January 27, 2025 • 34 mins
Leadership on Purpose welcomes singer-songwriter Juliet Sosa, who shares her transformative journey from childhood musical expression to professional artistry. After a near-death experience catalyzed her commitment to music, Juliet's path led her through worship leadership to Los Angeles, where she fully embraced her calling to write and produce original music.
The episode explores how Juliet overcame self-doubt through intentional practices, particularly journaling. Host Kathryn Ficarra emphasizes the power of morning journaling during the brain's peak creative state, helping identify patterns and shift from reactive to intentional living. This practice proved crucial for Juliet in facing fears and strengthening her resolve to pursue music professionally.
Juliet views music as more than entertainment—it's a healing force and connection point. Her songwriting draws from personal experiences and empathy, creating emotional resonance with listeners. Through vulnerable artistic expression, she facilitates growth for both herself and her audience.
The conversation delves into practical aspects of modern musicianship, discussing the importance of social media platforms like TikTok, Instagram, and YouTube for artist exposure. Juliet and Kathryn frame rejection as a growth opportunity that refines one's path, emphasizing how persistence and faith lead to meaningful success.
The episode introduces the "five-second rule" for handling fear: acknowledge it briefly, then take action. This approach transforms fear from a barrier into a catalyst for positive change. Through Juliet's story, listeners learn that authentic leadership requires inner alignment, self-trust, and the courage to pursue one's purpose despite doubts.
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Welcome to Leadership on Purpose, the podcast series. I'm your host, Kathryn, and this is where we shatter the status quo and dive deep into the raw, unfiltered stories of those who are embracing their inner alignment.
If you're tired of the cookie cutter approach to success and you crave a life that resonates with your true self, you are in the right place. Join me each week as we uncover powerful insights from those who have had the courage to lean into their purpose, live authentically, and create a life they were made for.
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This isn't just a conversation.
It's a movement.
This is a revolution of authentic leadership, but we don't just talk about change, we live it.
And you can too.
Thank you guys for joining. I'm really excited for you to meet my next guest, Juliet Sosa. She is an up and coming singer and songwriter, and her and I had a really great conversation at an event a couple weeks ago and talked about how the music industry and her entry into that and her singing has really been transformative in her life.
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And so, yeah, we're going to chat about that and talk about her purpose and go from there. So thank you for joining. Thank you for having me. Yeah, yeah. I feel like everything always aligns in like the right timing.
I know, you know, I just talked to somebody else about that about listening to the signs and leaning into the signs. Yeah. And, you know, one thing that I think is really important for people to remember is there is this saying, right, go with the flow.
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And I think go with the flow is really interesting because people think it means just go do what everybody else is doing. But that's actually not what it means at all. It actually means go with the flow of least resistance in your life. Right.
So like in the past couple of years, I've really worked on eliminating a lot of resistance in my life because it allowed the doors to open up for me to go do the things that I'm really meant for.
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And in your case, I mean, you're in the music industry here in LA. What I mean, what is that like for you? Because you must bump up against rejection and resistance. It's like, how do you two things really? How do you maintain a vibration of flow?
And how did you know that this is what you were really called to do? So since I was really little, I've always loved music. And in 2020, I had like a near death experience. I was losing blood.
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I had an issue internally. And so I had to go into emergency surgery. And after that, it kind of woke me up to you should really experience life to the fullest and you should do what you want to do.
And it was always in my heart to do music. I was a worship leader for three and a half years at my church. And so I already like had a little feel for being on stage and singing and working with people and music, but just like in the church.
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And I came out here and I started meeting people that were doing exactly what I wanted to do. And it was really inspiring. And I had never thought to make my own song or anything. And then I met people and it kind of just aligned.
Like it was like right where I was meant to be at the right time that I met the right people. And yeah, so you essentially had like a forced awakening. Yeah.
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I mean, I essentially had something like that too, right? Where you just get to a place where it's like your life is forcing you to look at everything completely different from a different perspective.
Yeah, I feel like I look at everything very deeply. Like everything's assigned to me and I've realized to take a step back and not try to control my life and kind of just really feel what my heart and my mind is telling me, like my body.
