April 22, 2025 • 20 mins
Have you ever had someone show their true colors at the worst possible moment? That's exactly what happened during a recent podcast recording that completely blindsided me and left me questioning who my real friends actually are.
When guests arrive with celebrity attitudes, expecting royal treatment while giving nothing but disrespect in return, it reveals a lot about their character. But what's even more revealing is how people you've considered friends for years respond when witnessing this behavior. Do they stand up for you, or do they suddenly become silent, maintaining relationships with those who've wronged you?
True loyalty isn't measured by how long you've known someone, but rather by their actions when it matters most. I'm sharing this raw, unfiltered experience because so many of us face these difficult situations where friendships are tested and professional boundaries are crossed. The contrast between people like Malika Danielle Photography and The Diamond Heist HB, who showed up with professionalism and dedication, versus those who praised my team on camera while criticizing behind our backs, couldn't be more stark.
This episode dives deep into uncomfortable truths about friendship, loyalty, and setting boundaries with people who demonstrate they don't value your relationship. If you've ever felt betrayed by someone you trusted or struggled with maintaining your dignity when others try to disrespect you on your own platform, you'll find validation and strength in this conversation. Sometimes the most painful experiences offer the clearest vision of who deserves a place in your life moving forward.
Share your own experiences with friendship tests and professional boundaries in the comments—I'd love to hear how you've navigated similar situations and what you've learned along the way.
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Speaker 1 (00:02):
what's up, y'all?
It's your DJ Cornbread, aka theempress.
Oh my god, I just gotta go.
I gotta go in.
I'm sorry, it's, it's.
It's just.
It's a lot that needs to be saidand it's a lot of shit that I
don't understand.
So first of all, when you cometo a person's show or decide to
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be on their show or whatever youcall yourself doing, don't go
to nobody's shit, disrespectingthem on their own shit, and then
don't come acting out celebrityand shit when it's not even
that and get mad because you'renot treated how you thought you
were going to be treated in acity that you're not from,
(00:46):
treated how you thought you'regoing to be treated in a city
that you're not from.
So I think that might be.
That might be a big issue withsome people when, when they come
and do certain shit and theynot, they don't get.
I don't know.
I don't know that that shitthere, but but but anywho.
So also, I don't know what thefucking issue is with people
that call themselves to be afriend to somebody, or if they
(01:09):
just gullible to the next,because if you're friends with
somebody or you cool withsomebody, say you've been
knowing somebody for for a long,a long period of time and say
they get introduced to somebodythat you know and the person
that they got introduced to,somebody that you know, and the
(01:32):
person that they got introducedto end up doing some whole shit
to you and all the people aroundyou.
And you got proof and you tellthem and you just, like you know
you've been to thismotherfucker like damn, this is
fucked up, this is fucked up,this is neck.
And this person ain't gotnothing to say about the
situation, nothing has to dowith them, because I guess it
wasn't actually done to them,but really it was, but it wasn't
literally done to them, butyou're a part of the team, so it
(01:55):
was done to me, which issomebody that's cool with you
and supposed to be your friend,and the people that were invited
, you know, to be around thiscertain event or things like
that.
So at that point, to me, ifit's me, I guess I'm just
different.
If it's me, the motherfucker whowas on that whole shit, oh they
(02:17):
, they out of there, like now,because that's some fucked up
shit like you don't these mypeople?
And you came fucking with usand trying to chill and this,
this and that, but you done camein there some whole shit and I
pulled a whole move running outon payments and all this other
bullshit and getting over andall this, this whole shit.
Like no, you editor, like ain'tno, trying to be cool, none of
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that shit.
I don't even give fuck.
We done exchanged numbers orwhat's the case.
Nigga, you editor, straightdeleted because y'all some hoes
for that shit.
So I don't know if I'm differentor it is.
I mean I don't, I don'tunderstand.
But that shit, I don't knowwhat part of the friendship code
or even if you call yourself afriend, what part of just being
on some real shit is it?
(03:00):
Who?
Who wants to be that cool withsomebody to the point where that
shit don't even matter?
Okay, yeah, they did this andthat fuck, that ain't shit,
whatever, like what type of?
I mean I don't understand thatshit ain't cool at all.
What type of fucking friendcode is that?
Like we're at this point, wereyou even, were you ever a friend
?
And I don't know.
I'm just like speaking because I, I don't shit.
(03:21):
I'm speaking on here because Iain't got nobody else to talk to
about it.
So I mean, if you listening it,don't get offended.
It's just that I really want to.
I'm asking these questionsbecause, shit, if I can't, I
can't talk to you.
So I have questions becausethat shit is really weird and
awkward to me.
Like that make that, makes aperson feel like the whole every
other conversation that youdidn't have with a part, with
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the person or whatever it makeyou feel like shit.
Damn, would you have done someshit like that, like who who's
okay with being cool with amotherfucker that fucks over
your friend or fucks over yourhomie and do some whole shit?
No, I'm not coming like no, oh,they ain't good shit.
Oh well, I still fuck somemotherfuckers.
They ain't did that shit to me.
That shit ain't got nothing todo with me.
Hell, no, nigga, I been hereforever or been knowing you for
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a long time.
