I’m Not Slutty Enough!

They say my kids inherited my temper—but what if that “temper” was never just anger? In this episode, I unravel the years I spent being mislabeled as impatient, grumpy, or loud… when all I really wanted was to be heard. From screaming at my own birthday party to zoning out with music just to find peace, this is a raw look at how bottled-up emotions shaped my voice—and how I’m finally starting to use it differently.

What started as a childhood fear turned into a lifelong lesson: never let them see where it hurts. In this episode, I talk about the kind of people who feed on your fear, how silence becomes self-protection, and why I still hesitate to share what scares me. Vulnerability might be healing for some—but for me, it was a trap I learned to avoid early. So thanks for the trauma, Uncle Trevor.

There was a time I’d stay up all night picking the perfect outfit, doing my hair, counting down the hours till morning. But over the years, one quiet detail began deciding whether I’d even show up: my weight. In this episode, I unpack the ritual, the body shame, the relatives who couldn’t mind their own business—and how fatphobia stole the joy from something that used to feel magical.

This episode is my revenge anthem to every bully who ever underestimated me. You wanted to break me? Cute. Instead, you handed me the plot. From hallway whispers to full-on humiliation, I unpack how cruelty shaped my rage, sharpened my voice, and gave birth to the version of me that now owns the mic. This isn’t about forgiveness. It’s about power. It’s about turning shame into a story—and making sure I’m the one telling it.

What started off as sarcasm slowly revealed itself as nothing but spite and jealousy.

This episode dives into the unfairness I grew up with — the way some of us were treated like gold, and the rest of us like afterthoughts. It’s about favoritism, silent resentments, and how being family doesn’t mean being treated equally.

How it all began

Let me tell you the story about the “perfect people” who created “the psycho”!

Ray Jing Storm is a bold, unapologetic woman sharing raw, personal stories of being bullied, underestimated, and way too fabulous for small minds. With humor, heart, and a hint of rage, she dives into the messy, beautiful chaos of identity, resilience, and self-expression. Ray brings a wildly colorful perspective to heavy topics—perfect for listeners who love storytelling with bite, honesty, and a whole lot of flair.