May 13, 2025 • 16 mins
Grief has many faces, but there's something uniquely devastating about navigating life without your mother. In this raw and deeply personal episode, DJ Kornbread (aka the Empress) opens her heart about the void left when her mother—affectionately known as "Big Booty Judy"—passed away.
With remarkable vulnerability, Kornbread explores why Mother's Day becomes such a complicated emotional landscape for those who've lost their maternal figures. She takes us through the irreplaceable nature of a mother's love and understanding, from late-night advice sessions over wine and popcorn to those repeated phone calls that once seemed annoying but are now cherished memories. "I would give anything for her to be here with me," she confesses, capturing the essence of this particular grief journey.
What makes this conversation so powerful is Kornbread's honesty about the everyday moments we take for granted—those saved voicemails she still listens to, the cooking dates they used to share, the way her mother had the perfect words for every situation. She contrasts this genuine maternal support with the often superficial listening we get from friends, painting a vivid picture of what's truly lost when your mom is gone. For anyone who's experienced this specific loss, her words articulate feelings that can be hard to express.
Beyond her personal story, Kornbread celebrates her mother's Libra-hearted generosity that extended to becoming a maternal figure for many others. These stories offer beautiful examples of how one woman's mothering spirit created ripples far beyond her immediate family. Whether you're grieving your own mother or wanting to better support someone who is, this episode provides profound insight into an experience that transforms everything. If you're walking this path too, Kornbread's parting message offers gentle encouragement: "Keep pushing. I'm praying for you guys and you can do this. I know it's hard and it just takes time."
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Speaker 1 (00:01):
Hey, hey man.
This is Big A's the Clip I'mthe Big man.
This is the largest fashionshow on the podcast.
Say I'm the Big man.
Speaker 2 (00:19):
What's up y'all?
It's your girl, dj Kornbread,aka the Ampers.
Y'all already know what it isBack with another one.
Dj Kornbread, aka the Ampers.
Y'all already know what it isBack with another one.
This episode is going to bemore on your mother.
I meant to drop this aroundMother's Day.
It was kind of hard for meseeing how I lost my mom, so
(00:42):
it's kind of hard for me to pushthrough when Mother's Day comes
around.
But yeah, this AP is going tobe more touching on Mother's Day
and your mother.
I love my mother.
I loved my mother.
No matter what you go through orwhat happens or what, you know,
(01:03):
you always love your mom.
You always make sure you.
I don't know how everybody elseis with their mother, but you
know how it's.
Sometimes it's so you know youand your moms might not see eye
to eye.
Sometimes Y'all might argue,you know, especially when you're
(01:24):
a girl and it's your mom.
So this goes out to all themothers and all the kids that
have lost their mother.
This episode is for you, um, I alot of people.
(01:50):
They don't understand why somepeople close up or feel a
certain kind of way when itcomes to mother's day, and I say
that because when you are aperson that everything you do
basically is mainly focused onyour mom, or whenever you do
something or you get out thehouse or when any kind of
(02:11):
holiday comes around, that's theonly person you have to like
spend time with, because youdon't have any other parent or
anybody else you know around.
So that's really like all youare, you know, that's.
That's mainly not all you know,but all you know.
I mean it's hard when you losethat person because it's like
(02:31):
who you go to for everything.
When you have a question aboutsomething, if you don't
understand something, you'restressed out.
It's like that's who you go towhen you have, you know, have
issues you know.
So it's kind of hard when thattime comes around and your
mother is not here because a lotof people nobody's going to
understand you like your mom.
(02:52):
I don't care what nobody saysLike sometimes, like I say, even
if you have those days andtimes where y'all bump heads or
whatever, nobody's going tounderstand you like your mom,
nobody's going to understand youlike your mom.
Like I have had I mean, I hadso many arguments and you know
(03:12):
things with my mom.
You know when she was here andit was like nothing compares to
how much I love her, loved her,and you know, I would give
anything for her to be here withme.
You know it's just some peopledon't understand that because,
like, if you, when you're goingthrough things and you don't
have anything but your mom oranybody but your mom to talk to
and to go, you know.
So what do you think about this?
