May 19, 2025 • 25 mins
The episode opens with Erica's excitement about watching Marvel's Thunderbolts with her family, quickly transforming into a thoughtful exploration of how superhero stories resonate with real-life emotional challenges. Her connection to Yelena's character—particularly around anxiety and dark moments—reveals the often-overlooked therapeutic value of blockbuster films. Beyond mere entertainment, these stories provide mirrors for our own struggles and reminders that everyone needs support during difficult times.
Just as listeners settle into this pop culture discussion, the conversation shifts to Erica's return to fitness after a four-year hiatus. Her determination to help a colleague on their wellness journey stands in stark contrast to the unexpected whirlwind of family emergencies that dominated her week—from children with broken bones and road rash to a smoking car on the freeway. Warren contributes his own misadventures, including a laugh-out-loud story about climbing into a storm drain to rescue his AirPods while bewildered food delivery customers looked on.
What makes Family Therapy uniquely captivating isn't the individual stories but the cousins' ability to find humor and humanity in life's unpredictability. When Erica describes her precious moments of self-care—"I'm not gonna use no brain cells, I'm just gonna sit here and be mindless"—it resonates with anyone who's ever felt stretched too thin by responsibilities. Similarly, Warren's tale of driving a car with a faulty radiator for years speaks to the universal experience of making do despite imperfect circumstances.
Tune in Thursday for our premium episode on meditation and new age practices, where we'll explore how mindfulness helps us navigate life's challenges. Support the show through the link in our show notes to access this exclusive content and help two cousins continue bringing authentic conversations to your podcast feed.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
This episode of Family Therapy contains adult
themes and strong language,mainly from Erica.
Hello Erica.
Speaker 2 (00:19):
Hey Warren, How's it going?
Speaker 1 (00:20):
Good, how are you?
Speaker 2 (00:21):
I'm doing well, thanks.
Speaker 1 (00:22):
Good good.
Speaker 2 (00:23):
What's that?
Speaker 1 (00:24):
intro.
No, just it was, I don't know,trying to be fun, I guess yeah,
there you go, it's always funbut it's, it's.
It's usually me that's thepotty mouth, though I feel like
you haven't really cursed awhole lot on this episode no or
had any adult things to talkabout, or foul language or
anything.
Speaker 2 (00:43):
Yeah, I mean I do drop the F-bomb sometimes you
have, you have, actually, youhave.
But I don't really.
Speaker 1 (00:49):
But I'm the one that's talking shit all the time
.
Speaker 2 (00:51):
Yeah, it's okay, though it's okay.
Speaker 1 (00:54):
We need an applause already.
Oh yeah, For sure.
Speaker 2 (00:58):
Somebody needs to talk shit.
Speaker 1 (01:00):
Oh yeah.
Speaker 2 (01:05):
And that's totally me .
That's definitely what I'll do,yeah so how was your week?
Speaker 1 (01:07):
Good, how was yours?
Speaker 2 (01:08):
It was busy.
I had a lot going on, so yeah.
Speaker 1 (01:14):
Yeah, anything you want to talk about, anything you
want to discuss, anything juicy.
Speaker 2 (01:18):
Yeah, so I did want to mention I did go watch
Thunderbolts.
Speaker 1 (01:22):
Oh, did you.
Yeah?
When, with who?
Speaker 2 (01:24):
A while back, on Mother's Day, we went With who?
So that was like a couple weeksago, with the kids, with my
family.
Speaker 1 (01:31):
Oh, my goodness.
Speaker 2 (01:32):
So yeah, so the boys, we went to go watch it and it
was really good.
Speaker 1 (01:38):
Did you stay for the end scene?
Speaker 2 (01:39):
Yes, both of them, both of them, both of them.
Yeah, have you seen theFantastic Four trailer yet?
Speaker 1 (01:48):
I don't think so.
We're going to watch it today,when we're done here.
Speaker 2 (01:50):
Okay, sounds good you can watch it.
But yeah, so now, because Ithink I mentioned before, my
boys are very big Marvel fansand so we were totally excited
to go watch it.
I really liked Yelena, hercharacterena her character.
Speaker 1 (02:06):
Oh yeah, she's a fan favorite.
Yeah, she really is.
Speaker 2 (02:09):
I loved her personality.
I feel like I could relate withher in certain ways.
You know I'm dealing withanxiety or whatever.
You know.
Speaker 1 (02:18):
And and bob or bobby bob, yeah, yeah and yeah Bob.
Speaker 2 (02:21):
Yeah, and that whole scene too, because my mind goes
so deep sometimes.
Speaker 1 (02:27):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (02:28):
So, and I can like relate with certain things like
how he you know, you go in thesedark places and it's hard to
come out, yeah, and you startbeing crazy, mm-hmm, and it's
like that one person can comeand come for you, which is Elena
.
Speaker 1 (02:45):
Right.
Speaker 2 (02:46):
I don't know if I'm saying her name, right Um, and
she kind of like talked to himlike we're here, we got you you
know and just having thatsupport, I was like damn that's,
I need that yeah.
Speaker 1 (02:58):
That movie has like two like meanings.
You know, like Bob is goingthrough an actual like void,
void like an actual dark being,whatever, and then elena's going
through an actual emotionalvoid right and it's, the movie
is kind of just showing you both, both ends, you know, like both
both aspects, yeah, bothaspects.
Speaker 2 (03:16):
It's perfect.
Yeah, yeah, and because of that, like I felt like um just with
my emotions and and whatnot thatI experienced.
I'm like dang, I could relateand I just it hit.
You know that that those partshit, so it was, it was really
cool and I was like wow, it'spretty good.
I didn't think you would yeahawesome, I'm glad but now I want
(03:37):
to go on this binge where Iwant to watch the avengers and
then I want to kind of watch thestoryline.
I just don't know where to startyeah is the thing, because I've
watched him in the past.
My, my favorite is DoctorStrange.
Um, because I'm more of it, um,I liked spiritual like type
things, and so I, just, like Isaid, I really enjoyed those
(03:58):
movies.
So, um, I need to figure outhow to start watching them and,
like I don't know if it has tobe like an order or yeah, yeah,
yeah.
Speaker 1 (04:07):
Well, that's what.
That's what I'm here for One ofthese days.
I'm planning to break it down,okay, but I'm just trying to
figure out, like the rightoutline, you know, but it's
coming, it's coming, but I'mglad um other than elena and
that, what did you else what?
What else did you like about it?
Speaker 2 (04:25):
um.
The dad is hilarious.
I liked how he's just like oh,david harbour's character.
Speaker 1 (04:32):
Yeah, the russian yeah the um, the, what is it?
The red guardian?
Speaker 2 (04:36):
yes, he is so funny.
Yeah, um, yeah, he's good andyeah david harbour.
Speaker 1 (04:42):
he has a really strong american accent too.
He's good at his Russian accentVery good.
Speaker 2 (04:47):
Yeah, very good.
Oh, so he's not Russian, no,he's American.
