Faking It with Ariel and Morgan

Faking It with Ariel and Morgan

Two intimacy coordinators reveal what actually happens behind the scenes of film and TV's most iconic intimate moments. Full description: We're Ariel and Morgan, two professional intimacy coordinators who choreograph sex scenes for film and TV. We pull back the curtain on how intimacy is really made—from the awkward logistics to the craft that makes it look effortless. On Faking It, we break down: Heated Rivalry: the back arch, the bed share, and why good gay sex wins over hockey The hottest no-contact scene in cinema history (Secretary) Why Brokeback Mountain's tent scene needed more lube The invisible Buffy sex scene that required flawless pantomime Barbarella's orgasm machine PEN15's honest depiction of teenage arousal What you'll get: Behind-the-scenes secrets, absurd Hollywood stories, real talk about love and sex, and a front-row seat to the art of pretending. New episodes every week. Subscribe now so you don't miss the next breakdown. Where to listen Spotify | Apple Podcasts | YouTube | All podcast platforms Follow us Instagram & TikTok: @FakingItThePod Patreon: bonus episodes and scene requests Website: FakingItThePod.com Hashtags #IntimacyCoordinator #FilmBreakdown #SexScenesInFilm #Podcast #FakingItPodcast

Episodes

July 1, 2026 52 mins

Steven Canals, co-creator of Pose, breaks down the historic Pray Tell and Ricky love scene from Season 2, Episode 8, "Revelations." Two intimacy coordinators discuss.

This Pride Month, we're joined by Emmy-nominated and Peabody Award-winning creator and showrunner Steven Canals to break down one of the most intimate scenes from POSE.

Together, we discuss how the scene evolved from script to screen, the challenges of directing intimac...

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Sense8's cluster orgy from the finale special is one of the most ambitious intimacy sequences ever filmed. Two intimacy coordinators break down the choreography, consent, and craft.

This week, we have a BONUS EPISODE! Ariel and Morgan dive into the legendary cluster orgy from the Sense8 finale special and unpack why it remains one of the most ambitious intimacy sequences ever filmed.

From choreography and consent practices to lightin...

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This episode we're breaking down one of the most ambitious sex scenes ever put on television. We're diving into Sens8, the Wachowskis' globe-spanning Sci-Fi drama that somehow turns a psychic orgy into one of the most sensual scenes we've ever covered.

From gym workouts and hot tubs to morning cuddles and group intimacy across continents, we're unpacking what makes this sequence so memorable and why it still feels unlike anything el...

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Dicks: The Musical has a twin incest sex scene scored like an opera. Two intimacy coordinators break down the unhinged A24 musical.

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Megan Thee Stallion. Nathan Lane. Puppet penises. A gay sex scene between twins that somehow becomes a camp masterpiece.

Dicks: The Musical is absurd, offensive, and genuinely hilarious. We go behind the scenes that are not safe for work, unless your work is really cool.

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    Secretary (2002) has the sexiest no-contact scene in film history. Two intimacy coordinators break down the BDSM cult classic that still sparks debate.

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    Maggie Gyllenhaal. James Spader. A desk. And a worm that somehow becomes the hottest moment in the movie.

    Secretary changed how Hollywood talked about kink on screen. But does it hold up? Ariel and Morgan break down the iconic, controversial, and deeply weird BDSM fil...

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    Brokeback Mountain changed queer cinema forever. Two intimacy coordinators break down the tent scene, the reunion, and what works.

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    Brokeback Mountain changed queer representation forever. It also left us with a lot of questions about how these scenes actually function.

    From the infamous first tent scene to the long-awaited reunion, we break down what's working, what's not, and why these moments feel so tense without ...

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    PEN15 captures the chaos of discovering desire with no roadmap. Two intimacy coordinators break down the painfully accurate first arousal scene.

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    PEN15 (Season 1, Episode 3: "Ojichan") is one of the most honest depictions of first arousal ever put on screen.

    From the very first moment of "wait... what is happening to my body?" to the full spiral of can't-stop-won't-stop self-discovery, this episode captures the chaos,...

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    Buffy and Spike's season 6 sex scenes are messy, chaotic, and logistically confusing. Two intimacy coordinators break down the iconic "Smashed" house scene.

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    The Buffy reboot isn't happening. We're devastated. So naturally, we need to talk about Buffy and Spike in season 6 — where things are darker, messier, and include a whole lot more property damage.

    From literally breaking a house down during sex to invisibl...

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    Barbarella is a sci-fi cult classic where Jane Fonda defeats a villain using an orgasm machine. Two intimacy coordinators break down the chaos.

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    Jane Fonda strips out of a spacesuit in zero gravity. Later, she defeats a villain using an orgasm machine. Yes. Really.

