January 22, 2025 • 14 mins
How soon is too soon to go exclusive? This fishbowl episode of Dating Daycare throws you into the heart of a dating conundrum that is as relatable as it is eye-opening. Melissa and Allison dissect a listener's tangled relationship, where a month-long romance is already brimming with boundary-crossing behavior, including kisses with past flings and hangouts with former crushes. If you've ever wondered when it's the right time to put a label on a relationship or how to ensure your boundaries are respected, this episode promises to make you rethink your dating strategies and safeguard your heart from unnecessary drama.
Join us as we serve up candid advice on maintaining your self-worth and sanity amidst the chaos of new relationships. We'll highlight the importance of setting clear boundaries from the get-go, ensuring your expectations and values align before exclusivity comes into play. Our discussion is packed with real-talk wisdom on how to protect yourself from heartbreak and avoid the pitfalls of rushing into commitment without truly knowing your partner. Get ready for a humorous yet insightful exploration of the early dating stage, and discover how to steer your love life in a healthier direction.
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Speaker 1 (00:06):
Welcome to Dating Daycare, where we help you
navigate through the jungle ofjerks, I'm Melissa, I'm Allison
and today, you lucky viewers, weare going to do another famous
fishbowl episode.
So Allison is going to pickthis week.
Maybe we'll get through one ortwo.
(00:28):
We'll see Real questions, incase you're just catching on to
our fabulous podcast.
Real questions from you, theviewers, from social media,
anonymous.
We read them out, we help youout.
All right, dig deep, allison.
Dig deep.
She didn't dig that deep.
(00:48):
Okay, what do you?
Speaker 2 (00:50):
got for me.
Okay, well, okay, y'all tell meif I'm being dramatic, all
right, I recently becameexclusive with someone.
It's only been a month, but inthat one time frame he kissed a
girl he was messing with.
On day four he said it wasroutine and on accident.
(01:11):
Next he keeps hanging out witha girl he had a crush on a month
ago but claims it's okaybecause it's his girl, best
friend, cousin, what.
And then today, so his bestfriend's cousin, okay.
And then today he went alone toa girl's house, a girl he
(01:33):
fucked a year while she nappedon a separate sofa so he can
charge his phone.
I told him I was done beingexclusive.
He says I'm being crazy.
What do you all think?
Wow?
Speaker 1 (01:47):
Okay, so this is a long one.
Okay, so we just had an episodeabout boundaries.
Okay, ladies, and obviouslythis, I'm going to assume this
is one of our younger viewers,because there are a lot of
boundaries being broken here.
There's cheating, I would say,number one.
Speaker 2 (02:03):
Why are you being exclusive with someone?
So it's not clear to me ifshe's just been with him a month
and then decided to beexclusive.
But if that's the case, likeyou should not be exclusive with
someone after a month, like howdo you know them?
How have you vetted them?
Speaker 1 (02:20):
Okay, yes.
So she's saying I recentlybecame exclusive with somebody.
It Okay, yes.
So she's saying I recentlybecame exclusive with somebody.
It's only been a month thatshe's been dating him and
already in this month he'skissed a girl that he was
messing with.
On day four of her dating him,he already kissed a girl.
He said it was a routineaccident, no big deal, routine
accident.
So he's just so used to kissingthis girl.
(02:44):
It's like brushing his teeth.
It's become routine and that hekeeps hanging out with the girl
he had a crush on before he mether.
So a month or two ago, I guess,he had a crush on a girl.
He keeps hanging out with herand he claims it's okay because
it's his best friend's cousin.
Speaker 2 (03:02):
So my question is what is she getting out of this?
What is positive about thisRight?
Speaker 1 (03:07):
So, obviously, for this dynamic, a month is way too
soon to become exclusive, withshowing all these red flags and
having all these girls that hehad a crush on around cousin's
best friend that he had a crushon around cousin's best friend
that he had a crush on.