Oh wow, he's really good at it,he's good yeah, Yelena and Red
Guardian.
Speaker 1 (04:56):
They're from the Black Widow movie.
Speaker 2 (05:00):
Right, because that's the dad and sister, right, yeah
, right, because that's the dadand sister, right, yeah, yeah,
yeah Of Black Widow, right?
Okay?
Speaker 1 (05:04):
I'm not sure if he's the dad I don't remember.
Speaker 2 (05:07):
I think so.
I only seen it once.
Speaker 1 (05:09):
Oh, okay, yeah but I think so, something like that.
Yeah, because she's like thatfigure.
Speaker 2 (05:14):
Yeah, because she mentioned in the movie like you
left me Like it's been a year,sister, that you know.
So I'm assuming that was.
But but yeah, other than that,um, yeah, I, I think those two
parts that I mentioned as theywere going through those um
challenges, uh, that stuck outthe most to me.
(05:37):
And then the dad, of course, hewas so funny just trying to
build this team, right and then,so they get what he got what
they wanted is.
Did I say that right?
Yeah, um, but it was funnybecause it's like the avengers
and bob oh, yeah, yeah, yeah,yeah, bob is yeah century.
Speaker 1 (05:56):
It was a good movie.
I liked it a lot.
I'm glad you saw it.
You saw it.
I really liked um julia louisedreyfus.
Speaker 2 (06:04):
Or whatever her name is, and I'm horrible with names,
so you're going to have to.
Speaker 1 (06:07):
She's the one that played with the shriek in her
hair.
Speaker 2 (06:11):
Valentina.
Valentina Allegra DeFontaine.
Yes, Okay, yeah, she's reallygood too.
Speaker 1 (06:16):
Valentina Allegra DeFontaine.
She made several cameos alreadyin the MCU.
She made a cameo in BlackPanther 2, Wakanda Forever.
Have you seen this second one?
Speaker 2 (06:27):
Yeah, because those are some really good ones.
It's been a couple yearsbecause I watched them when they
came out on theater.
Yeah, I know Michonne played inBlack Panther, michonne from
the Walking Dead.
I don't know her real name, sothat's her character.
Speaker 1 (06:43):
I love Black Panther dude.
Yes, me too.
I don't know her real name, sothat's her character.
I love Black Panther dude.
Yes, me too.
I don't know who you're talkingabout.
I don't know her name, but Iknow her character.
Speaker 2 (06:48):
She's such a badass.
I love her in the.
Walking Dead and in that movieit was awesome.
She's awesome.
I love her character.
Speaker 1 (06:55):
I love Black Panther, so fucking much yeah, what else
?
Speaker 2 (06:58):
I got back into the gym oh yeah so I've been going,
yeah, with my, my colleague.
So they do like a healthchallenge every time around,
every year around this time Iwork at work.
Yeah, we did not join justbecause I'm don't want to make
friends.
I have one and that's goodenough yeah um.
So she was like, hey, you know,I want to start this health
(07:20):
journey.
And I was like, hey, I've beenwanting to go back to the gym,
so perfect timing.
So I've been trying to.
I've been training her.
Um, she's never worked out,she's never been on a meal plan,
nothing like that.
Speaker 1 (07:33):
So, she, she's doing pretty well oh cool, so you've
met her at the gym um no, I workwith her oh, you work with her
um, but she was talking aboutshe wanted to start her health
journey.
Oh.
Speaker 2 (07:44):
And so I told her you know, I used to do this
previously, so she trusted me tobe her wellness coach.
So that's kind of what we'redoing, right now.
Speaker 1 (07:54):
Okay, so it's like remote, like you're not going to
meet her.
Yeah, we do.
We go to the gym.
Speaker 2 (07:58):
Like we've been going every day.
Oh, okay, sorry, I lost you.
No, okay, okay, okay, okay,cool.
So you met her at the gymalready.
Yeah, so we work together andthen we get off and then you go
change your workout together.
Speaker 1 (08:10):
Okay cool, okay cool.
That's what I meant like youmet her like you met her at the
gym, and you guys worked outokay anyway yeah, no, I thought
you meant like I met her at thegym and then yeah no, I'm, yeah,
I met her at work, I guess.
Okay, and then yeah, that'sfine, okay, cool, that's all,
that's cool.
So how's that going so far?
Speaker 2 (08:25):
It's going pretty good.
Um, yeah, so, being that I usedto work out and really, you
know, kind of like a gym rat, Iguess, um, it's been a while.
It's been actually four yearssince I've been consistent, ever
since I moved to Arizona.
Um, and I think we've mentionedthat before, yeah, it's, it's
been consistent for now.
(08:46):
I think the first two weeks islike very hard to get through,
but we're we're pushing through.
She hasn't given up.
I had a lot of events takeplace last week.
You know, my boys, teenage boysoh my gosh, the friend got in a
in an accident on the bike umpretty much broke his collarbone
(09:09):
.
And then my youngest wrecked hisbike has a bunch of road rash
freaking broke his thumb.
And then my other boy he wasdriving to go get um a
mouthpiece.
And it's hot it's alreadygetting hot here oh yeah um, so
his experimental car, because hehas a couple cars, but his uh
(09:32):
cruiser car, whatever you wantto call it, um overheated and
started smoking on the freeway.
Thank, god he was able to pulloff on the side.
He called me, somebody stoppedto help him, so that was really
nice of them, and so thathappened.
I'm trying to work, I'm tryingto go to the gym.
Speaker 1 (09:54):
Trying to do all that .
Speaker 2 (09:56):
Yeah, trying to do all that, and then we still have
our podcast.
Speaker 1 (09:59):
Podcast to do.
Speaker 2 (10:00):
Yeah, it's been crazy .
So last night was actuallyreally nice because, um, I
didn't have much going on,nobody was home so I just like
took a shower and I just relaxed.
Speaker 1 (10:12):
I was like I'm not gonna do anything.
Speaker 2 (10:14):
I'm not gonna use no brain cells, I'm just gonna sit
here and be mindless.
Speaker 1 (10:19):
Yeah, you gotta take time to just like.
Let erica just recover.
Speaker 2 (10:24):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (10:25):
Recover and just yeah , you can't be stretched too
thin.
Yeah, you know, becauseeventually you know it's
exhausting.
It's exhausting, yeah, it'sexhausting.
Speaker 2 (10:36):
So, but I'm feeling good and refreshed today so
we're good Anything happen withyou?
Speaker 1 (10:42):
I mean no, when I'm driving.
I have the habit of puttingthings when I'm using it, like
my vape, like right here, likein my crotch in my crotch, or
like my phone, like I'll be onmy phone and I'll just like put
it down and then just drive, orlike my coke or my drink or
whatever you know.
But my airpods I put them inand then I put the case down, I
(11:06):
dropped it down on my lap andthen I got out of the.
I got to the house, but out ofthe car and I this is how I lost
my first pair I um got out andthey fell out of the car and I
fell into a drain oh yeah, itwas so bad.
