In this powerful episode, I sit down with healer, mystic, and frequency alchemist Demian Haye — whose journey has taken him from India to Guatemala to the invisible web of life itself. What started as a chat about frequency and money turned into an expansive, soul-rattling exploration of identity, healing, ego death, abundance, and the true meaning of manifestation.
We go way beyond the typical “manifest your dreams” chat. This one’s about clearing the masks, composting the old self, and relearning how to receive , not just money, but the frequency of life itself.
We talk:
🌱 Why frequency isn’t enough — and what you must do to sustain it
🌱 How your “soil” (inner world, trauma, ancestry) affects your ability to hold energy
🌱 What abundance actually is (and how most of us misunderstand it)
🌱 Shamanic ecology, Indra’s Net, and your relationship to the web of life
🌱 The danger of bypassing, spiritual greed, and distorted manifestation
🌱 Frequency as cultivation — not just attraction
🌱 Ego death, rebirth, and the vibration of neutrality
🌱 Vortex Healing + why clearing identity is the missing key to lasting transformation
🧠 QUOTES FROM THIS EPISODE
“If you want to hold the frequency of abundance, you have to clear the soil of scarcity. Not just attract it. Cultivate it.”
“We’re not here to get what we want. We’re here to be in harmony with the greater ecology of life.”
“The ego says: I am this. I am that. But healing begins when we remember: I am no one. I am everything.”
“Your field will always reject the frequencies you’re allergic to — even the ones you say you want.”
“Success without harmony is a golden cage. Real wealth sustains life, not just the ego.”
💫 WORK WITH DEMIAN
Demian offers remote 1:1 Vortex Healing sessions, group journeys, and teachings on grid work, identity clearing, and shamanic ecology. His current course on Money, Prosperity & the Web of Life includes frequency grids and deep work on clearing ancestral scarcity patterns.
✨ Contact Demian & explore his work
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