And then today, uh, he wentalone into a girl's house, a
(03:32):
girl that he slept with a yearago.
Yeah, but it doesn't matterwhat girl's house, I mean when,
and here's the thing.
This is, this is what I have tosay to her.
I'd love to talk to her when youfirst start going out with a
guy, let's say whenever.
That is now.
Ladies, you know what I alwayssay and if you're just tuning in
(03:53):
, this piece of advice will saveyou from a lot of heartache you
don't start sleeping with a manuntil you become exclusive.
So that leaves out all theghosting and all those other
problems at hand.
Even these problems.
Speaker 2 (04:14):
Yeah, even so, the whole like exclusivity thing.
A lot of people get confusedbetween the definition of
exclusivity because I thinkeveryone else, everyone's
definition of that word is a bitdifferent really I think it's
the same.
Speaker 1 (04:31):
No, a lot of you shouldn't be fucking anybody
else.
For a lot of guys it seems thatthey.
Speaker 2 (04:38):
what it means is um, for right now I just want to
lock you down so you're notgoing to go be with other guys
and explore other options.
I'm just going to, at this verymoment, just have sex with you,
but I'm also going to exploremy other options so I can let
you go when I find somethingbetter.
What you should be looking for,I believe, is
(04:59):
boyfriend-girlfriend title.
You're in an officialrelationship.
Speaker 1 (05:03):
But to me that's what .
When I say to somebody do you,you know, I'm 47 years old.
Speaker 2 (05:09):
I don't say do you want to?
Speaker 1 (05:10):
I mean, I have two kids and I've been married, as
we've been over, I don't say youwant to be my boyfriend?
I say are we exclusive?
Speaker 2 (05:19):
I know, and that this is just a side note.
People, just a little piece, alittle piece of caution.
Right okay, because it's athing, unfortunately.
Speaker 1 (05:28):
And you should not become exclusive with somebody
until you have seen their bestbehavior.
I mean, this guy has beenshowing you poor behavior and
you decided to become exclusivewith him for a month.
Why?
And you decided to becomeexclusive with him for a month?
Why?
And when a man decides tobecome exclusive with you, which
(05:50):
, in my idea, depending on age,give or take, should be within
the three-month range, that's?
Speaker 2 (05:58):
fair.
Okay, I don't think this issomething that's set in stone
necessarily, but I just feel ingeneral, four weeks is just a
bit premature.
Speaker 1 (06:06):
Premature stone, necessarily, but I just feel in
general, four weeks is just abit premature, premature the
best behavior it should be.
Let's say, you marry this guyfive, six years down the road
you should be thinking of thatfirst few months being the best
it ever was this is when it'sonly downhill from here, right
he's supposed to be surprisingyou.
(06:27):
I mean taking you out to dinnerplanning dates.
Um, listening to what you said,the over other girls, houses
and and see and kissing andaccidentally routine accident.
he does this insanity, so youhave no business getting
involved with a man that'salready treating you like this.
(06:47):
As Allison said, it's downhillfrom there.
Let's do another.
Sorry, sweetie, allison didn'tdig deep enough.
Ladies, I'm digging deep.
Speaker 2 (06:57):
Use those claws, I'm using those claws.
Speaker 1 (07:00):
Okay, yeah, day one is the best day.
Speaker 2 (07:06):
Well, day four, he was already on Right.
Speaker 1 (07:07):
Right, I mean, is the best day Well, day four, he was
already on Right.
Right, I mean, I can't.
Speaker 2 (07:10):
Okay.
Speaker 1 (07:10):
Shouldn't even be with somebody like that.
Okay, looking for advice on howto ask my husband to share his
location on his phone with me.
Backstory he has had an affair.
Well, he likes to pay forservices.
Oy, these are the worst kind.
And I found out very early inour marriage.
He says he stopped and I havetried to forgive.