Speaker 2 (11:22):
I was so.
I would have been so sad.
Speaker 1 (11:25):
I was sad for a bit yeah my mind was like gone
through like five scenarios realquick, like Like what am I
going to do?
Speaker 2 (11:32):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (11:33):
But I was delivering food, so I and the drain is
right in front of the house so Iknow they saw me.
Speaker 2 (11:39):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (11:41):
I delivered their food and I parked there.
I was staying there looking.
I could see it in the drain.
It's about like five feet down,so I tried to fish it out with
a stick.
I couldn't do it, it wasimpossible, dang it.
I was in my tropos so Icouldn't climb in there.
Yeah, but I eventually had to.
I pulled it out and that thingwas heavy.
Speaker 2 (12:02):
That grill thing.
Yeah, oh yeah, that was heavy,heavy.
Speaker 1 (12:07):
I twisted my finger trying to get that thing out.
Speaker 2 (12:09):
Yeah, it was stupid but anyway, I climbed in.
I don't know it's stupid.
Oh, so you did get it, yeah,yeah I climbed in and I fished
it out okay it was a little bit.
Speaker 1 (12:18):
It was a little bit, but uh, it took me about a good
seven minutes and then climbedback out again it took me about
a good seven minutes were theywatching you the whole time?
They were because they didn'tget their food.
Speaker 2 (12:32):
Wow yeah.
Speaker 1 (12:33):
And I hit the doorbell and of course they got
the notification that their foodis there.
Speaker 2 (12:38):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (12:39):
And they didn't get their food until.
Speaker 2 (12:40):
I left.
Yeah, they're probably likewhat the hell is this guy doing?
Yeah, exactly.
Speaker 1 (12:43):
That's what I thought too.
Speaker 2 (12:50):
Like what you okay, you know that's what sucks.
People suck these days.
I feel like Right.
Because it's like they couldhave gave you something.
Speaker 1 (12:59):
some tongs it looked like there was a stick in there
that I was using, Like it wasalready in there, Like somebody
had already dropped something inthere and tried to fish it out,
I see.
So there was like some toolsthere already a long stick and a
long pole.
Oh wow.
So I tried, but you know, thecase is so rounded and small
like it's impossible to justfish it out you know?
(13:21):
Yeah, oh my God.
So climbing in there was justthe inevitable thing.
I didn't want to do thatbecause I had no shoes on and it
was a small little area andstill, even even when I was in
there, it was so small to whereI had to like bend my knee, like
I couldn't just bend down.
Yeah, because you're tall, I hadto get in there and squat down
oh my god and I was thinkinglike if I squat down too much,
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my legs gonna get stuck oh mygod, and I'd be like stuck down
there oh my god that would be,even that would be my life.
That would be.
That was probably in the plan.
Speaker 2 (13:54):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (13:55):
That was probably on the agenda.
Speaker 2 (13:57):
Yeah Well, good thing it didn't happen.
Speaker 1 (13:59):
Good thing it didn't happen I stopped it because that
was what was going to happen.
Speaker 2 (14:02):
Yeah, well, that's good.
Speaker 1 (14:04):
But I think that's the only thing that's happened
to me really.
Oh, okay, Just a busy week.
Speaker 2 (14:08):
Yeah, just a busy week yeah.
Busy week.
It's like never ending.
I feel like Never a dull momentin my life for sure let's go
back.
Speaker 1 (14:22):
I want to circle back to your son's car overheating,
uh-huh why.
Speaker 2 (14:37):
Do you know why it did that?
Or well, um, what I'm thinkinghappened is earlier in the day
he went to go wash it, and soit's a, it's an older car, um,
so he went to go wash it and Ithink that, you know, with the
pressure of the wash, I think itjust like undid like a hose
underneath or something, and sowhen he was driving all the
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antifreeze, like I think thathose just got loose and it was
like leaking.
So when he went to go get offthe off-ramp, it just like
started pouring out.
Oh no, so then that's whatcaused it to overheat so the
coolant leaked out from thebottom yeah so I'm assuming what
happened was when he washed hiscar, the hose got loose and so
he was driving around and then,um, I don't know if it was
(15:30):
leaking like since then or what,but thank goodness he was able
to get off the highway.
On the on-ramp he was blockingtraffic because it was hard for
me to get to him, but by thetime I got to him all the
antifreeze was out and hethought that it was the motor,
because he was like the car,just like.
(15:50):
I don't know what he said, itdid, it did something.
It just started smoking.
So he opened the hood and hewas like dang it, like he
thought it was the oil leakingbecause it was just like poured,
like gushed out, like the wholeroad was wet with the
antifreeze, whatever oh no um,so thank goodness it wasn't oil.
And then it smelled like gas andI was like well, is there like
(16:10):
a gas leak?
I'm like freaking out becauseI'm like, get away from the car,
we're gonna blow up, you knowlike all these, oh my gosh, all
these bad yeah, exactly, andhe's like mom, calm down.
You know, like, no, like, um, Idon't think it's a gas, I think
it's oil.
I might have blew the engineand then, um, when we got there,
it was just the antifreeze.
(16:31):
What?
is what we were told.
So I was like, thank god, youknow what.
We were in the middle ofwatching the game and so, um,
and then I was like why do youhave to be so far away?
Like well, he was like 15minutes away.
I'm freaking out because he'slike I'm blocking traffic,
people are honking at me and I'mlike freaking douchebags, like
(16:51):
nobody can get out and help,like you're a kid, you know and
I don't know.
People just suck.
But other than that.
So we got there um, there wasthis guy there with him.
Thank goodness, one person atleast helped.
Um, they pushed the car to theside and then we just had it
towed back home.
And it was so funny because thetow truck driver was like man,
(17:12):
I haven't seen one of these cars.
This is such a cool car andyou're so lucky.
Speaker 1 (17:17):
And I was like, oh my gosh, oh my god, just get it
home.
Yeah, I was like just get ithome, yeah oh yeah, that's I
wouldn't.
I would be like just get ithome, I don't care, just get it
home yeah, he was all pumped sobut um yeah, so we it home.
Speaker 2 (17:31):
Now it's just a matter of getting that hose
fixed and putting someantifreeze back in it.
Speaker 1 (17:36):
Oh man and just go from there.
Speaker 2 (17:38):
But yeah, like I said , it's never a dull moment with
these kids.
I'm just thankful that you knowit's their bikes and their toys
and their car.
Thank God they didn't get in nocrazy major accidents, but
they're just teenage boys beingboys.
They're not out trying to partyand do this and that and
(17:58):
sneaking out, they're justliving their best life which is
what I'm grateful for.
But it's so like it gives meanxiety because I'm like when my
phone rings.
Speaker 1 (18:07):
Yeah, like I said, this generation is something
else.
They have all that plus all thesocial media that's like in
their program, in their brain,or the internet stuff.
It's just like no, these littleangels aren't exactly little
angels.
Speaker 2 (18:23):
Yeah, it's a lot.
