January 14, 2025 • 20 mins
Episode 1/3 Part 2 "Take Care of Your Kids: Child Support"
Welcome back to Fashitsho, the podcast
DJ Kornbread tackles Trump's controversial proposal that would allow child support payers to claim children on taxes, arguing that this unfairly benefits those who often pay only the minimum while custodial parents shoulder most expenses and responsibilities. The discussion explores modern relationship dynamics, step-parenting challenges, age-gap dating manipulation, and how zodiac signs might influence relationship behaviors.
• Child support responsibilities should be based on actual needs, not minimum payments
• Treating step-children equally is essential when entering relationships with parents
• Imbalanced treatment of biological versus step-children is a major relationship red flag
• Modern relationships suffer from unrealistic expectations about financial responsibility
• Age-gap dating often involves manipulation tactics by older partners toward younger ones
• Zodiac signs can provide insights into relationship compatibility and challenges
• Karma eventually catches up to those who mistreat others in relationships. So, whether you're a dad, mom, or just someone who cares about the next generation, stay tuned as we discuss the ins and outs!!
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
The Shit Show.
The podcast starts now with DJKornbread, aka the Empress.
What's up y'all?
It's your girl.
Dj Kornbread, aka the Empress.
(00:21):
Ep3, relationship, part 2, childSupport for Women and Men.
Let's talk about it.
I'm just going to just put itout there.
I don't know if y'all beenlistening, y'all been seeing it
on social media, but they sayTrump is putting out something
that's saying that if a guy ison child support and he's paying
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child support, or vice versa,whoever is paying the child
support will be the person thatcan claim the child on their
income tax, which is totally no.
I don't even know what to say.
I feel like that is just.
That's not.
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They shouldn't even do nothinglike that, because half of the
men that are on child support,or vice versa, they're barely
paying the minimum Nope andthey're not actually paying what
they're supposed to be payingNope.
And then it takes so much totake care of these kids that
this I mean, it's not even athing Like I feel like I don't
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even know why that should evenbe thrown out there like that.
Because you should?
It should be so many factorsthat go into that.
You should have to look at thewoman's income, the man's income
and see who's making this, thisand that, and even then I still
feel like whoever has the childis the one that should be able
to carry the child on theirincome tax, especially if
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they're not, you're not togetheror y'all aren't living in the
same house, because you're theone that's taking all the time
and paying all these extra feeson everything else and having to
spend all this extra money whenyou're not getting the amount
that you're supposed to begetting for the child amount
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that you're supposed to begetting for the child.
So I don't understand why thatwould even be, would even come
out on social media, mainly ontiktok, but it's just crazy.
I feel like you know that's not.
They shouldn't even do nothinglike that, and half of the men
are females that are on childsupport.
You're mad because you're onchild support.
But my question are you doingwhat you need to do to take care
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of this child?
Were you doing what you neededto do to take care of this child
before it even got to thatpoint?
Some people they give peoplechances, you know, to take care
of their kids and do what theyneed to do, but then people
don't do what they need to do orthey're not showing any kind of
effort to even try.
So people might give themchance after chance after chance
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to just see okay, let me seehow they're gonna act, let me
see how they're gonna, you know,if they're gonna step up and be
a woman or be a man or do thisand that.
And if you're not doing thatand that person has gave you
chance after chance and you'rebasically letting it be known
like you don't give a fuck, youdon't care, okay, so if they go,
put you on child support, Ifeel like that's deserved.
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That's deserved.
You should be on child supportbecause, especially if a person
is giving you chances and you'renot even doing the bare minimum
, just because you're trying togo off of what you feel like
they have, without actuallyknowing what they have, is
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ridiculous.
And then where did this comefrom?
When people are you just ohwell, I feel like this person,
you make more money than me, oryou did this and that, so I'm
not gonna take care of myresponsibility, or I'm not gonna
help take care of the child, orI should just do the bare
minimum and not even do this, orcome see the child, or you know
anything, because of how muchmoney you make.
