
a damn movie in 3D.
Trash, just trash.

Speaker 1 (32:58):
That's true, that's true, but they had those.
You remember the curved TVs?

Speaker 3 (33:03):
Oh man, Thank God they got rid of that.

Speaker 1 (33:06):
Well, I would say, the curve monitors work well for
computers, but for a TV ideathat shit was trash.

Speaker 3 (33:17):
They just came out with Samsung.
It's a Disney TV.

Speaker 2 (33:22):
And you know why it's a Disney TV.

Speaker 3 (33:24):
Why.

Speaker 1 (33:28):
It's a Disney TV because it's got making my ears
on top of it?

Speaker 3 (33:30):
yeah, I wish no.
All you're paying for is ablack border around the tv that
says disney.
So the samsung tv?
And then it's like a thickerborder that you have to install
that says like I don't know,Disney 2020 or like 2025.

(33:50):
Like it just has the Disneylogo on it and they call it a
Disney TV.

Speaker 1 (33:56):
That's dumb as hell.
Yeah, it's a Disney TV, butpeople are going to pay for it.
People have, people are goingto buy it.

Speaker 3 (34:00):
I've seen people set up on TikTok.

Speaker 1 (34:03):
You're going to be like I got one and I'm like, are
you serious right now?
So I mean it doesn't even doanything different than your
regular tv.
It just has a disney board.
What does it come with thedisney app on it, like every
other smart tv?

Speaker 3 (34:22):
I don't know about that.
You're pretty much just payingfor the frame.

Speaker 1 (34:28):
At that point, why didn't they just sell Disney
frame installs and you could buythe size you'd want and put it
on your existing TV?

Speaker 3 (34:38):
Because they want to make money off you.

Speaker 1 (34:41):
That's stupid.
I want to look it up, so youcan's just stupid I don't know
if you can't find it.

Speaker 3 (34:50):
I think you're lying about it oh, no, no, no, no, no
if you can't easily google it.
I ended up in the shoppingsection and I'm like how do you
get out of this?
I don't think it exists there is, there we go and now we're
gonna go to images and it'sliterally like you're just

(35:10):
paying for the frame let me seeyou're just paying for the frame
and when you go to all like ifyou go out of the photos you'll
see like you're just paying forthe frame oh, so it's supposed
to look like a like a portraityes, you're, it's literally a
samsung tv and you install theframe.

Speaker 1 (35:32):
It's a disney frame samsung special edition launch
disney 100 the framed oh okay, Isee what you're saying.
So it's supposed to be made tolook like it's a painting of a
like of whatever in it on yourwall, like a frame picture yes,
ok, which is stupid, but it's aTV yes.
Yeah, it's kind of stupid.

Speaker 3 (35:54):
Like I'm going to pay all this money, I want to watch
TV off that shit.

Speaker 1 (35:59):
That does.
That's kind of stupid.

Speaker 3 (36:01):
Let's see it's going for at Target 1600, best Buy.
Oh, that was the 65 inch $1600for the 85 at Best Buy.
You're looking at $1600, Withtaxes $2,500.

Speaker 2 (36:22):
You know what?

Speaker 1 (36:22):
I want to do You've seen those little square inserts
and you put them all togetherand you can make one giant TV.

Speaker 3 (36:33):
Oh, you can connect the TV right, Like at the movie
theaters, yeah just put it onthe wall somewhere.

Speaker 1 (36:39):
I'd be broke and you just connect them and you could
make the whole wall a TV, but atthe same time you could just do
a projector as well.
I mean, it's the same shit, youmight as well the projectors
have like the 100 inch, the 120.
Yeah, it's like you're betteroff doing that Just get a bomb
ass projector, some nice assspeakers.
Put it on the side of yourhouse, why not?

(37:02):
Probably could, but that's, it'sridiculous, but that's, that's
capitalism, that's consumerism.
There's oh, I don't know if you, because I know cable is pretty
much obsolete right now.
Everybody streams, but I waswatching football.
I watch football here and thereand the commercials these days,

(37:24):
in my opinion, have gottenridiculous.
It's all about who can make thegoofiest commercial and who
they could get to play a part,like any type of celebrity
athlete, like I think and Idon't know if it was, because it
was just it was a football gamegoing on but every commercial

(37:47):
had a celebrity endorsement andsome just goofy ass, like idea
or joking around to try to sellfucking tostito chips.
Like I don't, I don't get itanymore.
Why do we have commercials?
I would love to know what thepercentage of Americans that

(38:09):
still pay for cable.
It's got to be up, it's got tobe down.
If I had to guess thepercentage of Americans still
paying for cable, it's got to beless than 20%, or maybe I'm
wrong and maybe 50 americansstill pay for it honestly, I
don't even know if cable's stillaround, because it offers live

(38:31):
tv and that's what I pay for, sothat's their version of cable,
but the live tv still hascommercials right.

Speaker 3 (38:41):
So I guess cable commercials it depends, like
some don't and some do.
So it just depends.
Their commercials are maybe,like it'll tell you in the
corner, like 30 seconds or oneminute that's so stupid.

Speaker 1 (38:57):
Like I'm, I don't even.
I don't know why we havecommercials like crazy thing is,
we grew up on commercials.
And now we have options7-7-3-2-0-2 Dun-dun-dun-dun Luna
.
But it just drives.

Speaker 3 (39:12):
I'm watching this and I'm like it's my money and I
need it now.

Speaker 1 (39:16):
They still do that.
They still do that shit.

Speaker 2 (39:19):
now it's my money and I need it now, like don't get
me wrong.

Speaker 1 (39:25):
There's some.
There's some classic ones,there's some classic ones that
are funny as hell.
But I'm just sitting theregetting annoyed.
I'm like I'm watching all theselike snoop dogg you have the
orbit smile, oh my god.
No, I say I say get away withcommercials.
We you get it.

Speaker 3 (39:47):
They send doesn't do commercials now too.
I think, if you don't pay forlike a certain you know how they
have different plans.
I think they have commercialsin it if you don't pay for a
certain plan.

Speaker 1 (40:01):
That's dumb as hell.
I want to say.

Speaker 3 (40:04):
I think it do.
I know Disney Plus because it'sconnected with Hulu.
When you click on certainmovies they do like how back in
the day, when you used to put inthe DVD, in the VHS, they have
like previews no.

Speaker 1 (40:17):
Does it really?
Yes, they do.
They have previews no.

Speaker 3 (40:20):
And they'll show other movies and they'll allow
you to skip it.
So like, skip intro.
But like I can't, skip itbecause I just think of my
childhood self watching it Like,oh my God, remember that.
Like all these little previews,I love you, disney, for that
one I was like bring that shitback.

Speaker 1 (40:43):
No, don't bring that shit back.
Bring that shit back.
No, don't bring that shit back.
Bring it back.
But allow me to skip it yes,bring that shit back.

Speaker 3 (40:49):
I want to watch it.

Speaker 1 (40:51):
I can't even stand to watch commercials on YouTube.
I pay for that YouTube premiumme too.

Speaker 3 (40:59):
I can't stand it.

Speaker 1 (41:00):
I can't stand it.
I'd be damned to have to sitthrough five seconds of an ad
just so I could skip it.

Speaker 3 (41:09):
I like it because I use the YouTube a lot to play
music.
So I just have the YouTubemusic app and I buy the premium.

Speaker 1 (41:15):
Do you not use Spotify?

Speaker 3 (41:17):
No, why?
Because I have YouTube premium.
What do I need Spotify for?

Speaker 1 (41:23):
Because it's so much user-friendly.