(07:34):
But I feel I could get over itmore if I saw his location and
wasn't panic stricken on wherehe was all the time.
Also, I know if I ask that hewill become very defensive and
just say no.
So I'm looking for ways to askwithout just flat out telling
(07:54):
him it's because I don't trusthim.
Oh, there's a lot to go overhere.
Okay, so first, he's had anaffair and he likes to pay for
services.
So let's say that this is, youknow, hookers, or even, if it's
that, what's that web page?
Only fans that's included hereand he got caught.
(08:16):
Okay, and he started this atthe beginning.
We don't know how long she'sbeen married to him, but he's
been doing this.
We full well know he was doingthis before they were married.
She said that she found out atthe beginning of the marriage.
But this isn't something thatjust miraculously, ladies starts
because he walked down an aisleand signed a piece of paper.
(08:38):
Okay, this has been embedded inthis man for a very long time.
Here's what I have to say,allison, in case you're
wondering.
In case you're wondering In caseyou're wondering when this man
got caught by you and youforgave him, which you must be
an angel on this earth, becauseI would have never forgave him
(09:00):
and I would have been down thedivorce.
Speaker 2 (09:02):
You should have negotiated your terms, new terms
and conditions at that point Ifyou wanted to go there.
Speaker 1 (09:07):
Okay, but even if she did, even if she did, he should
be more than willing To giveyou his phone.
This should not even be Afterhe got caught doing this and he
is the guilty one and you twoobviously Discuss that you are
going to Stay together and he isgoing guilty one and you two
obviously discuss that you aregoing to stay together and he's
(09:29):
going to try and redeem himselfin this relationship and
marriage.
He should be doing everythingand anything to make you feel
comfortable and secure and thathe has stopped doing these
affairs.
Now.
If that's looking at his phone,if that's putting a tracker on
(09:53):
his car, if that's calling him,uh, whenever you feel like it to
check up on him, and he has topick up the phone, whatever some
way to live.
Speaker 2 (10:04):
could you imagine living in this?
Okay, but yeah, no, and Iunderstand way to live.
Could you imagine living inthis?
Okay, but no.
Speaker 1 (10:06):
And I understand that .
But guess what?
Also, you should be in marriagecounseling.
That should be a given.
There should be no if, ends orbuts about that.
But if all these things weredone, I would imagine I'll never
know, because I will never givea man that opportunity.
But I would imagine aftercertain things were proven, the
(10:29):
trust does come back.
I do have girlfriends that havestayed with a man that was one
time had an affair and theyworked through it, through
therapy and and different things, and have have been very
successful.
So but but there were thingsthe man had to do in the
(10:53):
beginning to make you feel likeyou would.
He would never do it again, toprove himself.
So to say, that has to be done.
The trust has to be earned back.
It's not just given backbecause you decide to stay.
Speaker 2 (11:08):
It's almost like you're starting from day one
again.
Speaker 1 (11:11):
Worse, because day one you weren't having an affair
.
Imagine starting a relationshipwith a man where he's already
cheated you.
That was this one that we justwent through right before.
That was this where she startedbecoming exclusive with him and
he's already cheated on herwith a week.
You could fully see thatdoesn't work.
(11:31):
So this man should be earningback his trust.
Now the sad thing is I'mlooking for ways to ask without
flat out telling him, because Idon't trust him and I know he's
going to say no.
Why is he saying no?
Why can't you look through thisman's phone?
Let me tell you something Atany point or given time, any man
(11:52):
I'm dating, that I'm dating,can full well look through my
phone.
You look through my entirephone.
You look on my social media,you can look anywhere, because
I'm not doing anything shady andeverything I'm doing.
Speaker 2 (12:02):
I'm telling you what I mean, that tells you all you
need to know, right, the factthat you're just, you don't
trust him.
There's a reason why you don'ttrust him.
I mean, you have to listen tothat, yeah yeah.