Speaker 1 (18:24):
I used to my previous car, my other Kia.
There was something wrong withthe um, what is it?
The radiator that keeps it cool?
Uh-huh, like for years andyears, I would, just I was so
lazy to not get it fixed, Iwould just drive it like that.
So I'd always have to like,even doing door dash and living
here in phoenix, um, I would, mycar's radiator would just it
(18:48):
would leak the coolant and Ijust I forgot why.
There was a reason why I justcouldn't get it fixed, but I
think it was just money, but Iwould have to rely on always
coasting to keep the car cool.
If I was at a stoplight or at atrain, I would have to turn my
car off so it wouldn't overheat.
Wow, because if I sit there ata stoplight for more than like
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three minutes, it'll startgetting hot on on the dashboard
like that little thermometerthing and there are some close
calls where I'm sitting there atlike a, at a stoplight or
something, and the car is likeoverheating and like nobody's
moving and like what the fuck?
this car's gonna start smokingin like two seconds yeah there
was a time when you know, likedriving from new mexico to here
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was very swift because I wasjust you know, you're just
coasting all the way, so my carwould stay cool all the way,
right, um, but then when I wouldcome to like a, like a halt,
like an accident, and the wholefreeways backed up, oh man, and
it's like 120 outside.
I'm like I was like my heart waslike panicking, like my car's
gonna overheat in like twominutes if I don't, like I've
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had it on the on the aches forlike so long like, like, minutes
, minutes like, like.
Oh my god oh, that's scary,scared, you know, like oh never
did, though it never overheatedit never and it still runs
perfectly fine oh good.
I got it fixed eventually, butthere was a time with at least
one or two years.
I would like that was my lifeyeah I've wherever I had to go I
had to make sure I had to makesure I was coasting.
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I can't hit traffic, I can't beat a stoplight, I can't stop
anywhere I didn't give, I meandid that trigger.
It was stressed all kind oh mygosh, all kinds, all kinds.
Speaker 2 (20:28):
I could have been, oh hell no, I would have just
stayed home, I wouldn't havedone nothing, because I would
have been just overstimulated.
I couldn't.
I know because you have to work.
Speaker 1 (20:37):
That was not an option.
Speaker 2 (20:40):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (20:40):
Not an option Well that's good.
So I finally paid up.
I actually didn't pay, Iactually took it in and got the
whole radiator replaced.
It cost at least I.
It was a good.
It was a good amount.
It was a.
It was a couple thousand acouple thousand.
Speaker 2 (21:02):
Oh man.
Speaker 1 (21:02):
I didn't have it in my account.
Speaker 2 (21:04):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (21:05):
I didn't have.
I didn't have at least half ofit.
Speaker 2 (21:07):
Oh, my goodness.
Speaker 1 (21:08):
And um, it was a big amount.
Speaker 2 (21:10):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (21:10):
And the guy wanted me to go for it and I was using a
rental to work.
So I was like, okay, cool, I'llhave that full amount in a
couple days, just give me sometime to dash.
And he's like, no, it needs tobe off my lot now Today.
Today I said I didn't say this,but the guy had a big old
fucking parking lot, big old lot, and my car is this tiny.
Speaker 2 (21:33):
Right.
Speaker 1 (21:33):
And it's in the way.
Speaker 2 (21:35):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (21:35):
Of what?
For two days you have this bigold fucking lot.
Speaker 2 (21:39):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (21:39):
You're making shit up and I'm paying you this big sum
.
At least keep my car in yourlot for two days.
Speaker 2 (21:46):
Yeah, if I'm paying you this big fucking number.
Speaker 1 (21:50):
It's not a courtesy to just you know.
Exactly, leave my car there fora couple days, but no.
So I was like, okay, well, Iguess I'll go for it.
Yeah, I told myself too, Iguess I'll go for it.
I have no money in my account,but I'll just go run my card
yeah and it took it oh, thankgod so I was like okay, cool, I
got my car and all my accountswere gathered, yeah.
(22:12):
So I was like fuck, butwhatever, at least you got it
and yeah yeah people like thatjust I.
Speaker 2 (22:19):
I feel like people that can be considerate or
understanding just karma's goingto bite you in the ass because
people just suck.
And I'm going to say thismultiple times.
Speaker 1 (22:29):
People do suck.
Yeah, they do, they really do Imean they, they, I don't know
it.
Speaker 2 (22:35):
Just it's crazy how our world is.
Nobody wants to help, or it'slike it's an inconvenience to
park a car for two extra days.
But yeah you want to takethousands of dollars you know
that probably didn't even take,yeah it was dumb.
Speaker 1 (22:52):
I knew it was a douchebag from the sound of his
voice and I knew when I gotthere, because it was like half
a mile away, it was just justlike a walk away.
So I was like, okay, I'll beright there.
I guess I'll be right there.
I was unhappy, of course.
Speaker 2 (23:05):
Right.
Speaker 1 (23:05):
And he could tell.
But when I got there he wasn'tthere.
Of course he wasn't there.
Who was there?
His daughter.
Speaker 2 (23:11):
Oh my gosh.
I was like what a fucking pussy.
Yeah, exactly Was it.
It wasn't a big like company,Was it just like a mom and pop
type?
Speaker 1 (23:20):
shop.
No, it was, it was, it was a,but still it's a well-known like
a community place where peopletake their cars.
Speaker 2 (23:26):
Well established.
Speaker 1 (23:27):
Well established in Phoenix, arizona.
Yeah, oh, my gosh Stupid dude.
But, whatever that was yearsago.
Speaker 2 (23:32):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (23:33):
But um, yeah, Thank goodness, that's over with.
But yeah, he just goes back andforth so I think that's about
(23:56):
it, warren.
Speaker 2 (23:58):
We today.
We had a fun conversation.
Speaker 1 (24:02):
I think you know it was good.
It was a good episode.
We talked about thunderbolts,we talked about my airpods, we
talked about our carsoverheating.
We talked about a lot this weekor this episode, so it was good
, yeah, it was really fullepisode.
Speaker 2 (24:17):
Yeah, full of busyness and randomness and just
, uh, yeah, just getting through.
Speaker 1 (24:23):
So all this family therapy, yes um.
Speaker 2 (24:26):
So, on our deep dive, we're gonna talk this thursday
yep this thursday.
Thank you for that.
Um, we are gonna go intotalking about meditation and new
age practices.
Speaker 1 (24:38):
That's a good topic.
Yeah, what it means to us.
What it means to us, how westarted.
Just some stories aboutmeditation and a little bit
about some new age practicesyeah, so it's going to be fun.
Speaker 2 (24:53):
I mean we will provide some good information.
I've experienced well.
Speaker 1 (24:59):
I will talk about my experiences with it, let's say
the juice for the episode.
Speaker 2 (25:04):
I know, I'm so excited.
I'm like can we do it now?
Speaker 1 (25:07):
I'm excited too and I hope you guys can tune in.