So if I feel like, if that'sthe type of friendship we own or
whatever, I'm loyal, so like ifthat's that's, nah, nigga, I'm
not supposed to be on, no, I'mjust.
I want to be so cool thismotherfucker that could curve
fucking less if I got hit by acar the next day and praise him
and just really want me to be apart of the videos and all this
other shit, because they justlike the point of y'all praising
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me, people behind me praisingme and all it's all about me.
That's.
That's mainly what the wholething is.
They really don't give a fuckabout you like.
And then, what type ofmotherfuckers don't want to do
shit for anybody or feed anybody?
I'm talking about, like, ifyou're having an event and
you're inviting people,especially if people are working
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, doing photography or anything,taking pictures I don't give a
fuck if they sit there holding acamera.
Nigga, I'm going to make sureeverybody is good because I
appreciate, I appreciate you, Iappreciate your service and what
you came to do.
You didn't have to take time outof your day to come help
cornbread.
You didn't have to take timeout of your day to come help
cornbread.
You didn't have to take timeout of your day to come do
nothing that had to do with me.
You could have kept living yourmotherfucking life and taking
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care of your kids and didsomething else on easter weekend
with your kids.
So I'm not that type ofmotherfucker.
I'm not.
No, all about me, assmotherfucker.
I don't fuck with people likethat.
So for a person to want to becool with some motherfuckers
that act like that and they onlyreally worry about they goddamn
self.
And then you're sitting hereand say, god forgive me, they
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only really worry about theyself, like that.
Shit is just blowing my mind,because who fucks with people
like that?
Like damn, are you on?
Is that the type of person thatyou are?
Because I didn't even, I mean Idon't fuck with people like
that.
I mean, at this point then,when a motherfucker can tell you
like you ain't that special forthis, this and that I don't
give a fuck, whatever, whateverthis, this and that like, then
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who the fuck talks to somebodylike that they cool with
Apparently, it really doesn'tmatter, you ain't never been a
cool.
The way you talk is like youjust been a fucking, we just
been associates type shit.
So I ain't never been thinkingit was on, no shit like that.
So I'm sitting here and we'llgo above and beyond for somebody
that probably wouldn't even goabove and beyond for me, because
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at this point that's kind ofwhat it sits to.
What it sits boils down to thisis kind of like it's not really
on the above and beyond typeshit, but it's just really got
like common sense.
How, motherfuckers, that's notthat really.
That wasn't even really fuckingwith certain people seeing shit
and understanding shit andreading shit and like y'all,
that's some fucked up shit likethey.
(06:33):
You know they they really likesaying fuck you and your people.
But then you got anothergullible motherfucker that
really want to be so friendlyand to get some friends, that
bad that you don't give a fuckwhat type of shit they did to
somebody you cool, which you'vebeen doing over 10 years or
whatever the case may be, youdon't give a fuck.
You just want to be that coolwith some motherfuckers.
And you know what.
I might be wrong, it might be,that might not be the issue.
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You might not want to be cool,but to me, when you have
conversations with somebody andthey always have an answer or
they always put their two centsin and they can say what they
feel and this, this and that,but then when it comes down to
shit like this, you really don'thave anything to say.
At my point, at that pointyou're part of the enemy squad,
you on their side.
You feel like the shit thatthey done was cool and fuck that
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that's like.
And then, on far as the show,shit, you disrespectful-ass
motherfucker, you who comes to,like I said, who comes to
somebody's show and say little,small, off-the-wall shit to make
somebody to you know it's liketo intentionally be
disrespectful, and then you letthat shit ride because, first of
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all, I don't like altercation,I don't like fucking, I don't
like fighting and doing all theX shit and arguing shit.
So let you have your littlefucky ass attitude and let you
whatever, whatever, but let thatshit go on and that shit will
be cut, it won't be live, itwon't be put on.
I know I know what the fuck I'mdoing.
I know how to play my role like.
I know, like I'm not, I'm toofucking grown.
(08:01):
Play with no fucking kids.
But if people want to act likekids and treat people like kids,
as they claim is supposed to bea friend, just to have a
fucking kid a friend, to do somewhole shit like that, I sure
hate to see what happens to yourass when you decide to be
friendly with motherfuckers thatcan curl less, that can't even
tag you in a photo or whatever,but make sure they have you
praising them in the backgroundas an extra.
(08:22):
But you make sure they have youpraising them in the background
as an extra.
But you make sure you want tobe friends with people like that
and, like I said, I might notbe wrong.
I'm just saying in general, itdon't even have to be the actual
person or the people that wasaround me for this certain event
or whatever.
I'm just saying in general,like who the fuck would be cool
with a person that did somehoe-ass shit like this?
(08:43):
To some people, people that youcool with that you've been
knowing for a long time nigga,hell, nah, you're editor.
I don't give a fuck when nobodysay you editor, that shit is
not cool at all.
And shout out to malika,danielle photography and the
diamond heist hb, because theycame to my shit this weekend and
they acted a motherfucking fool.
I mean like not bad.
(09:04):
I'm talking about acting a foollike was on top of their shit.
They came and they delivered,and I'm talking about they made
sure everything was going.
I'm talking about nonstopworking and making sure shit was
done and make sure shit was A1.