Speaker 1 (12:12):
So there is no way for this for this anonymous
person.
Sweetheart, there is no way towalk around the mulberry bush,
and you know, ask him withoutasking to see his phone.
This is what you should besaying to him.
You cheated on me who knows howmany times.
You state more than once, forhow many years.
(12:35):
Right, I want to see your phone.
If you want me to stay in thismarriage, I want to be able to
see your phone to make me feelsecure, since you've cheated for
years Done.
And if he says no and getsangry, it means he's still doing
it.
Speaker 2 (12:52):
Unfortunately there are better men out there.
I know it's hard to disentangleyourself from this and legally,
and all that right, no,absolute headache but um, yeah,
this is not it no, it'sdefinitely not it.
Speaker 1 (13:08):
And what a way to live, yeah, and, and here's the
thing, you're stuck between arock and a hard place, because
unless he does these things,such as lets you see his phone,
uh, track him, you know, call tomake you feel secure, you're
never going to trust him again.
So you're going to be in thestate of panic, of fight or
(13:30):
flight perpetually, because he'sgoing to start blaming it on
you and saying oh, you're crazy.
You know I'm not cheating onyou and you know you just want
to see my phone and keep tabs onit.
It should be no problem.
It should be absolutely noproblem.
Speaker 2 (13:47):
She can offer up her phone and all that kind of thing
.
Right, absolutely.
Speaker 1 (13:51):
So, ladies, that is our fishbowl for the day and our
words of wisdom.
Speaker 2 (13:57):
Yeah, so please write to us at datingdaycare podcast
at gmail um give us yourquestions.
Yeah, we'll give you our answer.
Speaker 1 (14:07):
Absolutely.
We'll do them anonymously, likewe always do.
But if you have a question thatyou uh need help with and want
to ask, or you could come to ourfacebook group dating daycare
on facebook request.
Speaker 2 (14:21):
We will let you in.
Speaker 1 (14:23):
Yeah, we'll let you in and you can write your
questions there, all right,thank you.
Thank you and have a nice week.
Oh, and if you have any Dick ofthe Weeks, let us know.
We'd love to hear Dick of theWeeks stories.
Speaker 2 (14:36):
It's been a while.
It's been a while.
We know there are plenty ofdogs out there.
Oh yeah, they're out there.
Speaker 1 (14:40):
They're out there, ladies.
All right, we will see you soonand thank you for watching our
podcast.
We appreciate it.
Thank you, bye.
Speaker 2 (14:48):
Bye.
Welcome to Dating Daycare, where we help you
navigate through the jungle ofjerks, I'm Melissa, I'm Allison
and today, you lucky viewers, weare going to do another famous
fishbowl episode.
So Allison is going to pickthis week.
Maybe we'll get through one ortwo.
(00:28):
We'll see Real questions, incase you're just catching on to
our fabulous podcast.
Real questions from you, theviewers, from social media,
anonymous.
We read them out, we help youout.
All right, dig deep, allison.
Dig deep.
She didn't dig that deep.
(00:48):
Okay, what do you?
Speaker 2 (00:50):
got for me.
Okay, well, okay, y'all tell meif I'm being dramatic, all
right, I recently becameexclusive with someone.
It's only been a month, but inthat one time frame he kissed a
girl he was messing with.
On day four he said it wasroutine and on accident.
(01:11):
Next he keeps hanging out witha girl he had a crush on a month
ago but claims it's okaybecause it's his girl, best
friend, cousin, what.
And then today, so his bestfriend's cousin, okay.
And then today he went alone toa girl's house, a girl he
(01:33):
fucked a year while she nappedon a separate sofa so he can
charge his phone.
I told him I was done beingexclusive.
He says I'm being crazy.
What do you all think?
Wow?
Speaker 1 (01:47):
Okay, so this is a long one.
Okay, so we just had an episodeabout boundaries.
