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What if the version of yourself you think is real is actually just a story you created to survive? The identity you've been living from might feel like the truth, but it could be the very thing blocking your blessings. In this episode, we're unpacking the trap of false identity: how your brain reinforces old patterns, why we cling to identities that no longer serve us, and the subconscious programming that happens in chil...

The breakthrough is still yours. You didn't lose it. You didn't fumble it. You may have just delayed it for a bit. This episode is for the woman who sabotaged something important and needs to know how to get back on track without spending weeks, or months,  in shame. We're talking about what to do AFTER you've already blown it up, picked the fight, ghosted the opportunity, or stopped showing up. You'll lear...

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You keep dating the same person in a different body. Different name, different story, same exhausting patterns. This episode is for the woman who's self-aware enough to see the pattern but doesn't know how to actually break the cycle. We're diving into why your nervous system chooses familiar over safe, how your subconscious blueprint runs your love life, and the identity work that sto...

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When you expect good things, you become open to receiving them. You notice opportunities. You stay aligned. You show up differently. Your energy shifts from survival mode to overflow. These affirmations will help you start your day expecting miracles, breakthroughs, and blessings. How you start your day matters. The first thoughts you think, the energy you step into, that shapes ...

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Your nervous system may be blocking the very overflow you are working so hard to create. If you keep finding yourself stuck in cycles of pushing, achieving, and then crashing, or watching things fall apart right when they start working, this episode explains why. If episode 051 helped you recognize that you are living in survival mode, this conversation shows you what your body is doing and why strug...

This episode is for the woman who looks successful on paper but feels exhausted underneath...the one who can't rest without guilt, sabotages good things when they get too good, and makes every decision from fear instead of desire. If you're constantly in "responsible mode" but secretly exhausted from always being on high alert, this one's for you.

In this Sunday Coffee Chat, I'm breaking down 5 signs yo...

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If you're journaling everything in one place, you might be keeping yourself stuck without realizing it. In this episode, Ashlee breaks down why she keeps two separate journals - one for becoming work (vision, gratitude, identity) and one for emotional processing (triggers, venting, heavy stuff). She shares the neuroscience behind emotional contamination, negativity bias, and how mixing th...

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If you feel like you are doing the work but still living in survival mode, this episode will resonate. If you know what needs to change, but your days still feel reactive, heavy, or disconnected from the life you desire, this conversation is for you. This episode is for the woman who is healing, rebuilding self trust, and ready to move from survival mode into overflow without adding more press...

The women before us didn't try to control the future. They covered it. And that same authority lives with you. This episode is for the woman who's been thinking ahead, preparing for what's next, and wanting to move into her next season with intention instead of pressure.

This conversation offers a different way to relate to the future, one rooted in faith, lineage, and trust. We talk about how to stop worrying about w...

Every December, the pressure ramps up to reinvent, rebrand, and become someone new. This episode is for the woman who wants growth and expansion but doesn't feel called to scrap her life or identity just because the calendar is changing. The one who's wondering if starting over is really the answer, or if there's another way to move forward.

This Sunday Coffee Chat explores why your next level doesn't require a r...

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When you’re in a season of change, it’s not always more advice you need. It’s perspective that helps you feel less alone in what you’re thinking, questioning, and becoming. This episode is for the woman who can feel herself evolving and wants support that feels steady, thoughtful, and grounded, not overwhelming or trendy.

In this short bonus episode, I share a curated list of books that hav...

Grief doesn’t always show up as sadness. Sometimes it looks like fatigue, disconnection, irritability, or the sense that you’re moving through life more slowly than usual. This episode is for the woman who’s carrying grief of any kind and wants permission to feel it without rushing herself to be “okay.”

This Sunday Coffee Chat is an honest conversation about holding space for grief without trying to fix it, explain it, or move past ...

When life feels heavy, overwhelming, or emotionally crowded, it’s hard to move forward with clarity or peace. This episode is for the woman who can feel herself holding too much, mentally, emotionally, or spiritually, and needs a way to release without overthinking it.

You’ll be gently led through a visualization where you lay down what you’ve been carrying and release it into a flowing river, symbolizing surrender and trust. This i...

Preparing for a new chapter often has less to do with doing more and more to do with releasing what you’ve been carrying. This episode is for the woman who’s been praying for clarity, peace, or forward movement and can sense that something in her life, mind, or habits needs to shift before the next door opens.

This Sunday Coffee Chat explores what it really means to pack light as you move into a new season. We talk about emotional w...

This episode is a reminder of who you are and who God has been in your life. When the mind gets stuck replaying fear, doubt, and worst-case scenarios, especially in seasons of transition, it can slowly reshape how you see yourself and how much you trust your own footing. That negativity loop doesn’t just affect your thoughts. It touches your confidence, your identity, and your sense of safety moving forward.

This conversation invite...

Before you rush into the next season, it helps to pause and actually see who you became along the way. This episode is for the woman who wants to reflect without turning it into self-criticism or pressure to be better, different, or further along.

This Sunday Coffee Chat guides you through a set of identity-centered reflection questions that help you notice your growth beyond outcomes and milestones. We focus on patterns, shifts, an...

A word of the year can quietly shape how you move, decide, and respond long after the excitement of a new season fades. This episode is for the woman who wants a sense of direction that feels supportive and personal, not performative or tied to unrealistic expectations.

We talk through a grounded way to choose a word that reflects who you’re becoming and how you actually want to live day to day. This conversation helps you look back...

If the end of the year has you feeling tense, reflective, or questioning yourself, this conversation is for you. The kind of questioning that shows up when you start replaying the year, wondering about the choices you made, the ones you didn’t, and what all of it means moving forward.

This Sunday Coffee Chat is a reminder that December doesn’t get to define your worth or rush your becoming. We talk about the pressure many women feel...

How you start your day shapes how you move through everything that follows. This episode is for the woman who wants her mornings to feel more intentional, grounded, and supportive instead of rushed or reactive.

This is a guided Morning Gratitude Recalibration designed to help you settle into your body and shift your mindset before the day asks anything of you. You’ll move through affirmations that support presence, softness, and awa...