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Like I don't think people listen to their intuition enough and they stay in situations, jobs or whatever it may be. And it's a little bit soul sucking. And I don't think that life's like that.
Like I wouldn't be able to wake up and just do this, have the same like day every single day and like be unhappy with it. I wouldn't be able to do that. I wouldn't be able to be mediocre. I think we're called to be higher and do better.
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Yeah, I agree with you. I think we're called to to be fulfilled and to help other people. Right. And I think that's and that's how we all transform each other.
So when you're writing your music, you know, what where do you pull that inspiration from? And what do you want your like what do you want your listeners to feel when they listen to you?
So I pull inspiration from when I was younger. I just always loved music when I got in trouble, when I got sad, I would sit in a corner and I would just cry or sing, make up a song on the spot.
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And it just was always an outlet for me. And I didn't realize like that's actually very interesting to do as a child, like to sit and cry and just make up a random song that probably doesn't make sense.
And so as I got a little bit older, I would always write in a journal and solely based on whatever I was experiencing.
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So now everything that I go through, I always write about it. As soon as I feel something, I'll write it.
And that's like where the quickest, like fastest songs come from, whatever situation I'm going through, a situation someone else tells me.
Like I have a lot of empathy and I can feel energy and I can feel people's situations and I'll just write about it.
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So it comes solely from my life, from those around me, from situations where people tell me what they're going through.
And I feel like it's a very healing thing. How many times have you heard a song where you're like, wow, that's exactly what I'm going through.
And I had no idea how to put it into words or you hear a song and you're like, I can resonate that when I went and I was with my family on vacation and it makes you feel safe.
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It makes you feel good. I think that's like the most important thing about music is that it's healing and it's something that is transformative and something that can also show you the growth in yourself.
It's a very vulnerable thing to do to just put my life in a song and then release it.
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And I love that because I think what that does is you're tapping into what your, you know, what your sole purpose is, right?
You're inner genius and through that, you're healing other people through your music.
Like that's what we're called to do. I really do believe that. That is incredible.
So from the time you were like, OK, I think I want to to to really go into this industry, you know, was that a long time for you?
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Did that take you a long time and what kind of rejection did you face?
It did take me a little while to be like, yeah, I want to do this because I had it in my heart.
Like, I should do music. I should do music.
But something inside my brain was like fighting against it, like, no, you can't do it.
Like, you're not good enough. So I wasn't trying. So you had a belief system that was running, which is basically a paradigm that's externalized behavior, supporting that belief system, telling you you're not good enough.
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So how did you rewrite that? So I woke up one day just kind of disgusted with with just being just not living what I want, the life that I wanted to live.
And I just woke up one day and I was like, this is not who I am. I'm not going to be unhappy.
I'm not going to stay where I am right now. I'm going to move to L.A. I'm going to wake up every day.
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I'm going to write everything that I want. I'm going to journal as much as possible.
And I realized that putting my thoughts on paper helped me kind of realize exactly what kept coming up again and again.
And it was that I wanted to do music. So, OK, so for one, this is really important.
Because journaling is very, you know, it's a big therapeutic modality, but it's also really important for people to get clarity.
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And I think one thing that a lot of people I work with struggle with is that they're just not clear. Right.
You just don't have the clarity of like, what do I want? I mean, so many of us walk through life very in this reactive pattern. Right.
We're not like we're asleep to to this life from this perspective of that. We're really called to be co-creators of our life, not just to be reactive to it.
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So and journaling is interesting because I have found that I've got really super clear when I really started to just like write stuff down.
And, you know, they say when you wake up in the morning and you're in that brainwave pattern of where all your creativity is stored, like the first 10 minutes of your day should be spent like just journaling stuff out.
And if you do that over like a 30 day period, you'll start to see a pattern emerge. Right.
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And then you can be like, wow, I started here and look at all of this clarity that I'm actually, you know, you know, experiencing for me to start understanding where, you know, what I should be walking towards.
And I think that's really important. So is that part of your daily routine now?
So not as much as I would love it to be. But I do I do write every other day in a journal and I write out how I feel. I write out my prayers as well.
