This discussion is with David Prorok (read more about him below!).
“You can’t mute pain without muting joy.” That’s what we landed on.
It started as a casual reflection on bittersweetness—how life doesn't split neatly into good or bad, but swirls together like cream in coffee.
And then it went deeper. Way deeper.
We talked about blinders. About the cost of emotional self-protection. How trying not to feel the “bad” stuff robs us of our full capacity to feel the good.
It’s not just about grief or shame. It’s about aliveness. When you avoid discomfort, you shrink your emotional aperture. You end up living on a narrow band—numb, detached, "fine" at best. But when you expand your ability to sit with discomfort— Not fix it. Not outrun it. Just be with it— You build a bigger container for joy too.
That’s what David Prorok teaches through something called RAIN-GPT (based on Tara Brach’s method). It’s not just tech. It’s a healing tool.
You walk through:
* Recognize what’s present.
* Allow it (no resistance, no judgment).
* Investigate where it lives in your story.
* Nurture the part of you that needs compassion.
Simple steps. Wildly powerful.
We talked about the self-talk that heals you more than any closure text ever could. We talked about choosing curiosity over self-judgment. We talked about stepping off the "wheel" of suffering and finally seeing it from the outside. And honestly? We talked about how radical it is to meet the present moment without trying to change it.
This episode won’t tell you how to “fix your mindset” or “manifest your best life.” It’ll remind you that you’re already whole— Even in the mess. Especially in the mess.
David's Free Gift From the Episode: 🌧️ RAIN GPT: A Practice of Radical Compassion → Try the tool on ChatGPT: https://chatgpt.com/g/g-HL7LcuGI7-rain-gpt-a-practice-of-radical-compassion
About David Prorok:
David Prorok is a mindfulness teacher, technologist, and the founder of Exponential Enlightenment—a space where emotional healing meets practical spirituality. Through 1:1 sessions, guided meditations, and AI-powered tools, David helps people navigate life’s transitions with clarity, compassion, and self-trust.
He’s also the creator of RAIN GPT, a guided AI experience based on Tara Brach’s emotional processing method: Recognize, Allow, Investigate, and Nurture. Whether you’re recovering from heartbreak, wrestling with anxiety, or simply trying to return to yourself—David’s work meets you where you are and invites you into something deeper.
On the tech side, he also leads Exponential Education, a platform for visionary builders, creatives, and spiritual entrepreneurs to co-create, teach, and rise together.
And if you catch him on a full moon—you might find him dancing barefoot, mixing live music and meditation at Full Moon Fusion, his community ritual for collective liberation and embodied awakening.
David’s Tools + Offerings:
🌀 Exponential Enlightenment Mindful coaching, AI insight tools, & meditation for deep self-awareness → Website: https://exponentialenlightenment.vercel.app/ → Book a free 7-min connection session
🚀 Exponential Education A platform for artists, technologists, and creators ready to teach and build in community → Visit exponential-education.com → Join the portal: https://rise-together-portal.lovable.app/
🎙️ Podcast Feature: The Oracle & The Algorithm → Watch on YouTube:
Connect with David:
📸 Instagram: @david.prorok 🎵 YouTube (Music & DJ Sets): @davidprorok 📿 YouTube (Meditation & Mindfulness): @ExponentialEnlightenment
About Kate Paullin:
Hi, I’m Kate Paullin, a holistic depth coach, reflective writer, and deeply curious human.
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