Who are you when the uniform comes off?
In this episode of Four Titles, One Truth, Tommie and Lance tackle a powerful reality for many veterans: the search for identity after the military. The uniform gave us purpose, recognition, and structure. But what happens when you hang it up for the last time?
We open up about our own transitions — the good, the confusing, and the surprising moments where we had to redefine who we were without rank, routine, or ribbons. From struggling to update our resumes to wondering what to wear in civilian life (seriously, what is business casual?), we keep it honest, insightful, and real.
This isn’t just about veterans — it’s about anyone who’s gone through a major life change and had to look in the mirror and ask, “Now what?”
🎧 Topics We Cover:
•Losing the identity tied to a rank or uniform
•Why some veterans struggle more than others
•Civilian life and the “Who am I now?” question
•How we each rebuilt our sense of self after service
•Tips for anyone facing a major identity shift
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