That shit is so stupid.
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To me it don't make no type ofsense that a person would even
think that way when it comes toa child.
That's their blood.
You know that.
It's not.
It doesn't matter if it's stepor your biological kids.
I mean, I just feel like if youthere and you was there for it
and it happened, then you shouldbe taking care of the child
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across the board.
Now, when it comes to step kids,I don't really know how I feel
with that.
I feel like if you are withthat person or y'all are in the
same house together, rather yousay, or whatever, I feel like,
yes, if you take on thatresponsibility because you're
with that person and they havekids, then your kids are my kids
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.
So I'm going to treat your kidslike my kids, of course,
because we're together, we're inthe same household.
But best believe, my kids, mybiological kids, whether they
live here or not, you are goingto treat them with the utmost
respect and treat them the sameexact way that I treat you, that
I treat you when we're here athome or we're with us, me being
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in a relationship with your momor your dad, or whatever the
case may be, you're going totreat my kids the same exact way
.
Now, if I'm in a relationshipand my kids aren't being treated
the way they're supposed to betreated, and then the other
person's kids, the step kids,are treating my kids a certain
kind of way, then we need to fixthat.
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It's an issue.
There's an issue because it'snot about to be.
No, my kids getting more stuff,or my kids, you treat my kids
this certain kind of way andthen your kids you treat this
kind of way.
No, everybody gets treated thesame.
Everybody is is loved the same.
It ain't.
No, this person's better thanthis person, or whatever the
case may be.
Everybody is going to get theirtime and everybody's is.
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It should be shared amongstevery each other.
These days.
You have to, even you have tolook out.
You know, watch that, becausethere's some stepkids that they
feel like okay, well, if youdon't live with us and I'm with
your dad's, uh, your dad is mystepdad, or your mom is my
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stepmom, and when she's notaround you like that, or we're
not around you like that, wejust come see you.
Everything is supposed to gothe way we want it to go.
This is our.
You know dad forget you, orthis is our mom forget you, or
whatever.
Everything gonna go how we wantto go over here and then you
just treat you treat y'allhowever you want to treat y'all.
You get the scraps, type shit.
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No, that shit does not worklike that, I know.
You get the scraps, you get thelittle bit of pieces of doll,
biscuits and all that type ofshit.
No, nigga, everybody need to be,everybody needs to be treated
the same way and with the like Isaid, respect, don't be coming
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over my house or coming overthis person's house, or I'm not
going to come over y'all's houseand damage anything, be taking
anything, be doing anything.
That's not something that Iwould do in my own house or when
I'm going to see someone, or onmy face and my kids were coming
around and you know, just showlove, sim, or whatever the case
may be.
No, none of that is going on,especially not no thieving shit.
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No, no, taking stuff.
No, I'm about to come overthere to see y'all and oh, hey,
how you doing?
Um, yeah, we came over here tovisit.
We're going to be here for acouple of days.
This is me, but while I'm atyour house.
I'm taking shit, stealing stuffand you know sneaking in here,
taking money and stuff ismissing out of here and, oh, I
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can't find this shoe or I can'tfind these shorts, these shirts,
this, this net, this jewelrygone, this backpack gone, this
wig gone, I don't care what itis.
These lashes gone.
Uh, these his pants gone, hist-shirt, sweater gone, anything.
These designer shoes gone,these nike shoes gone, these
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walmart shoes gone.
It can be anything.
I'm not gonna come take shitout of your house.
I'm not coming to try to comeover your house to see what you
got.
So I'm gonna try to get you togive me some of your shit,
especially if I know that I'malready taking it.
If it's somebody that's doingsome shit like that, no, you
should not be going over otherpeople's houses taking shit from
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family, from, uh, step sisters,step mom, step daughters, any
of that, vice versa, you know,step son, step-son, step-dad,
none of that.
It should be none of that.
Everybody should be on the sametree and everybody the same
exact way.
There should be no favoritismshown anywhere or none of that.