Speaker 3 (41:27):
No, youtube Premium is user-friendly.
Have you downloaded the music?
The YouTube Music app.

Speaker 1 (41:34):
No, because I use Spotify like every normal
American.

Speaker 3 (41:37):
So then why do you buy YouTube Premium?

Speaker 1 (41:39):
Because I watch videos.

Speaker 3 (41:41):
I watch podcasts no, no, no, I use it for music, so
that's why I bought it really,I've never heard of anybody use
YouTube for their music yeah,youtube music do you remember
Pandora?
Oh my god please don't.
I think it's still around it isstill around and anybody who

(42:01):
pays for it.
I'm sorry you go to somethingelse spotify, apple music,
youtube music.
Why are you still on pandora?
I?
mean, unless they've changed,not gonna throw any shade, but
shell pays for pandora does she,does she even use it she does
and she shares it with herparents, but I'm bruh you might

(42:22):
as well buy something else.

Speaker 1 (42:24):
Brother ooh Like cringe Like why.
Yeah, I don't, but I mean, thenagain, Pandora could have
stepped up a game and changedsome features.
But I remember that shit waslimited as hell.

Speaker 3 (42:39):
It still is.

Speaker 1 (42:40):
I think everybody had Pandora before Spotify.
What about have you?

Speaker 3 (42:43):
seen the new DreamWorks intro, so you know
how DreamWorks.
They would just have you comein from the water and the people
?
Well, the person would sit onthe fucking half moon.

Speaker 2 (42:57):
No, they got a whole intro.

Speaker 3 (42:59):
Now what they got.
A whole intro.

Speaker 1 (43:01):
It shows all the DreamWorks movies movies they
made is it like the marvel intro, where it does like no no, no.

Speaker 3 (43:09):
It shows like like they're on the water, like on a
boat.
It shows shrek peep that I loveshrek.
Shrek is life.
Yes, I love shrek.
And then it shows like how totrain your dragon kung fu panda
pussy, like all that is on thereare you getting off this shit?

(43:30):
Hell yeah, I loved, like I lovedreamworks and I am so proud of
them dreamworks intro yes, I'mso proud of them with their new
one.

Speaker 1 (43:40):
I'm assuming it's this one.
No, that's the old one.
Oh, that's the old one becausethey do the dreamworks.

Speaker 3 (43:44):
No, it's got to be the new one so where do you see
a new one?

Speaker 2 (43:48):
try this one 2023 this one yeah, try that one so
yeah, that's the new one, that'slook at all these new movies.

Speaker 3 (44:01):
How to train your dragon toothlessothless.

Speaker 2 (44:04):
Madagascar.

Speaker 3 (44:08):
Krugs Puss in Boots.

Speaker 1 (44:11):
Shrek.

Speaker 3 (44:13):
That's a nice boulder .
I like that boulder.

Speaker 1 (44:17):
I'm making waffles.

Speaker 3 (44:19):
Okay, all right, they came up.
I could get behind thatsomebody once told me the world
I think they're making anothershrek five right and I hope it's
true I think they are if theylie to me, I'm going to be very

(44:42):
pissed.

Speaker 1 (44:44):
You know who Chris Farley is.

Speaker 3 (44:46):
No.

Speaker 1 (44:47):
The comedian, you know who.

Speaker 3 (44:49):
Chris Farley is.
I don't watch comedians.

Speaker 1 (44:51):
But you know who Adam Sandler is right.

Speaker 3 (44:53):
I'm sure yeah.

Speaker 1 (44:54):
And you don't know who, chris Farley is no.
No, no, no.

Speaker 3 (44:59):
I don't watch comedians.
You know, Adam Sandler don'tcount, because he makes movies.

Speaker 1 (45:05):
Chris Farley made movies.
I can't believe.
You don't know who Chris Farleyis, what?

Speaker 3 (45:08):
movies Adam Sandler is no.

Speaker 1 (45:10):
He was in.
Adam Sandler deserves hiscredit.
He was in Tommy Boy nope he wasin Saturday Night Live nope,
those are not movies.
I guarantee if you see him,you'll know, those are not
movies.
Those are I guarantee.
If you see him you'll know whohe is.
Those are movies, those areclassic movies.
You're crazy Like how do younot know who, chris?

Speaker 3 (45:33):
Farley is Nope.

Speaker 1 (45:35):
You don't know who he is.
You don't know the man down bythe river.

Speaker 3 (45:43):
Lives in a van down by the river, Like there's.

Speaker 1 (45:45):
Adam Sandler.
See, I know because they werein Saturday Night Live together
nope but you know well, eitherway, chris Farley was originally
gonna voice Shrek disgusting,and he didn't they the reason
why is because he passed awaybefore they could finish the

(46:08):
movie they have watch.
I'm gonna play a clip thatthere's, um, there's audio of
him as shrek watch.
I'll check this out so you knowhow shrek stands now, right,
listen?
Audience is probably not goingto be able to hear this.
All right, listen.
Audience is probably not goingto be able to hear this.

(46:30):
Obviously, that's Donkey.
That's Chris Farley.

Speaker 3 (46:36):
Disgusting.
Thank God they want the otherShrek.
The other Shrek goes better.
No, no, that doesn't matchShrek at all.

Speaker 1 (46:53):
Because clearly you know Mike Myers as Shrek.
Yes, and he deserved it no hedid great, absolutely, but they
actually had audio.

Speaker 3 (47:05):
They had it almost made.

Speaker 1 (47:07):
He's not, but he passed away I'm sorry he passed
away and they gave it to mikemyers he, he didn't match I
didn't know that until like justrecently and I found that
footage or the audio of that.

Speaker 3 (47:17):
I was like I'm sorry could have beenley, but no,
totally different if ChrisFarley Mike Myers, you perfectly
fit, shrek.

Speaker 2 (47:28):
What about have?

Speaker 3 (47:29):
you heard the Gingerbread man song in Spanish.

Speaker 2 (47:33):
That one is funny.

Speaker 3 (47:35):
That one is funny.

Speaker 1 (47:37):
Wait, like the whole scene.
The run, run, run as fast asyou can Wait.
You're talking about like thesong.

Speaker 3 (47:41):
The Spanish one.
Or like the scene from Shrek,the Shrek scene in Spanish.

Speaker 1 (47:45):
Like not the gumdrop bun scene.

Speaker 3 (47:50):
It's in Spanish, though.

Speaker 1 (47:51):
Is it really?

Speaker 3 (47:51):
It's in Spanish, it's hilarious in Spanish.

Speaker 1 (47:54):
What would I put in there?

Speaker 3 (47:56):
Put in gingerbread.
Man Shrek Spanish.

Speaker 1 (48:00):
This is so hard to do , which is we're going to have
dead air now thanks, becausethere's no.

Speaker 3 (48:11):
Gingerbread man song in Spanish, so they don't sing,
like you know.
Run, run, run as fast as youcan.

Speaker 1 (48:19):
Well, someone had to.
It's not in Spanish, they don'thave it, so he be like El
pinpon, you can Well.

Speaker 3 (48:22):
Someone had to translate it right.
It's not in Spanish, they don'thave it so he'd be like so
someone made like a?
He'd be like el pinpon con aguade jabon.
So it's like with water andsoap.
It just don't it, would itdon't, it don't go.
I remember when I heard that Iasked my baby daddy and I said,
did this man just say with waterand?

Speaker 2 (48:42):
soap.

Speaker 3 (48:43):
He was like there's no gingerbread man song in
Spanish.

Speaker 1 (48:50):
Oh, there it is, gingerbread man song.