(03:32):
What do you think about that?
Or why is this person doingthis to me?
Or should I keep doing this?
Or should I keep acting likethis?
For some reason I don't knowwhat it is, but the moms, they
always know what to say.
Are they always there?
Like I'm talking about get upand go get some wine or
something to drink or whateverand some popcorn, or go cook,
and I'm about to sit here andwe're about to go over
(03:54):
everything, all my issues andstuff that I'm stressed out
about or stuff that's pissing meoff, and I need to know what do
I need to do.
Do I need to go beat thisperson ass or do I need to just
sit down and just she be likelet God handle it, god handle it
, you know.
So it's just like nobodyunderstands and knows like how.
I mean, I guess, until you loseyour mom, like it's it's hard,
(04:19):
like it's you have to sit thereand think of all the good times
and the good things that you didtogether, or go back and look
at like the funny videos andstuff like that, because to keep
yourself, like you know,together it's really really hard
.
Like it's really really hardand nobody understands you, like
(04:43):
your mom, like you can befeeling a certain way about
somebody.
It can be about family, it canbe about a relationship, but you
always have when you had yourmom to go to.
It's just like all right, girl,I'm finna, pull up, what you
doing?
Okay, I just I need to tell yousomething.
It's hot, there's informationthat's hot and it's like if you,
if it ain't, you can't talkabout it right now, or it'd be
(05:04):
so good and juicy, you like no,we got to talk about this.
It's like all right girl, allright for the best friend like
you about to pull up and talkabout it my mama, we call her
big booty judy.
It's like my friends call herbig booty judy.
They'd be like cornbread.
I see where you get your that's, you get your booty from.
But yeah, like she, like she I'mtalking about my mom was like,
(05:26):
so cool I'm talking anybody thathas met my mom or met her they
were just like man, your mom wasjust so cool.
It's like your homegirl, likeshe, that homegirl vibe, so it's
like and a lot of people youknow it's just crazy because
they will be around my mom andthey're like, they will be like
I don't, my mom didn't act likethat or I didn't have my mom
(05:49):
around, you know, to give methat type of encouragement or
give me that, to have thatshoulder to lean on.
My mom was actually like a momto so many different people,
people that have lost their mom,people who know weren't in the
right, you know, getting alongwith their parents or their mom
or whatever.
It's just like my mom was therefor any and everybody, like if
(06:12):
they were my friend or they'rearound me and they, she.
She was one of those peoplethat even if me, you weren't
cool anymore or I wasn't talkingto you, she would be like
that's still my baby, that'sstill my daughter, that's still
my son.
You know she was one of those.
So it's like she didn't careabout what nobody had to say and
(06:33):
she would tell you.
No, wrong is wrong is right isright.
I don't care if that's mydaughter, she would tell you
like that was just her.
She was real like uh.
I mean it might be them dayswhere I'd be like girl, you need
to stop, or you know what uh-uh, that ain't right, but but like
(06:54):
.
So for the most part I'mtalking about like goofy.
So I know that's where I get mygoofiness from my kids, that's
where they get that goofinessfrom.
It's like I'm talking about shewas one of those.
Like yo, yo frown could getturned, will be turned upside
down, fucking with her goingover there, pulling up her ass.
Like I said, even if I wasn'tcool with you, no more, we
(07:15):
weren't talking or friends orwhatever.
She ended up, oh you knowso-and-so, pulling up on me and
they miss you or they misshanging with you or they don't
know why you don't talk to them.
Talking about she's one ofthose.
Try to play, uh, a match makerand put people back together and
make their friendships back.
Everyone and I'm talking aboutshe was on all that type of
(07:36):
stuff, like everybody.
Like I said, they loved her,like she.
When you have a person like thataround where you can't even do
really nothing.
You know you can't do anythingbecause it's just like she
always making you laugh andshe's just goofy and you know
just you know people that justhave those kind of those heart,
(07:57):
that have a heart that you know.
And it's a Libra thing too.
She was a Libra, so and I'm aLibra, so Libras, we just you
know our heart and and we justthere.
We always there for people.
