Dichotomy with Shannon

What happens when a woman publicly calls herself “slutty”… and means it with love, power, and pride? You get today’s viral-worthy episode of Dichotomy with Shannon, where I sit down with the audacious and electric Marta Kagan—aka @bemarvelus—a sensuality coach on a mission to reclaim erotic aliveness as sacred, powerful, and shame-free.

We get real about:

• Why women are still slut-shamed in 2025 (yes, still)
• How pa...

Ever accidentally sext your cousin? Yeah… that happened. 😳
Welcome to the most unfiltered, wine-fueled, laugh-till-you-snort episode of Dichotomy with Shannon yet.

This time, the mic flips. My cousin and future COO of True Self Revolution—Katie Beth McVey Georgie—put me in the hot seat with 73 questions, Vogue-style (but with more wine and fewer NDAs).

From favorite curse words to dark funeral humor, childhood dreams to ...

Ever feel like you're stuck in a loop of overgiving, hiding, or playing small—without knowing why?
In this episode of Dichotomy with Shannon, we dive into the shadow side—the parts of you you've exiled, ignored, or shamed... and why doing shadow work and reclaiming them is the secret to true embodiment, unshakable self-worth, and even divine purpose.
✨ The truth? Your shadow isn’t the enemy. It's the buried gold. And...

Some people were only comfortable when you were struggling.
The second you got boundaries, confidence, or clarity—they got quiet, critical, or fake supportive.

In this episode of Dichotomy with Shannon, I’m breaking down the 4 types of people who liked you better broken—and why you need to stop explaining yourself to them immediately.

👀 We’re talking about:

• The Unwilling Witness 👎
• The Conditional Supporter ⚠️
• The Legac...

I Got Called High Maintenance—and I Took It As a Compliment

For years, I tried to be the “cool girl”—easygoing, chill, low maintenance.
I thought that would make me more lovable. But what it actually did was make me invisible.

In this episode of Dichotomy with Shannon, I’m breaking down the lie that women should be easy to please, quiet, and low maintenance in order to be chosen—and the truth that high maintenance is just...

If you've ever felt like too much in a relationship—clingy, constantly needing reassurance, overanalyzing every text, or terrified they’ll leave at any second—you’re not crazy.
You might just have anxious attachment.

In this episode, I break down what anxious attachment really is, how it shows up even when you’re pretending to be “chill,” and how I personally healed the patterns that left me jealous, needy, insecure, and...

Everyone talks about healing like it’s some glamorous glow-up — but let’s be real: breaking generational patterns can feel like it’s breaking you.

In this raw, powerful episode, Shannon gets honest about what it really looks like to be the first in your family to do the work. You’ll learn the science of healing, the spiritual meaning of your wilderness, and why your grief is actually evidence of growth.

You’ll walk away with...

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I built a supplement line, a book, a journal, and now an academy—without money, support, or a cheering section. In fact? The closest people in my life tried to break me every step of the way.

This episode is for the woman who feels like she’s too broke, too alone, or too late. I’m here to remind you: You don’t need a trust fund or a team of yes...

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I was showing up. Doing the work. People-pleasing like a pro. Performing like my life depended on it.
But behind all of that? I was unraveling. And no one knew—not even me.Why Healing Isn’t Working for You (And What Actually Will)
✨ Stop self-betrayal. Start becoming who you really are.

You’ve done all the things—therapy, mindset work, jo...

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Let’s talk about money—but not the way the world or religion taught you.

In this episode, I’m breaking down the real reason you're stuck in lack (and it’s not because you don’t work hard enough). We’re going deep into the psychology, spirituality, and energetics of wealth—plus the biblical truth that most people skip over.

👇 Inside this episode:...

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What if your orgasm wasn’t just about pleasure… but about power, purpose, and coming home to your truest self?

In this raw and radically real episode of Dichotomy with Shannon, we unpack the science, soul, and shame surrounding female pleasure — and why it’s literally a life force.

You’ll learn:

• What actually happens in your brain + body durin...

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In this episode of Dichotomy with Shannon, we’re tearing down the guilt gospel and digging into what Jesus actually said in Mark 11:24:

“Whatever you ask for in prayer, believe that you have received it, and it will be yours.”

That’s not a verse about begging. That’s about embodiment. That’s manifestation. That’s the Law of Assumption before it...

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If chaos feels more familiar than peace... this episode is for you.
In this episode of Dichotomy with Shannon, we’re unpacking why so many people—especially those raised in survival mode—keep choosing partners, friends, and even family dynamics that mirror their unhealed past. I’m breaking down the difference between real connection and the...

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In the very first episode of Dichotomy with Shannon, I open up about the deepest loss I’ve ever faced, losing my sister and what I have learned through the heartache, and how I   was forced to grow and although death happened, im grateful for the lesson.

If you’ve ever lost someone, or felt like your world fell apart and you had to rebuild it b...