Speaker 3 (48:53):
I was like Lord.

Speaker 1 (48:54):
Which one is it?

Speaker 3 (48:55):
Right, there, yeah, lord Pinpoint.

Speaker 1 (49:05):
One of the best cinematic scenes ever, though
Hopefully the audience can hearthis.

Speaker 2 (49:22):
If you can't can, I'm sorry, I've tried to be patient
with you, but my patience hasreached its limit and I can't

(49:46):
take it anymore.
No, no, no, my shoulders arepretty.
Then tell me who told you.

Speaker 3 (49:53):
Okay, I'll tell you.
Do you know Inpon Inpon.

Speaker 2 (49:58):
Yes, inpon.
Yes, he's a very handsome guy,so dull, he looks very beautiful
.

Speaker 3 (50:08):
With something, with soap, with something with soap.

Speaker 1 (50:13):
That's hilarious.

Speaker 3 (50:15):
I'm like what Up and boom?
Oh my God, have you seenanybody?
Did you see a lot of TikTokersdressing up as the Lorax?

Speaker 1 (50:27):
The Lorax yes, there was females dressing up as the
Lorax I have been seeing a lotof people dressing up as the one
slayer and then doing thatscene from the Lorax.
No, not that one.
I haven't seen that.
But you know what I guarantee?
Your FYP is way different thanmine.

(50:47):
Oh for sure, because I gothrough.
No, I don't go through, but Isee my wife's.

Speaker 3 (50:52):
Mine is covered with a bunch of promise rings.

Speaker 1 (50:54):
It's ridiculous, is it really?
Hint, hint to my new boo.

Speaker 3 (50:59):
I should send him one of like hint hints, hint, hint.

Speaker 1 (51:01):
I should send him one of like Hinton's.
But like I go through it andshe sends me this, I'm like what
is on your FYP page?

Speaker 3 (51:07):
Yeah, mine is a bunch of right now.
It was costumes for Halloweenlike DIYs.

Speaker 1 (51:26):
And then a bunch of Pandora like promise rings,
engravement necklaces, like abunch of gifts you should give
your girl.
But you know what's crazy?
That our phones listen to thatshit.
And then that shit goes througha tic-tac like crazy part is I
never said I wanted a promisering or like any of these gifts,
but somehow pandora juststarted popping up.

Speaker 3 (51:37):
Like I want these gifts oh, it knows, it's crazy.

Speaker 1 (51:40):
It knows it's crazy.
It knows Like you can literallysearch it one time and that
goes into the database and it'll.
Yep, it's crazy.
I mean, we really don't haveany privacy.
As long as you got your phoneon you or any Alexa or anything
like, there's no privacy.

(52:00):
They're watching you.

Speaker 3 (52:04):
It's crazy now he's gonna see a bunch of.
I'm gonna see this shit on mytiktok page later tonight.

Speaker 1 (52:15):
So you know, I was just like randomly thinking
earlier and I jotted it down.
I got Twitter, which is X.

Speaker 3 (52:24):
Twitter Stupid Like from back in 2006?
No, Twitter is still a veryvalid app to use Is it really,
though, I've never heard anyoneuse Twitter besides old people.
That's how I get my news.
Okay, old people, no Old people, I get my news that way Very
old.

Speaker 1 (52:46):
Anyways, there was a video on there and I think it
just happened.
I don't know if you heard of it, but it said a mother committed
murder-suicide with their Ithink it was like I don't know
like seven-year-old son and theyfell off not fell off or jumped

(53:08):
off the edge of the NiagaraFalls.
And I'm thinking to myself like, like, damn, like how could you
be that messed up to I couldsee wanting to take your own
life?
I mean, I believe, I believe, Imean obviously, I think it's.
It's selfish regardless.
But to want to take your ownlife and to think that it's a

(53:33):
good idea to take the life ofyour children as well, like you
hear it all the time of fatherturn the gun on his kids and
wife and then turn it on him,and a lot of times they don't
leave notes.
But sometimes the ones that doare like, oh yeah, I don't want

(53:55):
them to be grown up in a worldblah, blah.
Like well, that's not your,that shouldn't be your choice.
Like, like it just drives mecrazy.
Like I know mental illness is,it's a real thing and I'm not
diminishing that.
But to decide to take your ownlife is one thing, but I don't

(54:17):
think you have the right to makethat decision, especially for a
two-year-old, a six-month-old,a seven-year-old, a ten-year-old
like to do.
That is ridiculous, it's crazyand it just it.
I don't get it, I don't likeand it's obviously.

(54:40):
You never talk to that personafter the math, unless they just
murder their kids and notthemselves.
Magically, they end up survivingright, but a lot of times they
don't do it, like I've seenvideos where a mother or takes
the kid and jumps off a bridgeto end her life and the kids, or

(55:03):
you've seen videos of uh andyou know what it's messed up.
It's mostly mothers.
I don't, I don't know that's, Idon't know why.

Speaker 3 (55:12):
I mean, I think they say that women have, like, a
higher chance of like withdepression or like why it's more
caused in women.

Speaker 1 (55:22):
Why the maybe?

Speaker 3 (55:22):
because we're the ones who have like, who birth
the children.
So not saying like because webirth them we are going to be
depressed or anything but likeour hormones end up so in
balance during pregnancy, afterpregnancy, postpartum like you,

(55:43):
some people, it's just so hardto find their way back, like
sometimes you don't even realizeif you're in postpartum
depression.

Speaker 1 (55:53):
But you're not even giving your kid a chance.

Speaker 3 (55:55):
Yeah, and sometimes it's that bad you don't realize
it, like you just don't even seeyourself as depressed.
Don't realize it, like you justdon't even see yourself as
depressed.
You just see yourself ashanging in there or like just
going on with life and you justsee yourself on this continuous
loop of just like wake up, takecare of the kids, go to work,

(56:18):
come home, cook, clean.
You know, like you're just kindof on this continuous loop that
you don't think you'redepressed I, I understand that,
like I, I could get that, buthow is that?

Speaker 1 (56:32):
that's still like.
How does it fall on the kid?
Like what do you think, like,obviously we can only speculate
what's going through their minds, but why do you think that a
parent who is mentally ill andjust gets up and decides I'm
gonna take my life for whateverreason, a, b, c, d, all the way

(56:57):
through z but in the middle ofthat, say you, I'm going to take
my three-year-old child and endit with them as well.
Why do you think that evencomes into a person's head?

Speaker 3 (57:17):
Honestly, I don't think any of us will ever know,
because that's the whole beauty,I guess, of everybody having
different brains and why there'slike the psych ward or
therapist, like that's why theydig into your brain, like to
find out what's really going on.
Because, like we'll neverreally know what they or that

(57:41):
person was truly thinking orfeeling and why they did what
they did, because everybody'sgoing to feel differently on the
fact of the matter.

Speaker 1 (57:51):
Do you have any examples of what you think they
could be thinking at that time?

Speaker 3 (57:59):
I think at the time they're not thinking of anyone,
or even themselves.
I think they're just thinkingof being free.
Free of whatever burdens theyhave going their life, whether
it's financially, love,emotionally, like anything
that's causing them stress.
I think they're just trying tobe free, think they're just

(58:28):
trying to be free and whoever'swith them child or significant
other.

Speaker 1 (58:31):
They just want you to be free as well, along with
them, and that's what?

Speaker 3 (58:34):
yeah, it causes them to do it as well you think
that's.

Speaker 1 (58:37):
Some of the reasons sometimes is that a mother is
like you know what, if I'm going, I want to be there with my
child internally.

Speaker 3 (58:43):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (58:44):
If there is an afterlife.