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I just think it's just powerful to be able to write something down. I meet people where they're like, oh, I don't like writing, but I'm anxious and I'm like, you should write in a journal.
And they're like, no, I don't like writing like everything's in my mind. Exactly. Everything's in your mind. Where is it supposed to go?
And that's a scary place to live. If you're only living in your mind, there's a prison up there. You got to get out of that.
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So it's like if you're only living in your mind and you're having anxiousness, you should try to journal.
You should try to write it out because something keeps coming up in your mind. Maybe you should just write it out and then see the patterns and see, oh, it can help you.
You know what to work on. It can help you realize things about yourself that you would never know.
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So you decided to do this music career, but you had these thoughts. So walk me through how you overcame those.
So how I overcame those is I just started surrounding myself with people that were like minded and want were doing music and doing that.
And it kind of just happened. I met I became really close with this girl that I had met and she just so happened to do music and I didn't know.
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And she helped me write my first song. She took me to my first studio and it just was really inspiring.
And I was like, oh, this is what I'm doing. Like, there's no other option. Like, this is so you made the decision.
So I made the decision to do it and I don't regret it. It's like really amazing to me that again, you're creating something that doesn't exist.
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You have the power to influence people with emotion, help heal people. And I think that's just so important.
And I think the world needs more people that are authentic to themselves and are willing to like kind of put their heart out there so that other people can receive it.
And like heal. I mean, if you think about it, if you if everybody healed themselves and got really clear and authentic, we would have a very different world.
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Yeah. You know, it would just be a very different place to live. I think it would be amazing.
And that's why I like to surround myself with people like that, too, because that's I don't know.
I mean, that's your some of the parts of all the people you surround yourself with.
Yeah, you are. And I do notice that since I've like worked on myself and since I've really like tried to meditate and pray and just get more clear on what is authentic to me,
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that it's helped me a lot more because before I was always trying to like please people. And I still do like I'm not perfect.
Yeah. Everybody still has tendencies, but it's an ongoing. That's what so that if I could tell anyone anything, it's like the best thing to do is it's not a I'm going to read this book and then it's going to heal me.
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I'm I'm going to journal this day and then it's going to heal me. It's like an ongoing thing.
It's something that you have to work at every single day. It's not something you do once a week, twice a week.
It's like something you have to do consistently. And I think it starts with awareness.
Right. So if you start to get really aware of I mean, even if you think about the story that you tell yourself every day, like I I actually have an app that goes off every hour.
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And it's like my mindfulness app. But I have it there because I want to make sure I don't get lost in the story, the old story I used to tell myself and that I'm consistently creating, you know, the story of what I choose my life to be.
Right. Because it doesn't matter where we came from. It matters right now in this present moment. That's really all you have. Right.
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So it's like in this present moment, what is the story I'm telling myself and how is that helping me create the life that I want.
So would you say in your journey and you have such an interesting journey, I mean, the fact that you had that medical condition and that's what woke you up to go completely change your life.
Yeah. I mean, that's really the story I want to get out so much is that, you know, you had what would you we would consider a forced awakening, right? Like something had to happen.
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Like your soul was calling you to do something different and you were meant to do something specific. Yeah. So and we all have that we all have some sort of energy genius within us that's waiting to come out and waiting to be, you know, escalated.
And so what I love about these conversations is that you don't have to have something happen to you in order to get to the place where you're like, wait a second. What is the story I'm telling myself?
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Like, what is the thoughts that I have going in my head every day? I mean, I just went through this with somebody last week and we talked about the fact that, you know, you if you think about your belief system, you have a belief. Right.
And from that belief, and this is psychology one on one, but yeah, from that beliefs, you have thoughts and those thoughts and evoke a feeling. Right. And that feeling is just solidifying that belief that you have.
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And so if it's a belief that doesn't serve you, like, I'm really not good enough to do this. You know, I want to go. I want to do something totally different.
And but my thoughts are not supporting that because I don't think it's I'm good enough for it. Then you're going to have feelings that solidify that. Then you're going to take actions. Right. That are in that are congruent with the belief you have.
