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August 3, 2025 8 mins

The Courage to Be Disliked: A Guide to Radical Self-Acceptance


What if you could find true happiness by simply not caring what others think of you? In this enlightening episode, we're diving into Ichiro Kishimi and Fumitake Koga's international bestseller, "The Courage to Be Disliked: The Japanese Phenomenon That Shows You How to Change Your Life and Achieve True Happiness." Get ready for a profound and life-altering conversation rooted in the philosophy of Alfred Adler.

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This book presents Alfred Adler's philosophical and psychological ideas through a captivating dialogue between a wise philosopher and a skeptical youth. The authors make Adlerian psychology—which focuses on personal happiness through self-reliance, community feeling, and courage—remarkably accessible.



Tags: The Courage to Be Disliked, Alfred Adler, self-help, philosophy, psychology, personal growth, happiness, self-reliance, community feeling, courage, rejection of trauma, living in the present, Japanese philosophy, existentialism, non-fiction, book club, podcast, self-acceptance, freedom, mindfulness, Ichiro Kishimi, Fumitake Koga

Key concepts explored include denying trauma as a determinant of your current behavior, reframing unhappiness as a choice, rejecting the need for external recognition, and the powerful practice of "separation of tasks" in interpersonal relationships. The book advocates for living fully in the present moment and defines happiness as the feeling of contribution to others, challenging conventional views on life's problems and their solutions. This is a must-listen for anyone seeking to break free from the expectations of others and find true inner peace.

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