Relationship Fatigue: Why Women Opt Out of Dating

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"It felt like I was constantly pulling teeth just to get him to talk about his day, let alone his feelings." Meanwhile, she was expected to be his emotional GPS, life coach, and sexual servant—all while maintaining her own career, friendships, and mental health.

This isn't an isolated story. It's a pattern so consistent it's become predictable. Women are encountering the same emotional unavailability, the same resistance to growth, the same entitled expectation that they'll do all the heavy lifting while getting breadcrumbs in return.

The stories are exhaustingly familiar: the weekend trip planned down to the last detail by the woman while her date shows up late, admitting he hadn't even bothered to look up where they were going. The man genuinely shocked that his date has her own career and isn't looking for a provider. The sexual encounters that prioritize his orgasm while treating hers as optional.

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