We always try to treat them howwe want to be treated and
people take our kindness forweakness and we should go above
and beyond for people and try toshow people this, this and that
(08:19):
that we care and company them,them and they significant other
or whoever, even if we're notwith them or together, like we
just always look out foreverybody's well-being, like we
just that's just us, and she wasjust that type of person like I
know I gotta have.
We had some fallouts at sometimes where I'm just like oh so
angry.
Then you had those times whereyou know your mom be calling.
(08:41):
You'd be like dang, you callingagain, talking about blowing up
your phone, like 24-8, 24-9,24-12.
But when you lose your mom,it's like I don't even care, I
don't care about you, want themtimes back when they call and
blow your phone up a thousandtimes a day.
Call and blow your phone up athousand times a day.
I'm talking about I still cango back on my voicemail and just
(09:07):
listen to my mom's voicemailsfrom different times that she
would leave me messages andstuff for me.
Like, girl, I text you, I textyou CB, answer the phone, cb,
hit your girl back.
I'm talking about all thosemessages and trying to wait to
(09:28):
answer your phone.
I got to tell you somethinghere.
Call me back.
Cornbread, thick, thick,cornbread fed.
I'm talking about all types ofstuff.
You just go back and I don'tknow.
You just reminisce on thosetype of things.
You just go back and I don'tknow.
You just like reminisce onthose type of things.
And when you lose your mom andit's like you, that was the only
person you had to talk to or todo anything with when you
(09:51):
wanted to get out the house or,like I said, if you had those
days where you wanted to, justI'm about to go, I want to cook,
I want to cook for somebody.
I ain't with nobody and I don'tfuck with nobody like that.
So I'm like all right, what youwant to eat.
You want some steak, you wantsome shrimp, you want some
catfish, you want some chicken,you want some meat, what you
want.
You want some lamb, whatever.
You want barbecue, you want me?
I'm gonna come cook it up andwe could have a girl's day, a
(10:14):
girl's night, whatever, and wejust about to have a good time,
fun and talk.
And you want something to drink?
You want a daiquiri?
I'm talking about it, just was.
It feels good to be able to havethose type of you know that
time with your parents.
I remember your mom, um, andwhen you don't and it's like
gone and you can no longer dothat anymore, it just really
(10:37):
hurts, like it's messed upbecause you don't know, I don't
know.
It's like it's messed upbecause you don't know what to
do.
People like you you're so usedto doing that and talking to
people and having conversationswith them, and you know, and
then when it no longer, when itdoesn't happen, I mean when you
can't anymore it's like you, youjust don't know what to do.
(10:58):
You're just like I don't haveanybody, like I mean, it's just
it's really hard and some peoplelike they feel like a lot of
people they don't understand,like why, why do you, this
person, act like this?
Or why is this person, you know,like this when their mom is
(11:19):
gone, that's who they, you know,spend time with, or that's who
they, you know, whatever,whatever.
When they had little, when thetimes that they needed to talk
to somebody or they werestressed out, like when, when
your, when your mom is gone,it's like I mean, what am I
(11:40):
supposed to do?
Like that's who I had, that wasmy bestie, that was my.
Basically what they say likeyou ain't see your young, you
know.
It's like.
When that person is gone, it'slike what do you do?
Like, when that person is gone,it's like what?
What do you do?
So I mean, it is really hard tonot have somebody that you can
(12:02):
chill with and that you can justvibe with and, you know, just
make a phone call and just belike OK, I'm about to pull up
and let's go do this together,or girl together, or girl get
dressed, I'm gonna take you tothe movies and all that type of
stuff.
When you don't have that andyou don't have anybody to have a
(12:23):
conversation with, and let themknow how you feel about certain
stuff and ask them what to do,because you know you can sit
there with them and have aconversation and talk for I'm
talking about hours or you knowhours or whatever and they're
going to actually listen to youand tell you exactly how you
feel, how they feel about it andwhat they think you should do
(12:45):
and this and that it hurtsbecause a lot of people, some
people, they'll sit there andlisten to your conversation or
listen to what you have to sayand really concur less.
Listen to what you have to sayand really concur less, like you
can sit there and have a wholebunch to say and tell them and
then you'll sit there and saythis isn't it and say this isn't
it, and then they really don'tbarely have anything to say to
(13:07):
you because they really don't.