Because that's just how theyfeel about their shit, like how
they brand and shit like that.
So shout out to them becausewho the fuck sits and watches
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somebody fucking work hard tomake a fucking ungrateful ass
motherfucker bitch happy andthen sit there and try to say
the person didn't do shit andwas just sitting there chilling
like what the fuck you mustforgot.
I got video footage,motherfucker, like we got behind
the scenes and all that shit.
Don't don't.
Nobody did nobody have to dealwith a fucking rude ass
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motherfucker with an attitudethat ain't nobody.
So at this point it's just likedamn, why do all of that?
They didn't have to, theydidn't have to do, they didn't
have to do the shit that theydid.
And then Malika, uh, daniellePhotography went above and
beyond for a uh for someone andthey try to run out on the plug
(10:10):
shit.
It's like what the fuck isgoing on?
Like you trying to run off onthe plug, you ain't trying to
pay your pay money, and thenwhat you're trying, the stuff
that you're trying to get youbarely can.
You don't want to pay for ahundred dollars, but then you
bitching about trying to getsome stuff that's worth
seventeen hundred dollars.
Make it make sense.
Like I'm just I don'tunderstand.
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I don't understand.
I don't understand.
I don't understand.
Like talk, you're amotherfucking grown person.
You're not a fucking kid and ifpeople have issues with certain
things, you go to the sourceand talk to them.
That's nothing that pisses meoff.
Why are you going to anothermotherfucker and asking about
their shit?
Like, if you have somethinggoing on with somebody, you talk
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to that person about it.
You talk to them.
If you book somebody for someshit, why are you asking
somebody else that ain't gotshit to do with what y'all had
going on?
You decide to change your mindon site two seconds before you
meet somebody and want someother shit done.
Then you on video, tell themotherfuckers how you praising
them and tell them how good theyare, and then you turn around
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and say you didn't like the shit.
Motherfuckers didn't know whatthey was doing.
Come the fuck on now who has$10,000 worth of equipment and
just try to get a fast gig, $100job?
Like, come the fuck on, makethis shit make sense now.
Like make it make sense.
And motherfuckers come into adamn show with fucking 500
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outfits on, like who the fuck isgoing above and beyond for a
hundred dollars, like nigga.
People do shit because of theway they that, because that's
how they cool, like they cooland they call themselves trying
to be nice to motherfuckers anddo shit for them.
Or, really honestly, becausethey cut for the person that has
the event going on, or is doingthe shit, or they done booked
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them, so they trying to showlove to a motherfucker that's
ungrateful and don't give a fuckand all about they
motherfucking self.
And then when shit, everylittle thing, nobody don't want
to take accountability fornothing.
Nothing you did was fucked up.
Everything you did was fuckedup.
Everything you did was 100%.
Now, one time, what can a partwould this person say?
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You know what?
Y'all was unorganized, or thisdidn't work out, and I was too,
and you know.
So it's just like it didn't.
It didn't hit right, like youdon't want to say shit, you
don't want to do anything, youdon't want to say nothing was
your.
I'm talking about nothing atall.
And then I had an event from 6to 10.
6 to 10, meaning that I nevertold a motherfucker I was
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pulling up right at 6 o'clockNever.
When I say 6 to 10, meaning thepodcast only takes an hour to
be recorded.
So 6 to 10, meaning long asthat motherfucker is recorded
within that time and we eat orwhatever we do and chill and
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music or whatever.
That's what the fuck is goingon.
That's that's what happens.
Like that's what's going on.
That shit is done by ten, ain't?
No, I'm pulling up right at sixo'clock on the dot and I'm late
.
No, that's not what the fuckwas said and that's not how that
shit work.
Then, when it comes down tomotherfuckers being so
ungrateful, you go above.
I go above and beyond, doingall types of shit for
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motherfuckers to make sure theycomfortable and they okay with
it coming and they shit.
I mean and chilling and shitand and being on the show and
you're ungrateful.
To the point where you are youcan tell.
The first thing you say to amotherfucker when they pull up
is y'all late, y'all hour and ahalf late.
Yeah, motherfuckers were doingshit, bending over back and
forth to your ass, trying tomake sure you good, stopping
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here, here and there to get shitto make sure you're good while
you're making trying to oh, canthis, this and that, can this,
this and that?
But no, nobody knows all theextra shit.
Y'all just motherfuckers, juston the outside looking in, just
knowing what a motherfucker tellthem.
So, all that fucking ungratefulass shit.
Then a motherfucker wanna actlike ain't nobody done nothing
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and oh, this is bad.
Oh, this is bad.
I can tell a fucking this typeof person from this type of
person.
No, you motherfucker,apparently you can't and
apparently you just full of shit.
Because who praises somebody ona video ain't got other footage
of other shit, background sceneand all this type of stuff but
then say a motherfucker ain't donothing, a motherfucker was
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trash and this, this and that,but you saying something.
That's how, that's just dirty.
Just you contradicting yourselfall the way, fucking around all
this motherfucking proof, and Imean I don't know this.
That shit is just fucking crazyto me.
And that lets me know how itactually opened my eyes, because
it lets me see, like, how my,how people, my loyalty, people's
loyalty, is towards me.
