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May 29, 2025 63 mins

AM I THE TOXIC ONE ?? | S01E11

Episode 11 - In this episode of Guys Being Guys, we dive into the tricky world of toxicity—from being called toxic to calling ourselves out. We unpack the difference between being genuinely toxic and just being human, break down gaslighting in everyday situations, and talk about what it’s like to be on both sides of a toxic dynamic. Have you ever been labeled toxic? We have. And we’re sharing how we handled it, what we’ve learned, and how to grow through it.


This one’s real, raw, and reflective—but still with the same laughs and good vibes you know us for. Tune in and ask yourself with us… Am I the toxic one?


Chapters

(00:00) Intro

(01:53) Checking In With The Hosts (CIWTH)

(05:42) AM I THE TOXIC ONE ???

(16:48) Toxic Mirror Check

(26:21) gAsLiGtInG

(31:35) Toxic vs Human

(49:03) Have you been called Toxic before ?

(53:00) What have you learnt so far

(54:42) Shoutout to the bigger people

(1:01:00) Outro


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(00:00):
Oh shit, here we go again. You guys, you guys welcome back,
welcome back. Welcome, welcome.

(00:22):
We see welcome for French. Guys, welcome back.
Banging banging banging episode guys was good.

(00:49):
No, probably. Thinks the public is not in the
map. No, no, you guys, you guys all I
do all I'm asking more that whatis what is welcome in French?

(01:11):
Why you catchy feelings? Feelings.
Welcome to episode 11 of Guys Being Guys where we talk about
everything relating to guys. The matters, topics, situations.

(01:33):
You get ready to pull it up, guys.
You guys, you guys, I think about 8:00 like 10 episodes,
like I think they're about time to start bringing new segments.

(01:54):
So this time we call it checkingin with the hosts, CIWH call it
queen Siri, Siri Siri CIW H checking with the host and
everything. So more, how is your love life
going? My love life.

(02:30):
Right now. How is your life going?
What can I say get. Me here.

(03:13):
Yeah. Yeah.
Baby. Baby.
How are you? Love life stable so far some
friction you guys. Let me just you guys 1 time when

(03:50):
you guys, you guys, you guys. Yours is worse.
No, I'm no, I'm actually no, I'mnot.
When when? When our?
When our? Moving on, moving on.

(04:25):
This. I was dealing to something.
I'll just show you that you get all right, guys.
Do I talk about our feelings? Good.
Why? Why emotional bouts I was it was

(04:49):
either I spoke to these two bastards or I go.
I chose I went to see the last Iever did you guys talk about I
see I wasn't. I wasn't talking about that,
talking about if I could miss mefor help.
For kids. For kids.
I wasn't actually, no, no guys, this people that are nosy.

(05:10):
That's the thing. I just listeners are nosy.
Why? Are they listening?
OK, so guys to. Do we're talking about extensive
topics so again to clarify on while on episode 10 episode so
we're not really proud in this episode 10 B episode let you
guys know that we're back exactly.

(05:36):
Levelling, but that what you mean?
Level exactly so yeah yeah so weget back with some topics to
discuss first of all I'll go to disclose that am I the toxic one
this is this is this is clarity that's OK you see that episode
you sit down I. Can answer that question very
easily. This one isn't.

(05:58):
What? Do you mean by magic toxic.
OK, let's let's start let's start Let's start with let's
start with the I might, I might the toxic 1.
You asked the question is it Yeah no hold on hold on.
I was giving the context They will discuss about it.
It is segment. We'll talk about case
self-awareness bus was denial and it turns you realise that

(06:19):
you might have been the problem be it relationship, be it
friendship, be it work, be it school so so I'll be able to
let's if not if not you're not ahuman being if not what being
toxic one if if. Not experience like
self-awareness. No, the question is am I the
problem when you have had the problem, said self.

(06:43):
Awareness and what? self-awareness versus denial but
what's the question? OK no, no, no, I'm not no, no,
I'm getting am I the problem? Am I the toxic one?
OK, then inside that one he saidOK, that's the situations.
Whereas the you my self-awareness is that you know
you're toxic, but you don't you keep you can't accept it.
No, no, no, I don't get it. That is denial.
You can't accept missus denial. self-awareness is that yes, you

(07:05):
are aware. Oh, you're toxic but you don't
want to change that's. Still.
Denial. No, no, denial is not accepting
that you're toxic. You don't know.
You don't know me. I can't be toxic.
So as ever, be citizen whereas you may be, it's your friendship
relationship. You know that you were toxic to

(07:26):
to to the other one. I don't know.
I can't really say. I have to.
I have to scan to try and remember to try and.
Remember, I won't lie. I won't lie to you.
Yeah, I know. I've been toxic.
Nuclear. Well, see.
No, no, no, no. There's there's there's labels.

(07:49):
There's there's level of toxicity that I know yes, I've
told I've no, that's not the word of what is word No, I've
doubled in. That's the word that would cause
broke have been horrible. I've been nasty.
Well, I don't there's that you now is that I disappear.