Okay, ladies, and obviouslythis, I'm going to assume this
is one of our younger viewers,because there are a lot of
boundaries being broken here.
There's cheating, I would say,number one.
Speaker 2 (02:03):
Why are you being exclusive with someone?
So it's not clear to me ifshe's just been with him a month
and then decided to beexclusive.
But if that's the case, likeyou should not be exclusive with
someone after a month, like howdo you know them?
How have you vetted them?
Speaker 1 (02:20):
Okay, yes.
So she's saying I recentlybecame exclusive with somebody.
It Okay, yes.
So she's saying I recentlybecame exclusive with somebody.
It's only been a month thatshe's been dating him and
already in this month he'skissed a girl that he was
messing with.
On day four of her dating him,he already kissed a girl.
He said it was a routineaccident, no big deal, routine
accident.
So he's just so used to kissingthis girl.
(02:44):
It's like brushing his teeth.
It's become routine and that hekeeps hanging out with the girl
he had a crush on before he mether.
So a month or two ago, I guess,he had a crush on a girl.
He keeps hanging out with herand he claims it's okay because
it's his best friend's cousin.
Speaker 2 (03:02):
So my question is what is she getting out of this?
What is positive about thisRight?
Speaker 1 (03:07):
So, obviously, for this dynamic, a month is way too
soon to become exclusive, withshowing all these red flags and
having all these girls that hehad a crush on around cousin's
best friend that he had a crushon around cousin's best friend
that he had a crush on.
And then today, uh, he wentalone into a girl's house, a
(03:32):
girl that he slept with a yearago.
Yeah, but it doesn't matterwhat girl's house, I mean when,
and here's the thing.
This is, this is what I have tosay to her.
I'd love to talk to her when youfirst start going out with a
guy, let's say whenever.
That is now.
Ladies, you know what I alwayssay and if you're just tuning in
(03:53):
, this piece of advice will saveyou from a lot of heartache you
don't start sleeping with a manuntil you become exclusive.
So that leaves out all theghosting and all those other
problems at hand.
Even these problems.
Speaker 2 (04:14):
Yeah, even so, the whole like exclusivity thing.
A lot of people get confusedbetween the definition of
exclusivity because I thinkeveryone else, everyone's
definition of that word is a bitdifferent really I think it's
the same.
Speaker 1 (04:31):
No, a lot of you shouldn't be fucking anybody
else.
For a lot of guys it seems thatthey.
Speaker 2 (04:38):
what it means is um, for right now I just want to
lock you down so you're notgoing to go be with other guys
and explore other options.
I'm just going to, at this verymoment, just have sex with you,
but I'm also going to exploremy other options so I can let
you go when I find somethingbetter.
What you should be looking for,I believe, is
(04:59):
boyfriend-girlfriend title.
You're in an officialrelationship.
Speaker 1 (05:03):
But to me that's what .
When I say to somebody do you,you know, I'm 47 years old.
Speaker 2 (05:09):
I don't say do you want to?
Speaker 1 (05:10):
I mean, I have two kids and I've been married, as
we've been over, I don't say youwant to be my boyfriend?
I say are we exclusive?
Speaker 2 (05:19):
I know, and that this is just a side note.
People, just a little piece, alittle piece of caution.
Right okay, because it's athing, unfortunately.
Speaker 1 (05:28):
And you should not become exclusive with somebody
until you have seen their bestbehavior.
I mean, this guy has beenshowing you poor behavior and
you decided to become exclusivewith him for a month.
Why?
And you decided to becomeexclusive with him for a month?
Why?
And when a man decides tobecome exclusive with you, which
(05:50):
, in my idea, depending on age,give or take, should be within
the three-month range, that's?
Speaker 2 (05:58):
fair.
Okay, I don't think this issomething that's set in stone
necessarily, but I just feel ingeneral, four weeks is just a
bit premature.
