Ep. 12 - Bonus Series: Reclaiming Your Sacred Freedoms #3 - Silenced in the Name of God – Reclaiming Freedom of Expression & Communication

🎙️ This episode is part of the Bonus Series: Reclaiming Your Sacred Freedoms (Episodes 9, 11–17)

What if silencing your voice started long before church, marriage, or adulthood?

In this brutally honest episode, Tamara Ridge unpacks how childhood conditioning, family dynamics, Mormon doctrine, church music, and marriage all conspire to steal your voice—and how to finally reclaim it. From repressive primary songs to emotionally unsafe marriages, bishop interviews, and ritual language control, Tamara maps the pervasive systems that teach you compliance, guilt, and self-erasure.

She shares raw personal stories—being punished for speaking up, cheerful obedience, church and marriage pushing her toward erasure, and a powerful turning point when a healthy partner insisted, "You MUST put yourself first." This episode offers real permission and practical tools to reclaim your language for the Divine, trust your emotions, and break silence around things that matter most.

If you’ve ever felt punished for speaking, doubted your language, or longed to be heard as your authentic self, this episode will help you see your voice as sacred—and finally yours to claim.

Key Topics Covered

• How childhood family systems teach silence as survival
• Primary songs as early indoctrination (Choose the Right, Quickly I’ll Obey, Nephi’s Courage, Follow the Prophet)
• Marriage and patriarchal control
• Emotional censorship and forbidden conversations
• The day Tamara left church for good, breaking her own silence
• Language policing in Mormonism and reclaiming sacred language
• What real voice reclamation looks like (Kriya yoga partner’s turning point)
• Tools for honoring emotions and claiming your voice
• Why the Divine doesn’t require your silence, performance, or approved language

Notable Quotes

• "The silencing didn’t start in church. For me, it started in childhood."
• "If you can’t name what’s harming you, you can’t heal from it."
• "Every system I encountered tried to take my voice. But my voice was never theirs to take."
• "You don’t have to silence yourself to be loved. That was always a lie."
• "God does not require your silence. The Divine is not served by your voicelessness."

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