And your result is just going to solidify the fact that you didn't feel good enough. Right. So it's like this cyber synthetic.
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It's just yeah. Just you saying like, yeah, that that lie is true. Yeah. Yeah. So it's like you have to like cut that cycle.
And that's where I think I see a lot of people stuck is that they're they're going through this like cycle. And it's like, well, how do it? What?
And really, it's David Bayer talks about this a lot. Actually, he's like, it's just a decision. Like, you just got to make a new decision.
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And unfortunately, for some people, you get to a place where it's like life threatening or your life falls apart or, you know, there's like something traumatic that happens that makes you have to make a new decision.
But I think in so many people, if you're like listening to this and you're like, you know what? Yeah, I don't feel like I'm totally fulfilled.
I think I made for something more. So it's like, how do you get to that place to the place of, OK, now I'm going to go find my passion.
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I'm going to go find my purpose and I'm going to go create fulfillment in my life. It's like I think the bridging of that gap is what a lot of people struggle with.
Yeah, I strongly believe that. And I feel like they also like they just allow themselves to stay in that one spot and they're too scared.
Yeah, they're too afraid. Their fear just has a hold on them. That's probably the most difficult thing for people to just get over that fear.
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And I have this rule. I learned it from a TV show that I used to watch.
But it's like if you feel that fear, just allow that fear to have five seconds and that's it. And then do what you need to do.
Obviously, only if it's beneficial to you, not if it's something that's negative or bad.
But if it's something you feel that you're aligned with and you're like, I should go do this like it would be good for me.
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But you're like, oh, I don't know if I'm good enough for that. Like you should just do it because that's when the best things happen.
You're afraid and you do it anyways. And it's like the best outcome comes from that because there's growth.
You're learning and understanding even if you end up not having fun or not liking whatever you chose to do.
You're learning more about yourself. And I think that's something that some people still need to discover is every day you're learning something about yourself.
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When you build friendships, when you go on dates, when you are doing anything in your life, you're learning about yourself.
And a lot of people have different triggers and they don't realize it until they have until they delve into relationships.
Then they see what triggers them. Like when you're close to somebody.
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Yeah, yeah. I like the five second rule because, you know, I think when you start to take the journey into self-awareness and you really start to get clear on these things and, you know, some people get scared.
They're like, wait, I'm not supposed to feel like I can't feel these feelings. And that's not true. You're supposed to honor your human body, right?
Like if you have a, you know, if you're feeling triggered, if you have it's just how you bounce back from that.
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So it's like, I like that, though. You give yourself five seconds, you let yourself feel it, and then you figure out how to pivot and move on.
And those are strategies, I think, that differ for everybody. Right. And how they do that. But I think being aware of that is really, you know, is really important.
Yeah. So if somebody wants to get into the music industry, since that's where you are, what advice would you have for someone who's like, hey, I think that I have a voice and I want to be heard and a talent here?
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I think that your biggest, your best asset is like TikTok, Instagram, and YouTube. Because obviously if you're not posting anything, how is someone supposed to discover you?
Yeah. And now we have all these like tools that you can just do that. You don't need a PR, you don't need to, you know, you can kind of do that yourself.
I think it's a lot easier for people to decide to do something in the music industry because we have all those social media platforms.
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TikTok, Instagram, and YouTube. At any moment on TikTok, someone can go viral if they put in the work and try hard enough. It just takes that one video.
So you could be one video away from your dreams, literally. And then that just catapults into just an accumulation of viral videos.
And then you're doing music and you're doing concerts and stuff like that. So I think the best advice I could give for that is to start making videos and to start writing, to start learning and going on YouTube.
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Like you should be learning something new every single day or every week when you have the opportunity. If you should be able to just, yeah.
So what if you get to a place though, you're like, I've experienced so much rejection and you know, your mindset, you're back to being a prisoner in your mindset because you're not seeing the forward movement.
Like where do you lean in to get that inspiration and move you forward?
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So for me, I believe that every passion is put in your heart for a purpose and God didn't just create you to have that heart for that for no reason.
So I think that if something's in your heart and it keeps coming up, keeps coming up and you keep experiencing rejection, that's just making you better. That's just, it's hard.