Then, when it comes into thislike relationship thing the
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relationships men these days Idon't know what it is.
They just feel like everythingis supposed to go their way.
I don't know if it's a zodiacsign thing or what.
They feel like everything issupposed to go their way.
They feel like, if you're notdoing this to the T, okay, I
can't use this person or I can'tget what I want out of this
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person.
So I'm going to have to movearound or I'm going to try to
get out of her what I can getout of her and make it seem like
it's good for this certainamount of time, and then after
that I'm going to start actingthis kind of way so she can just
move around once I get what Iwant, or get what I need or
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accomplish what I want.
And they try to get an attitudewhen they see you happy with
somebody else after the fact,because they didn't want to act
right or they were on some likeslick shit or trying to do some
under the under the roof typeshit, scared and you know it.
Just, I don't understand guysthese days.
I really don't relationships beso hard.
That's why it's like now Idon't know what's in the water,
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whatever's in the water, just itdidn't dry and suck that.
Relationships, therelationships ain't the same, no
more.
And then people, morals and thethings they stand for and the
way they feel like they shouldtreat a woman and the way that a
woman should treat a man, orwhatever the case may be.
Everything is totally different.
It is not the same, everythingis different.
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Men feel like they should betreated this kind of way, a
woman should be treated thiskind of way.
Nothing should be on a 50 50type thing.
You got women that feel like,oh, I should do zero percent, he
should do a hundred percent.
And you got men that feel likeI should do zero percent, she
should do a hundred.
Or because I make this much andshe got this, probably got this
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much.
And now you're not even knowingexactly what this person is
bringing in, because y'all noteven living in a house together.
Oh well, I need to bring.
I bring in like 10 or 20% andyou bring in the 80%.
But then I mean and women, samething with women.
They feel like, oh well, if Ican't talk to a dude that's
going to be having me at thesefive-star restaurants to hand
out my bills, or I can just sithere at home and chill.
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I don't know, I ain't barkingup the wrong trailer, daddy.
No, but see, it's not even allabout that, it's not.
I feel like if you can't be witha person and be like 50 50 or
you don't even have to do 50 50,it's like I don't even go off
of that Q and a, say we togetherand we're in the same household
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, and to me it's like on some,you got it, I got it, I got it,
you got it.
It's like, uh, it's gonna getdone regardless, type of thing,
not, no, okay, well, let me seehow much she bring His check
going to be or what he say thathe might not have.
So I can try to hold back thisamount and this is this net.
Or let me try to ask her shecan do this for me, because I
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know I want to buy this and Idon't want to spend.
I know once I spend my money onthis part of my Beatles or this
part of my rent or my car note,my Beatles, or this part of my
rent or my car note, then Iain't gonna have no money to buy
these shoes and dudes are allover the place these days, and
women are too, especially likethe age ranges, like I don't
know what it is and I'm startingto feel like I think that's why
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older dudes, I think that's whyolder dudes are wanting to talk
more to or interested inyounger women these days,
because they know that that theycan manipulate them and do what
they want them to do.
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They know they're going to dowhat they want them to do.
They know they can say whateverthey want to say to get them to
do what they want them to do.
And these days the girls haveno moral, they don't care.
So they feel like if I can bein the eyes of this fine man and
he older sugar daddy type, this, this and that to them in their
eyes, they'll do whatever,they'll give it up, they'll, you
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know whatever, sell their dreamor whatever.
And then do be sitting overhere, the older guy, wondering
why, dang this little shawty.
You know I tried to holler herthis, this and that and she
really awesome, just trying touse my money.
Then you wonder why you gotrobbed and set up and all that
not for everybody, not Noteverybody.
Not all young women are thatway, some of them, some of them.
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So I mean, I just feel like ifyou for relationships, if you in
your age range.
Stay in your age range, stay inyour brackets, stop moving
around trying to talk to theseyoung women or girls, teenagers
and I say teenagers because someof these people that you know
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how old you are, you be tryingto talk to 19 year olds.
