What happens when the fairytale falls apart—more than once?
In this deeply honest conversation, I’m joined by mindset and confidence coach Deborah Blignaut, who shares her journey through divorce, widowhood, and ultimately, rediscovering herself. From marrying young and ignoring her gut, to walking away from a narcissistic partner, to losing the love of her life to cancer, Deborah's story is one of grief, resilience, and powerful reinvention.
We explore:
- Listening to your intuition—even when it’s inconvenient
- How journaling cracked open a path to healing
- Reclaiming your identity after years of people-pleasing
- Building confidence from a foundation of self-love
- Her top 3 lessons from rebuilding her life in midlife
If you’ve ever felt lost after a breakup, stuck in survival mode, or unsure where to begin again—this episode will meet you where you are, and remind you that it’s never too late to choose yourself.
Deborah’s Links:
💻 Website: https://www.quietlyconfidentwomen.com/home
📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/quietlyconfidentwomen/
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