(08:12):
See that is bad. I promise it is bad because of
that like I can't talk to you now would drive while vibe
disappear. I want to be fully coming order
our black. It's coming I I miss you for
like 2 days. Come back and I'll be posting.

(08:32):
She's seen, she's seen I'm posting.
I'm sure more of my listener she.
Might text, you might not even reply, but.
I won't. That's the thing.
I've already I already know thatit talks a bit of no replying
text. That's the problem.
Like I literally see the. I see, OK, that's, that's,
that's. My family members.
That's also was. Like no replying text.

(08:55):
Actually, this is Muslim. I find my own Is that my farm?
No, I replied them because I need to move more.
Is that I see the message. I've replied the message my age,
but I'm not touched down GK. I don't lost my part of my some
problem bro that's part of my about my new year resolution.
I promised the way that my broadcast that's found.

(09:16):
Let me look for it. Don't know, you reply.
You replied me yesterday. Back to that you stop this bitch
ass. So so good bro.

(09:40):
Anyways, anyways, I think it's also that so setting us record
this episode like everything next year.
I do not been sound always aboutto slap.
His metrics spoil sound. I know that.

(10:30):
I just, it was hilarious. It was for the housework guys.
Visuals coming soon. Working on it.
We don't want to do the typical get ready, you understand?
We don't want to do something. We have to be stepping back

(10:52):
again. Yeah yeah so anyways back to my
toxic 1. So now goes to the point that
you people to see that the leastsmiles you to sit down that is
there someone that keeps textingyou but you are ghosting #1 is
someone that keeps texting you boards.

(11:13):
You know, it's not just about ghosting to no doubt something
to say when like texting, OK, for example, you see you, you
are texting a girl, but she she's just replying you.
You know, it's two different things when you're texting and
she's just replying on this kindthings to that one is part of

(11:34):
it. NOW Now is toxic for my own
yeah, but not the guys that I'm.Saying if a guy guys to.
Do it so. Guys to do it too, non talent.
Behaviour, not. Feeling.
The person anymore OK anymore, but you once you once was you
were feeling the person once. That's that's that's that's OK

(11:58):
me why different movies on and OK go on either.
Then the person just doesn't getthe message.
That you are not feeling high anymore.
If they don't get the message ormore.
Not a different thing. I don't like you didn't get the
I mean that person truly likes you or they just do or or you

(12:19):
didn't. Put your message out there
clear. How I'm gonna play a message as
it takes message? It's not about that 2-3 days,
that one the person likes you, that kind of thing.
You should clear the person immediately.
It's not like that person is that person is simply not love
that one. What do you mean?

(12:40):
What do you mean he texted someone didn't play for two
days? You.
Few years. Back.

(13:19):
Going now going about what the story mystery the girl now
moving on you guys see some mummy daddy move move depressed
the guys of Jesus cause of his pettiness moving on moving on
so. If they don't get the message,
what are you supposed to do? Stop replaying in in total.

(13:40):
But what's what's what's what's the name of the doing was what
they keep see what's they keep coming back or what's you like
the name of place? Where is that always coming to
your place? No that.
Was. A different story.
What do you know, order? Let me, let me, let me let me
place on the reality of life is that I promise you that if
there's someone so you guys listen, maybe there's someone
that you're texting or did we keep texting you?

(14:04):
We are not giving him attention.I promise you that if we change,
if you see someone, if you see someone bigger than you giving
him attention. I love them before he was like
after like one man, like after my heartbreak, I ran to guy ran
to my guys place like this. So those get out this get to
show. So like show.
So broke up with that guy. So my friends were trying to now

(14:26):
I don't understand the logic link 2 guys that those 22
Brookie 2 brookies are being together, which we didn't make
sense. Bro.
I didn't give our attention. I thought I was in the mood bro.
Next song that takes like movingtowards our more do I say
talking to her again, guy was like I was like, what the heck.

(14:46):
All right, So that may change some scenarios.
That's something that you might be for you.
So that is mean that you know talking to someone or you don't
fancy them, you don't feel them,but someone talking to them who
they don't become more attracting to you I feel.
Like that is more of a mountain.That was to be as a guy, not
you, no. Why do you see as a guy?

(15:10):
Women, some women that kind of she going step.
Away bro, she's not step anywhere.
Some some bro let the some no. Most women, obviously.
Most women let me give. Let me let me give it not.
Going to be like his own scenario is not going to be like
well, the guys talking, the other guys talking to the babe.
He is going to be lay down the babe talk, lay down shoe sign.

(15:33):
See, she wants to. Yeah, most women, but most guys
won't do you my points. Let me let me tell something.
Why do you think, why do you think, why do you think that is
the moment you can be single. I don't think that happened to

(15:55):
you guys, but you can be single.You choose the moment they find
out you have a girlfriend. That is.
Scary, brother. So it's the kind of thing that
the apple. Yeah, Apple, usually, but like a
normal thing, yeah. Normal.