Whatever is difficult doesn't come easy. So there's going to be rejection. Like when you're doing anything in life, not everyone's going to like you.
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Not everyone is going to tell you yes, but if you don't knock, the answer is always going to be no. But for those 100, 1000 nos, there's going to be five yeses.
And maybe all the other nos is because it wasn't for you. And then those five yeses have more quality. It's more powerful. It's more, it's more meaningful.
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And it also helps you appreciate what you're doing. If I woke up tomorrow or if I was 13 years old and just became the biggest star, I never had to work for it.
Like, let's say my parents were famous or for whatever reason, my cards were whatever was in the cards for me was that I was 13 years old and famous and never had to work for anything.
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Didn't have to learn on my own. Didn't get rejection. You'll have a certain personality and you won't have depth to you.
And so all those rejections, all the things that you have to go through to get to where you want to be, make it so much more special. Why do you just want to be handed something?
Then you don't appreciate it. It's not the same.
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I think what you said is important too because it's almost like you're looking at rejection as something that's happening for you, not to you.
And it's like, and when you can flip the narrative on that and say, you know, I really wanted this to work out, but in some way this is happening for me. This is for my benefit. Right. And then what, what is waiting for you on the other side of that is probably incredible.
How do you navigate your faith in the entertainment industry?
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So, I mean, I have a strong relationship with God and I think that also is what keeps me sane and also gives me a lot of hope.
And how I navigate it is I just, I honestly, I try to be a light in everyone's life. And sometimes it comes off because I try to be so nice to everybody because you never know what someone's going through.
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Like what is, what's the point in being mean or dismissive or acting like someone's not important. Right. Everyone's important. And you have to, you have to act like that.
You have to be like that because everyone is important. And I basically just try to be kind to everyone. I try to be very intentional and genuine.
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And I don't, I'm not someone who will throw God like in your face and like, oh, you need to believe in God. But I do try to display my face with my actions and how I treat people.
Well, yeah. And that'll speak louder than anything you can say.
Yeah. So I think that's like the most important thing for me is I am displaying love that I feel from God to other people because even people that are rude, I'm still going to be nice to them.
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People that are nice, I'm still going to be nice to them. It doesn't matter who you are. I'm going to try my best to show up for you in the best way that I can, whether you do or not.
And that's just what I've learned. And I just think I always get put in situations too, where I'll just randomly be talking to someone and I'll say something.
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They're like, that's exactly what I needed to hear. So I'm just a strong believer. Like you, like the same, we're all connected. Right.
We all come from a source, from God, from energy, from the universe. We're all connected at the end of the day. So we all know and we all like have this feeling and this pull towards certain people.
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And I think at certain points of my life, I have like people come in your life in seasons and I have ran into people or had conversations with people that I really need and that were very pivotal for me
and really showed me a lot about myself and showed me how God will send people to tell you something that you need to hear.
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So I try to just allow God for me to be the vessel when I speak to people. And yeah, but that's so powerful. I love that. Yeah.
So tell me then about your morning routine. Do you have like a specific way that you stay grounded every day?
Yeah. So sometimes I'm not going to lie. Sometimes I would love to stay in bed. Sometimes I stay up late and love to stay in bed.
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But something that I'm in routine of right now is I when I kind of wake up instead of falling back asleep, I will just force myself to get up.
I'm like, no, no, no, I'm not going to do that. I'm just going to get up right away. I'm going to go to the bathroom.
I wash my face with cold water and then I go and I do like 30 minutes on the treadmill. And I feel like that motivates me more.
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Sometimes I wake up really early and do Pilates, which I also think is very like motivating.
I mean, any type of exercise reduces your depression as well. So it's really good for you. And it really like just like jump starts your mind and it's healthy for you.
It's a good thing to help you clear your mind to like when I'm walking on the treadmill, I'll be thinking of ideas.
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It's like the best time to think of ideas or I'll listen to music. Sometimes I sing on the treadmill.
Like if nobody's in the gym at my apartment, I'll like sing on the treadmill with my headphones, like super loud.
It's also beneficial for you as a singer. Yeah. So I'll do that.