Speaker 3 (58:45):
Yeah, they more so.
See it as like I just want tobe.
That's what I think they wantto be free, and whatever
afterlife takes us, we're goingto be there together and not
have any like stress or burdensor any.

Speaker 1 (59:00):
I also think that a lot of a lot of these parents
also think that they think thattheir kid is better off not
living than enduring any type ofhardship in in the world.
Because let's let's admit it,the world is.
It is fucked up and the fostercare system is not good at all

(59:26):
and and it's one of those thingswhere you have no idea who that
kid could go through the system, not get adopted, be released
18 and then live a life of crimeor drugs and be dead by the age
of 24 and not attributed toanything in society.

(59:52):
That's definitely an option thatcould go yeah, or the complete
opposite, and they're supersuccessful yeah, for sure, and
but that's the thing I neverknow that's where I guess I'm
getting at is that you're noteven giving a child, that's and
it's usually kids that are like12 and under I mean obviously

(01:00:13):
there's cases where parents theysomehow, you know, get lucky,
they're they just older kids butbut a lot of the stories you
hear it's it's mothers holdingon to their babies and
unlivening themselves and it'slike man, you're like you didn't
even give that kid a chance tomake something other life.

(01:00:36):
And I don't.
I just one of those things thatI watched videos or hear
stories of that and I'm justlike crazy, because how could
you never know which path isgonna happen?

Speaker 3 (01:00:48):
it's kind of like a chance of like gambling, like
you can end up super successful,or the complete opposite that's
for any child right now.
Yeah, any child could like, orany parent some parents are
meant to be parents and some arelike I'm not gonna absolutely,
so I work at an urgent care andI won't say the patient's name,

(01:01:11):
but I ended up checking in amother and a child and this
mother was probably like maybeshe was my age.
I honestly don't remember.
I know she was my age.
I honestly don't remember.
I know she was either 27 to 25,maybe 24 years old and her
child was roughly around the ageof two, possibly going to be

(01:01:38):
three at the end of this year.
I can't exactly remember.
All I remember was this momwalked out of the waiting area
and her child.
Obviously, of course, yourchild's going to cry for you and
be like, you know, take me withyou with their little baby
language, like I want to go withyou.
And she told the child no, sitthere.

(01:02:00):
So you know, the child'sobviously going to cry, cry.
She went to the car, which wasright in front of the door.
She took like I don't know threeto five minutes to come back
into the waiting area.
She comes back in.
The child is like two to three.
You know, nobody's gonna sitstill in a doctor's office.
They're gonna make noise,they're gonna be loud.
She straight up told the childshut up.

(01:02:24):
Literally she grabbed a tissuein front of the thing, like in
front of my desk from thecheck-in, turned around and was
like shut up and me and my otherco-worker looked at each other
like did you just tell like atwo-year-old to shut up and like

(01:02:44):
there's other patients in thewaiting area and she was just
like I said, shut up and theycall her back.
They call the child back, youknow.
They see why they're here, blah, blah.
Either way, my co coworker whowas working the back said she
told the child when they wereleaving or like going to the

(01:03:07):
room.
You know what, if you keepembarrassing me, I'm going to
embarrass you.

Speaker 1 (01:03:14):
This kid has no idea what she's saying.

Speaker 3 (01:03:17):
It's like how can you embarrass a two year old?
Like, what are they supposed tobe embarrassed about?
You're only going to embarrassyourself more, like.

Speaker 1 (01:03:31):
No, I totally agree.

Speaker 3 (01:03:32):
And I just couldn't help but think, like you're just
not meant to be a mom.
Like how, how can you tell yourchild, who doesn't even
understand, shut up, or I'mgoing to embarrass you your
child's not even 7, 8.
They don't even know what thehell's going on.

Speaker 1 (01:03:55):
There's a good percentage in America and
probably worldwide, that peopleshould just not have kids, and
it's usually those people arethe ones that have multiple kids
.
Yep and, and we could probablyhave a whole educational and
political conversation aboutthis, but it it factually.

(01:04:18):
It's people in the urban areas,uh, low-income areas, and they
have kids and they get on thegovernment or they you know,
government um benefits and theyhave a kid can't support them.
Then they're, they don'tprotect themselves, so they have

(01:04:39):
another kid, knowing damn wellyou can't afford them.
And then a year or two laterthey pop another one out because
they're still not protectingthemselves, even though they
can't.
But they're like, oh well, thegovernment will support me, like
, oh, the more kids I have, themore I can write off for my
taxes.
It's a fucked up system and itsucks because it's not the

(01:05:03):
parent, it's not the parentsthat get affected by this, it's
the kids overall that that haveto inherit the, the, the effects
of poor parenting and poornutrition and poor education,
and it it sucks and it's aproblem and it's gonna be a

(01:05:27):
problem for the time being untilpeople just stop having so much
sex, honey honestly, it justends up being a never ending
cycle of like.

Speaker 3 (01:05:40):
If your parent treats you like this, now the child's
gonna grow up have a child oftheir own.

Speaker 1 (01:05:45):
Treat their child like the same way because that's
how they were raised well, itjust feels like a never-ending
cycle unless they find a partneryeah who shows them, shows them
the way or comes from a betterneighborhood or a better
background, and yeah but I mean,if you stay within your
demographic, and not evendemographic, let me say, your um

(01:06:08):
likeness yeah, let's, let's saylike that when, yeah, I mean,
you're gonna produce what theenvironment that you're in, and
unless one of those and it's notevery kid, but some kids grow
up in that shit andthey're either going to turn to
drugs and gangs or violence orthey're going to see the fucked

(01:06:31):
up situation they are andthey're going to try to use
schooling away to get out 50, 50thing, and but I don't know.
I, like I said, we can't, Ican't get into statistics and
all that shit.
All I could go was what Iobserve and what I've seen, and

(01:06:54):
but that actually brings me to asegue on another topic I was
thinking about.
So there was a video my wifesent me and it's.
It's a child in a wheelchairand I you could tell he has some
kind of disability where hecan't really use his legs.

(01:07:15):
And then there's a father whois motivating and helping the
child to learn, and the child isprobably like six, seven years
old to kind of get out thewheelchair by himself.
And you could just tell, likeyou could tell that parent, that
father is a very loving,patient, great person overall,

(01:07:39):
just great parent.
And that had me thinking andI've thought about this multiple
times like I don't know, and Ihonestly say I don't know when
if I had a child and I havethree children, my children are
10, uh, seven and four and allhealthy, no issues as of now.

(01:08:04):
But if I would have a child whohad like, just like a severe
disability and I'm meaning downsyndrome, asperger's, uh, like
crippled or deformed or justlike really needed let's just
say really needed like aroundthe clock like help, like I

(01:08:26):
don't know, I don't, I don'tknow if I would have, I would, I
could say confidently that Iwould have the patience to raise
a child that way and and I knowthis, it's like it sucks to say
that and then obviouslyeverybody says, well, that's my
child, I'm gonna love themeither way, but I don't to be

(01:08:49):
put in that situation and it'slike man, like, and I'm sure
they don't tell you all thebackstory, they don't tell you
about all the bills and thehospital care and the equipment
and the medication and the time,like they don't say all any of
that, but and it's like what, Ireally have the patience to do

(01:09:13):
that for pretty much for therest of us live.
Let's just say I had a childwho was crippled.
You know, just can't use yourlegs, have to be in a wheelchair
for the rest of their life, andobviously people who grow up in
wheelchairs tend to live arelatively normal life, but from
that from, from when that kidis born to basically until

(01:09:37):
they're in high school and outof college.
Like that's around the clock, uh, care, like that kid can't get
out of bed to go to the bathroom, that kid can't go downstairs,
he can't.
Uh, you know, you gotta get himout the bed.
It's like that's around theclock and I don't know.