They halfway ass was listeningor they halfway ass don't even
care.
I gotta have people around meand they claim that they're my
friend homeboys and homegirlsand shit like that, where you
sit there and try to have aconversation with them and
honestly that shit go in one earand out the other.
Motherfuckers don't care, theyconcur less.
(13:28):
They all about they self orwhatever they can get out of you
or get from you.
That's all they really beworried about and that shit is
really fucked up, that peopleare like that.
But I mean that's just people,that's how people are.
So it's like when you can haveyour mom there or somebody you
(13:49):
can go to, rather, if you needhelp or you have, like I said,
questions or concerns aboutcertain things, or you want to
know, like, what's your sense,what's your two cents, putting
your sense on this, putting yoursense on that, because you
might not have anybody to talkto, or you might be scared to
talk to somebody because youfeel like once I say something
to them or ask them thisquestion, they fuck around and
just be on some messy type shitI might ask.
(14:12):
I really want to know, I'mreally seriously considering
this or feeling like this,feeling suicidal, feeling like
it can be anything.
And when you talk to your mom,it's not going to go in one ear
and out the other majority ofthe time, depending on what it
is.
So you know anybody in theirmama like they gonna sit there
(14:33):
and tell you like no, they loveyou.
And this is not where youshould.
What you should be thinkingabout, and it's what you should
be doing, is, or you shouldn'tbe with that person.
If they don't like this, I mean, they're going to actually have
something to say and it's goingto feel genuine, besides being
around random people or talkingto random people about your
feelings, about stuff thatyou're feeling, or talking to
random people about yourfeelings and about stuff that
you're feeling, or it could beother family members that really
(14:55):
concur fucking less about whatyou got going on, because it
does not benefit them in no formfashion and they don't really.
They really don't care.
So, like I said, I just want togive a big late happy Mother's
Day to all the mothers and, eventhough my mom is not here
anymore, happy Mother's Day toyou.
I love you, I miss you, bigbooty judy, and I made sure on
(15:21):
mother's day I played all yourhits when I was djing and I know
you up there turning up and Ijust I love you so much, girl,
and I just can't hear your voiceright now.
I love you too, cornbread.
So I'm about to get out of herebefore I get really emotional
(15:41):
and once again, happy Mother'sDay, late Mother's Day to all
the mothers and everyone thathas lost their mom, and keep
pushing.
I'm praying for you guys andyou can do this.
I know it's hard and it justtakes time.
It really does take time.
So I'm about to get out of hereOne time for the one time.
Happy Mother's Day.
(16:02):
Late Mother's Day, it's yourgirl, dj Kornbread, aka the
Empress.
I'm out this bitch Bye.
Speaker 1 (16:09):
You're in the mix with the one and only celebrity,
dj Kornbread, aka the Empress.
Hey, hey, hey man, this is BigAce of Clubs, I'm the big man.
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Hey, hey man.
This is Big A's the Clip I'mthe Big man.
This is the largest fashionshow on the podcast.
Say I'm the Big man.
Speaker 2 (00:19):
What's up y'all?
It's your girl, dj Kornbread,aka the Ampers.
Y'all already know what it isBack with another one.
Dj Kornbread, aka the Ampers.
Y'all already know what it isBack with another one.
This episode is going to bemore on your mother.
I meant to drop this aroundMother's Day.
It was kind of hard for meseeing how I lost my mom, so
(00:42):
it's kind of hard for me to pushthrough when Mother's Day comes
around.
But yeah, this AP is going tobe more touching on Mother's Day
and your mother.
I love my mother.
I loved my mother.
No matter what you go through orwhat happens or what, you know,
(01:03):
you always love your mom.
You always make sure you.
I don't know how everybody elseis with their mother, but you
know how it's.
Sometimes it's so you know youand your moms might not see eye
to eye.
Sometimes Y'all might argue,you know, especially when you're
(01:24):
a girl and it's your mom.
So this goes out to all themothers and all the kids that
have lost their mother.
This episode is for you, um, I alot of people.
