How to Speak Up and Be Heard in Any Group with Dr. Victoria Stakelum
Ever felt silenced in a meeting, outnumbered in a discussion, or too intimidated to challenge the status quo? You’re not alone. Groupthink is a deeply ingrained survival instinct - we’re wired to stick with the herd, even when we disagree. But what if staying silent means the wrong decision gets made?
In this episode, Dr. Victoria Stakelum, a psychologist and NLP Master Coach, helps us understand why speaking up feels so hard—and how to do it anyway.
In this episode, we break down:
- Why groupthink happens - and how it can lead to bad decisions.
- How to recognise when you’re in a groupthink moment.
- The subtle psychological tricks to make your voice heard.
- How to frame your opinion so others actually listen (without triggering resistance).
- Why having just one ally in the room can change everything.
- Practical strategies for bringing confidence, presence, and authority to group discussions.
Whether it’s a team meeting, a social gathering, or a high-stakes decision, knowing how to challenge the group without alienating yourself is a game-changer.
This episode is for you if you want to learn how to hold your ground, influence the conversation and make sure your voice is heard.
Find Dr Victoria Stakelum at thesuccesssmith.com or on LinkedIn.
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