It's going to be this Thursdayand it's a premium episode, so
go ahead and hit that supportthe show link in the show notes
and we'll see you Thursday yeah,we greatly appreciate you all
listening.
Speaker 2 (25:22):
Thank you for supporting us always and thanks
for the support.
Speaker 1 (25:25):
Yes, Like I said before, the um, everything that
comes through this podcast goesright back into the production
of the podcast.
So thank you very much.
Your support really does help.
It really does because we'rejust two cousins, just two
cousins, just doing, doing, justdoing our thing yeah, so, yeah,
so, thank you yeah, thank youeverybody.
I appreciate it.
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But with that being said, Ithink we're good to go yeah,
we'll see you next week allrighty.
Bye-bye.
See you thursday.
Bye.
This episode of Family Therapy contains adult
themes and strong language,mainly from Erica.
Hello Erica.
Speaker 2 (00:19):
Hey Warren, How's it going?
Speaker 1 (00:20):
Good, how are you?
Speaker 2 (00:21):
I'm doing well, thanks.
Speaker 1 (00:22):
Good good.
Speaker 2 (00:23):
What's that?
Speaker 1 (00:24):
intro.
No, just it was, I don't know,trying to be fun, I guess yeah,
there you go, it's always funbut it's, it's.
It's usually me that's thepotty mouth, though I feel like
you haven't really cursed awhole lot on this episode no or
had any adult things to talkabout, or foul language or
anything.
Speaker 2 (00:43):
Yeah, I mean I do drop the F-bomb sometimes you
have, you have, actually, youhave.
But I don't really.
Speaker 1 (00:49):
But I'm the one that's talking shit all the time
.
Speaker 2 (00:51):
Yeah, it's okay, though it's okay.
Speaker 1 (00:54):
We need an applause already.
Oh yeah, For sure.
Speaker 2 (00:58):
Somebody needs to talk shit.
Speaker 1 (01:00):
Oh yeah.
Speaker 2 (01:05):
And that's totally me .
That's definitely what I'll do,yeah so how was your week?
Speaker 1 (01:07):
Good, how was yours?
Speaker 2 (01:08):
It was busy.
I had a lot going on, so yeah.
Speaker 1 (01:14):
Yeah, anything you want to talk about, anything you
want to discuss, anything juicy.
Speaker 2 (01:18):
Yeah, so I did want to mention I did go watch
Thunderbolts.
Speaker 1 (01:22):
Oh, did you.
Yeah?
When, with who?
Speaker 2 (01:24):
A while back, on Mother's Day, we went With who?
So that was like a couple weeksago, with the kids, with my
family.
Speaker 1 (01:31):
Oh, my goodness.
Speaker 2 (01:32):
So yeah, so the boys, we went to go watch it and it
was really good.
Speaker 1 (01:38):
Did you stay for the end scene?
Speaker 2 (01:39):
Yes, both of them, both of them, both of them.
Yeah, have you seen theFantastic Four trailer yet?
Speaker 1 (01:48):
I don't think so.
We're going to watch it today,when we're done here.
Speaker 2 (01:50):
Okay, sounds good you can watch it.
But yeah, so now, because Ithink I mentioned before, my
boys are very big Marvel fansand so we were totally excited
to go watch it.
I really liked Yelena, hercharacterena her character.
Speaker 1 (02:06):
Oh yeah, she's a fan favorite.
Yeah, she really is.
Speaker 2 (02:09):
I loved her personality.
I feel like I could relate withher in certain ways.
You know I'm dealing withanxiety or whatever.
You know.
Speaker 1 (02:18):
And and bob or bobby bob, yeah, yeah and yeah Bob.
Speaker 2 (02:21):
Yeah, and that whole scene too, because my mind goes
so deep sometimes.
Speaker 1 (02:27):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (02:28):
So, and I can like relate with certain things like
how he you know, you go in thesedark places and it's hard to
come out, yeah, and you startbeing crazy, mm-hmm, and it's
like that one person can comeand come for you, which is Elena
.
Speaker 1 (02:45):
Right.
Speaker 2 (02:46):
I don't know if I'm saying her name, right Um, and
she kind of like talked to himlike we're here, we got you you
know and just having thatsupport, I was like damn that's,
I need that yeah.
Speaker 1 (02:58):
That movie has like two like meanings.
You know, like Bob is goingthrough an actual like void,
void like an actual dark being,whatever, and then elena's going
through an actual emotionalvoid right and it's, the movie
is kind of just showing you both, both ends, you know, like both
both aspects, yeah, bothaspects.
Speaker 2 (03:16):
It's perfect.
Yeah, yeah, and because of that, like I felt like um just with
my emotions and and whatnot thatI experienced.
I'm like dang, I could relateand I just it hit.
You know that that those partshit, so it was, it was really
cool and I was like wow, it'spretty good.
I didn't think you would yeahawesome, I'm glad but now I want
(03:37):
to go on this binge where Iwant to watch the avengers and
then I want to kind of watch thestoryline.
I just don't know where to startyeah is the thing, because I've
watched him in the past.
My, my favorite is DoctorStrange.
Um, because I'm more of it, um,I liked spiritual like type
things, and so I, just, like Isaid, I really enjoyed those
(03:58):
movies.
So, um, I need to figure outhow to start watching them and,
like I don't know if it has tobe like an order or yeah, yeah,
yeah.
Speaker 1 (04:07):
Well, that's what.
That's what I'm here for One ofthese days.
I'm planning to break it down,okay, but I'm just trying to
figure out, like the rightoutline, you know, but it's
coming, it's coming, but I'mglad um other than elena and
that, what did you else what?
What else did you like about it?
Speaker 2 (04:25):
um.
The dad is hilarious.
I liked how he's just like oh,david harbour's character.
Speaker 1 (04:32):
Yeah, the russian yeah the um, the, what is it?
The red guardian?
Speaker 2 (04:36):
yes, he is so funny.
Yeah, um, yeah, he's good andyeah david harbour.
Speaker 1 (04:42):
he has a really strong american accent too.
He's good at his Russian accentVery good.
Speaker 2 (04:47):
Yeah, very good.
Oh, so he's not Russian, no,he's American.
Oh wow, he's really good at it,he's good yeah, Yelena and Red
Guardian.
Speaker 1 (04:56):
They're from the Black Widow movie.
Speaker 2 (05:00):
Right, because that's the dad and sister, right, yeah
, right, because that's the dadand sister, right, yeah, yeah,
yeah Of Black Widow, right?
Okay?
Speaker 1 (05:04):
I'm not sure if he's the dad I don't remember.
Speaker 2 (05:07):
I think so.
I only seen it once.
Speaker 1 (05:09):
Oh, okay, yeah but I think so, something like that.
Yeah, because she's like thatfigure.
Speaker 2 (05:14):
Yeah, because she mentioned in the movie like you
left me Like it's been a year,sister, that you know.
So I'm assuming that was.
