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October 15, 2025 1 min
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You have learned to listen. You have learned to ask questions. You have learned to inhabit others’ perspectives emotionally. These skills function during conversation, requiring real-time attention and discipline. The exercise that follows happens before conversation, in private, where you can develop the intellectual strength to engage with opposing views at their most formidable.

This is steel-manning: constructing the strongest possible version of the position you oppose.

Most people practice the opposite. They encounter weak versions of opposing arguments, dismiss them easily, and conclude the opposing position has no merit. This creates false confidence. When they meet someone who holds that position for sophisticated reasons, they are unprepared. Their rehearsed rebuttals address arguments the person never made. They appear to be arguing with a phantom. They lose credibility and influence.

Steel-manning prevents this failure. When you can construct the opposing argument better than most of its holders can, you are prepared for any version of it you will encounter. When you have grappled seriously with the strongest form of a position, you know which aspects you can refute and which aspects you must concede or accommodate. This intellectual honesty is what separates persuasive argument from empty rhetoric.

The Exercise Structure

Step One: Document Your Position

Choose a contentious political issue where you hold a strong view. Write down your position and the three to five main reasons supporting it. Be specific. “I support universal healthcare” is too vague. “I support a single-payer healthcare system funded through progressive taxation because it would reduce administrative costs, eliminate medical bankruptcy, improve health outcomes through preventive care, and align healthcare incentives with patient welfare rather than profit” gives you something concrete to work with.

This documentation serves as your baseline. You will return to it after completing the exercise to assess what changed in your understanding.

Step Two: Find the Strongest Opposition

Research the best arguments against your position. This requires deliberate effort because your information environment naturally filters these out.

* Seek out the most respected thinkers who oppose your view.

* Read their books and articles, not just headlines about them.

* Watch their talks.

* Find scholarly articles that challenge your position with evidence and rigorous reasoning.

You are looking for arguments that make you uncomfortable, arguments that you cannot easily dismiss, arguments constructed by intelligent people who have thought deeply about the issue. If you find yourself reading and thinking “this is stupid,” you have not found strong enough opposition. Keep searching until you encounter arguments that genuinely challenge your thinking.

For healthcare policy, you might read economists who argue that single-payer systems reduce innovation, physicians who experienced poor outcomes under nationalised systems, policy analysts who document perverse incentives in government-run programmes, or philosophers who make libertarian arguments about medical freedom and the limits of state power.

Step Three: Identify Legitimate Concerns

As you read these opposing arguments, extract the legitimate concerns driving them. Every serious political position rests on genuine worries about real problems.

Someone opposing universal healthcare might legitimately worry about: innovation declining when profit motive is removed from medicine, government bureaucracy creating worse inefficiencies than private insurance, economic costs exceeding projections and requiring damaging tax increases, individual freedom being restricted in medical choices, quality declining when providers cannot compete for patients.

These concerns are not invented or imaginary. Each rests on evidence from specific contexts where these problems materialised. Your task is identifying which concerns have validity even whilst you maintain your overall position. This intellectual honesty is uncomfortable. It requires acknowledging that the policy you support carries real risks and real costs, that people who oppose it are often responding to genuine problems rather than being selfish or ignorant.

Write out these concerns in their strongest form. Force yourself to articulate them as compellingly as their advocates would. This is hard work. Your mind wants t

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