Speaker 1 (06:06):
Premature stone, necessarily, but I just feel in
general, four weeks is just abit premature, premature the
best behavior it should be.
Let's say, you marry this guyfive, six years down the road
you should be thinking of thatfirst few months being the best
it ever was this is when it'sonly downhill from here, right
he's supposed to be surprisingyou.
(06:27):
I mean taking you out to dinnerplanning dates.
Um, listening to what you said,the over other girls, houses
and and see and kissing andaccidentally routine accident.
he does this insanity, so youhave no business getting
involved with a man that'salready treating you like this.
(06:47):
As Allison said, it's downhillfrom there.
Let's do another.
Sorry, sweetie, allison didn'tdig deep enough.
Ladies, I'm digging deep.
Speaker 2 (06:57):
Use those claws, I'm using those claws.
Speaker 1 (07:00):
Okay, yeah, day one is the best day.
Speaker 2 (07:06):
Well, day four, he was already on Right.
Speaker 1 (07:07):
Right, I mean, is the best day Well, day four, he was
already on Right.
Right, I mean, I can't.
Speaker 2 (07:10):
Okay.
Speaker 1 (07:10):
Shouldn't even be with somebody like that.
Okay, looking for advice on howto ask my husband to share his
location on his phone with me.
Backstory he has had an affair.
Well, he likes to pay forservices.
Oy, these are the worst kind.
And I found out very early inour marriage.
He says he stopped and I havetried to forgive.
(07:34):
But I feel I could get over itmore if I saw his location and
wasn't panic stricken on wherehe was all the time.
Also, I know if I ask that hewill become very defensive and
just say no.
So I'm looking for ways to askwithout just flat out telling
(07:54):
him it's because I don't trusthim.
Oh, there's a lot to go overhere.
Okay, so first, he's had anaffair and he likes to pay for
services.
So let's say that this is, youknow, hookers, or even, if it's
that, what's that web page?
Only fans that's included hereand he got caught.
(08:16):
Okay, and he started this atthe beginning.
We don't know how long she'sbeen married to him, but he's
been doing this.
We full well know he was doingthis before they were married.
She said that she found out atthe beginning of the marriage.
But this isn't something thatjust miraculously, ladies starts
because he walked down an aisleand signed a piece of paper.
(08:38):
Okay, this has been embedded inthis man for a very long time.
Here's what I have to say,allison, in case you're
wondering.
In case you're wondering In caseyou're wondering when this man
got caught by you and youforgave him, which you must be
an angel on this earth, becauseI would have never forgave him
(09:00):
and I would have been down thedivorce.
Speaker 2 (09:02):
You should have negotiated your terms, new terms
and conditions at that point Ifyou wanted to go there.
Speaker 1 (09:07):
Okay, but even if she did, even if she did, he should
be more than willing To giveyou his phone.
This should not even be Afterhe got caught doing this and he
is the guilty one and you twoobviously Discuss that you are
going to Stay together and he isgoing guilty one and you two
obviously discuss that you aregoing to stay together and he's
(09:29):
going to try and redeem himselfin this relationship and
marriage.
He should be doing everythingand anything to make you feel
comfortable and secure and thathe has stopped doing these
affairs.
Now.
If that's looking at his phone,if that's putting a tracker on
(09:53):
his car, if that's calling him,uh, whenever you feel like it to
check up on him, and he has topick up the phone, whatever some
way to live.
Speaker 2 (10:04):
could you imagine living in this?
Okay, but yeah, no, and Iunderstand way to live.
Could you imagine living inthis?
Okay, but no.
Speaker 1 (10:06):
And I understand that .
But guess what?
Also, you should be in marriagecounseling.
That should be a given.
There should be no if, ends orbuts about that.
But if all these things weredone, I would imagine I'll never
know, because I will never givea man that opportunity.
But I would imagine aftercertain things were proven, the
(10:29):
trust does come back.