(01:09:57):
I don't know it.
It sucks to say and I, I justwant your opinion, like if, if
you had that, and we're talkingon the kind of like on the
extreme.
You know, obviously there's aspectrum but let's just say,
middle towards the extremedisability.
Do you think deep down?
Do you think you would be ableto do that on a daily basis?

Speaker 3 (01:10:25):
Yeah, I mean, if you would have asked me before, I
had all three of my kids, I wasthe same way.
I remember when I was pregnantwith my oldest and I remember
talking to my baby daddy becauseI was so like stressed and
nervous and I had gotten into asevere car accident before I

(01:10:48):
even realized I was pregnant.
Um, the airbags deployed andtwo weeks later I found out I
was pregnant and I remembertelling him because I was so
stressed, like what if, likethis child is going to have like
defect or, like you know, isgoing to need like a round

(01:11:11):
account, like disability, likecare?
Like what would you do?
His answer was who cares?
I will figure it out, we willfigure it out.
And, regardless of what's goingto happen, like I love the

(01:11:32):
child and, sad to say, my answerwas I don't know if I can Not
love the child, but I don't knowif I could be able to do what
needs to be done.
And I will never forget, likehow he was just so quick to say

(01:11:55):
who cares, like I'll do whatneeds to be done.
And sometimes I look back andI'm like how the hell were you
able to say that?
And now like knowing like howmy son is autistic.
Sometimes I think back likethat was God telling me, like to
show me like you can love yourchild regardless.
Like, mind you, the spectrum ishuge.

(01:12:17):
I won't say I know where on thespectrum my son is, but he
isn't on the severe case.
He does need help and you knowhe won't need it so severely.
I hope when he becomes adultthat he'll need me to take care
of him all of his life.
But he does need help now.

(01:12:38):
Like he is behind on somethings and some things he's
ahead of.
But I look back and I'm justlike man.
I can't believe.
I said I don't know what Iwould do, like because I ain't
the person who has the patiencefor it.
I'm not the person who can dowhat needs to be done and after

(01:13:00):
living the life and dealing withit, I'm like you do figure it
out.
People are right who havedisability.
Kids Like you kind of justdon't have a choice.
You just figure it out and youjust love them from the first
moment they come out.
Like I remember when he wasfirst diagnosed I already knew
something was wrong with him,but I'm it didn't change what I

(01:13:25):
felt.
I still loved him.
Actually I actually laughed andI smiled when they physically
diagnosed him and I remember mybaby daddy was bawling his eyes
out Karma's a bitch type ofthing.
Yes, like he was crying and mymom was crying, his mom, every

(01:13:48):
single person cried their eyesout and I laughed.
I laughed and I smiled and Iremember everyone just like
looking at me and like tellingme like how can you smile, how
can you laugh?
And I'm like, because I knew Iwasn't wrong, I knew I wasn't

(01:14:11):
crazy, I knew something wasn'tright.
I finally get to prove all youwrong, like I'm not.

Speaker 1 (01:14:20):
I knew what I was talking about so and I think,
like clearly you and it'sslightly different for women
because you, you birth a child-and it's it's easy for a father
to abandon a child because ithappens every day, for whatever
reason.
So I obviously get that aspectof it and I think, to circle

(01:14:44):
back like towards my end, likecourse I would love my child,
yeah, but like you said, I thinkit would it falls into the
patience category it does, canyou?
really do it like everythingthat's to be done if I I want to
and, like I said, you couldcould give me your experience on

(01:15:08):
this, because I don't have adisabled child, but to me, I
think it would be a slightlydifferent type of love.

Speaker 3 (01:15:19):
It would be a slight challenge.
It's something different.
Well, not even a challenge.
Yeah, like change.

Speaker 1 (01:15:24):
I'll put it out there .
Let's just say, I'll put it outthere.
I'll say, let's just say my old, okay.
Let's just say I have.
Let's say I have twins.
Let's say tomorrow my wifebirths twins.
And let's just say one has downsyndrome and one is normal.
Like, obviously, these are mykids, I will love them, I will

(01:15:44):
take care of them, I will take abullet for them.
But it's like let's just saythe girl has down syndrome and
then the boy is normal.
And to me it's like, yeah, Ilove my kids, I will take care
of them.
But deep down the back of myhead it's like I think, and that
it's not love more, but thelove is slightly different

(01:16:09):
between the two, because it'sgoing to be like well, now she
is not all I don't want to saynormal.

Speaker 3 (01:16:20):
You know what I'm saying?
No, no, yes, like I will saywith my oldest, I do tend to
come to his aid more than myother two but like, is it like a
a fresh, like it's gotta belike a frustrating type of
feeling um.

Speaker 1 (01:16:38):
I want to protect him more like I'm okay, so you're
going the other way.

Speaker 3 (01:16:41):
You're going, yeah, like I'm always like listen,
guys, like I'm talking to hismiddle, like my middle child and
the youngest.
I'm always coming to defend myoldest because I'm like you guys
can understand more andcomprehend more than what he is.
And sometimes I have to letmyself not do that because I

(01:17:05):
want him to learn to do it onhis own.
So it's like I feel likeeverybody's gonna say how you're
feeling now, but when you'reactually in the moment and you
have that child yeah it's kindof like it flips, because you
tend to want to come to the aidof the child who you feel needs

(01:17:30):
more assistance.

Speaker 1 (01:17:32):
So you think I will, and let's just say not me
personally, but let's just sayin general, you think?
You end up showing a little bitmore affection and caring
towards the.
You like tiptoe a little more.

Speaker 3 (01:17:50):
Okay, that's a good way to put it a little more
because you were like I want totry to find a compromise where
they understand that you'rethere for them.
But then you know it's likedisciplining even comes hard
sometimes, because how I coulddiscipline the middle and the

(01:18:12):
youngest.
It's not gonna work for theoldest.
My oldest will take it to heartlike I done.
Ripped his heart out like andit's like, discipline has to
come differently from you to you, because you understand it this
way and you understand it theother way and honestly it might
be a character flaw on my end.

Speaker 1 (01:18:33):
I mean, like I said and I I can't say for sure
because I I don't have thatsituation currently, so I can
only speculate how I would feel.
But I'll be honest with you I Itold my wife the other day and
it's I I might get for this,just considering the day and age
we live in now but I told herthat if one of my kids came out

(01:18:59):
gay to me, I I honestly wouldfeel some type of way and I told
her that I would still love mykids no matter what.
But I, but I I think I wouldtreat suck sucky as it says.
I think I would treat themdifferently and but that's not

(01:19:21):
to say that I would ultimately,down the road, I would learn to
accept it, and you know justembrace it.

Speaker 3 (01:19:31):
It's something new to learn compared to what we were
raised on.
I think so.
That's the hard part.

Speaker 1 (01:19:37):
I would assume I am more open-minded to accept it
sooner than later.

Speaker 3 (01:19:45):
Compared to your parents right they were raised.

Speaker 1 (01:19:48):
But I think in the initial, like if my kid says,
you know if he's 15 in highschool, and he says, hey, dad,
like I think I'm gay, I'm likelike you know, just yeah, it
wouldn't be as bad as, like yourparents, their parents like

(01:20:08):
snapping off, like it wouldn'tbe like a disownment type of
thing.
Disownment, disgrace, that'sthe hard part, but it'd be like
Like a quiet, like it's likeLike a little jab.
Yeah, a little jab it's likedamn it, like are you sure?
And like I said, I think Iwould open-minded to accept it

(01:20:30):
down the road and and and Idon't think it would be like a a
five-year thing I, I, probably.

