"Who does she think she is?" Whether you've heard this about others or wrestled with this question yourself, this critical voice often shows up right when we're about to do something bold. In this episode, we explore why this questioning voice appears (especially for women), where it really comes from, and most importantly - how to move past it. You'll learn three practical strategies for handling self-doubt when it arises, discover why wanting more doesn't conflict with gratitude, and gain tools for taking up more space in the world unapologetically. If you've ever felt the tension between playing small and stepping into your full potential, this episode is for you.
EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS
00:00 Introduction: Embracing Self-Discovery
00:50 Facing the Inner Critic
01:15 Stepping into the Spotlight
03:50 Societal Expectations and Gender
06:53 Personal Anecdotes and Reflections
13:57 Practical Steps to Overcome Self-Doubt
17:32 Building Evidence of Your Success
24:16 Conclusion: Embracing Your Power
KEY TAKEAWAYS
- The critical voice often appears right before breakthroughs
- Taking up space as a woman isn't typically encouraged, but it's essential
- Wanting more doesn't conflict with gratitude
- Early talents often get buried but can be rediscovered
- Others' discomfort with your growth isn't a signal to stay small
QUOTABLE MOMENTS
"Everybody deserves to live into the full expression of themselves. I believe it's why we're here."
"Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure."
PRACTICAL TOOLS
1. Name it to Tame it - Recognize the limiting voice
2. Answer with Action - Take one small step forward
3. Create Evidence - Build your "Damn I'm Fabulous" list
RESOURCES
🎁 FREE Path to Purpose Quiz: Take the quiz!
📚 Choose Yourself Book: Get the book!
⏱️ The 15 Minute Shift ($27): Give yourself the gift of clarity - your first brave step forward in less than the time it takes to scroll social media. Discover The Shift!
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