    Barbarella (1968) is one of the most bizarre and brazen films of a generation. Two intimacy coordinators break down how the film uses erotic spectacle, cam...

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    Booksmart proves awkward queer intimacy doesn't need to be polished to be powerful. Two intimacy coordinators and author Brooke M. Haney break it down.

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    This one's about awkward first times. Skinny jeans. Bad geometry. Zero game.

    Ariel and Morgan sit down with intimacy coordinator and author Brooke M. Haney to break down the chaotic, vulnerable, and surprisingly tender hookup scenes from Booksmart — a film that ...

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    Insecure Season 4 has two wildly different intimacy moments: a jealousy-fueled nightmare and a tender reunion. Two intimacy coordinators break down the range.

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    Insecure has range. Chaotic fantasy. Tender reunion. Sometimes in the same season.

    Morgan introduces Ariel (who has never seen the show) to two wildly different intimacy moments from Season 4: one jealousy-fueled nightmare fantasy and one slow-burn reunion that...

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    Heated Rivalry's intimacy coordinator Chala Hunter breaks down how the show's most talked-about scenes got made. Two intimacy coordinators sit down with her.

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    This one's a BIG ONE.

    Ariel and Morgan sit down with intimacy coordinator Chala Hunter, the creative force behind the intimacy work in Heated Rivalry, for a deep dive into how some of the most talked-about scenes on TV actually got made.

    From her early days of le...

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    She's Gotta Have It Season 2 opens with a queer Black intimacy montage that demonstrates how to film a great sex scene. Two intimacy coordinators break down why.

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    Some shows open quietly. Season 2 of She's Gotta Have It opens with a bang — literally.

    Ariel and Morgan break down the iconic simulated sex montage from Season 2, Episode 1, focusing on how lighting, space, and who's in control radically reshape how i...

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    biThe Handmaiden has two of the most iconic sapphic sex scenes in modern cinema. Two intimacy coordinators break down why they still feel transgressive.

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    This episode is a love letter to immaculate choreography, devastating eye contact, and enough sapphic tension to power a small city.

    Ariel and Morgan dive into the two iconic intimacy scenes from Park Chan-wook's The Handmaiden — scenes so explicit, so intentio...

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    Fifty Shades of Grey's Red Room scene promised mainstream BDSM and delivered confusion. Two intimacy coordinators break down why it falls flat.

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    We're kicking off the new year by finally stepping into the Red Room and immediately asking some hard questions.

    In this episode, Ariel and Morgan break down the infamous first Red Room scene from Fifty Shades of Grey. What was supposed to be mainstream BDSM became basically ...

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    Heated Rivalry is the gay hockey romance that set the internet on fire. Two intimacy coordinators break down why the sex scenes feel so different.

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    We heard you. LOUDLY.

    In this very special holiday Bonus Episode, Ariel and Morgan dive headfirst into Heated Rivalry, the wildly requested gay hockey romance that dropped on November 28 and immediately set the internet on fire.

    Based on Rachel Reid's beloved romance novels...

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    Carol's motel scene is one of the most breathtakingly intimate moments in queer cinema. Two intimacy coordinators and a filmmaker break down the robe pull.

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    For our holiday special, we're entering The Sapphic Canon.

    Ariel and Morgan are joined by filmmaker and comedy icon Amanda Holland (On the Phone with Ash and Amanda) to dissect one of the most breathtakingly intimate love scenes in queer cinema: the motel moment f...

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    For our holiday special, we’re entering The Sapphic Canon.
    This week, Ariel and Morgan are joined by filmmaker and comedy icon Amanda Holland (On the Phone with Ash and Amanda) to dissect one of the most breathtakingly intimate love scenes in queer cinema: the motel moment from Todd Haynes’ Carol (2015).

    From tension you could pour over pancakes to the robe pull that changed lesbian history, the trio breaks down why t...

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    Twilight's Breaking Dawn honeymoon scene launched a thousand fanfics and zero realistic intimacy expectations. Two intimacy coordinators break down the chaos.

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    Marking the end of hoa hoa hoa season, we finally did it. We tackled the honeymoon scene: the headboard-shattering, pillow-exploding, furniture-destroying moment that launched a thousand fanfics and exactly zero realistic intimacy expectations.

    Ariel and Morgan...

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    Love Lies Bleeding treats strength as a love language. Two intimacy coordinators break down Kristen Stewart and Katy O'Brian's raw, charged chemistry.

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    This one's flexing in all the right ways.

    Ariel and Morgan break down the sweaty, gritty, gloriously unhinged intimacy of Love Lies Bleeding. In this film, bodies don't just collide—they transform. From gym-floor lust to desert-heat devotion, they explore how the...

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