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Because, like, damn, like, ifit all it takes is for a
fake-ass motherfucker to comefrom another another, another
state, to make you feel like you, somebody, when they could
motherfucking curl less, theycan't even tag a bitch or even
add your name on a photo onsocial media because they want
you to be like an extra assmotherfucker and that's all it
takes to say fuck somebody,friendship, or to say I don't
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give a fucking, just have afunky ass attitude and and
switch up on somebody.
I mean that, oh my god, thisshit is fucking ridiculous and
this shit is blowing my mindlike I don't understand.
That's why I stay in the house,because when I come outside,
you motherfuckers always tryingto play me like that's that's,
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oh, I'm some real shit.
What what's said Flippa said onme Like on me Ain't nobody
playing.
That's some real shit.
That's why people stay to theyself and don't do shit.
Don't promote people, don't donone of that extra shit, because
when you do, people take yourkindness for weakness and they
don't give a fuck, fuck.
And then they try to use youand use the people around you to
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make them motherfuckers thinkthat you was on some shitey shit
with them.
Now, motherfucker, I ain'tnever met mother, I ain't never
met something with people, andwhen I meet people and do
certain shit with them, I don'tknow what type of person they
are.
I'm just taking, taking what itis, I'm just rolling with the
punches.
But, like I said, you live andyou learn and then it's crazy
because you live and you learnand you find out stuff about new
people.
But you live and you learn.
And then it's crazy because youlive and you learn and you find
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out stuff about new people.
But you live and you learn andyou find out shit about old
people that you got your newsuit, so I guess shit, it really
doesn't matter at this point.
Motherfuckers don't care.
Loyalty ain't shit.
No more.
Because I best believe I am not.
I would never do nothing likethat or be or be acting a
certain kind of way towardssomebody that I've been knowing
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for a while, or be on some ain'tin it type shit or this, this
and that.
But all the other times it'sokay to have a conversation, but
this particular time I'm not init because I want to be low-key
cool with these motherfuckers.
No, that's not me and, like Isaid, I could be wrong.
Like I'm just saying, I'm justspeaking on how I am.
That's not my character.
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I would not do no shit likethat.
I would not do no shit likethat.
And what type of motherfuckerdon't want motherfuckers in
their shit?
But certain times you wantmotherfuckers in their shit, but
certain motherfuckers you don'teven want to be fed.
We're not paying them for this.
We're not paying them to sit.
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We're not paying them the video.
We're not paying like?
What type of motherfucker isthat fucking just shit that they
cannot, that they don't want tomake sure their guests that
they invited to their show, arecomfortable and have a good time
.
That's not me.
I'm not that type of person.
I'm not fucking, I'm not stingylike that.
I appreciate people and whatthey in the time they took,
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taking out to do stuff forpeople because they didn't have
to do it.
Motherfuckers didn't have toleave their kids and come do
shit with people to take care of, to do shit for your
motherfucking ignorant not, oh,oh, shit, you know what?
Oh, I'm not even gonna let ittake me there.
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Like this shit is over with forthe birds, like motherfuckers
know that, like that shit peoplemotherfuckers know, and I'm
just gonna lead.
I mean, I'm gonna have to lead.
That third and God you knowworks in mysterious ways is all
I can say.
And shit, I guess just somefriendships gotta be broken
because, like, if that, if, if,if I don't wanna, I don't know,
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maybe type of friend around mebecause it's, it's scary at this
point, because shit, if that's,that's, that means that shit,
somebody fucking around me donetried to set you up or do some
whole shit like that.
It's like you could have beenaround all these years and then
had somebody back or I alwaysI'm being there, but when it
comes to some shit, shit likethis and you know and the person
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doesn't know or ain't part ofit and it's kind of okay where
they still trying to be friendlywith some shit, it's like, at
this point I don't know, it'slike that shit is scary.
I don point, I don't know, it'slike that shit is scary.
I don't know, you don't know.
And when a motherfucker I don'tcare Say they don't care about
a friendship or where the fuckthat shit go, just do whatever
the fuck you want to do withthat shit.
And I all because of some othermotherfuckers.
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It's like you're takingsomebody else's side because you
want to be friendly with themotherfucker, be friends with
somebody that motherfucking badthat did some whole shit that
you don't even care about, yourfriendship that you didn't have
for over 10-15 years.
That shit is fucked up to melike that shit is crazy.
Like I said, it's blowing mymind.
Y'all this shit is blowing mymind like damn, this shit is
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crazy.
But I'm gonna have to get thefuck up out of here.
We're gonna have an actual themain drop for the show and I am
going to have once again.
I don't know if they don't wantto come back, because after
this fucking weekend y'all I'mjust saying, damn, y'all would
have to have been there.
But malika, daniel photography,if you're gonna come be a part
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of it, you still in my bookmotherfucking number one, top
notch fuck what everybody got tosay.
The diamond heist hb fuck whateverybody got to say.
The Diamond Heights HB fuckwhat everybody got to say.
I'm talking about in that bitchy'all.
And we gonna have a good asstime and it ain't gonna be no
fucking ill intentions or nofake ass motherfuckers around.