I do have girlfriends that havestayed with a man that was one
time had an affair and theyworked through it, through
therapy and and different things, and have have been very
successful.
So but but there were thingsthe man had to do in the
(10:53):
beginning to make you feel likeyou would.
He would never do it again, toprove himself.
So to say, that has to be done.
The trust has to be earned back.
It's not just given backbecause you decide to stay.
Speaker 2 (11:08):
It's almost like you're starting from day one
again.
Speaker 1 (11:11):
Worse, because day one you weren't having an affair
.
Imagine starting a relationshipwith a man where he's already
cheated you.
That was this one that we justwent through right before.
That was this where she startedbecoming exclusive with him and
he's already cheated on herwith a week.
You could fully see thatdoesn't work.
(11:31):
So this man should be earningback his trust.
Now the sad thing is I'mlooking for ways to ask without
flat out telling him, because Idon't trust him and I know he's
going to say no.
Why is he saying no?
Why can't you look through thisman's phone?
Let me tell you something Atany point or given time, any man
(11:52):
I'm dating, that I'm dating,can full well look through my
phone.
You look through my entirephone.
You look on my social media,you can look anywhere, because
I'm not doing anything shady andeverything I'm doing.
Speaker 2 (12:02):
I'm telling you what I mean, that tells you all you
need to know, right, the factthat you're just, you don't
trust him.
There's a reason why you don'ttrust him.
I mean, you have to listen tothat, yeah yeah.
Speaker 1 (12:12):
So there is no way for this for this anonymous
person.
Sweetheart, there is no way towalk around the mulberry bush,
and you know, ask him withoutasking to see his phone.
This is what you should besaying to him.
You cheated on me who knows howmany times.
You state more than once, forhow many years.
(12:35):
Right, I want to see your phone.
If you want me to stay in thismarriage, I want to be able to
see your phone to make me feelsecure, since you've cheated for
years Done.
And if he says no and getsangry, it means he's still doing
it.
Speaker 2 (12:52):
Unfortunately there are better men out there.
I know it's hard to disentangleyourself from this and legally,
and all that right, no,absolute headache but um, yeah,
this is not it no, it'sdefinitely not it.
Speaker 1 (13:08):
And what a way to live, yeah, and, and here's the
thing, you're stuck between arock and a hard place, because
unless he does these things,such as lets you see his phone,
uh, track him, you know, call tomake you feel secure, you're
never going to trust him again.
So you're going to be in thestate of panic, of fight or
(13:30):
flight perpetually, because he'sgoing to start blaming it on
you and saying oh, you're crazy.
You know I'm not cheating onyou and you know you just want
to see my phone and keep tabs onit.
It should be no problem.
It should be absolutely noproblem.
Speaker 2 (13:47):
She can offer up her phone and all that kind of thing
.
Right, absolutely.
Speaker 1 (13:51):
So, ladies, that is our fishbowl for the day and our
words of wisdom.
Speaker 2 (13:57):
Yeah, so please write to us at datingdaycare podcast
at gmail um give us yourquestions.
Yeah, we'll give you our answer.
Speaker 1 (14:07):
Absolutely.
We'll do them anonymously, likewe always do.
But if you have a question thatyou uh need help with and want
to ask, or you could come to ourfacebook group dating daycare
on facebook request.
Speaker 2 (14:21):
We will let you in.
Speaker 1 (14:23):
Yeah, we'll let you in and you can write your
questions there, all right,thank you.
Thank you and have a nice week.
Oh, and if you have any Dick ofthe Weeks, let us know.
We'd love to hear Dick of theWeeks stories.
Speaker 2 (14:36):
It's been a while.
It's been a while.
We know there are plenty ofdogs out there.
Oh yeah, they're out there.
Speaker 1 (14:40):
They're out there, ladies.
All right, we will see you soonand thank you for watching our
podcast.
We appreciate it.
Thank you, bye.
Speaker 2 (14:48):
Bye.
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