But but yeah, other than that,um, yeah, I, I think those two
parts that I mentioned as theywere going through those um
challenges, uh, that stuck outthe most to me.
(05:37):
And then the dad, of course, hewas so funny just trying to
build this team, right and then,so they get what he got what
they wanted is.
Did I say that right?
Yeah, um, but it was funnybecause it's like the avengers
and bob oh, yeah, yeah, yeah,yeah, bob is yeah century.
Speaker 1 (05:56):
It was a good movie.
I liked it a lot.
I'm glad you saw it.
You saw it.
I really liked um julia louisedreyfus.
Speaker 2 (06:04):
Or whatever her name is, and I'm horrible with names,
so you're going to have to.
Speaker 1 (06:07):
She's the one that played with the shriek in her
hair.
Speaker 2 (06:11):
Valentina.
Valentina Allegra DeFontaine.
Yes, Okay, yeah, she's reallygood too.
Speaker 1 (06:16):
Valentina Allegra DeFontaine.
She made several cameos alreadyin the MCU.
She made a cameo in BlackPanther 2, Wakanda Forever.
Have you seen this second one?
Speaker 2 (06:27):
Yeah, because those are some really good ones.
It's been a couple yearsbecause I watched them when they
came out on theater.
Yeah, I know Michonne played inBlack Panther, michonne from
the Walking Dead.
I don't know her real name, sothat's her character.
Speaker 1 (06:43):
I love Black Panther dude.
Yes, me too.
I don't know her real name, sothat's her character.
I love Black Panther dude.
Yes, me too.
I don't know who you're talkingabout.
I don't know her name, but Iknow her character.
Speaker 2 (06:48):
She's such a badass.
I love her in the.
Walking Dead and in that movieit was awesome.
She's awesome.
I love her character.
Speaker 1 (06:55):
I love Black Panther, so fucking much yeah, what else
?
Speaker 2 (06:58):
I got back into the gym oh yeah so I've been going,
yeah, with my, my colleague.
So they do like a healthchallenge every time around,
every year around this time Iwork at work.
Yeah, we did not join justbecause I'm don't want to make
friends.
I have one and that's goodenough yeah um.
So she was like, hey, you know,I want to start this health
(07:20):
journey.
And I was like, hey, I've beenwanting to go back to the gym,
so perfect timing.
So I've been trying to.
I've been training her.
Um, she's never worked out,she's never been on a meal plan,
nothing like that.
Speaker 1 (07:33):
So, she, she's doing pretty well oh cool, so you've
met her at the gym um no, I workwith her oh, you work with her
um, but she was talking aboutshe wanted to start her health
journey.
Oh.
Speaker 2 (07:44):
And so I told her you know, I used to do this
previously, so she trusted me tobe her wellness coach.
So that's kind of what we'redoing, right now.
Speaker 1 (07:54):
Okay, so it's like remote, like you're not going to
meet her.
Yeah, we do.
We go to the gym.
Speaker 2 (07:58):
Like we've been going every day.
Oh, okay, sorry, I lost you.
No, okay, okay, okay, okay,cool.
So you met her at the gymalready.
Yeah, so we work together andthen we get off and then you go
change your workout together.
Speaker 1 (08:10):
Okay cool, okay cool.
That's what I meant like youmet her like you met her at the
gym, and you guys worked outokay anyway yeah, no, I thought
you meant like I met her at thegym and then yeah no, I'm, yeah,
I met her at work, I guess.
Okay, and then yeah, that'sfine, okay, cool, that's all,
that's cool.
So how's that going so far?
Speaker 2 (08:25):
It's going pretty good.
Um, yeah, so, being that I usedto work out and really, you
know, kind of like a gym rat, Iguess, um, it's been a while.
It's been actually four yearssince I've been consistent, ever
since I moved to Arizona.
Um, and I think we've mentionedthat before, yeah, it's, it's
been consistent for now.
(08:46):
I think the first two weeks islike very hard to get through,
but we're we're pushing through.
She hasn't given up.
I had a lot of events takeplace last week.
You know, my boys, teenage boysoh my gosh, the friend got in a
in an accident on the bike umpretty much broke his collarbone
(09:09):
.
And then my youngest wrecked hisbike has a bunch of road rash
freaking broke his thumb.
And then my other boy he wasdriving to go get um a
mouthpiece.
And it's hot it's alreadygetting hot here oh yeah um, so
his experimental car, because hehas a couple cars, but his uh
(09:32):
cruiser car, whatever you wantto call it, um overheated and
started smoking on the freeway.
Thank, god he was able to pulloff on the side.
He called me, somebody stoppedto help him, so that was really
nice of them, and so thathappened.
I'm trying to work, I'm tryingto go to the gym.
Speaker 1 (09:54):
Trying to do all that .
Speaker 2 (09:56):
Yeah, trying to do all that, and then we still have
our podcast.
Speaker 1 (09:59):
Podcast to do.
Speaker 2 (10:00):
Yeah, it's been crazy .
So last night was actuallyreally nice because, um, I
didn't have much going on,nobody was home so I just like
took a shower and I just relaxed.
Speaker 1 (10:12):
I was like I'm not gonna do anything.
Speaker 2 (10:14):
I'm not gonna use no brain cells, I'm just gonna sit
here and be mindless.
Speaker 1 (10:19):
Yeah, you gotta take time to just like.
Let erica just recover.
Speaker 2 (10:24):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (10:25):
Recover and just yeah , you can't be stretched too
thin.
Yeah, you know, becauseeventually you know it's
exhausting.
It's exhausting, yeah, it'sexhausting.
Speaker 2 (10:36):
So, but I'm feeling good and refreshed today so
we're good Anything happen withyou?
Speaker 1 (10:42):
I mean no, when I'm driving.
I have the habit of puttingthings when I'm using it, like
my vape, like right here, likein my crotch in my crotch, or
like my phone, like I'll be onmy phone and I'll just like put
it down and then just drive, orlike my coke or my drink or
whatever you know.
But my airpods I put them inand then I put the case down, I
(11:06):
dropped it down on my lap andthen I got out of the.
I got to the house, but out ofthe car and I this is how I lost
my first pair I um got out andthey fell out of the car and I
fell into a drain oh yeah, itwas so bad.
Speaker 2 (11:22):
I was so.
I would have been so sad.
Speaker 1 (11:25):
I was sad for a bit yeah my mind was like gone
through like five scenarios realquick, like Like what am I
going to do?
Speaker 2 (11:32):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (11:33):
But I was delivering food, so I and the drain is
right in front of the house so Iknow they saw me.
Speaker 2 (11:39):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (11:41):
I delivered their food and I parked there.
I was staying there looking.
I could see it in the drain.
It's about like five feet down,so I tried to fish it out with
a stick.
I couldn't do it, it wasimpossible, dang it.
I was in my tropos so Icouldn't climb in there.
Yeah, but I eventually had to.
I pulled it out and that thingwas heavy.
Speaker 2 (12:02):
That grill thing.
Yeah, oh yeah, that was heavy,heavy.