I'm like she, she old love, she, old love, she, she, uh, she
legal, just because they don'tpass 18, because your ass is in
your 30s and she 19, you need tosit your ass down.
So if you in your high 30s andthis girl is 19 years old, no, I
need your ass with you.
I be seeing some guys they bewalking around here girls they
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be looking young, like theycould be their damn daughters,
and then some of them be havingdaughters that's that age or
around that age.
But then they'll go out andsneak and go to the movies with
a girl the age of their daughteror a little bit older, like two
years older.
They age, which is so weird andthat's just so pedophilic to me
.
I never understood it.
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But yeah, we was on arelationship thing, part one on
New Year's.
I don't know if y'all checkedthat out.
You have to go back and checkthat out and we were doing more
on.
We were talking about more ofthe relationship and the Zodiac
side, which I feel like you know.
A lot of that has to do withrelationships.
A lot of that, a lot of goesinto that when it has to do with
the relationships.
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Sometimes it does, sometimes itdoesn't, but majority of time I
feel like it does because, likethey were saying on that
episode, leos to me I'm alwaysgonna say lion, leos, leos, be
lion and playing victim.
You know so it's just like Idon't know.
They said gemini's have aboutnine, ten different
personalities and stuff likethat.
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Libras, we good people.
They claim libras lie, but nah,we, we don't lie.
You just ask us and we'll letyou know.
You know, sagittarius, is theycool?
They said Pisces was cool.
They said Taurus is nah.
They said leave, taurus isalone.
You know, scorpios they saidnobody shake their hand, no
problem, no, scorpios.
Aries they said they cry a lot,but not not cry, baby, cry a
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lot, just so they can get stuffdone how they want it done.
You know the queer assist theysaid they was, they was okay.
Uh, they demand they.
You know they want their stuff,how they want their stuff and
they'll drop you in the and dropyou like a dime if they feel
like it ain't right, you know.
So a lot, like I said, goes intorelationships and zodiac signs
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and kids and everything.
All I'm just going to say andjust leave it at that, like if
you call yourself one to be in arelationship with somebody and
they have kids, make sure you dofor their kids what you would
do for your own.
Don't get into a relationshipwith somebody and not treat
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their kids how you would treatyour own, because I've went
above and beyond for people'skids before and they have never
done the same for mine, you know.
So I used to look at it like,well, that's just me, I'm just.
I love kids.
I love, you know, doing stufffor kids.
Everybody's kids love me whenthey get around me.
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I've always been the type ofperson that treats people's kids
like they're my kids, rather,if I'm in a relationship or not,
it can just be my homegirl'skids.
That's just how I am when itcomes to kids.
But when you're in arelationship, you do what you do
for a person that you'retalking to, rather than y'all
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calling yourself.
You know, that's my girl,that's my guy, whatever the case
might be.
If I'm sitting there and I doany and everything for your kids
, but you can't show me thatyou'll do that for mine or you
be low-key, awesome.
Oh well, I just want to makesure my kids is good, forget her
child, forget her kids.
And it's no.
Nah, that's a flag Now, like Ididn't look at it that way
beforehand.
But no, if you're going throughsomething like that, that's
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like a red flag, that is a flag,flag, flag on the play.
Because they really only aroundbecause they trying to see what
they can get out of theirsituation and not really trying
to be there for you or yours.
And that's sad that some peopleare like that, but some of them
are only there for it has tobenefit them.
If it's not benefiting them,then they like oh yeah, no, it's
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time to move around, or they'regoing to be there just for the
time that it can benefit them.
And then, when they're donegetting what they need out of
the situation in a relationship,they just up and move around,
and that ain't cool.
That is really not cool.
And then people wonder why theyget done so bad when they
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finally get around or meetsomebody that they really think
they like or really areinterested in, and then that
person ends up doing some messedup stuff to them or they end up
being crazy, or it just doesn'tgo how they wanted it to go
Because of the stuff that theyhave done to other people or in
their other relationships, andkarma is a bitch.