(16:17):
Stuff. Like I said, I feel like that
stuff is more of a man things. I don't think everybody are big.
That's what I was get. You can be single to stupid.
Nobody won't step up to the moment you have a big bro.
Yeah, more attractive is generally this is worldwide.

(16:38):
So I think that's the thing. So is it weirdest thing?
That's one aspect as one aspect that's one aspect so like this
they called the mirror check where I like quick body like
toxic. Am I toxic?
You look at the mirror. Am I toxic?
They don't like like the way it used to look quiet.
You talk to yourself, look at the mirror, look at so like I

(17:02):
just talk about to you guys thatyou see step on the mirror.
Just keep looking at yourself. They rather you keep looking.
You start like you start. Some people are seeing you, I
feel. Like Africans don't do much.
Self reflection. They do.
They don't. They do.
I promise you. I promise you they do.
I love them. She don't like.
Yourself they do, but they don't.

(17:23):
They don't you, everybody, everybody is an hypocrite.
That's that's reflection already.
If that's reflection already, they've seen it already.
Exactly that will come to toxic.The toxic trick confession.
You go around and convert your own like you think you just
confess. To yourself.

(17:44):
That's the thing. So they do.
Wait, what is some people mistake your eggs for pride?
Yeah. What do you mean eggs for pride?
There are some things you just can't stand.
Yes, no, like you know, some people can't stand when you're
eating all together and your mouth is sounding crack, crack,
crack or you're when you're eating from this point you must

(18:07):
crush. Your teeth to.
Scratch the iron. Those are those are, those are I
think those are pet peeves. It's it's a pet peeves now.
She doesn't like your dreads. She doesn't like.
That's my mommy's business. That's my mommy's business.
I don't like, I don't like that stuff.

(18:28):
I don't like that stuff for. Me, I feel like when you're
actually in love, in love sometimes.
But I promise you, I promise you, I promise you.
Nobody's overlooking his. His only movie.
Hold on, let me fight the first one.
The first one? You said something for the only
movie. I can't remember.

(18:48):
Just like my mind. Now come on, I can't be that old
anyways. The only movie, The only movie
is on that bro. They care.
They don't see. Oh, yeah, I don't remember that.
That my hair. You said about my hair, right?
Go see. See.
That's something like that are like in people that you're

(19:09):
allowed to know, like no children.
Let me learn now. Oh, don't.
Oh, don't. Oh, don't.
Oh, don't. Oh, don't.
I've left your bus operator moving.
I'm telling you, come back. Don't.
Let me learn now before something about is back.
But you say that they like my they don't like this thing, the

(19:32):
thing that they're allowed not to.
They're allowed dislike something about some somebody
else. Boy, let me talk now.
No, no, no, no, no, no, no. It says that.
They keep saying that. OK, now they seem.
I don't like your hair now. Yeah, like me now this There's

(19:54):
this thing, my face on my life. That family family robot demos.
But if I said that if I was likenow, like I can meet someone
now, I know that, but I know that tip that back to you now.
I don't like you. I like this.
I met someone like that before, but it was cool.
Everyone was laughing about it. But if it's mean, I said, I
don't like the way to Tommy is now is a problem, is a problem,

(20:16):
but nobody was. Like come at you for that song
My hair. No, you know, like in a girl
with a big tummy. I don't like now people come out
here, no. What I'm saying is it's still
you that's your own. You can't be with the joke that
is like that. I'm on.
I see. Nobody likes nobody like

(20:36):
nowadays bro. Nowadays I was in Lagos, the
almost everybody almost like thegirls there.
What did you just see?

(21:21):
Is that what the that's something now Blasi Blasi want
each of us starting paper write everything down next topic back
to this So these are questions yourself so that the kind of

(21:45):
toxic professions that I like you ghost when life gets real
that might do that you know it'snot it's actually LD use it as a
copy mechanism everybody has. A different way to deal with
stuff. The majority of people that is
happy, some. People when they are dealing
with stuff, did they they start getting more social, trust me,

(22:09):
posting back-to-back to back talking with people.
So people now, so did they deal with stuff?
Right, let's post for fun and beg I get.
One guy. Guy pastor, nobody.
Common House. Unless in our church, yes.
Yes. Is he allowed to go out or it
doesn't go out? Wife, he doesn't.

(22:35):
He doesn't mean good. That.
Is very private. Bill, you can private but.
But if it's time to come out, you come.
Out. Do you get kind of right?
Yeah, so around 1 you give advice but you never take it.
You guys consider toxic? Yes.

(22:55):
That's the I feel like that's more now more older people that
display that suit. Follow what I say, not how I
lead. As in follow what I say, you
can't tell me also just anythingI feel.
Like it's older people. Yeah, now, Oh yeah, they don't

(23:19):
they don't practise what they preach.
You understand it's very not choice, very in church.
Let me let me just get the story.
Let me let me just get the story.
So basically have this friend soin this in the apartment like
this isn't BQ Park. So opposite apartment is upstate

(23:40):
bungalow up and down. So up the upstairs is a pastor.
This was a pastor, all these Jersey churches that you hear
any Tabernacle of the Lord of Jesus Christ, who, who, who gave
birth to David, all these churches, how much has to
blasphemy anything but that Nowadays there's more church
than religion. So basically, so is a pastor.