Speaker 1 (12:07):
I twisted my finger trying to get that thing out.
Speaker 2 (12:09):
Yeah, it was stupid but anyway, I climbed in.
I don't know it's stupid.
Oh, so you did get it, yeah,yeah I climbed in and I fished
it out okay it was a little bit.
Speaker 1 (12:18):
It was a little bit, but uh, it took me about a good
seven minutes and then climbedback out again it took me about
a good seven minutes were theywatching you the whole time?
They were because they didn'tget their food.
Speaker 2 (12:32):
Wow yeah.
Speaker 1 (12:33):
And I hit the doorbell and of course they got
the notification that their foodis there.
Speaker 2 (12:38):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (12:39):
And they didn't get their food until.
Speaker 2 (12:40):
I left.
Yeah, they're probably likewhat the hell is this guy doing?
Yeah, exactly.
Speaker 1 (12:43):
That's what I thought too.
Speaker 2 (12:50):
Like what you okay, you know that's what sucks.
People suck these days.
I feel like Right.
Because it's like they couldhave gave you something.
Speaker 1 (12:59):
some tongs it looked like there was a stick in there
that I was using, Like it wasalready in there, Like somebody
had already dropped something inthere and tried to fish it out,
I see.
So there was like some toolsthere already a long stick and a
long pole.
Oh wow.
So I tried, but you know, thecase is so rounded and small
like it's impossible to justfish it out you know?
(13:21):
Yeah, oh my God.
So climbing in there was justthe inevitable thing.
I didn't want to do thatbecause I had no shoes on and it
was a small little area andstill, even even when I was in
there, it was so small to whereI had to like bend my knee, like
I couldn't just bend down.
Yeah, because you're tall, I hadto get in there and squat down
oh my god and I was thinkinglike if I squat down too much,
(13:42):
my legs gonna get stuck oh mygod, and I'd be like stuck down
there oh my god that would be,even that would be my life.
That would be.
That was probably in the plan.
Speaker 2 (13:54):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (13:55):
That was probably on the agenda.
Speaker 2 (13:57):
Yeah Well, good thing it didn't happen.
Speaker 1 (13:59):
Good thing it didn't happen I stopped it because that
was what was going to happen.
Speaker 2 (14:02):
Yeah, well, that's good.
Speaker 1 (14:04):
But I think that's the only thing that's happened
to me really.
Oh, okay, Just a busy week.
Speaker 2 (14:08):
Yeah, just a busy week yeah.
Busy week.
It's like never ending.
I feel like Never a dull momentin my life for sure let's go
back.
Speaker 1 (14:22):
I want to circle back to your son's car overheating,
uh-huh why.
Speaker 2 (14:37):
Do you know why it did that?
Or well, um, what I'm thinkinghappened is earlier in the day
he went to go wash it, and soit's a, it's an older car, um,
so he went to go wash it and Ithink that, you know, with the
pressure of the wash, I think itjust like undid like a hose
underneath or something, and sowhen he was driving all the
(15:06):
antifreeze, like I think thathose just got loose and it was
like leaking.
So when he went to go get offthe off-ramp, it just like
started pouring out.
Oh no, so then that's whatcaused it to overheat so the
coolant leaked out from thebottom yeah so I'm assuming what
happened was when he washed hiscar, the hose got loose and so
he was driving around and then,um, I don't know if it was
(15:30):
leaking like since then or what,but thank goodness he was able
to get off the highway.
On the on-ramp he was blockingtraffic because it was hard for
me to get to him, but by thetime I got to him all the
antifreeze was out and hethought that it was the motor,
because he was like the car,just like.
(15:50):
I don't know what he said, itdid, it did something.
It just started smoking.
So he opened the hood and hewas like dang it, like he
thought it was the oil leakingbecause it was just like poured,
like gushed out, like the wholeroad was wet with the
antifreeze, whatever oh no um,so thank goodness it wasn't oil.
And then it smelled like gas andI was like well, is there like
(16:10):
a gas leak?
I'm like freaking out becauseI'm like, get away from the car,
we're gonna blow up, you knowlike all these, oh my gosh, all
these bad yeah, exactly, andhe's like mom, calm down.
You know, like, no, like, um, Idon't think it's a gas, I think
it's oil.
I might have blew the engineand then, um, when we got there,
it was just the antifreeze.
(16:31):
What?
is what we were told.
So I was like, thank god, youknow what.
We were in the middle ofwatching the game and so, um,
and then I was like why do youhave to be so far away?
Like well, he was like 15minutes away.
I'm freaking out because he'slike I'm blocking traffic,
people are honking at me and I'mlike freaking douchebags, like
(16:51):
nobody can get out and help,like you're a kid, you know and
I don't know.
People just suck.
But other than that.
So we got there um, there wasthis guy there with him.
Thank goodness, one person atleast helped.
Um, they pushed the car to theside and then we just had it
towed back home.
And it was so funny because thetow truck driver was like man,
(17:12):
I haven't seen one of these cars.
This is such a cool car andyou're so lucky.
Speaker 1 (17:17):
And I was like, oh my gosh, oh my god, just get it
home.
Yeah, I was like just get ithome, yeah oh yeah, that's I
wouldn't.
I would be like just get ithome, I don't care, just get it
home yeah, he was all pumped sobut um yeah, so we it home.
Speaker 2 (17:31):
Now it's just a matter of getting that hose
fixed and putting someantifreeze back in it.
Speaker 1 (17:36):
Oh man and just go from there.
Speaker 2 (17:38):
But yeah, like I said , it's never a dull moment with
these kids.
I'm just thankful that you knowit's their bikes and their toys
and their car.
Thank God they didn't get in nocrazy major accidents, but
they're just teenage boys beingboys.
They're not out trying to partyand do this and that and
(17:58):
sneaking out, they're justliving their best life which is
what I'm grateful for.
But it's so like it gives meanxiety because I'm like when my
phone rings.
Speaker 1 (18:07):
Yeah, like I said, this generation is something
else.
They have all that plus all thesocial media that's like in
their program, in their brain,or the internet stuff.
It's just like no, these littleangels aren't exactly little
angels.
Speaker 2 (18:23):
Yeah, it's a lot.
Speaker 1 (18:24):
I used to my previous car, my other Kia.
There was something wrong withthe um, what is it?
The radiator that keeps it cool?
Uh-huh, like for years andyears, I would, just I was so
lazy to not get it fixed, Iwould just drive it like that.
So I'd always have to like,even doing door dash and living
here in phoenix, um, I would, mycar's radiator would just it
(18:48):
would leak the coolant and Ijust I forgot why.
There was a reason why I justcouldn't get it fixed, but I
think it was just money, but Iwould have to rely on always
coasting to keep the car cool.
If I was at a stoplight or at atrain, I would have to turn my
car off so it wouldn't overheat.
