Future Single Lady: Surviving and Thriving Through Divorce

Date of Events:  February 25, 2024

So their dad tried to be "father of the year" and it backfired somewhat and made me look better and made our daughter feel better when she was down about something.  Granted, I didn't do it as a competition, I did what I did and said what I said because my daughter needed that perspective and guidance; I just happened to be the one who could see it and did it.

Did that process cr...

Day of Events:  February 23, 2024

Just a quick journal entry about following the advice of the angels and not worrying myself with the details of how things are to be accomplished and just having faith that they will be- focus on the end result, not the process.

Also dealing with cat pee on my bed and needing to prepare for my friend's wedding...  

Scarlett Davis

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Day of Events: February 22, 2024

Starting off the day pretty low and still struggling how a man who was supposedly still in love with me lied and manipulated and deceived me, I  asked my best friend for help and she as there for me.  Thankfully, so was the rest of the universe- i was in a much better mood and way more uplifted by the time I actually met up with my friend later that day.

Nicely or sadly- the almost ex still did a nice...

Day of Events: February 21, 2024

What a lying deceitful asshole.  At least, that's my opinion of him.  Though I'm definitely not alone in that opinion, here's one of many reasons why I am justified in that opinion....

I accepted his offer to let me file, days later, he congratulated me on doing it, thanked me for being "on it" but he had already filed... what a liar.  what kind of small, manipulative person m...

Day of Events: February 12 and 19, 2024

after my journal entry for the day, this is actually the telling of one of the ways he subversively dominated me- a way of sneaking in a sort of underhanded like and making himself look better by putting me down because I didn't fit into or believe in his definition of something or process...

I liked to cook but he always put me and my cooking down, nothing was ever good enough so why shou...

Day of Events:  February 18, 2024

Languages, perspectives... I thought about calling this episode "Magic, Witchcraft, and Jesus" because it depends on your perspective- how closely you are zoomed in or out-as to what you see, how similar things are versus how different they are.  Personally, I prefer a broader perspective so I can see how things are joined rather than a myopic point of view that seems to imply a dis-separa...

Day of Events: February 17, 2024

An entire day of gathering my things from around the house to help respectfully create more definition between each person's space; an exhausting task but also incredibly rewarding, too!

On this day, I was primarily focused on getting all the stuff I had stored in the spare room (and there was a lot of it!) out of it so that my future ex could have his own personal space.

Note: a lot of these thin...

Day of Event: February 13, 2024

The day after I declared my desire for freedom and the interactions  with the future ex... he already had a lawyer and the deceit was already in full swing and I was just barely getting a taste of it, only just starting to see how the man I'd been with for two decades was turning on me in what would rapidly become full-on hatred.

Scarlett Davis

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Day of Event: February 14, 2024 aka Valentine's Day!

A lover's holiday spent loving myself and my cherished loved ones!!

My kids, my family...  and psychic readings.  what?  lol, yes, a little psychic "muscle" flex- we all possess this gift and while some flex it and work it out like a body builder, some let it atrophy and that's okay.  This was just a mild, occasional workout, lol.

An amazing interaction with...

Day of Events chronicled: January 31 - February12, 2024

Anniversary of the day I told my husband of almost two decades that I wanted to be family, just not married to him anymore...

I couldn't stand the thought of going into a lovers' holiday pretending to be IN love anymore and didn't want to set that example of falseness for my children or show them that the way I was being treated was acceptable.

This begins the...

Day of Event: March 25, 2024

Day one of drama- first recording of what I'm dealing with in this process; it's not day one of the process but it's the first day that I'm angry, hurt, and just generally emotional enough to create a record of it.

It's the day before our first court appearance which is to determine Temporary Orders- judge approved legal orders that set the tone and expectation for how things shal...