(24:04):
But I promise you that we've caught this man stealing.
We've caught this man stealing so many times.
So before this president moved into the apartment downstairs is
a woman. So she keeps her lives outside.
She leaves her Gen outside. Yeah, he does take the floor 2

(24:27):
times. Basically my own you.
Do it like. He still I think 5 no.
No, no, like does he do the normal lookout?
Lookout yes, he knows. He knows.
Okay, all these nine to five women you guys goes in the
morning, so he knows that for sure she's not coming back
anytime soon but like I said we're big use to record the

(24:50):
person when I pro yes from Upstairs Downstairs because
downstairs so he came downstairsso that was the first time
second time was like you know these faces.
Now the blood is face one in that type of faces there's a
black one is the ceramic when I can pull on yeah go back so they
like the only I think they all melted and everything so good to
go a new one for the BQ. So the day after the good new

(25:15):
one yesterday was having the same fault They went back to
where their metal was so that isan old is the old changeover
that is there old brick what they call it yeah now we're back
to them. They were looking for the
apartment so that it was a new one in that man's apartment.
GK we already switched it bro itswitches the best by the time

(25:37):
the guy told me by the guy told me like I was around like I'll
go there like I'm like just living with the thief because of
a pastor in the morning. My distinct Christian see that
was more everybody the decrease,everybody an hypocrites.
Lots of Muslim clerks, and a lotof them.

(26:17):
Does it make sense relationship So do you guys gaslight yourself
in relationships friendship to in friendship?
Yes, no gaslighting basically for those for those that don't
have some gaslighting, gaslighting is the act of making

(26:38):
the right pressing you're talking involved with doubts
their memory themselves or actions based on what there was
him. OK, Google, Are you sure?
Are you sure? Which does that make the person
few words doubt themselves doubtthemselves no doubt themselves.

(27:03):
OK basically basically basicallybasically just like OK, I have
an I metro partner. So they say something.
They saw something like, I don'tknow.
I don't know what you're talkingabout.
I saw you do this. I'm like, you didn't see me.
Maybe you saw me. That is gaslighting is
extensive. Not not not girls do it a lot

(27:35):
guys see guys if a guy if a guy gaslights you or I come to that
guy does not like you or. Something you just find out
something. Find no, you know gaslighting,
gaslighting is not gaslighting is not a form of retrieving
anything. No, that is the psychology is
act of finance of people. Gaslighting is where I promise
you this person has moved on forme.

(27:57):
See, when a guy gaslights you, bro, you would you would have
yourself when get girls, they dothat the focus.
There's no 0 accountability default zero about you 0
accountability sense that bro. So I've seen zero account.
No, no, no, no see for me to sayit for me to say it.

(28:22):
If you guys are familiar on my words, I want to say I know that
I'm talking about what bro? So gaslight, I promise you, you
guys fight your beep. You know, I can't remember.
I can't remember when this happens the form of gaslighting.
Do you get what I mean? Like you guys are having this
argument. We don't we not go back to
situation that you you will knowthat game, remember like I don't

(28:43):
know what is happening. That's gaslighting.
Probably, probably there's another guy involved or
anything. He's just my friend.
Why you can think. Of gaslighting.
That was funny. Remember, you know this
Tottenham guy that wears glassesis.
I don't think I do. Fucking hell, blood the.

(29:07):
Black one. Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah,
yeah. He has what's what he calls
himself yeah, yeah, yeah. The guy where is Tottenham?
Tottenham, *** I actually. Like started like was one video
really. Yeah, like where?

(29:31):
Go on, go on. On the conversation, she was in
a conversation with a girl, likeshe was like, what if his team
is in a final, final, OK, and I'm sorry, but having a baby
like she's in labour, oh, like Idon't do politics, none of that.
He said no, no, no, like baby. I said oh, and he was like, Are
you sure it's my? I'm just I'm just remember his

(30:06):
name on some I'm some for we guys do that what it tells.
I mean it says I've been I say charge your wife is let's Nah, I
promise I'm not going to care about the football that period.
You understand, I feel like thatthat

(30:39):
was, that was. She can't.
Trigger Yeah, She she felt, she felt, she thought, she thought,
she thought the final. And the last one we should.

(31:17):
Go do that is the thing I'm pretty sure they didn't.
They didn't later get a divorce.She would have just big.
Sucked up since guy that means scary anyways.
Anyways. Anyways anyways so living from
the toxic trade confessions going to the toxic pasos human.