Isn't that how Taylor Swift did her prep for her concert? I think she sang for like three hours or six hours while she was running.
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Yeah. So I think that's like the best. I'm going to fix my necklace really fast.
I think that's like the best. My best morning routine is like just forcing myself to get up when I'm like barely getting up.
Because then if you go back to sleep, you can sleep for like five more hours. And then when you wake up, you feel lazy and like draft kind of dragged down.
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So I like to not waste my day. Like every day to me is like new. Anything can happen today.
Anything can happen tomorrow. Like we're not promised tomorrow. So I feel like you should show up.
You should show up every day how you want to be and just like excited.
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Because you could go to the store and you can meet like your husband. You could go to the store and you can meet someone who wants you to be on a song.
You can go anywhere and just bump into someone at the gas station. It doesn't matter.
And I think people need to start thinking like that and being more passionate about life and seeing the magic in life.
And that's just really what I strongly believe because if you don't think this life is magical, like it's very dull.
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But yeah, and I think that's the difference too with people who, you know, are doing the same thing every day or they're in a job that they're cycling in and they're not excited about.
And they're not. It's like you have to just rewrite that narrative and be like, well, wait a second.
Like, what is today going to bring me? Like what? I always ask people when, you know, they're when they're feeling stuck.
How do you feel about Monday morning? Like what's your approach to Monday morning?
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That's going to tell you a lot in terms of how you feel about what you're doing every day, you know, how you're approaching your work.
Are you, you know, are you able to find fulfillment in that? Are you able to attach your purpose to your work?
There's a lot of the intangibles that are really important, you know, for the human experience to feel like you're living a life that you're excited about.
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And that comes when you are fulfilled and you're, you know, you're helping other people and that that transformation happens for you and for them.
So, well, this was a really amazing conversation and I'm really impressed with you.
And I'm thank you so much for for joining us.
So my last two questions, what would you tell yourself, yourself six months ago?
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And I always ask people this question because, you know, I know there's a lot of times we could say, what would you say to your younger self and so forth?
But our lives can change, like you said, in an instant, right? It can change quickly.
And so I think that evolution, right? Every six months, every eight months, you know, your life can be very different.
And so what would what's the advice you'd give yourself six months ago?
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So I wrote a note, so I'm going to look at it really fast.
Oh, OK. We like notes. Yes, we love notes.
OK. So something I would have told myself six months ago and I tell myself even every day now is to just trust the process.
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Everybody's timing is different. Don't compare yourself. If you're comparing yourself, you're not going to be happy.
Everyone's timing is different. Tomorrow could be your time. A year from now can be your time.
So that is the best advice I would give myself is just trust the process.
You're not on anyone's timeline. There's no there's no timeline.
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Like everything happens for a reason and what's meant for you will come will come at the right timing.
And I like that because if someone's watching and they're like, oh, yeah, it's easy for her to say that because she's already in the industry.
She's working on her music. She's so pretty. But you weren't always sitting in this chair.
You had to go through your own process. Right. Like, yeah, I was sitting in my room working from home because of the because of covid.
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Even after that was still working from home, just depressed all the time.
Yeah. And then finally, I was like, no, I'm not going to do this.
You made the decision that you want something better for yourself. Yes. I'm sick of being mediocre.
I'm going to change everything. Oh, my gosh. I love it. So good.
OK, so if somebody wants to find you in your music and I will put this in the show notes, so you'll have all the links, but tell them how they can find you.
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So if you guys want to find my Instagram, it is Juliet Love, J-U-L-I-E-T-L-E-U-V-E.
And then if you want to find my Spotify, the link is also in my bio.
I have music on Spotify and Apple. It's actually under Jules, J-U-L-E-S.
But she'll also put the link. We'll make sure you have ample access to all of our info.
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So thank you. Thank you guys for joining us.
You know, if you're in a place where you're like, I wonder if I need to really rethink the story I'm telling myself or if I really need to to shift my mindset, you can text 55444.
Text the word shift to 55444.
I'll send you a free assessment checklist and take it and see and see where you land. And, you know, if you need some help, you can always reach out.
