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March 18, 2025 45 mins
Exploring BDSM: A Journey of Trust, Communication, and Personal Freedom

In this episode of Follow Your Heartsong on KXFM Laguna's Community Radio, host Rose Heartsong engages in a deep, enlightening conversation with Grant McCarey—a fitness coach, bodyworker, professional dom, and BDSM educator—about the world of BDSM. They discuss common misconceptions, the psychology of power, trust, and surrender, and how BDSM can be a path to healing and personal freedom. The dialogue covers the essential elements of BDSM (bondage, discipline, domination, submission, sadism, and masochism) with a focus on the importance of trust, consent, and clear communication in such dynamics. Practical tips for beginners, including how to start exploring BDSM safely and consensually, are provided. Real-life examples underscore the potential for personal transformation and deep emotional release through BDSM practices.

00:00 Introduction to Follow Your Heartsong 
00:46 Exploring BDSM with Grant McCary
02:45 Personal Experiences and Misconceptions
08:52 The Importance of Communication and Consent
12:44 Bondage and Discipline Explained
15:00 The Role of a Professional Dom
19:07 Addressing Fears and Desires
23:11 The Joy of Helping Others
23:57 Wholesome Views on Sex
24:22 Transformative Power of BDSM
24:52 Overcoming Personal Trauma
27:00 Exploring Boundaries and Safety
29:10 Understanding Dominance and Submission
31:32 The Role of Sadism and Masochism
32:01 The Importance of Communication in BDSM
38:41 Practical Tips for Beginners
42:41 Final Thoughts and Resources

Find Rose at Roseheartsong.com or on instagram @roseheartsong 
Find Grant at  dominationeducation.com or on instagram @ dominationeducation
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