Speaker 3 (01:20:37):
It probably would take me some months, maybe a
year, to like yeah, it's justsomething to learn and accept
with this new generation, likeI'm not gonna lie, like I was
raised the same way as you, butthen, halfway through my
generation is when it becamemore open and it's not like and

(01:20:59):
it's not like.
I hate gays no, no, no for sure, or anything like that.
It's how we were all we wereraised, yeah, yeah we were.

Speaker 1 (01:21:07):
We were raised to be, heterosexual.

Speaker 3 (01:21:10):
We were raised like my kids, our kids are gonna be
raised way differently because,like now, it's completely open
it's ridiculous even we don'teven know, it's ridiculous now
how, or you know, like how it'sgonna be the processes.

Speaker 1 (01:21:26):
I'll tell you right now I refuse to use your
pronouns.

Speaker 3 (01:21:29):
Like I, I will be that person.
I'll be that person.
Like I need to know.

Speaker 1 (01:21:33):
In a professional setting?

Speaker 3 (01:21:35):
Yes, I don't understand Like I don't
understand them.
I don't have anything againstthem, but I don't understand
them Like no lie, like if Idon't understand.

Speaker 1 (01:21:44):
If some years down the road and my son from high
school brings a friend over andhe's like, oh, my pronouns are
they, them.

Speaker 3 (01:21:53):
I don't understand that.
I don't know, I can't like.
I have nothing against.
I just want to know are you heor she?
I don't understand Plural.

Speaker 1 (01:22:02):
You're a singular person.
I wouldn't even verify Like youyou are.
You look like a man I'm gonnacall you he like like you're in
my house.
I don't, I'm sorry I don'treally I don't care what choice.

Speaker 3 (01:22:12):
Like you want to be a woman, you want to be a man, I
don't care.
But if you're a singular person, I don't understand.

Speaker 1 (01:22:19):
How am I supposed to say hey, they yeah them, I'm not
gonna go on my way.
I can't, I don't understand it.

Speaker 3 (01:22:28):
I don't understand it .
It's not I don't have againstit, but I don't understand how
one person goes to plural.

Speaker 1 (01:22:35):
But oh, it's, it's, there's like for one understand,
there's like hundreds ofdifferent type of pronouns.

Speaker 3 (01:22:42):
Yeah, that are people .

Speaker 1 (01:22:43):
Yeah, it's, it's ridiculous and it's and it could
be something that it's at itsheight right now oh yeah, that
sounds like our kids are gonnabe able to say all of this we
could be at the height of thisright now like huh and then five
years it might die down yeah,or it might stay where it's the
same like it could die down inthe next five, ten years and

(01:23:06):
then 15 years from now.
I'd be like, hey, remember backin the mid 2020s where we were
talking, like people werethought they were wolves and
yeah like I'm so scared to seewhat our kids generation is
gonna be like when they're gonnabe explaining it and we're just
gonna become to the point where, like huh.
Like this shit's going to betaught in school.

(01:23:28):
Yeah, like 20 years from now,this shit's going to happen.
Back in 2022, in the 2020s,this epidemic of the LGBT plus
it's going to be brought up.

Speaker 3 (01:23:43):
Even back in like early 2000s, it was never like.
I remember being in like thirdgrade, fourth grade, like it was
never discussed, it was neveropenly discussed.
I remember being like seven tonine years old and going to
festivals, like the puerto ricanfestivals.

(01:24:04):
At that young of an age Ididn't know what it meant when
you would saw two people of thesame sex in a relationship and I
remember my mom telling methey're just friends.
That's like like everybody, likethey were just friends, it
wasn't so openly like everybodywasn't understanding.
And now that I'm older it'slike it's so out there, like

(01:24:31):
even when you apply for jobs,the question they always ask you
, it's on applications sexualorientation, are you um part of
the lgbtq and then are you anally of the LGBTQ.

Speaker 1 (01:24:48):
Is that on there?

Speaker 3 (01:24:50):
Yes, every time I apply for a job they ask me am I
part of the community of theLGBTQ?
And then the next question isam I an ally?
And I remember when I firststarted applying for jobs, I was
like so confused.
I was like what does it mean?
Am I an ally or am I a part ofthe community?
And I remember one of myfriends who is actually part of

(01:25:13):
the LGBTQ had to explain to mesaying are you actually LGBTQ,
which means you're part of thecommunity you see yourself that
way or are you just an ally?

Speaker 1 (01:25:25):
You just, you're friends with us, You're part of
us so they want to know if youhave, yes, lesbian gay friends.

Speaker 3 (01:25:34):
Basically basically or like that you're not, I guess
, homophobic or like that's wildlike you know like that.
You're very like not likingthem.

Speaker 1 (01:25:48):
How the hell is that going to affect your work?

Speaker 3 (01:25:51):
Yes, and I'm like why are we asking these questions
now and now?
On top of those questions, theyalso ask us what is your sexual
orientation?
Yeah, I'm like why are youasking me these Like this has
nothing to do with being part ofmy job.
Like I get it?
Some people are homophobic.

(01:26:12):
Some people are very negativeabout the lgbtq but like out
there.
Yeah, nobody's gonna tell youthat.
No, they're gonna show you whenyou're already hired.
So it's like, why even ask?

Speaker 1 (01:26:26):
and then going back to what you said earlier, if my
four year old or seven year oldsees two men kissing I'm, I'll
probably give them the sameanswer that your mother gave you
, because a four, five, six yearold cannot, in my opinion
cannot, comprehend a wholedrawn-out explanation about a

(01:26:50):
homo homosexuality, like even at10, 11 years old, like to
explain what being a homosexualis, being trans, being bisexual,
like they're not even having,they're not even sexually active

(01:27:11):
.
Yeah, I mean some, let's justsay some may be, but like 10, 9,
11 years old, like I understandhaving to have a conversation
about it, maybe when they're 11,12, 13, but I'm not gonna sit
there and explain homosexualityto my five-year-old it's kind of
like, even if you were toexplain it like about the

(01:27:33):
homosexual you're just gonnaconfuse

Speaker 3 (01:27:35):
them they're gonna be confused because it could be
the same said like if mom anddad split up, you're not gonna
sit here and explain to yourchild no, you're right why?
Why we split up?

Speaker 1 (01:27:47):
It's too much.

Speaker 3 (01:27:47):
They're not going to understand, nope.
So the same could be said abouthomosexual Like.
Why am I going to explain to mychild why me and daddy didn't
work out?
Why is there two daddies Likethey're not going to understand?

Speaker 1 (01:28:02):
No, they don't have the attention span.
To even care about it, untilthey get to that.
Nine attention span to evencare about it until they get to
that nine ten, eleven year old.
Yeah, that's when they could,that's when they start noticing
shit and understanding stuff,that's fine.
But anything under eight yearsold?
You need to just give them aquick, easy explanation and just

(01:28:24):
let it be and then explain toit when they're older, because
you're right, it's the samething.
If you have a three-year-old,four-year-old and mommy, daddy
split up, you're not going tosit them down and be like, oh
well, daddy stepped out, ormommy stepped out.

Speaker 3 (01:28:40):
Mommy doesn't love daddy.
No more Like huh.

Speaker 1 (01:28:42):
Or this isn't working , or mommy drinks too much, you
know isn't working or mommydrinks too much.