Wow, because if I sit there ata stoplight for more than like
(19:09):
three minutes, it'll startgetting hot on on the dashboard
like that little thermometerthing and there are some close
calls where I'm sitting there atlike a, at a stoplight or
something, and the car is likeoverheating and like nobody's
moving and like what the fuck?
this car's gonna start smokingin like two seconds yeah there
was a time when you know, likedriving from new mexico to here
(19:32):
was very swift because I wasjust you know, you're just
coasting all the way, so my carwould stay cool all the way,
right, um, but then when I wouldcome to like a, like a halt,
like an accident, and the wholefreeways backed up, oh man, and
it's like 120 outside.
I'm like I was like my heart waslike panicking, like my car's
gonna overheat in like twominutes if I don't, like I've
(19:55):
had it on the on the aches forlike so long like, like, minutes
, minutes like, like.
Oh my god oh, that's scary,scared, you know, like oh never
did, though it never overheatedit never and it still runs
perfectly fine oh good.
I got it fixed eventually, butthere was a time with at least
one or two years.
I would like that was my lifeyeah I've wherever I had to go I
had to make sure I had to makesure I was coasting.
(20:16):
I can't hit traffic, I can't beat a stoplight, I can't stop
anywhere I didn't give, I meandid that trigger.
It was stressed all kind oh mygosh, all kinds, all kinds.
Speaker 2 (20:28):
I could have been, oh hell no, I would have just
stayed home, I wouldn't havedone nothing, because I would
have been just overstimulated.
I couldn't.
I know because you have to work.
Speaker 1 (20:37):
That was not an option.
Speaker 2 (20:40):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (20:40):
Not an option Well that's good.
So I finally paid up.
I actually didn't pay, Iactually took it in and got the
whole radiator replaced.
It cost at least I.
It was a good.
It was a good amount.
It was a.
It was a couple thousand acouple thousand.
Speaker 2 (21:02):
Oh man.
Speaker 1 (21:02):
I didn't have it in my account.
Speaker 2 (21:04):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (21:05):
I didn't have.
I didn't have at least half ofit.
Speaker 2 (21:07):
Oh, my goodness.
Speaker 1 (21:08):
And um, it was a big amount.
Speaker 2 (21:10):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (21:10):
And the guy wanted me to go for it and I was using a
rental to work.
So I was like, okay, cool, I'llhave that full amount in a
couple days, just give me sometime to dash.
And he's like, no, it needs tobe off my lot now Today.
Today I said I didn't say this,but the guy had a big old
fucking parking lot, big old lot, and my car is this tiny.
Speaker 2 (21:33):
Right.
Speaker 1 (21:33):
And it's in the way.
Speaker 2 (21:35):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (21:35):
Of what?
For two days you have this bigold fucking lot.
Speaker 2 (21:39):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (21:39):
You're making shit up and I'm paying you this big sum
.
At least keep my car in yourlot for two days.
Speaker 2 (21:46):
Yeah, if I'm paying you this big fucking number.
Speaker 1 (21:50):
It's not a courtesy to just you know.
Exactly, leave my car there fora couple days, but no.
So I was like, okay, well, Iguess I'll go for it.
Yeah, I told myself too, Iguess I'll go for it.
I have no money in my account,but I'll just go run my card
yeah and it took it oh, thankgod so I was like okay, cool, I
got my car and all my accountswere gathered, yeah.
(22:12):
So I was like fuck, butwhatever, at least you got it
and yeah yeah people like thatjust I.
Speaker 2 (22:19):
I feel like people that can be considerate or
understanding just karma's goingto bite you in the ass because
people just suck.
And I'm going to say thismultiple times.
Speaker 1 (22:29):
People do suck.
Yeah, they do, they really do Imean they, they, I don't know
it.
Speaker 2 (22:35):
Just it's crazy how our world is.
Nobody wants to help, or it'slike it's an inconvenience to
park a car for two extra days.
But yeah you want to takethousands of dollars you know
that probably didn't even take,yeah it was dumb.
Speaker 1 (22:52):
I knew it was a douchebag from the sound of his
voice and I knew when I gotthere, because it was like half
a mile away, it was just justlike a walk away.
So I was like, okay, I'll beright there.
I guess I'll be right there.
I was unhappy, of course.
Speaker 2 (23:05):
Right.
Speaker 1 (23:05):
And he could tell.
But when I got there he wasn'tthere.
Of course he wasn't there.
Who was there?
His daughter.
Speaker 2 (23:11):
Oh my gosh.
I was like what a fucking pussy.
Yeah, exactly Was it.
It wasn't a big like company,Was it just like a mom and pop
type?
Speaker 1 (23:20):
shop.
No, it was, it was, it was a,but still it's a well-known like
a community place where peopletake their cars.
Speaker 2 (23:26):
Well established.
Speaker 1 (23:27):
Well established in Phoenix, arizona.
Yeah, oh, my gosh Stupid dude.
But, whatever that was yearsago.
Speaker 2 (23:32):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (23:33):
But um, yeah, Thank goodness, that's over with.
But yeah, he just goes back andforth so I think that's about
(23:56):
it, warren.
Speaker 2 (23:58):
We today.
We had a fun conversation.
Speaker 1 (24:02):
I think you know it was good.
It was a good episode.
We talked about thunderbolts,we talked about my airpods, we
talked about our carsoverheating.
We talked about a lot this weekor this episode, so it was good
, yeah, it was really fullepisode.
Speaker 2 (24:17):
Yeah, full of busyness and randomness and just
, uh, yeah, just getting through.
Speaker 1 (24:23):
So all this family therapy, yes um.
Speaker 2 (24:26):
So, on our deep dive, we're gonna talk this thursday
yep this thursday.
Thank you for that.
Um, we are gonna go intotalking about meditation and new
age practices.
Speaker 1 (24:38):
That's a good topic.
Yeah, what it means to us.
What it means to us, how westarted.
Just some stories aboutmeditation and a little bit
about some new age practicesyeah, so it's going to be fun.
Speaker 2 (24:53):
I mean we will provide some good information.
I've experienced well.
Speaker 1 (24:59):
I will talk about my experiences with it, let's say
the juice for the episode.
Speaker 2 (25:04):
I know, I'm so excited.
I'm like can we do it now?
Speaker 1 (25:07):
I'm excited too and I hope you guys can tune in.
It's going to be this Thursdayand it's a premium episode, so
go ahead and hit that supportthe show link in the show notes
and we'll see you Thursday yeah,we greatly appreciate you all
listening.
Speaker 2 (25:22):
Thank you for supporting us always and thanks
for the support.
Speaker 1 (25:25):
Yes, Like I said before, the um, everything that
comes through this podcast goesright back into the production
of the podcast.
So thank you very much.
Your support really does help.
It really does because we'rejust two cousins, just two
cousins, just doing, doing, justdoing our thing yeah, so, yeah,
so, thank you yeah, thank youeverybody.
I appreciate it.
(25:45):
But with that being said, Ithink we're good to go yeah,
we'll see you next week allrighty.
Bye-bye.
See you thursday.
Bye.
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