I'M NICE, NOT TO EVERYONE|SETTING BOUNDARIES IS NOT A CRIME| DIFFERENCE BETWEEN BEING NICE AND PEOPLE PLEASING|

We’ve all been told to “be nice.” But what happens when being nice turns into people-pleasing? When saying “yes” starts costing you your peace? When your kindness is mistaken for weakness?

In this episode, we break down the difference between genuine kindness and forced politeness, the dangers of being too nice, and how to set boundaries without feeling guilty. I’ll share personal stories, real-life examples, and practical strategies to help you protect your time, energy, and self-respect.

✨ What you’ll learn in this episode:
✔️ The difference between kindness and people-pleasing
✔️ Why being too nice can lead to burnout and toxic relationships
✔️ How to recognize when you’re being taken advantage of
✔️ Simple ways to start setting boundaries and saying “no” with confidence

🎙️ Listener Challenge: This week, I challenge you to say NO to something that doesn’t serve you. Whether it’s a favor you don’t want to do or an event you don’t feel like attending—stand your ground. Share your experience using #NotToEveryoneStory, and let’s talk about it!

💬 Join the Conversation:
Have a story about being “too nice” or struggling to set boundaries? I’d love to hear it! Send me a message or comment on social media.

🔗 Next Episode Teaser: In Episode 2, we’ll talk about "Overcoming the Guilt of Saying No." Why do we feel bad for setting boundaries, and how can we unlearn the need to please? Stay tuned!

👉 Listen now, and remember—being kind is powerful, but not everyone deserves your kindness.