(31:38):
So this is called a little bit like the different between being
toxic and just being flawed. Then you talk about, OK, our
toxic behaviours, red flags, flood, flood.
Don't you want to explain the meaning to me?
Let me just switch everything. I'll explain to you.
So is it that are all toxic behavioural red flags or are
just some defence mechanism? So the flood me just faulty.

(32:03):
Do you get what I mean? Are you being are you are you
being toxic or just as fault? So again, like like let's say
like Stonewall local stonewalling now.
Blocking blocking. No, I just like Dylan of the
Delaney requests. Like show me something stolen.
It's called someone and everything.

(32:25):
You get holding. Gorgeous but protected,
pretending everything's fine. I started with your same mouth.
Yeah. No, you need to come.
I don't talk now. It's nothing new.
Back-to-back to I was saying allthe gorgeous but pretend

(32:47):
everything is fine, that people do it a lot.
I do it a lot to see. I see.
I won't let you. In addition to that, this is the
most frustrating thing ever. I promise you it is.
It is utterly frustrating. I see.
I can't. I can't.
I can't. I.

(33:07):
Feel like women of course guys guys don't buy things if a guy
if a guy if a guy if a guy if a guy if your guy is is doing this
to you or when we talk to someone else, he's angry he has
moved on because see, but girls do this thing a lot, bro.

(33:32):
Annoyance is that you know the species about something.
What is this? I can see I'm good.
I'm fine. I think it pisses me off.
Oh my Oh my. See all my grandma.
It pisses my soul. It makes me so limp.
Oh God. Oh female.
They doing a lot bro. I'm like, why are you like this?

(33:56):
You know what I mean? Like you could literally talk.
That's the thing. Like what the most part is that
communication, communication, communication that's in pieces
me off. So see if all persons do that
thing. Oh yeah, we did.
Someone please run in from that person because.
What if they are? Flood.
What if they are flood ones? There are some that do it as a

(34:18):
toxic treat. There are some.
That OK, so let's let's let's emphasise more in that.
So God is now. OK, let's give examples now.
OK, probably. That situation is mostly for.
A relationship. Yeah.
Why? Why?
Why you? Why?
You wouldn't know I'm your friend.
Fuck. Go to hell with you.

(34:39):
To hell with you, brother. I mean so like about something
we don't talk about like almost if it's fresh.
I couldn't careless like talk toyou now you angry you they're
not feeding me. I don't like you angry about
something Fuck you. I'm like fuck you, fuck you.

(35:03):
It's not like it's quiet about his accidents.
I like to to. Hell with you, but you know see
it depends on some some kind of situations, because there's one
there's one you go see you for even tell I'm within the soap
Boingo. Still, they do the same thing.
No, you never know. You know, Give it like you know

(35:29):
Tokato, you know. Tokato as bullshit.
Good. There's no time.
Let me, let me give. Let me give you let me give you
my own own relationship issue. I had one time back in like I
was going to university. So this I knew that girls are
mad people like trade keflor andgirls.

(35:50):
So basically I had this girlfriend.
She's like our family was a mess.
Like I found they live in the east side.
I think it was a mess. No, but this one I found was a
man who see the other brothers. They beat each other.
I've not seen in my life before like there's beating no, no, no,

(36:10):
I don't get see in in all this this beating you're allowed to
beat your brother, but we see your like 2 days.
Would you give you would you give your pack courts?
I know yeah. So basically, yeah.

(36:35):
So I'm not like, so I was alwaysthere for there was a period.
There was a period I was always having issues.
You can like all the days. I'm really like, they're fine.
Everything. Are you sad?
Like because I knew because do I, I study people.
So I knew there's something wrong with you.
I know you're not happy. I'm like, OK, talk to me what's
wrong and she'll tell me. OK, fine.
We'll talk about it. We don't move.

(36:56):
But bro, the moment I'm sad, I don't talk to bro.
She's non existent. Like bro, I was in like, yeah,
we're like the car park. Our car park is like the popping
area at UK. I was there with everything.
So it was like I was down after I was, I don't know, I was sad.
They were like, I'm not happy about what's happening about
something. So like OK, I'm with my own

(37:17):
still bro. I was living.
I said that's my word. That's my real world now.
I was living. Wait.
What? What did you do after that?
What I do, I was supposed to seepart of me what?
Happened to the relationship after that.
I cleared that now. I cleared that.
What did she say? I can't remember.
But no, I think she's guilty. She was guilty now.

(37:39):
Like did she? She Nah, we must care.
She did not. They found me died.
See, I'm a simple person. I'm a simple person.
I'm a very busy. He says that, bro.
Like life is not hard. I promise you, guy.

(37:59):
I swear to God. See.
No, because of insult to make a papadi die.
And if you answer anybody game on code like I came to meet you,
I've been there for you for years.
You're there for like for months, this for months.
Months. Yeah, months say months Time.

(38:23):
Eight time. See.
Waiting. Waiting.
Diagnose the girl. Now you know.
You know the girl. I think so.
You say high school. No University.

