Beyond Drop-off Day: The Parent's Role in College Transition Success

Navigating the transition from high school to college represents a significant milestone requiring emotional, academic, and logistical preparation. Supporting students through this journey involves balancing guidance with independence, especially when adapting to the unique culture of East Coast institutions.

• Listen and validate feelings when students express homesickness or anxiety
• Help set realistic expectations about the adjustment period
• Allow students to take ownership of their journey while providing guidance when needed
• Create structured schedules to support time management in the new academic environment
• Understand that college professors expect greater student responsibility
• Encourage utilization of academic resources like study groups and support centers
• Support exploration of different academic interests and potential major changes
• Promote campus involvement through clubs and organizations to build community
• Foster open communication about roommate relationships and social dynamics
• Teach practical life skills like budgeting, laundry, and cooking before departure
• Emphasize health and wellness through proper nutrition, sleep, and stress management

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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:11):
Welcome back to the East Coast College Admissions
Podcast.
I'm your host, hilpatra, and intoday's episode I'm diving into
a crucial aspect of the collegeexperience transitioning from
high school to college.
For many families, thistransition is a significant
milestone.
It's not just about packing upbelongings and sending your
child off to school.

(00:32):
It's about preparing both ofthem and yourself for the
emotional, academic andlogistical changes that comes
with this new chapter.
In this episode, I'll walk youthrough the best ways you, as a
parent, can support your childthrough this transition,
especially when it comes to EastCoast colleges, where the
culture and expectations canvary from what your child may be

(00:54):
used to.
Let's begin with the emotionalside of the transition.
For many students, leaving homefor college can be an exciting,

(01:16):
yet overwhelming experience.
It's a time of newfoundindependence, but it also often
comes with feelings ofhomesickness, anxiety and stress
.
As a parent, it's important toacknowledge these emotions and
support your child through them,and here are ways you can help

(01:39):
Listen and validate theirfeelings.
When the child shares concernsor expresses homesickness, avoid
minimizing these feelings.
Instead, listen and offerencouragement.
Let them know that it's okay tofeel nervous or uncertain about
this big change.
Point number two help them setrealistic expectations.
Starting college is a hugeadjustment.

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Encourage your child to givethemselves grace as they figure
out new routines, meet newpeople and navigate their
coursework.
It's all part of their process.
Last but not the least, astough as it may be, allow your
child to take ownership of theirnew journey.
This is an important time forthem to grow, and that includes

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making decisions on their own.
Resist their urge to fix thingsand instead be making decisions
on their own.
Resist their urge to fix thingsand instead be there for
guidance when they need it.
Transitioning academically canbe one of the most challenging
aspects of moving from highschool to college.
East Coast colleges, known fortheir rigorous academic
environment, often requirestudents to adapt to new ways of

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learning, thinking and timemanagement.
Here are a few strategies foracademic success.
Point number one help themcreate a steady schedule.
Many students struggle withtime management when they first
enter college.
Helping your child set up asteady schedule, especially for

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the first few weeks, can elevatesome of the pressure.
Encourage them to stay ahead ofdeadlines and make time for
studying, socializing andself-care.
Point number two understand thedifferent expectations.
Academic expectations incollege are much different from
high school.
Professors expect students totake more responsibility for

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their learning, so help yourchild understand that it's okay
to seek help from theirprofessors or teaching
assistants when needed.
Being proactive is key tosuccess in college.
Point number three Many EastCoast colleges offer study
groups or academic supportcenters that help students
adjust.

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Encourage your child to seek outthese resources and support,
and they should also connectwith their peers academically.
Group study can be a great wayto learn new material and share
insights.
Last but not the least, supportthem in finding their academic
passion.
Starting college is a time forself-discovery, and your child

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will likely explore severalmajors before settling on one.
Be patient with them as theynavigate this process and remind
them that it's normal to changedirection along the way.
Now, another big part of thetransition to college is the
social adjustment.
While academic success isimportant, social connections

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are key to creating awell-rounded college experience.
Here are a few tips forsupporting your child's social
transition.
Point number one encouragecampus involvement.
One of the best ways to helpyour child feel more at home on
campus is to encourage them toget involved.
East Coast colleges, from largeuniversities to smaller liberal

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arts colleges, offer a wealthof student organizations, clubs
and activities, whether it's asports club, cultural group or
social governance.
Involvement in campus lifehelps students make friends,
develop new skills and feelconnected to their school
community.

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Point number two foster opencommunication.
Social life in college can bedifferent from high school,
especially in terms of livingarrangements.
Students may be sharing dormrooms or apartments with
roommates they've never metbefore.
Encourage your child to be opento new experiences and people.
However, let them know it'sokay to have difficult

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conversations with roommates orpeers if issues arise.
Last but not the least, createhealthy social boundaries.
While socializing is important,it's also essential to find
balance.
Encourage your child to taketime for themselves, especially
when they feel overwhelmed.
Remind them that their mentalhealth matters and they should

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take breaks when necessary.
Now let's look at managing lifeoutside of the classroom.
Moving away from home meansyour child will be responsible
for a variety day-to-day taxthat they may not have had to
deal with before.
Here are some key areas toconsider.
Point number one financialresponsibility.

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East Coast colleges can beexpensive, and learning how to
manage a budget is a big stepfor students.
Help your child create a budgetfor things like food, textbooks
, personal expenses and socialactivities, encouraging them to
track their spending and savewhen possible is a great way to
build financial literacy.

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Point number two laundry andcooking skills.
You will be surprised how manystudents struggle with basic
life skills like doing laundryor cooking meals.
Before your child heads off tocollege, teach them these skills
.
A few simple lessons in mealprep or laundry can make a big

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difference when they are ontheir own.
Last but not the least, healthand wellness.
College can be stressful and achild may face new pressures
that can impact their health.
Encourage them to maintain ahealthy routine by getting
enough sleep, eating nutritiousmeals and staying active.

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Let them know that it's okay toseek support if they need it,
whether it's through campuscounseling services or simply
taking a break.
And that's a wrap for today'sepisode of the East Coast
College Admissions Podcast.
Transitioning from high schoolto college is a big change, but
with the right tools, supportand mindset, your child will not

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only survive but thrive duringthis exciting new chapter.
If you're navigating thecollege admissions process and
want more advice on how tosupport your child, visit us at
wwweastcoastadmissionscom oremail us at admissions at
eastcoastadmissionscom for moreguidance.
Thank you for tuning in and, asalways, I'm Cleo Badra, wishing

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you and your child a smooth andsuccessful transition to
college life.