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So I don't know.
I'm just going to have to sitdown right there, cause we can
go in and out on relationshipsall day long, but that's all I
would say.
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Ep3, relationship, part 2, childSupport for Women and Men.
Let's talk about it.
I'm just going to just put itout there.
I don't know if y'all beenlistening, y'all been seeing it
on social media, but they sayTrump is putting out something
that's saying that if a guy ison child support and he's paying
(00:42):
child support, or vice versa,whoever is paying the child
support will be the person thatcan claim the child on their
income tax, which is totally no.
I don't even know what to say.
I feel like that is just.
That's not.
(01:02):
They shouldn't even do nothinglike that, because half of the
men that are on child support,or vice versa, they're barely
paying the minimum Nope andthey're not actually paying what
they're supposed to be payingNope.
And then it takes so much totake care of these kids that
this I mean, it's not even athing Like I feel like I don't
(01:24):
even know why that should evenbe thrown out there like that.
Because you should?
It should be so many factorsthat go into that.
You should have to look at thewoman's income, the man's income
and see who's making this, thisand that, and even then I still
feel like whoever has the childis the one that should be able
to carry the child on theirincome tax, especially if
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they're not, you're not togetheror y'all aren't living in the
same house, because you're theone that's taking all the time
and paying all these extra feeson everything else and having to
spend all this extra money whenyou're not getting the amount
that you're supposed to begetting for the child amount
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that you're supposed to begetting for the child.
So I don't understand why thatwould even be, would even come
out on social media, mainly ontiktok, but it's just crazy.
I feel like you know that's not.
They shouldn't even do nothinglike that, and half of the men
are females that are on childsupport.
You're mad because you're onchild support.
But my question are you doingwhat you need to do to take care
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of this child?
Were you doing what you neededto do to take care of this child
before it even got to thatpoint?
Some people they give peoplechances, you know, to take care
of their kids and do what theyneed to do, but then people
don't do what they need to do orthey're not showing any kind of
effort to even try.
So people might give themchance after chance after chance
(02:53):
to just see okay, let me seehow they're gonna act, let me
see how they're gonna, you know,if they're gonna step up and be
a woman or be a man or do thisand that.
And if you're not doing thatand that person has gave you
chance after chance and you'rebasically letting it be known
like you don't give a fuck, youdon't care, okay, so if they go,
put you on child support, Ifeel like that's deserved.
(03:15):
That's deserved.
You should be on child supportbecause, especially if a person
is giving you chances and you'renot even doing the bare minimum
, just because you're trying togo off of what you feel like
they have, without actuallyknowing what they have, is
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ridiculous.
And then where did this comefrom?
When people are you just ohwell, I feel like this person,
you make more money than me, oryou did this and that, so I'm
not gonna take care of myresponsibility, or I'm not gonna
help take care of the child, orI should just do the bare
minimum and not even do this, orcome see the child, or you know
anything, because of how muchmoney you make.
That shit is so stupid.
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To me it don't make no type ofsense that a person would even
think that way when it comes toa child.
That's their blood.
You know that.
It's not.
It doesn't matter if it's stepor your biological kids.
I mean, I just feel like if youthere and you was there for it
and it happened, then you shouldbe taking care of the child
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across the board.
Now, when it comes to step kids,I don't really know how I feel
with that.
I feel like if you are withthat person or y'all are in the
same house together, rather yousay, or whatever, I feel like,
yes, if you take on thatresponsibility because you're
with that person and they havekids, then your kids are my kids
(04:41):
.
So I'm going to treat your kidslike my kids, of course,
because we're together, we're inthe same household.
But best believe, my kids, mybiological kids, whether they
live here or not, you are goingto treat them with the utmost
respect and treat them the sameexact way that I treat you, that
I treat you when we're here athome or we're with us, me being
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in a relationship with your momor your dad, or whatever the
case may be, you're going totreat my kids the same exact way
.