(38:50):
University see a pound me a pound me died that day.
I was like OK, I was like fine, no problems from that.
She actually was good to mentionthat they asked about.
Yeah, happy. I don't know the worst.
Part because me I've actually been in that situation.
You get 1 you something like we're close hundred level 200

(39:12):
something do you when it comes to you know become class.
They ask you waiting the soap. You see, you could tell me
later. You could tell me later.
And then you told me about bro, we can't get one point.
We not see you for school again.I message you, you know, answer
me. You don't see me and you could
call. If I post, you can't tell me.

(39:32):
Say. You reach one point I delete.
Like I had to cut off the personbecause he was becoming too
toxic. Why are you coming to my life to
torment me? That's a wild man.
Why? Because of what?
They can't feel bad. That's wild.
Why they come? Meet.

(39:55):
Me that's that's irritates me, bro, that's irritates you see,
like I know. So I don't know what's part
about everything was factor. When I stopped asking about
feelings, I became the bad person.
Bad person. Obviously, bro.
See, you cannot you can't see why?
Because women, you cannot. Women, you can't win men.

(40:17):
Nothing, nothing pisses me off that a guy can try try his best.
The moment he stops trying he don't love me.
That he doesn't bro all the 90. 9 Good, replaced by the wombat.
I score. I basically score.
You call him outside, outside, outside, they.
Didn't just do it again they. Didn't just do all the good, but

(40:39):
they are wild. Please.
They are too wild. They are too too wild.
Moving on moving on, moving on 'cause bro.
What about like when people postlike all these means single life
means after the after picking up.
When they have you, man. Like no when they broken up.

(41:08):
Like see, I feel like see familyas a woman, this nonsense.
Forgive me but I feel like it's more of you about people saying
that this now. If not be man they don't succeed

(41:30):
like she's not with a rich. Boyfriend, OH.
Like she does not have a life. She can't make it.
I will show you now. I will prove you wrong.
Every day they post about, oh, yesterday, she says.

(41:53):
I never talk about when I was hurt or when I was actually
loved, but at the end of the day, why I really wanted is to
be loved. That kind, that kind of person
you don't see, that you like. You don't.
Mute your face. Bro bless you.

(42:14):
I mean, see, I don't mean peoplepeople, people like, I don't
mean. No, the way the way I do the way
I do is the like the word is that I'm like, I wish you can
shut the fuck up honestly. But but what the one?

(42:38):
The one that no obviously the problem.
Of course, the that is this is the apple to the theory.
No, I forgot to the theory is I think I don't know the great
theory theory that it says that you see a fine girl on dating

(43:01):
app is the reason why she's there.
I promise you, you see no see see see, see, see, see, see see
guys quote me from Rumble. You see a babe if 10 / 10 OK,
let's say 8 / 10 on dating apps.You know you know it's not you
know it's not makeup. You know it's not philtre be

(43:22):
body banging. They say on Tinder or this in
Leslie Nigeria's In fact I know that is multiple cops pro
genuine is either is either she's cheating.
She's looking for maybe sex bodyor bro.
This girl is it this gay witty, witty, witty full Richard are
waiting fuller witty fuller Yashnight red flags those move down.

(43:48):
So basically that so there was atime that had this guy that all
does is no, it was a girl. All she does is post
relationship so that like I'm like every day.
You don't, you know, you know money, do you?
Before? She's not with a rich guy.

(44:16):
She's not really. They will kill like that.
Do you? Understand and why did they set
them up a person we could do them Mike Tyson shit.
My dad, will you set? Them up with people.
We do Mike Tyson shit today. Another thing that you why
people you leave good boys, theyfull of bad boys.
Bad boys like bad boys. I can calm him down.

(44:40):
Calm him down. You obviously buddy smoke this
buddy chop. That was beating her husband
life. That short click, he was in
front of it, it was live. He was thinking the next day,

(45:03):
the one, the one will be try thenext day.
I don't know why, I don't know. That's the thing.

(45:30):
I promise you. That's the thing.
Why? What?
They make women big like that. OK, No, I don't get to the
point. Yeah, I don't get to the point.
It's not about it's about the fact that.

(45:52):
It's about the fact that why arethey my short men?
See what? I was young, one of my
ex-girlfriend that is tiny. That law, that law without law

(46:35):
is not there is not anymore again bro, that law is not there
again. No be no be no be no be So every
man will you provide what the respect time?
No, Yes, it is not by providing.It is not.
By providing a game it is not. By providing a game you can

(47:01):
provide for your wife cheat on you.
He's not providing most marriages.
There's not by providing a guy for miss you appreciate it when
it provides. That's OK.

(47:26):
It's not. It is no longer by so it's no
longer by who's providing guy. OK, if not like that, that means
which man on the divorce, but it's not providing.
So that means your point alreadyis easy valid.
Oh, I don't give you a point that is like that.
Why? Why we save good court now OK,

(47:47):
think divorce is cheap. Well, at the end of primary
divorce, divorce now for rich man it is split.
But I see married are married divorce for rich people.
It's not my it's not my provider.
Nigeria, my woman you don't takemy Yeah, you must be crazy.