So we're gonna get this shitbooks, we're gonna set this shit
up and y'all just be ready fora real movie, because I hate not
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even saying that shit on theprevious one because it wasn't
one.
So y'all just make sure y'allbe ready to just turn up with us
and shit like that, and I'llmake sure I have some real
motherfuckers in the buildingthat ain't on no shite seat or a
pool shite seat type shit.
So y'all already know what itis.
It's your girl, dj Cornbread,aka the Empress, but shit, show
the podcast and I'm out, thisbitch Bow.
what's up, y'all?
It's your DJ Cornbread, aka theempress.
Oh my god, I just gotta go.
I gotta go in.
I'm sorry, it's, it's.
It's just.
It's a lot that needs to be saidand it's a lot of shit that I
don't understand.
So first of all, when you cometo a person's show or decide to
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be on their show or whatever youcall yourself doing, don't go
to nobody's shit, disrespectingthem on their own shit, and then
don't come acting out celebrityand shit when it's not even
that and get mad because you'renot treated how you thought you
were going to be treated in acity that you're not from,
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treated how you thought you'regoing to be treated in a city
that you're not from.
So I think that might be.
That might be a big issue withsome people when, when they come
and do certain shit and theynot, they don't get.
I don't know.
I don't know that that shitthere, but but but anywho.
So also, I don't know what thefucking issue is with people
that call themselves to be afriend to somebody, or if they
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just gullible to the next,because if you're friends with
somebody or you cool withsomebody, say you've been
knowing somebody for for a long,a long period of time and say
they get introduced to somebodythat you know and the person
that they got introduced to,somebody that you know, and the
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person that they got introducedto end up doing some whole shit
to you and all the people aroundyou.
And you got proof and you tellthem and you just, like you know
you've been to thismotherfucker like damn, this is
fucked up, this is fucked up,this is neck.
And this person ain't gotnothing to say about the
situation, nothing has to dowith them, because I guess it
wasn't actually done to them,but really it was, but it wasn't
literally done to them, butyou're a part of the team, so it
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was done to me, which issomebody that's cool with you
and supposed to be your friend,and the people that were invited
, you know, to be around thiscertain event or things like
that.
So at that point, to me, ifit's me, I guess I'm just
different.
If it's me, the motherfucker whowas on that whole shit, oh they
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, they out of there, like now,because that's some fucked up
shit like you don't these mypeople?
And you came fucking with usand trying to chill and this,
this and that, but you done camein there some whole shit and I
pulled a whole move running outon payments and all this other
bullshit and getting over andall this, this whole shit.
Like no, you editor, like ain'tno, trying to be cool, none of
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that shit.
I don't even give fuck.
We done exchanged numbers orwhat's the case.
Nigga, you editor, straightdeleted because y'all some hoes
for that shit.
So I don't know if I'm differentor it is.
I mean I don't, I don'tunderstand.
But that shit, I don't knowwhat part of the friendship code
or even if you call yourself afriend, what part of just being
on some real shit is it?
(03:00):
Who?
Who wants to be that cool withsomebody to the point where that
shit don't even matter?
Okay, yeah, they did this andthat fuck, that ain't shit,
whatever, like what type of?
I mean I don't understand thatshit ain't cool at all.
What type of fucking friendcode is that?
Like we're at this point, wereyou even, were you ever a friend
?
And I don't know.
I'm just like speaking because I, I don't shit.
(03:21):
I'm speaking on here because Iain't got nobody else to talk to
about it.
So I mean, if you listening it,don't get offended.
It's just that I really want to.
I'm asking these questionsbecause, shit, if I can't, I
can't talk to you.
So I have questions becausethat shit is really weird and
awkward to me.
Like that make that, makes aperson feel like the whole every
other conversation that youdidn't have with a part, with
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the person or whatever it makeyou feel like shit.
Damn, would you have done someshit like that, like who who's
okay with being cool with amotherfucker that fucks over
your friend or fucks over yourhomie and do some whole shit?
No, I'm not coming like no, oh,they ain't good shit.
Oh well, I still fuck somemotherfuckers.
They ain't did that shit to me.
That shit ain't got nothing todo with me.
Hell, no, nigga, I been hereforever or been knowing you for
(04:05):
a long time.
So if I feel like, if that'sthe type of friendship we own or
whatever, I'm loyal, so like ifthat's that's, nah, nigga, I'm
not supposed to be on, no, I'mjust.
I want to be so cool thismotherfucker that could curve
fucking less if I got hit by acar the next day and praise him
and just really want me to be apart of the videos and all this
other shit, because they justlike the point of y'all praising
(04:26):
me, people behind me praisingme and all it's all about me.
That's.
That's mainly what the wholething is.
They really don't give a fuckabout you like.
And then, what type ofmotherfuckers don't want to do
shit for anybody or feed anybody?
I'm talking about, like, ifyou're having an event and
you're inviting people,especially if people are working
(04:46):
, doing photography or anything,taking pictures I don't give a
fuck if they sit there holding acamera.
Nigga, I'm going to make sureeverybody is good because I
appreciate, I appreciate you, Iappreciate your service and what
you came to do.
You didn't have to take time outof your day to come help
cornbread.