Now, if I'm in a relationshipand my kids aren't being treated
the way they're supposed to betreated, and then the other
person's kids, the step kids,are treating my kids a certain
kind of way, then we need to fixthat.
(05:27):
It's an issue.
There's an issue because it'snot about to be.
No, my kids getting more stuff,or my kids, you treat my kids
this certain kind of way andthen your kids you treat this
kind of way.
No, everybody gets treated thesame.
Everybody is is loved the same.
It ain't.
No, this person's better thanthis person, or whatever the
case may be.
Everybody is going to get theirtime and everybody's is.
(05:49):
It should be shared amongstevery each other.
These days.
You have to, even you have tolook out.
You know, watch that, becausethere's some stepkids that they
feel like okay, well, if youdon't live with us and I'm with
your dad's, uh, your dad is mystepdad, or your mom is my
(06:09):
stepmom, and when she's notaround you like that, or we're
not around you like that, wejust come see you.
Everything is supposed to gothe way we want it to go.
This is our.
You know dad forget you, orthis is our mom forget you, or
whatever.
Everything gonna go how we wantto go over here and then you
just treat you treat y'allhowever you want to treat y'all.
You get the scraps, type shit.
(06:29):
No, that shit does not worklike that, I know.
You get the scraps, you get thelittle bit of pieces of doll,
biscuits and all that type ofshit.
No, nigga, everybody need to be,everybody needs to be treated
the same way and with the like Isaid, respect, don't be coming
(06:50):
over my house or coming overthis person's house, or I'm not
going to come over y'all's houseand damage anything, be taking
anything, be doing anything.
That's not something that Iwould do in my own house or when
I'm going to see someone, or onmy face and my kids were coming
around and you know, just showlove, sim, or whatever the case
may be.
No, none of that is going on,especially not no thieving shit.
(07:12):
No, no, taking stuff.
No, I'm about to come overthere to see y'all and oh, hey,
how you doing?
Um, yeah, we came over here tovisit.
We're going to be here for acouple of days.
This is me, but while I'm atyour house.
I'm taking shit, stealing stuffand you know sneaking in here,
taking money and stuff ismissing out of here and, oh, I
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can't find this shoe or I can'tfind these shorts, these shirts,
this, this net, this jewelrygone, this backpack gone, this
wig gone, I don't care what itis.
These lashes gone.
Uh, these his pants gone, hist-shirt, sweater gone, anything.
These designer shoes gone,these nike shoes gone, these
(07:56):
walmart shoes gone.
It can be anything.
I'm not gonna come take shitout of your house.
I'm not coming to try to comeover your house to see what you
got.
So I'm gonna try to get you togive me some of your shit,
especially if I know that I'malready taking it.
If it's somebody that's doingsome shit like that, no, you
should not be going over otherpeople's houses taking shit from
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family, from, uh, step sisters,step mom, step daughters, any
of that, vice versa, you know,step son, step-son, step-dad,
none of that.
It should be none of that.
Everybody should be on the sametree and everybody the same
exact way.
There should be no favoritismshown anywhere or none of that.
Then, when it comes into thislike relationship thing the
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relationships men these days Idon't know what it is.
They just feel like everythingis supposed to go their way.
I don't know if it's a zodiacsign thing or what.
They feel like everything issupposed to go their way.
They feel like, if you're notdoing this to the T, okay, I
can't use this person or I can'tget what I want out of this
(09:02):
person.
So I'm going to have to movearound or I'm going to try to
get out of her what I can getout of her and make it seem like
it's good for this certainamount of time, and then after
that I'm going to start actingthis kind of way so she can just
move around once I get what Iwant, or get what I need or
(09:23):
accomplish what I want.
And they try to get an attitudewhen they see you happy with
somebody else after the fact,because they didn't want to act
right or they were on some likeslick shit or trying to do some
under the under the roof typeshit, scared and you know it.
Just, I don't understand guysthese days.
I really don't relationships beso hard.
That's why it's like now Idon't know what's in the water,
(09:45):
whatever's in the water, just itdidn't dry and suck that.
