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April 29, 2025 8 mins

In this solo episode, I sit down with real-life couple and therapists Jon Kim and Vanessa Bennett to unpack the messy, beautiful reality of modern relationships. From rocky beginnings and one-foot-out-the-door moments to learning how to see beauty in our differences, we explore what it takes to truly do life with someone—not at or around them. We talk about avoidant tendencies, attachment triggers, and how old wounds show up in conflict, all while keeping it raw, real, and deeply human. Whether you’re single, dating, or deep in partnership, this episode will have you reflecting hard and laughing a little too.

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John's Instagram: www.instagram.com/theangrytherapist

Vanessa's Instagram: www.instagram.com/vanessasbennett

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Mark's Book: www.markgroves.com/book

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