(01:50):
They don't understand why somepeople close up or feel a
certain kind of way when itcomes to mother's day, and I say
that because when you are aperson that everything you do
basically is mainly focused onyour mom, or whenever you do
something or you get out thehouse or when any kind of
(02:11):
holiday comes around, that's theonly person you have to like
spend time with, because youdon't have any other parent or
anybody else you know around.
So that's really like all youare, you know, that's.
That's mainly not all you know,but all you know.
I mean it's hard when you losethat person because it's like
(02:31):
who you go to for everything.
When you have a question aboutsomething, if you don't
understand something, you'restressed out.
It's like that's who you go towhen you have, you know, have
issues you know.
So it's kind of hard when thattime comes around and your
mother is not here because a lotof people nobody's going to
understand you like your mom.
(02:52):
I don't care what nobody saysLike sometimes, like I say, even
if you have those days andtimes where y'all bump heads or
whatever, nobody's going tounderstand you like your mom,
nobody's going to understand youlike your mom.
Like I have had I mean, I hadso many arguments and you know
(03:12):
things with my mom.
You know when she was here andit was like nothing compares to
how much I love her, loved her,and you know, I would give
anything for her to be here withme.
You know it's just some peopledon't understand that because,
like, if you, when you're goingthrough things and you don't
have anything but your mom oranybody but your mom to talk to
and to go, you know.
So what do you think about this?
(03:32):
What do you think about that?
Or why is this person doingthis to me?
Or should I keep doing this?
Or should I keep acting likethis?
For some reason I don't knowwhat it is, but the moms, they
always know what to say.
Are they always there?
Like I'm talking about get upand go get some wine or
something to drink or whateverand some popcorn, or go cook,
and I'm about to sit here andwe're about to go over
(03:54):
everything, all my issues andstuff that I'm stressed out
about or stuff that's pissing meoff, and I need to know what do
I need to do.
Do I need to go beat thisperson ass or do I need to just
sit down and just she be likelet God handle it, god handle it
, you know.
So it's just like nobodyunderstands and knows like how.
I mean, I guess, until you loseyour mom, like it's it's hard,
(04:19):
like it's you have to sit thereand think of all the good times
and the good things that you didtogether, or go back and look
at like the funny videos andstuff like that, because to keep
yourself, like you know,together it's really really hard
.
Like it's really really hardand nobody understands you, like
(04:43):
your mom, like you can befeeling a certain way about
somebody.
It can be about family, it canbe about a relationship, but you
always have when you had yourmom to go to.
It's just like all right, girl,I'm finna, pull up, what you
doing?
Okay, I just I need to tell yousomething.
It's hot, there's informationthat's hot and it's like if you,
if it ain't, you can't talkabout it right now, or it'd be
(05:04):
so good and juicy, you like no,we got to talk about this.
It's like all right girl, allright for the best friend like
you about to pull up and talkabout it my mama, we call her
big booty judy.
It's like my friends call herbig booty judy.
They'd be like cornbread.
I see where you get your that's, you get your booty from.
But yeah, like she, like she I'mtalking about my mom was like,
(05:26):
so cool I'm talking anybody thathas met my mom or met her they
were just like man, your mom wasjust so cool.
It's like your homegirl, likeshe, that homegirl vibe, so it's
like and a lot of people youknow it's just crazy because
they will be around my mom andthey're like, they will be like
I don't, my mom didn't act likethat or I didn't have my mom
(05:49):
around, you know, to give methat type of encouragement or
give me that, to have thatshoulder to lean on.
My mom was actually like a momto so many different people,
people that have lost their mom,people who know weren't in the
right, you know, getting alongwith their parents or their mom
or whatever.
It's just like my mom was therefor any and everybody, like if
(06:12):
they were my friend or they'rearound me and they, she.
She was one of those peoplethat even if me, you weren't
cool anymore or I wasn't talkingto you, she would be like
that's still my baby, that'sstill my daughter, that's still
my son.
You know she was one of those.
So it's like she didn't careabout what nobody had to say and
(06:33):
she would tell you.
No, wrong is wrong is right isright.
I don't care if that's mydaughter, she would tell you
like that was just her.
