Abuse is Abuse: Why Labels Don't Help (even if they are a psychopath or narcissist)

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Coercive Control | Domestic Violence | Childhood Trauma | Childhood Abuse | Healing after Abuse | Healing after Trauma 

In this very first episode of Escape the Paradox, I explore a common misconception: the idea that labeling an abuser—whether as a narcissist, psychopath, or anything else—somehow explains, or excuses, their behavior.

Abuse isn’t about a diagnosis; it’s about actions.

We dive into why focusing on labels can shift the conversation away from what really matters: the harm caused and the patterns of control, intimidation, and manipulation that define abuse. 

Join me as we uncover the truths about abuse, discuss why labels often fall short, and refocus our attention on moving forward.

Sources

Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (5th ed.) – American Psychiatric Association (2013).

Link: https://doi.org/10.1176/appi.books.9780890425596 

For more information and access to Hare’s checklist used extensively in forensic psychology to evaluate personality traits and behaviors associated with psychopathy, visit here: https://arc.psych.wisc.edu/self-report/psychopathy-checklist-revised-pclr/ and download the checklist. 

Welcome to Escape the Paradox, a podcast dedicated to exposing and exploring the truth about coercive control, emotional abuse, and the long-term trauma caused by abusive relationships.

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