(48:13):
If you divorce, she pay you back.
Albright Price. Women go, women go.
They go corporate. No, no, no, no, no, there's not.
There's not a way to think aboutit.
That's OK. OK.
You want the special divorce right now?

(48:33):
We use that year's rates or thisyear's rates.
You get OK. Now me back then I gave you, I
brought like 100 pieces of yam, but 3 bags of right, doctor, I
want I want my brew, but you know, say please, I'm sorry.

(48:54):
Oh boy. So there's now like this segment
that like if they call you toxic, what she writes has
everybody have they call you talk before they come talk
before I'm not talk. Am I toxic this whether I said

(49:18):
we done this before, am I toxic?Am I toxic?
We done this before that was them, but that was years ago.
I don't match on now is a fuck. I don't care.
She said I got started because Idied with our opinion.
That is a thing bro. Bro, the gaslighter, because I

(49:44):
try to resolve fights, didn't have gaslighting bro.
See. Do you know you're gaslighting
me because you're trying? To fight with me.
Yeah, I'm trying to resolve yourfight.
Resolve your fights. Yes, I'm just certified.
Why you guys, I'll just make us see one or one or two.
Almost. I I was leaving.

(50:04):
See, that would leave it for women.
Probably we already seen port inher already.
Around talk about IS, he said. I was emotionally unavailable
because I don't cry. Because you don't cry.
That's not valid. More people like that, they want
to see they. Want to see me cry?
No, yeah, I want to see you breakdown.

(50:25):
Breakdown once you look like you.
Nobody like this doesn't do that.
They're all that emotionally. They're unavailable.
Like I think so, no. I.
Think it's only Mohammed that iseven see me cry.
He cried. That was when my.
Dog died. Oh yeah, I've seen cry before,
Jay Lulu. I've been clunky Tutu Tutu.
When his dog died, did. I.

(50:47):
Cry You. Yeah.
See. No.
That was another. One that was that was the first
dog that was that we are collecttwo weeks that that was enjoy
Chris. I started a traffic joke and
dogs. So I don't think that was badly
that big because I didn't cry. But people like that.

(51:07):
People want to see I. I like.

(51:29):
That I don't talk about it anyways anyways he knows what is
in for him. The redemption arc is called the
called the globe. Like how do you guys, how do you
actually online toxic habits work?
On. Yourself.
Now it's easy if you work on yourself.
If you caution yourself each time you're about to or when you
do. It let's let's OK, actually

(51:52):
avoid gone, gone. I'm listening.
That's what I'm saying. OK, I am not going to call the
people the was the denial. People do that in denial.
Ignore them. No like I do those ones we know
they know. They don't want to believe that
are toxic. And they went.
They're ready to reach. One point I guess that bridge

(52:12):
you crosses that bird to. Each man his own.
Scoop is no scoop is no is to. Rosie Shakespeare.

(52:45):
Shakespeare. What?
What? Very funny way.
Again, again, again. What have you learned?
What? Have you learned into this
topic? What have you learned from
friends, therapy and relationship about Toxic?

(53:10):
About being toxic. Yeah.
Not true some there are some attributes you might not see
that other people will see. Like.
That they will call out. Like what?
So much we achieve myself a normal thing, but they're
actually bad characters. Yeah, true.
The other people say and cautionyou about.
Why is it that people people know people do acknowledge your

(53:32):
good is? A normal human behaviour for
them to acknowledge the 99 like 1 bad over the 99 good.
That's human. Like your family friend,
stranger, safe stranger. Like they help regularly give

(53:56):
205 hundred. Yeah, yeah.
Yeah. If you are, if you are wonder
battling with that one is battling.
But yeah, yeah, you've learned that you're toxic and working on
it because the people, they willtrust me that because not, not
everybody grow up loved not a lot.

(54:18):
Of people know how to love so you can be the one that will
teach them if you're coming off if.
Not come on as if you can't stand it.
You're not. You're not Jesus.
You can't save anybody. Can't save everybody.
Everybody rather, Joe, move on. They don't like you that much.
Move on, move on. It.

(54:39):
Might be tough move on, just need.
To hear it. Exactly.
So shout to those of you working.
So shout to those of you that acknowledge so that yes, I am a
bad person by character. You have bad characters.
In this episode should be used as a self reflection.
Am I truly a good? Person and the topic.

(55:01):
The topic. Is is the first stage like
realising that? You're am I the toxic one?
Yes, because that was in therapyfor you to go, yes.
I am the accountability. Exactly.
Which remain do I have? I want to talk about general
generally, you know, I see, I want I wish that video.

(55:23):
You know who's talking to know The Who?
The weeds. Not you, I swear.
You guys, you guys, you guys can't hate me.
I'm like the life of the party because I see the truth TV like
that. Counsel me bless you bye and now

(55:46):
and now and now almost word but alright I would like to talk
about this now talk about what is is is am I toxic on it top is
extensive you get. But we're able to cover what we
can. So far so good guys.
And don't forget to comment. Subscribe always.

