how people waste their lives

"The inclination to view others as "the enemy" an all-consuming, life destroying, force I observe particularly in people who have had negative childhood experiences. I believe nothing can be resolved until this is acknowledged and dealt with."

Rossmann explores the hidden ways people end up wasting their lives, focusing on the profound impact of unresolved childhood trauma and the resulting worldview it shapes. Drawing from years of messages he’s received from viewers struggling with direction in their personal and professional lives, Rossmann observes a recurring pattern: many people gloss over traumatic childhood experiences, underestimating their ongoing influence on adult behavior and decision-making.

The video delves into how these early experiences create a lens through which all future interactions are viewed. Louis explains that people tend to generalize from the “subset” of individuals who failed them as children, assuming that most others would behave the same way. This mindset can trap individuals in isolation, preventing them from participating fully in life and missing out on the serendipitous opportunities that only come from engaging with the world and other people.

Original Video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ltFWyxuRNrM

(I am not affiliated with Louis Rossmann)