How To Get Wet When You're Dry

How To Get Wet When You're Dry

Love and lust without the liquor. Conversations with brilliant guests exploring where sex, sobriety, and dating collide. Journalist, lover, and several years into recovery from both alcohol and an eating disorder, Anna Wolfe brings personal experience to discussions about relationships and recovery. She's not a therapist, a guru, or an expert - just a woman who thought it would be nice to share these things and now deeply regrets it.

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October 29, 2025 40 mins

In her over 18 years of sobriety, comedian, actor, writer and the beautiful brain behind calling a comedy special “Busting A Nut”, Felicity Ward has helped countless people by being unflinchingly honest about her mental health. And that’s alongside appearing on everything from Dancing with the Stars AUS to Live at the Apollo.

Felicity joins Anna to talk about relationships, breakups, and dating in her 40’s. They share dating app tip...

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Alongside running a dough empire, Georgia Gomez, a writer and half the brains behind Papo’s Bagels, is also the long-suffering friend of Anna Wolfe, a feat more impressive than any bake. In this episode, Georgia, who’s been sober for over a decade, shares her story of getting sober in New York, learning to look after herself again, punch-ups, and why you shouldn’t lock yourself in a guy’s apartment and refuse to leave. 

The two also...

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musician with tones so docile you’ll lose your mind. Lauren speaks with brutal honesty (get it?) about what led her to sobriety and dating tales galore. 

You’ll hear about the love bug becoming a drug, why Lauren cooked a hookup a juicy leg of lamb, and why dating a man with a velcro wallet is a rock bottom in itself. 

Enjoy. 

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October 7, 2025 40 mins

You’ll know Bob the Drag Queen as a comedian, actor, writer, drag superstar, and now self-proclaimed sex tourist. Bob joins Anna to discuss Grindr bios, drinking days, and the stories that led to sobriety. There’s also sausage chat, jokes about the British, and a serious debate about whose pi**ing flow is louder.


Keep us wet when we’re dry by donating to our Collectiv pot. All proceeds will go toward making season two. Thank you!


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September 30, 2025 45 mins

Sex educator, sex worker, and co-host of Come Curious podcast, Reed Amber has made her love for sex not just her passion, but her profession. In this episode, Reed opens up about navigating sexuality in sobriety, unpacking the complex world of kink and fetish, and what it means to actually feel okay in your own skin and own your sexual quirks. 

Amidst the talk of kink and self-love, Anna can’t stop fixating on whether or not people ...

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Seye Adelekan is the bassist for Gorillaz and singer-songwriter who previously worked with Lana Del Rey, Emeli Sandé and Paloma Faith.

In this episode, Anna and Seye chat about how his addiction affected his relationship, how liquid courage did them dirty while dating, and the hat to ego ratio. 

They’ll cover how his lifestyle of endless touring, parties, drugs and booze took its toll and ultimately how a life of excess led to recov...

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September 16, 2025 31 mins

She “blows sh** up”, she’s an entrepreneurial mastermind, she owns the most fabulous pair of fluffy Birkenstocks, she’s Cindy Gallop. While working in an illustrious and award-winning advertising career, Cindy set up MakeLoveNotPorn, a platform for people to share their real-world sex videos. 

In this episode, Cindy speaks frankly about everything from dating younger men to how to communicate in bed without accidentally devastating ...

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Con man boyfriends, shagging forever and pants shitting. Variety is the spice of life after all. 

Stand-up comedian, actress, musician and Queen of Everything, Margaret Cho talks about her childhood, eating disorders and sobriety in this debut episode of How To Get Wet When You’re Dry.


Content warning: This episode contains references to drug and alcohol addiction, sexual abuse and eating disorders.


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Love and lust without the liquor. Conversations with brilliant guests exploring where sex, sobriety, and dating collide.


Journalist, lover, and several years into recovery from both alcohol and an eating disorder, Anna Wolfe brings personal experience to discussions about relationships and recovery. She's not a therapist, a guru, or an expert - just a woman who thought it would be nice to share these things and now deeply regrets it...

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