19. Divine vs Toxic Masculinity and Femininity | The Systems that Keep Women Stuck in Doing it All

Host Ronnie Calla and guest Tamara Rose expose the hidden systems keeping women exhausted and overworked. From benevolent sexism to weaponized incompetence that forces women to manage everything, this episode reveals how patriarchal conditioning traps women in endless doing. And, how the recent 3.5% peaceful protest threshold signals the patriarchy's collapse.

If you've ever been the only one who "sees" what needs doing, felt like you're managing a grown man like a child, or wondered why you're always the one carrying the mental load, this one's for you.

🎬 IN OUR EPISODE:

00:00 Exploring the Divine Feminine and Receiving

12:57 The Patriarchal Crumble and Collective Action

26:17 Understanding Divine and Toxic Masculinity

33:33 Benevolent Sexism and Its Impact

38:42 Expectations in Relationships

43:29 Weaponized Incompetence and Male Entitlement

48:22 Making Choices for Change

50:39 Tending to the Nervous System

54:37 Honoring the Divine Feminine

01:01:38 Clearing Old Patterns for New Beginnings

🌟 Episode Highlights:

• How the 3.5% peaceful protest rule proves empires crumble fast
• Why men are drawn to liberated women but want them to act like their mothers
• The reality of weaponized incompetence in modern relationships
• The difference between toxic masculine "doing" and divine masculine action

💫 You'll Learn:

• How benevolent sexism keeps women "protected" but powerless
• Why sleep, meditation, and honoring your "no" are revolutionary acts
• How to empty your cup of patriarchal conditioning to fill it with divine power
• The 4 quadrants of divine/toxic femininity and masculinity
• The three-pillar system: nervous system work, clearing core beliefs, accessing divine capacities

🔮 Big Shifts:

• Understanding that patriarchy makes men the center of the universe (even in your own life)
• Moving from "I don't know how" to "I don't care enough to learn" awareness
• Shifting from doing everything to conducting the orchestra of your life
• Embracing your sensitivities as divine gifts, not weaknesses to fix

Perfect for:

🔥 Women exhausted from carrying the mental load in relationships

🌿 Anyone ready to understand how patriarchy operates in daily life

👑 People who want to support the divine feminine uprising happening globally

💖 Women learning to receive without guilt or shame

🌟 Anyone deconstructing toxic relationship dynamics and stepping into their power

🔗 CONNECT WITH RONNIE

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https://www.thebeyondhumanmethod.com/

https://www.linkedin.com/in/ronnie-calla222/ 

https://www.tiktok.com/@ronnie.calla 

🔗 CONNECT WITH TAMARA

https://www.thebeyondhumanmethod.com/

https://www.linkedin.com/in/tamara-l-rose/

https://www.tiktok.com/@ms.tamararose 

📚 RESOURCES:

20 Day Meditation Series: Build a sustainable meditation practice that grows with you. Start with just 5 minutes per day and work your way up to 20 minutes, increasing by just 1 minute each day: https://www.thebeyondhumanmethod.com/course/20-to-20-meditation-series 

Take the Divine Feminine Archetype Quiz - Uncover your authentic divine feminine expression and the blocks keeping you from fully accessing your divinity: https://www.thebeyondhumanmethod.com/success-quiz

Schedule a Discovery Session with Ronnie to explore our courses and pathways: https://calendly.com/ronnie-calla/20min