She was real like uh.
I mean it might be them dayswhere I'd be like girl, you need
to stop, or you know what uh-uh, that ain't right, but but like
(06:54):
.
So for the most part I'mtalking about like goofy.
So I know that's where I get mygoofiness from my kids, that's
where they get that goofinessfrom.
It's like I'm talking about shewas one of those.
Like yo, yo frown could getturned, will be turned upside
down, fucking with her goingover there, pulling up her ass.
Like I said, even if I wasn'tcool with you, no more, we
(07:15):
weren't talking or friends orwhatever.
She ended up, oh you knowso-and-so, pulling up on me and
they miss you or they misshanging with you or they don't
know why you don't talk to them.
Talking about she's one ofthose.
Try to play, uh, a match makerand put people back together and
make their friendships back.
Everyone and I'm talking aboutshe was on all that type of
(07:36):
stuff, like everybody.
Like I said, they loved her,like she.
When you have a person like thataround where you can't even do
really nothing.
You know you can't do anythingbecause it's just like she
always making you laugh andshe's just goofy and you know
just you know people that justhave those kind of those heart,
(07:57):
that have a heart that you know.
And it's a Libra thing too.
She was a Libra, so and I'm aLibra, so Libras, we just you
know our heart and and we justthere.
We always there for people.
We always try to treat them howwe want to be treated and
people take our kindness forweakness and we should go above
and beyond for people and try toshow people this, this and that
(08:19):
that we care and company them,them and they significant other
or whoever, even if we're notwith them or together, like we
just always look out foreverybody's well-being, like we
just that's just us, and she wasjust that type of person like I
know I gotta have.
We had some fallouts at sometimes where I'm just like oh so
angry.
Then you had those times whereyou know your mom be calling.
(08:41):
You'd be like dang, you callingagain, talking about blowing up
your phone, like 24-8, 24-9,24-12.
But when you lose your mom,it's like I don't even care, I
don't care about you, want themtimes back when they call and
blow your phone up a thousandtimes a day.
Call and blow your phone up athousand times a day.
I'm talking about I still cango back on my voicemail and just
(09:07):
listen to my mom's voicemailsfrom different times that she
would leave me messages andstuff for me.
Like, girl, I text you, I textyou CB, answer the phone, cb,
hit your girl back.
I'm talking about all thosemessages and trying to wait to
(09:28):
answer your phone.
I got to tell you somethinghere.
Call me back.
Cornbread, thick, thick,cornbread fed.
I'm talking about all types ofstuff.
You just go back and I don'tknow.
You just reminisce on thosetype of things.
You just go back and I don'tknow.
You just like reminisce onthose type of things.
And when you lose your mom andit's like you, that was the only
person you had to talk to or todo anything with when you
(09:51):
wanted to get out the house or,like I said, if you had those
days where you wanted to, justI'm about to go, I want to cook,
I want to cook for somebody.
I ain't with nobody and I don'tfuck with nobody like that.
So I'm like all right, what youwant to eat.
You want some steak, you wantsome shrimp, you want some
catfish, you want some chicken,you want some meat, what you
want.
You want some lamb, whatever.
You want barbecue, you want me?
I'm gonna come cook it up andwe could have a girl's day, a
(10:14):
girl's night, whatever, and wejust about to have a good time,
fun and talk.
And you want something to drink?
You want a daiquiri?
I'm talking about it, just was.
It feels good to be able to havethose type of you know that
time with your parents.
I remember your mom, um, andwhen you don't and it's like
gone and you can no longer dothat anymore, it just really
(10:37):
hurts, like it's messed upbecause you don't know, I don't
know.
It's like it's messed upbecause you don't know what to
do.
People like you you're so usedto doing that and talking to
people and having conversationswith them, and you know, and
then when it no longer, when itdoesn't happen, I mean when you
can't anymore it's like you, youjust don't know what to do.
(10:58):
You're just like I don't haveanybody, like I mean, it's just
it's really hard and some peoplelike they feel like a lot of
people they don't understand,like why, why do you, this
person, act like this?
Or why is this person, you know,like this when their mom is
(11:19):
gone, that's who they, you know,spend time with, or that's who
they, you know, whatever,whatever.