You didn't have to take timeout of your day to come help
cornbread.
You didn't have to take timeout of your day to come do
nothing that had to do with me.
You could have kept living yourmotherfucking life and taking
(05:09):
care of your kids and didsomething else on easter weekend
with your kids.
So I'm not that type ofmotherfucker.
I'm not.
No, all about me, assmotherfucker.
I don't fuck with people likethat.
So for a person to want to becool with some motherfuckers
that act like that and they onlyreally worry about they goddamn
self.
And then you're sitting hereand say, god forgive me, they
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only really worry about theyself, like that.
Shit is just blowing my mind,because who fucks with people
like that?
Like damn, are you on?
Is that the type of person thatyou are?
Because I didn't even, I mean Idon't fuck with people like
that.
I mean, at this point then,when a motherfucker can tell you
like you ain't that special forthis, this and that I don't
give a fuck, whatever, whateverthis, this and that like, then
(05:50):
who the fuck talks to somebodylike that they cool with
Apparently, it really doesn'tmatter, you ain't never been a
cool.
The way you talk is like youjust been a fucking, we just
been associates type shit.
So I ain't never been thinkingit was on, no shit like that.
So I'm sitting here and we'llgo above and beyond for somebody
that probably wouldn't even goabove and beyond for me, because
(06:12):
at this point that's kind ofwhat it sits to.
What it sits boils down to thisis kind of like it's not really
on the above and beyond typeshit, but it's just really got
like common sense.
How, motherfuckers, that's notthat really.
That wasn't even really fuckingwith certain people seeing shit
and understanding shit andreading shit and like y'all,
that's some fucked up shit likethey.
(06:33):
You know they they really likesaying fuck you and your people.
But then you got anothergullible motherfucker that
really want to be so friendlyand to get some friends, that
bad that you don't give a fuckwhat type of shit they did to
somebody you cool, which you'vebeen doing over 10 years or
whatever the case may be, youdon't give a fuck.
You just want to be that coolwith some motherfuckers.
And you know what.
I might be wrong, it might be,that might not be the issue.
(06:55):
You might not want to be cool,but to me, when you have
conversations with somebody andthey always have an answer or
they always put their two centsin and they can say what they
feel and this, this and that,but then when it comes down to
shit like this, you really don'thave anything to say.
At my point, at that pointyou're part of the enemy squad,
you on their side.
You feel like the shit thatthey done was cool and fuck that
(07:19):
that's like.
And then, on far as the show,shit, you disrespectful-ass
motherfucker, you who comes to,like I said, who comes to
somebody's show and say little,small, off-the-wall shit to make
somebody to you know it's liketo intentionally be
disrespectful, and then you letthat shit ride because, first of
(07:39):
all, I don't like altercation,I don't like fucking, I don't
like fighting and doing all theX shit and arguing shit.
So let you have your littlefucky ass attitude and let you
whatever, whatever, but let thatshit go on and that shit will
be cut, it won't be live, itwon't be put on.
I know I know what the fuck I'mdoing.
I know how to play my role like.
I know, like I'm not, I'm toofucking grown.
(08:01):
Play with no fucking kids.
But if people want to act likekids and treat people like kids,
as they claim is supposed to bea friend, just to have a
fucking kid a friend, to do somewhole shit like that, I sure
hate to see what happens to yourass when you decide to be
friendly with motherfuckers thatcan curl less, that can't even
tag you in a photo or whatever,but make sure they have you
praising them in the backgroundas an extra.
(08:22):
But you make sure they have youpraising them in the background
as an extra.
But you make sure you want tobe friends with people like that
and, like I said, I might notbe wrong.
I'm just saying in general, itdon't even have to be the actual
person or the people that wasaround me for this certain event
or whatever.
I'm just saying in general,like who the fuck would be cool
with a person that did somehoe-ass shit like this?
(08:43):
To some people, people that youcool with that you've been
knowing for a long time nigga,hell, nah, you're editor.
I don't give a fuck when nobodysay you editor, that shit is
not cool at all.
And shout out to malika,danielle photography and the
diamond heist hb, because theycame to my shit this weekend and
they acted a motherfucking fool.
I mean like not bad.
(09:04):
I'm talking about acting a foollike was on top of their shit.
They came and they delivered,and I'm talking about they made
sure everything was going.
I'm talking about nonstopworking and making sure shit was
done and make sure shit was A1.
Because that's just how theyfeel about their shit, like how
they brand and shit like that.
So shout out to them becausewho the fuck sits and watches
(09:26):
somebody fucking work hard tomake a fucking ungrateful ass
motherfucker bitch happy andthen sit there and try to say
the person didn't do shit andwas just sitting there chilling
like what the fuck you mustforgot.
I got video footage,motherfucker, like we got behind
the scenes and all that shit.
Don't don't.
Nobody did nobody have to dealwith a fucking rude ass
(09:48):
motherfucker with an attitudethat ain't nobody.
So at this point it's just likedamn, why do all of that?
They didn't have to, theydidn't have to do, they didn't
have to do the shit that theydid.
And then Malika, uh, daniellePhotography went above and
beyond for a uh for someone andthey try to run out on the plug
(10:10):
shit.
It's like what the fuck isgoing on?