(56:11):
Say yo, if you are toxic or dropa story if it's going to be
anonymous, you probably drop people probably with my read out
the stories on the network. But I know you people.
You people are no good. I don't know that I listen to
this podcast every day that I know people are wicked souls,
you see, because. I know I'm your friend.

(56:39):
Tell you who? You are our friends, that
girlfriends for the girl, that money.
Now you get this girl. I didn't say anything.
You not say anything. That's the thing.

(57:01):
God forbid gaslighting. Gaslighting is guy.
That one she knew the column money from Papa Gaslighting.
Is scary. It is scary.
Ah damn. And the money which the
collective pass or a pass with your Papa they give her because
me, I know understand that kind idiots.

(57:26):
Because, bro, really good colours.
Yeah, women. Yeah, women are tricky the sense
that bro, you don't understand the work, but so I don't
understand. We may work for because work.
So if I'm Darcy, but I probably will drop our number.
We do call. We'll start call centre.
No, no, no, no, drop your number.

(57:47):
Call centre because I'm more This will not pass.
Love this one. I you now we bolo bolo do drop
playlist for you also please forit.
So that's the thing about this. So you guys jazz up, jazz up,
jazz up. You guys kind of girls like move
on. Where are you go there with that

(58:07):
kind of person, the person they manipulate you need?
Money. You need money?
No, if you go work. See your mates, know the length,
new tech waiting, they talk. Me.
Don't tell. Her happy or you start the
plate. What is it?
Who said? Rosie But The thing is that

(58:33):
that's that's when people say all these impostor impostor is
what you call it. No, no, no, like this is war
that their partners are abusive.This verbal be physical, but
they kindly the person that's that you don't understand.
I don't understand it. What's the word beat you?

(58:55):
Yeah, that. Comes to my mind is BOLO.

(59:19):
That's the thing. They're always the only advocate
that I thought they don't beat not beating, but bro, see, see,
I just go. If we start segment now two
years and because we mean, why do is moving on, moving on.
So anyways, anyways, so this is basically reflection episode
where you guys need to sit down and think that the person you

(59:41):
are are you. You might be what is personally.
We are you. Yes, maybe not every time we're
talking about Yeah, she's talking about this, talking
about that. No, about like we need to we
need to exactly start talking toyou guys.
Oh, he just. He just called me, Yeah.
Because beyond these. Guys are an idiot.

(01:00:01):
Have you seen that old video when they wanted to attack him
because he sleep with one young girl?
Yeah, that 15 year old girl. That video, don't you?
Yeah. That guy that video don't.
It is like my hundred 200 level idiots now casted himself.
Yeah, I said it online. How about?
You know I talked about a lady on girl like this really always

(01:00:23):
posts Yes, I text you may can prove you right nothing I'll
prove you right I. Don't know, I can't put the
sound in here. This girl, Yes this is the girl
she will do. TikTok is not bad.
Now I think we should break up. OK, AJ, done.

(01:00:44):
What we supposed to do with thattomorrow and that time?
Don't worry, don't worry, don't forget to comment.
Subscribe. Like we need more comments.
You guys get active with us. We like doing these things.

(01:01:18):
It keeps us busy, active. We talk to you guys because
this, the knowledge in this, this presence, it's too much for
us to be gatekeeping. I.
Will call this part. I will block it anyways.

(01:01:46):
Anyways. Anyways, as I was saying, don't
forget to think self reflect. Don't don't be, don't say no.
I'm not like that because I promise you, nobody is perfect.
Nobody is perfect. But still, don't let them guys
lie to. You at the end of the day too,
at the. End of the day, I promise you, I
promise you, I promise you they are not, you know, they consider

(01:02:08):
it's kind of happened to me or you.
It's kind of happened to me, butit's happened to you.
Pennsylvania. But No 4, No 4, you get that's
it. So you guys, thanks so much for
your time. Thanks so much for your for
listening to us round talk. This is the episode that we said
yes, let's let's conquer, let's do this episode.

(01:02:29):
I'm glad we could talk about it extensively in sense that you
guys, I'm sure maybe 2-3 of you were used to pick up from it.
I don't know the rest of you coconut.
That's why you keep treating me to keep to keep my treating in
your relationship 'cause you don't use your head.
So Bam is Bam say again, don't forget to do good.
Don't forget to love yourself, love your partner spread love no

(01:02:53):
me then why you spread love no me then when you every every
night with the spectric the spectric spread love.
Don't hear from your sweet then why now?
Why you? Because bro, if you use it's

(01:03:13):
called reverse ecology. This reversing is reversing like
crazy. They do like so you guys.
So you guys know it's your course now.
So you guys, you guys, thanks somuch for your time.
We love and appreciate you guys.See you guys in the next

(01:03:34):
episode. Oh yeah, yeah, Talk 0.
Shit, here we go again.
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