When they had little, when thetimes that they needed to talk
to somebody or they werestressed out, like when, when
your, when your mom is gone,it's like I mean, what am I
(11:40):
supposed to do?
Like that's who I had, that wasmy bestie, that was my.
Basically what they say likeyou ain't see your young, you
know.
It's like.
When that person is gone, it'slike what do you do?
Like, when that person is gone,it's like what?
What do you do?
So I mean, it is really hard tonot have somebody that you can
(12:02):
chill with and that you can justvibe with and, you know, just
make a phone call and just belike OK, I'm about to pull up
and let's go do this together,or girl together, or girl get
dressed, I'm gonna take you tothe movies and all that type of
stuff.
When you don't have that andyou don't have anybody to have a
(12:23):
conversation with, and let themknow how you feel about certain
stuff and ask them what to do,because you know you can sit
there with them and have aconversation and talk for I'm
talking about hours or you knowhours or whatever and they're
going to actually listen to youand tell you exactly how you
feel, how they feel about it andwhat they think you should do
(12:45):
and this and that it hurtsbecause a lot of people, some
people, they'll sit there andlisten to your conversation or
listen to what you have to sayand really concur less.
Listen to what you have to sayand really concur less, like you
can sit there and have a wholebunch to say and tell them and
then you'll sit there and saythis isn't it and say this isn't
it, and then they really don'tbarely have anything to say to
(13:07):
you because they really don't.
They halfway ass was listeningor they halfway ass don't even
care.
I gotta have people around meand they claim that they're my
friend homeboys and homegirlsand shit like that, where you
sit there and try to have aconversation with them and
honestly that shit go in one earand out the other.
Motherfuckers don't care, theyconcur less.
(13:28):
They all about they self orwhatever they can get out of you
or get from you.
That's all they really beworried about and that shit is
really fucked up, that peopleare like that.
But I mean that's just people,that's how people are.
So it's like when you can haveyour mom there or somebody you
(13:49):
can go to, rather, if you needhelp or you have, like I said,
questions or concerns aboutcertain things, or you want to
know, like, what's your sense,what's your two cents, putting
your sense on this, putting yoursense on that, because you
might not have anybody to talkto, or you might be scared to
talk to somebody because youfeel like once I say something
to them or ask them thisquestion, they fuck around and
just be on some messy type shitI might ask.
(14:12):
I really want to know, I'mreally seriously considering
this or feeling like this,feeling suicidal, feeling like
it can be anything.
And when you talk to your mom,it's not going to go in one ear
and out the other majority ofthe time, depending on what it
is.
So you know anybody in theirmama like they gonna sit there
(14:33):
and tell you like no, they loveyou.
And this is not where youshould.
What you should be thinkingabout, and it's what you should
be doing, is, or you shouldn'tbe with that person.
If they don't like this, I mean, they're going to actually have
something to say and it's goingto feel genuine, besides being
around random people or talkingto random people about your
feelings, about stuff thatyou're feeling, or talking to
random people about yourfeelings and about stuff that
you're feeling, or it could beother family members that really
(14:55):
concur fucking less about whatyou got going on, because it
does not benefit them in no formfashion and they don't really.
They really don't care.
So, like I said, I just want togive a big late happy Mother's
Day to all the mothers and, eventhough my mom is not here
anymore, happy Mother's Day toyou.
I love you, I miss you, bigbooty judy, and I made sure on
(15:21):
mother's day I played all yourhits when I was djing and I know
you up there turning up and Ijust I love you so much, girl,
and I just can't hear your voiceright now.
I love you too, cornbread.
So I'm about to get out of herebefore I get really emotional
(15:41):
and once again, happy Mother'sDay, late Mother's Day to all
the mothers and everyone thathas lost their mom, and keep
pushing.
I'm praying for you guys andyou can do this.
I know it's hard and it justtakes time.
It really does take time.
So I'm about to get out of hereOne time for the one time.
Happy Mother's Day.
(16:02):
Late Mother's Day, it's yourgirl, dj Kornbread, aka the
Empress.
I'm out this bitch Bye.
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