Like you trying to run off onthe plug, you ain't trying to
pay your pay money, and thenwhat you're trying, the stuff
that you're trying to get youbarely can.
You don't want to pay for ahundred dollars, but then you
bitching about trying to getsome stuff that's worth
seventeen hundred dollars.
Make it make sense.
Like I'm just I don'tunderstand.
(10:31):
I don't understand.
I don't understand.
I don't understand.
Like talk, you're amotherfucking grown person.
You're not a fucking kid and ifpeople have issues with certain
things, you go to the sourceand talk to them.
That's nothing that pisses meoff.
Why are you going to anothermotherfucker and asking about
their shit?
Like, if you have somethinggoing on with somebody, you talk
(10:52):
to that person about it.
You talk to them.
If you book somebody for someshit, why are you asking
somebody else that ain't gotshit to do with what y'all had
going on?
You decide to change your mindon site two seconds before you
meet somebody and want someother shit done.
Then you on video, tell themotherfuckers how you praising
them and tell them how good theyare, and then you turn around
(11:14):
and say you didn't like the shit.
Motherfuckers didn't know whatthey was doing.
Come the fuck on now who has$10,000 worth of equipment and
just try to get a fast gig, $100job?
Like, come the fuck on, makethis shit make sense now.
Like make it make sense.
And motherfuckers come into adamn show with fucking 500
(11:37):
outfits on, like who the fuck isgoing above and beyond for a
hundred dollars, like nigga.
People do shit because of theway they that, because that's
how they cool, like they cooland they call themselves trying
to be nice to motherfuckers anddo shit for them.
Or, really honestly, becausethey cut for the person that has
the event going on, or is doingthe shit, or they done booked
(11:57):
them, so they trying to showlove to a motherfucker that's
ungrateful and don't give a fuckand all about they
motherfucking self.
And then when shit, everylittle thing, nobody don't want
to take accountability fornothing.
Nothing you did was fucked up.
Everything you did was fuckedup.
Everything you did was 100%.
Now, one time, what can a partwould this person say?
(12:19):
You know what?
Y'all was unorganized, or thisdidn't work out, and I was too,
and you know.
So it's just like it didn't.
It didn't hit right, like youdon't want to say shit, you
don't want to do anything, youdon't want to say nothing was
your.
I'm talking about nothing atall.
And then I had an event from 6to 10.
6 to 10, meaning that I nevertold a motherfucker I was
(12:39):
pulling up right at 6 o'clockNever.
When I say 6 to 10, meaning thepodcast only takes an hour to
be recorded.
So 6 to 10, meaning long asthat motherfucker is recorded
within that time and we eat orwhatever we do and chill and
(12:59):
music or whatever.
That's what the fuck is goingon.
That's that's what happens.
Like that's what's going on.
That shit is done by ten, ain't?
No, I'm pulling up right at sixo'clock on the dot and I'm late
.
No, that's not what the fuckwas said and that's not how that
shit work.
Then, when it comes down tomotherfuckers being so
ungrateful, you go above.
I go above and beyond, doingall types of shit for
(13:23):
motherfuckers to make sure theycomfortable and they okay with
it coming and they shit.
I mean and chilling and shitand and being on the show and
you're ungrateful.
To the point where you are youcan tell.
The first thing you say to amotherfucker when they pull up
is y'all late, y'all hour and ahalf late.
Yeah, motherfuckers were doingshit, bending over back and
forth to your ass, trying tomake sure you good, stopping
(13:44):
here, here and there to get shitto make sure you're good while
you're making trying to oh, canthis, this and that, can this,
this and that?
But no, nobody knows all theextra shit.
Y'all just motherfuckers, juston the outside looking in, just
knowing what a motherfucker tellthem.
So, all that fucking ungratefulass shit.
Then a motherfucker wanna actlike ain't nobody done nothing
(14:07):
and oh, this is bad.
Oh, this is bad.
I can tell a fucking this typeof person from this type of
person.
No, you motherfucker,apparently you can't and
apparently you just full of shit.
Because who praises somebody ona video ain't got other footage
of other shit, background sceneand all this type of stuff but
then say a motherfucker ain't donothing, a motherfucker was
(14:28):
trash and this, this and that,but you saying something.
That's how, that's just dirty.
Just you contradicting yourselfall the way, fucking around all
this motherfucking proof, and Imean I don't know this.
That shit is just fucking crazyto me.
And that lets me know how itactually opened my eyes, because
it lets me see, like, how my,how people, my loyalty, people's
loyalty, is towards me.
(14:49):
Because, like, damn, like, ifit all it takes is for a
fake-ass motherfucker to comefrom another another, another
state, to make you feel like you, somebody, when they could
motherfucking curl less, theycan't even tag a bitch or even
add your name on a photo onsocial media because they want
you to be like an extra assmotherfucker and that's all it
takes to say fuck somebody,friendship, or to say I don't
(15:10):
give a fucking, just have afunky ass attitude and and
switch up on somebody.
I mean that, oh my god, thisshit is fucking ridiculous and
this shit is blowing my mindlike I don't understand.
That's why I stay in the house,because when I come outside,
you motherfuckers always tryingto play me like that's that's,
(15:31):
oh, I'm some real shit.