Speaker 2 (01:28:48):
You know like it's yeah, you don't do that now,
when they get older then, yeah,you explain.

Speaker 1 (01:28:51):
Well, we separated because, yeah, it's the same
thing and I don't get.
These parents are letting theirchild choose their gender at
the age of four, five, six,seven years old, like it's just.
A child's brain doesn'tcomprehend that and I at the, at

(01:29:15):
the end of the day, I don'tcare what you do with your child
, I don't care.
As long as you're not harmingthem, I don't care.
It doesn't affect me, itdoesn't change my lifestyle.
It doesn't change my lifestyle.
Now, when you start havingdiscussions without me there, to
my children about it, let's say, if the school brought in a

(01:29:37):
drag queen and they werediscussing trans people, that
would be stupid for the schoolto do.
But something like that, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no.
Don't you need my permissionfor you know from the start if
you're gonna have a discussionlike that.
But whatever you want to dowith your child behind your

(01:29:58):
doors, like, am I gonna have anopinion about it?
Of course, but it doesn'taffect me in any way.
So if that makes you happy, goahead and do it.
But it's here and there.
I don't want to go too muchinto it because I know it's a
big topic nowadays.

(01:30:20):
So unless you have something toadd to it, we don't have to
move any further with it.
But I do want to change it up alittle bit.
I know we've been talking aboutsome uh, maybe sensible stuff,
probably for the last hour.
I saw this on a tiktok and Ithought it would be really cool

(01:30:42):
because I know you know allthese characters, so I'm gonna
show you.
It's called mask game.
Have you heard the mask game?
No, it's nothing crazy, it'sjust a quick question.
So it says choose a mask towear and you gain all the
abilities of this character whowear it.
And I'm going to change it up.
So I'm going to say you couldpick two of these masks and

(01:31:05):
you'll get both the powers.
You understand what I'm sayingyeah so I'm gonna show you this
picture and but real quick, I'mgonna say number one is the
green ranger mask, number two isthe mask mask from the movie
the mask with jim carrey.
The third one is iron man.

(01:31:27):
Fourth one is, uh, blackpanther.
The fifth one is jason vorhees.
The sixth one is batman it'sbatman.
The seventh one is magneto fromx-men.
The eighth one is, um, oh mygod, I can't the Bounty Hunter

(01:31:48):
from Star Wars.
And then the ninth one isWolverine.
So take a second.
If you had to choose two, andyou don't necessarily have to
wear Iron man, you're pickingIron man as one of your, just
like he says in Avengers.
I'm a multi-millionairebillionaire genius, it says you

(01:32:13):
get the abilities His ability tobe that smart.
That's an ability, that's amulti-millionaire genius.
The mask just gives the abilityof the mask.
So you basically just have asuit.
You're still, they're all trash, you're still gonna have your
brain they're all trash.

(01:32:34):
Then even if I chose Magneto, Idon't get no fucking you get
that ability to control metal,so then I should get the ability
as Iron man for the brain, hisfucking brain, yo Tony Stark.
Because, like Magneto is amutant, so he just he, naturally

(01:32:55):
has that?

Speaker 3 (01:32:55):
The fucking Mandalorian ain't got no fucking
damn powers.

Speaker 1 (01:32:59):
The Mandalorian.
That's right.
Same thing with the GreenRanger.
The Green Ranger is a normalperson.
Black Panther ain't got no damnpowers.
That black suit is amazing.
Are you serious?

Speaker 3 (01:33:11):
iron man suit is amazing, exactly.
So what?

Speaker 1 (01:33:14):
so if you pick the black panther, you're gonna be
the king of wakanda.
I'd be.
No, you just get that ability,you don't get the lifestyle
billionaire genius, you'reoverthinking it.

Speaker 3 (01:33:26):
okay, okay, fine.

Speaker 1 (01:33:27):
Fine, fine, iron man and who else, even though I
think you're wrong, but I'll letyou, you're the guest.
So Magneto and Iron man.

Speaker 3 (01:33:35):
Because, even if you choose Wolverine, fine, fine,
fine, fine, no, no, no, I willchoose.

Speaker 1 (01:33:40):
Because, wolverine, you are invincible.

Speaker 3 (01:33:43):
I'll choose Wolverine , for sure.
Love him, yeah, because youregenerate.

Speaker 1 (01:33:48):
Fuck yeah, you got and.

Speaker 3 (01:33:50):
Iron man, I'm going to have my suit and all.

Speaker 1 (01:33:54):
And I'll make my suit where I can bring my claws out.
But do you really need a suitif you're invulnerable and can?

Speaker 3 (01:34:03):
regenerate yes.
I do so.
I can fly and I can shoot thelasers out of my hands.

Speaker 1 (01:34:09):
Okay, I'll give you that.
I think I would choose the mask.

Speaker 3 (01:34:13):
The mask.

Speaker 1 (01:34:14):
I would choose the mask.
Oh hell, no, to have thoseabilities to be cartoony and
make shit out of nothing.

Speaker 3 (01:34:20):
Of course you would.
That's like saying you wouldchoose to be in Dragon Ball Z.
Okay.

Speaker 1 (01:34:30):
Majin Buu Buu, I would be Majin Buu the fat one.
I'd be the fat Majin BuuChocolates.
I would do the mask and I woulddo Wolverine.
I think Wolverine's a given onthat one hell yeah, who wouldn't
?
He's fucking invisible causeit's almost like cause you can't
double dip like who's gonna doVoorhees and it's like for you
you can't double dip like who'sgoing to do Voorhees and and
it's like for you to choose.

Speaker 3 (01:34:50):
Magneto and Wolverine .
So you're just going to fuckingMagneto yourself.
You're not going to.

Speaker 1 (01:34:56):
I think he could channel where he wants to
control.
He's not going to channel hisown body that's crazy come on
it's like no too similar.
I think that's a good choice.

Speaker 3 (01:35:09):
I think Iron man and Wolverine is a good choice, and
I'd fucking turn my damn suit soI could bring my claws out you
could?

Speaker 1 (01:35:16):
yeah, you could do that yeah you'll fly.
You can shoot lasers.
That's not a bad idea.
I didn't even think about itthat way.
I mean you took it a little toofar, thinking that you're gonna
get.

Speaker 3 (01:35:26):
I'm gonna be a multi-billionaire genius, like
he told.
Captain America.
Captain America should havecome for his ass and he said
multi-millionaire, billionaire,genius.

Speaker 1 (01:35:40):
Let's act like I have a big following and put your
comments down below, and I don'tthink that's going to.
I don't think that would havefly.
I don't think that would haveflied.
I don't think that's fair inthe game.

Speaker 3 (01:35:50):
It'd be very fair I don't think so.
Tony Stark's brain is part ofthe suit.
Hello.
No it's not the Iron man powerscome from his chest, from the
damn thingy that he installed inhis chest.
That's where the power comesfrom, but the suit itself has
its own abilities that youcontrol within the suit no, it

(01:36:16):
comes from his chest, so youmight as well give me his brain
so I can be a multi-billionairegenius.

Speaker 1 (01:36:24):
I don't think it works that way.
I created the Avengers alright,genius.

Speaker 3 (01:36:26):
I don't think it works that way.

Speaker 1 (01:36:26):
I created the avengers all right, I'm gonna
finish this.
I'm gonna.
I've been sipping on this crownroyal washington apple seven
percent alcohol yeah, you mightas well make it yourself I know
I'm gonna finish this off realquick.

Speaker 3 (01:36:44):
What the blackberry?
I want to try the blackberryCrown Royal.