Relationships, therelationships ain't the same, no
more.
And then people, morals and thethings they stand for and the
way they feel like they shouldtreat a woman and the way that a
woman should treat a man, orwhatever the case may be.
Everything is totally different.
It is not the same, everythingis different.
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Men feel like they should betreated this kind of way, a
woman should be treated thiskind of way.
Nothing should be on a 50 50type thing.
You got women that feel like,oh, I should do zero percent, he
should do a hundred percent.
And you got men that feel likeI should do zero percent, she
should do a hundred.
Or because I make this much andshe got this, probably got this
(10:29):
much.
And now you're not even knowingexactly what this person is
bringing in, because y'all noteven living in a house together.
Oh well, I need to bring.
I bring in like 10 or 20% andyou bring in the 80%.
But then I mean and women, samething with women.
They feel like, oh well, if Ican't talk to a dude that's
going to be having me at thesefive-star restaurants to hand
out my bills, or I can just sithere at home and chill.
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I don't know, I ain't barkingup the wrong trailer, daddy.
No, but see, it's not even allabout that, it's not.
I feel like if you can't be witha person and be like 50 50 or
you don't even have to do 50 50,it's like I don't even go off
of that Q and a, say we togetherand we're in the same household
(11:11):
, and to me it's like on some,you got it, I got it, I got it,
you got it.
It's like, uh, it's gonna getdone regardless, type of thing,
not, no, okay, well, let me seehow much she bring His check
going to be or what he say thathe might not have.
So I can try to hold back thisamount and this is this net.
Or let me try to ask her shecan do this for me, because I
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know I want to buy this and Idon't want to spend.
I know once I spend my money onthis part of my Beatles or this
part of my rent or my car note,my Beatles, or this part of my
rent or my car note, then Iain't gonna have no money to buy
these shoes and dudes are allover the place these days, and
women are too, especially likethe age ranges, like I don't
know what it is and I'm startingto feel like I think that's why
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older dudes, I think that's whyolder dudes are wanting to talk
more to or interested inyounger women these days,
because they know that that theycan manipulate them and do what
they want them to do.
(12:15):
They know they're going to dowhat they want them to do.
They know they can say whateverthey want to say to get them to
do what they want them to do.
And these days the girls haveno moral, they don't care.
So they feel like if I can bein the eyes of this fine man and
he older sugar daddy type, this, this and that to them in their
eyes, they'll do whatever,they'll give it up, they'll, you
(12:37):
know whatever, sell their dreamor whatever.
And then do be sitting overhere, the older guy, wondering
why, dang this little shawty.
You know I tried to holler herthis, this and that and she
really awesome, just trying touse my money.
Then you wonder why you gotrobbed and set up and all that
not for everybody, not Noteverybody.
Not all young women are thatway, some of them, some of them.
(13:00):
So I mean, I just feel like ifyou for relationships, if you in
your age range.
Stay in your age range, stay inyour brackets, stop moving
around trying to talk to theseyoung women or girls, teenagers
and I say teenagers because someof these people that you know
(13:23):
how old you are, you be tryingto talk to 19 year olds.
I'm like she, she old love, she, old love, she, she, uh, she
legal, just because they don'tpass 18, because your ass is in
your 30s and she 19, you need tosit your ass down.
So if you in your high 30s andthis girl is 19 years old, no, I
need your ass with you.
I be seeing some guys they bewalking around here girls they
(13:46):
be looking young, like theycould be their damn daughters,
and then some of them be havingdaughters that's that age or
around that age.
But then they'll go out andsneak and go to the movies with
a girl the age of their daughteror a little bit older, like two
years older.
They age, which is so weird andthat's just so pedophilic to me
.
I never understood it.
(14:07):
But yeah, we was on arelationship thing, part one on
New Year's.
I don't know if y'all checkedthat out.
You have to go back and checkthat out and we were doing more
on.
We were talking about more ofthe relationship and the Zodiac
side, which I feel like you know.