What what's said Flippa said onme Like on me Ain't nobody
playing.
That's some real shit.
That's why people stay to theyself and don't do shit.
Don't promote people, don't donone of that extra shit, because
when you do, people take yourkindness for weakness and they
don't give a fuck, fuck.
And then they try to use youand use the people around you to
(15:51):
make them motherfuckers thinkthat you was on some shitey shit
with them.
Now, motherfucker, I ain'tnever met mother, I ain't never
met something with people, andwhen I meet people and do
certain shit with them, I don'tknow what type of person they
are.
I'm just taking, taking what itis, I'm just rolling with the
punches.
But, like I said, you live andyou learn and then it's crazy
because you live and you learnand you find out stuff about new
people.
But you live and you learn.
And then it's crazy because youlive and you learn and you find
(16:12):
out stuff about new people.
But you live and you learn andyou find out shit about old
people that you got your newsuit, so I guess shit, it really
doesn't matter at this point.
Motherfuckers don't care.
Loyalty ain't shit.
No more.
Because I best believe I am not.
I would never do nothing likethat or be or be acting a
certain kind of way towardssomebody that I've been knowing
(16:33):
for a while, or be on some ain'tin it type shit or this, this
and that.
But all the other times it'sokay to have a conversation, but
this particular time I'm not init because I want to be low-key
cool with these motherfuckers.
No, that's not me and, like Isaid, I could be wrong.
Like I'm just saying, I'm justspeaking on how I am.
That's not my character.
(16:56):
I would not do no shit likethat.
I would not do no shit likethat.
And what type of motherfuckerdon't want motherfuckers in
their shit?
But certain times you wantmotherfuckers in their shit, but
certain motherfuckers you don'teven want to be fed.
We're not paying them for this.
We're not paying them to sit.
(17:17):
We're not paying them the video.
We're not paying like?
What type of motherfucker isthat fucking just shit that they
cannot, that they don't want tomake sure their guests that
they invited to their show, arecomfortable and have a good time
.
That's not me.
I'm not that type of person.
I'm not fucking, I'm not stingylike that.
I appreciate people and whatthey in the time they took,
(17:39):
taking out to do stuff forpeople because they didn't have
to do it.
Motherfuckers didn't have toleave their kids and come do
shit with people to take care of, to do shit for your
motherfucking ignorant not, oh,oh, shit, you know what?
Oh, I'm not even gonna let ittake me there.
(18:00):
Like this shit is over with forthe birds, like motherfuckers
know that, like that shit peoplemotherfuckers know, and I'm
just gonna lead.
I mean, I'm gonna have to lead.
That third and God you knowworks in mysterious ways is all
I can say.
And shit, I guess just somefriendships gotta be broken
because, like, if that, if, if,if I don't wanna, I don't know,
(18:21):
maybe type of friend around mebecause it's, it's scary at this
point, because shit, if that's,that's, that means that shit,
somebody fucking around me donetried to set you up or do some
whole shit like that.
It's like you could have beenaround all these years and then
had somebody back or I alwaysI'm being there, but when it
comes to some shit, shit likethis and you know and the person
(18:42):
doesn't know or ain't part ofit and it's kind of okay where
they still trying to be friendlywith some shit, it's like, at
this point I don't know, it'slike that shit is scary.
I don point, I don't know, it'slike that shit is scary.
I don't know, you don't know.
And when a motherfucker I don'tcare Say they don't care about
a friendship or where the fuckthat shit go, just do whatever
the fuck you want to do withthat shit.
And I all because of some othermotherfuckers.
(19:04):
It's like you're takingsomebody else's side because you
want to be friendly with themotherfucker, be friends with
somebody that motherfucking badthat did some whole shit that
you don't even care about, yourfriendship that you didn't have
for over 10-15 years.
That shit is fucked up to melike that shit is crazy.
Like I said, it's blowing mymind.
Y'all this shit is blowing mymind like damn, this shit is
(19:25):
crazy.
But I'm gonna have to get thefuck up out of here.
We're gonna have an actual themain drop for the show and I am
going to have once again.
I don't know if they don't wantto come back, because after
this fucking weekend y'all I'mjust saying, damn, y'all would
have to have been there.
But malika, daniel photography,if you're gonna come be a part
(19:45):
of it, you still in my bookmotherfucking number one, top
notch fuck what everybody got tosay.
The diamond heist hb fuck whateverybody got to say.
The Diamond Heights HB fuckwhat everybody got to say.
I'm talking about in that bitchy'all.
And we gonna have a good asstime and it ain't gonna be no
fucking ill intentions or nofake ass motherfuckers around.
So we're gonna get this shitbooks, we're gonna set this shit
up and y'all just be ready fora real movie, because I hate not
(20:08):
even saying that shit on theprevious one because it wasn't
one.
So y'all just make sure y'allbe ready to just turn up with us
and shit like that, and I'llmake sure I have some real
motherfuckers in the buildingthat ain't on no shite seat or a
pool shite seat type shit.
So y'all already know what itis.
It's your girl, dj Cornbread,aka the Empress, but shit, show
the podcast and I'm out, thisbitch Bow.
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