Speaker 1 (01:36:49):
I'll try any Crown Royal flavor.
I love Crown Royal, I know youdo that.

Speaker 3 (01:36:53):
Vanilla and Coke is disgusting, I think.

Speaker 1 (01:36:58):
Okay, we're going to end the podcast on that.

Speaker 3 (01:37:00):
I want to do the blackberry and vanilla.

Speaker 1 (01:37:03):
Vanilla is amazing.
It's the most so delicious.
I'm sure my baby daddyA-A-A-Ron would agree with you
it's the smoothest thing ever.
He thinks that too.

Speaker 3 (01:37:13):
Ain't that right, a-a-a-ron, a-a-ron.
Oh my gosh.

Speaker 1 (01:37:22):
I have no idea how big.
Oh it's an hour and a half andthere's water all over this
floor.
My water jug just spilledeverywhere, god damn it All
right.

Speaker 3 (01:37:38):
Donnie, though blackberry and lemonade, we got
to try that one next.

Speaker 1 (01:37:43):
Blackberry and lemonade.

Speaker 3 (01:37:44):
Yeah, have you seen that you guys love that citrus
drink?
Well, because what else?

Speaker 1 (01:37:46):
would mix a blackberry, crown, royal
blackberry and lemonade.

Speaker 3 (01:37:47):
Yeah why do you?
Why do you guys love that?
Because what else would makes ablackberry crown royal
blackberry coke what blackberrycoke?

Speaker 1 (01:37:55):
no coke and coke and crown, and you can't, you can't
guess you can't.

Speaker 3 (01:37:59):
A blackberry coke doesn't sound satisfying milk ew
, that just Milk.
Ew, that just makes me want tohave the churros.

Speaker 1 (01:38:09):
What do I call them?

Speaker 3 (01:38:11):
Churro King.
Oh, you tell them what the fuck.

Speaker 1 (01:38:14):
How did I mix it up?
What did I say?
Tell the story.

Speaker 3 (01:38:18):
What did I say?
Jessica said, you call themchurros.
We were walking somewhere right, and wasn't it like a baseball
game?
Yeah, yeah, yeah, and I think Isaw it.
You're like oh snap.

Speaker 1 (01:38:29):
And what'd I say?

Speaker 3 (01:38:30):
They have churros and Jessica said you mean churros?

Speaker 1 (01:38:37):
I was like, yeah, that's shit.
Hey, that's an easy thing tomix up, though.
Come on now.
True, it's easy to mix up.

Speaker 3 (01:38:52):
I'm a no saba kid, so I don't, I don't know that shit
.
He a no saba kid, you know mylogo was almost gonna be no saba
a big fat hispanic dude withthem with the fucking um that
wouldn't have matched you,because you're an osabu, I know
that's what I even be listeningto like peso it was gonna be
called um javi I can't rememberthe title all these artists I'm

(01:39:19):
naming and he don't know not asingle one, not a single one.

Speaker 1 (01:39:23):
I don't, that's not my, that's not my thing.
Junior age, I'm, that's not mything, junior age that's not my
thing.
I'm more hip hop and even thehip hop.

Speaker 3 (01:39:35):
He don't want to be claimed.
Don't claim him now.

Speaker 1 (01:39:39):
That's his wife that's her gym mix.
I don't listen to that shit.
He don't want to be claimed,don't claim him even finding
good rap hip hop music is hard.

Speaker 3 (01:39:51):
I said what I said and I mean what I said yeah,
that shit.

Speaker 1 (01:39:56):
It's hard to find good music, man.
I try to.
I'll listen to anything, but itjust has to.
It can't be trash like likeremember Lil Pump.

Speaker 3 (01:40:09):
Oh God Lil.

Speaker 1 (01:40:10):
Pump and the Migos and like just shit like that.
Like that shit's annoying man,but it is what it is.

Speaker 3 (01:40:22):
Next time I'm going to bring the Blackberry.

Speaker 2 (01:40:25):
I'm going to tell.

Speaker 3 (01:40:26):
Dude, Jessica, have that lemonade and we're gonna do
blackberry and lemonade we'llbring uh AA, ron, maybe I'll get
.

Speaker 1 (01:40:34):
I could get a third, uh, a third mic yeah, I'm like
take that sip real quick.

Speaker 3 (01:40:39):
Aa, ron, we'll do?

Speaker 1 (01:40:40):
we'll do like a drinking game yeah, it's gonna
suck cause I won't have video toshow it, but we can tell.

Speaker 3 (01:40:48):
AA Ron, this is a chill and spicy in his house.
Yeah, People who know us, theyknow AA Ron is the chill one.
Yeah, that's my baby daddy, andI'm the spicy Because you know.

Speaker 1 (01:41:06):
I don't think anyone's referred to you as
spicy.
I'm very spicy but according toyou, my new boo says I'm spicy
too oh, is that why?

Speaker 3 (01:41:14):
yeah, he says he likes that shit.
Dahmer mm-hmm, my Dahmer, myDahmer.
Yeah, jeffrey Dahmer, he's likeooh, you got a little kick to
you a little spice, I like it oh, is that what he said to you?
Yeah, you got a little kick toyou, a little spice.
I like it.
Oh, is that what he said to you?
Yeah, I like that shit.

Speaker 1 (01:41:29):
Hey.

Speaker 3 (01:41:29):
A-Ron says that too.

Speaker 1 (01:41:31):
He said get that little spice, because you don't
give a fuck.

Speaker 3 (01:41:33):
I don't.
He says that too.
Hey, A-Ron, he be like get thatlittle spice.

Speaker 1 (01:41:41):
Get that kick to it.
I love it.
See, motherf man hey a-ron willtell you you gotta be your own
spicy bitch, you gotta be yourown hype man.
Ain't nobody gonna hype me upbut me.
Hey, hey, hey.

Speaker 3 (01:41:57):
Hands on your knees, oh god, I'm at that shake soon
all right, we're going on thetwo hour mark.

Speaker 1 (01:42:04):
I'm gonna try to keep these podcasts about hour and a
half, so if you don't got anyuh lasting words, then we could
cut it off I shall see y'allsoon and, like I said, we'll try
to.
Um, I'm sure I could get athird mic.
I think it'll be a lot moreentertaining with three follow
me and his wife on tiktok.
Oh god don't don't be trying toplug your shit.

(01:42:25):
Don't be trying to plug yourbrand new TikTok page With the
new gym girlies.
Go ahead, plug it.
How can they find you?

Speaker 3 (01:42:34):
Jesse and Danny6.

Speaker 1 (01:42:40):
You sounded so convinced With the new gym
girlies, I'm going to show y'allasses and you guys are posting
daily.

Speaker 3 (01:42:51):
Look at these fucking muscles, y'all ain't ready.
I wish y'all had a video to seethis flex game.

Speaker 1 (01:42:56):
Posting daily.

Speaker 3 (01:42:57):
Yes.
Okay we'll see Okay okay, we'restarting up.
It's okay, we about to show allyou hoes.

Speaker 1 (01:43:05):
There you go.

Speaker 3 (01:43:09):
Hell yeah, show all you hoes there you go.
Hell yeah, keep it up.
I mean, you guys are showingprogress, just gotta keep it up.

Speaker 1 (01:43:13):
His wife has some nice boulders she got them
shoulder boulders, those ufcfighter I like them boulders.
All right, all right,appreciate you coming on um,
enjoy talking to you and then,like I said, we'll uh, we'll do
it again.
We'll try to get a ron and, hey, maybe you'll just be.
You'll become a, um, a norm tothe show co-host.

Speaker 3 (01:43:35):
There you go all right.
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