A lot of that has to do withrelationships.
A lot of that, a lot of goesinto that when it has to do with
the relationships.
(14:27):
Sometimes it does, sometimes itdoesn't, but majority of time I
feel like it does because, likethey were saying on that
episode, leos to me I'm alwaysgonna say lion, leos, leos, be
lion and playing victim.
You know so it's just like Idon't know.
They said gemini's have aboutnine, ten different
personalities and stuff likethat.
(14:49):
Libras, we good people.
They claim libras lie, but nah,we, we don't lie.
You just ask us and we'll letyou know.
You know, sagittarius, is theycool?
They said Pisces was cool.
They said Taurus is nah.
They said leave, taurus isalone.
You know, scorpios they saidnobody shake their hand, no
problem, no, scorpios.
Aries they said they cry a lot,but not not cry, baby, cry a
(15:11):
lot, just so they can get stuffdone how they want it done.
You know the queer assist theysaid they was, they was okay.
Uh, they demand they.
You know they want their stuff,how they want their stuff and
they'll drop you in the and dropyou like a dime if they feel
like it ain't right, you know.
So a lot, like I said, goes intorelationships and zodiac signs
(15:32):
and kids and everything.
All I'm just going to say andjust leave it at that, like if
you call yourself one to be in arelationship with somebody and
they have kids, make sure you dofor their kids what you would
do for your own.
Don't get into a relationshipwith somebody and not treat
(15:59):
their kids how you would treatyour own, because I've went
above and beyond for people'skids before and they have never
done the same for mine, you know.
So I used to look at it like,well, that's just me, I'm just.
I love kids.
I love, you know, doing stufffor kids.
Everybody's kids love me whenthey get around me.
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I've always been the type ofperson that treats people's kids
like they're my kids, rather,if I'm in a relationship or not,
it can just be my homegirl'skids.
That's just how I am when itcomes to kids.
But when you're in arelationship, you do what you do
for a person that you'retalking to, rather than y'all
(16:40):
calling yourself.
You know, that's my girl,that's my guy, whatever the case
might be.
If I'm sitting there and I doany and everything for your kids
, but you can't show me thatyou'll do that for mine or you
be low-key, awesome.
Oh well, I just want to makesure my kids is good, forget her
child, forget her kids.
And it's no.
Nah, that's a flag Now, like Ididn't look at it that way
beforehand.
But no, if you're going throughsomething like that, that's
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like a red flag, that is a flag,flag, flag on the play.
Because they really only aroundbecause they trying to see what
they can get out of theirsituation and not really trying
to be there for you or yours.
And that's sad that some peopleare like that, but some of them
are only there for it has tobenefit them.
If it's not benefiting them,then they like oh yeah, no, it's
(17:27):
time to move around, or they'regoing to be there just for the
time that it can benefit them.
And then, when they're donegetting what they need out of
the situation in a relationship,they just up and move around,
and that ain't cool.
That is really not cool.
And then people wonder why theyget done so bad when they
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finally get around or meetsomebody that they really think
they like or really areinterested in, and then that
person ends up doing some messedup stuff to them or they end up
being crazy, or it just doesn'tgo how they wanted it to go
Because of the stuff that theyhave done to other people or in
their other relationships, andkarma is a bitch.
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So I don't know.
I'm just going to have to sitdown right there, cause we can
go in and out on relationshipsall day long, but that's all I
would say.
Y'all just stay tuned to thenext episode.
Um, we are going to have somespecial guests.
Don't forget to hit us up onwwwfashishowthepodcastcom.
(18:35):
You can check us out oniHeartRadio, spotify, amazon
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I'm saying like everywhere.
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Make sure the next EP is comingup.
We're going to be talking abouttalking to DJs, some celebrity
DJs, special guest DJs.
(18:56):
How is it to be a DJ as afemale?
How is it to be a DJ as a male?
I got a show coming up.
We're all barbers.
I just stay tuned.
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You're the mix with the one andonly celebrity, dj Kornbred,
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