This conversation explores the topic of parentification, which is when a child is given responsibilities that are not developmentally appropriate for them. Adri Rodriguez and Adriana Alejandre share their personal experiences with parentification and discuss how cultural values, such as marianismo and machismo, contribute to this phenomenon. They also touch on the impact of parentification on mental health and the importance of setting boundaries and finding balance.
The conversation highlights the varying experiences of parentification and emphasizes the need for validation and support for those who have been parentified. The conversation explores the impact of parentification on relationships within a family, both positive and negative. It discusses how parentification can show up at different stages of life and how it can affect siblings and parents. The conversation also delves into the role of boundaries in breaking the cycle of parentification and the challenges of individuation.
Adriana shares her personal journey of healing and the importance of education, community support, and understanding in the healing process.
Guest Bio
Adriana Alejandre is a Trauma Therapist, Consultant and Speaker from Burbank, California, who has a Masters in Clinical Psychology from Pepperdine University. Adriana owns her own bilingual group practice, EMDR and Trauma Therapy focusing on wellness for Black, Brown and Indigenous people. She is also the founder of internationally recognized, Latinx Therapy, a directory and bilingual podcast that destigmatizes mental health myths & highlights Latine mental health professionals.
Links
- Find a Therapist or a Mental Health/Wellness Therapist https://latinxtherapy.com/
- https://www.instagram.com/latinxtherapy/
Chapters
00:00 Defining Parentification
08:06 The Experience of Parentification
14:29 Different Manifestations of Parentification
18:44 Cultural Values and Parentification
23:18 The Impact and Challenges of Parentification
25:19 The Impact of Parentification on Family Relationships
32:20 Breaking the Cycle: Setting Boundaries and Personal Growth
36:30 Navigating Grief and Healing
47:20 The Importance of Education and Community Support
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