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Thank you so much. Can I add something else? You absolutely can.
If you're someone who, let's say, like obviously music could not be your passion, it could be something completely something else.
Or at the same time, maybe you don't even know what your passion is.
It doesn't matter how old you are. I think you should do random things that you would never do to try to figure out what makes you happy.
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To live your life and not just don't allow yourself to feel stuck.
You can do whatever you want to do at any age. Doesn't matter what it is. You can travel to Italy. You can travel wherever you want and you should do it.
You shouldn't waste your time. You shouldn't waste your life. So whatever sign that is for you, I hope that you take it.
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Yeah, I think that's like really important. Absolutely. I agree. I mean, our life is meant to be lived. So thank you. That was awesome. Thank you so much.
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If you're tired of the cookie cutter approach to success and you crave a life that resonates with your true self, you are in the right place. Join me each week as we uncover powerful insights from those who have had the courage to lean into their purpose, live authentically, and create a life they were made for.
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Thank you guys for joining. I'm really excited for you to meet my next guest, Juliet Sosa. She is an up and coming singer and songwriter, and her and I had a really great conversation at an event a couple weeks ago and talked about how the music industry and her entry into that and her singing has really been transformative in her life.
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And so, yeah, we're going to chat about that and talk about her purpose and go from there. So thank you for joining. Thank you for having me. Yeah, yeah. I feel like everything always aligns in like the right timing.
I know, you know, I just talked to somebody else about that about listening to the signs and leaning into the signs. Yeah. And, you know, one thing that I think is really important for people to remember is there is this saying, right, go with the flow.
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And I think go with the flow is really interesting because people think it means just go do what everybody else is doing. But that's actually not what it means at all. It actually means go with the flow of least resistance in your life. Right.
So like in the past couple of years, I've really worked on eliminating a lot of resistance in my life because it allowed the doors to open up for me to go do the things that I'm really meant for.
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And in your case, I mean, you're in the music industry here in LA. What I mean, what is that like for you? Because you must bump up against rejection and resistance. It's like, how do you two things really? How do you maintain a vibration of flow?
And how did you know that this is what you were really called to do? So since I was really little, I've always loved music. And in 2020, I had like a near death experience. I was losing blood.
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I had an issue internally. And so I had to go into emergency surgery. And after that, it kind of woke me up to you should really experience life to the fullest and you should do what you want to do.
And it was always in my heart to do music. I was a worship leader for three and a half years at my church. And so I already like had a little feel for being on stage and singing and working with people and music, but just like in the church.
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And I came out here and I started meeting people that were doing exactly what I wanted to do. And it was really inspiring. And I had never thought to make my own song or anything. And then I met people and it kind of just aligned.
Like it was like right where I was meant to be at the right time that I met the right people. And yeah, so you essentially had like a forced awakening. Yeah.
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I mean, I essentially had something like that too, right? Where you just get to a place where it's like your life is forcing you to look at everything completely different from a different perspective.
Yeah, I feel like I look at everything very deeply. Like everything's assigned to me and I've realized to take a step back and not try to control my life and kind of just really feel what my heart and my mind is telling me, like my body.
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Like I don't think people listen to their intuition enough and they stay in situations, jobs or whatever it may be. And it's a little bit soul sucking. And I don't think that life's like that.
Like I wouldn't be able to wake up and just do this, have the same like day every single day and like be unhappy with it. I wouldn't be able to do that. I wouldn't be able to be mediocre. I think we're called to be higher and do better.
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Yeah, I agree with you. I think we're called to to be fulfilled and to help other people. Right. And I think that's and that's how we all transform each other.
So when you're writing your music, you know, what where do you pull that inspiration from? And what do you want your like what do you want your listeners to feel when they listen to you?
So I pull inspiration from when I was younger. I just always loved music when I got in trouble, when I got sad, I would sit in a corner and I would just cry or sing, make up a song on the spot.
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And it just was always an outlet for me. And I didn't realize like that's actually very interesting to do as a child, like to sit and cry and just make up a random song that probably doesn't make sense.
And so as I got a little bit older, I would always write in a journal and solely based on whatever I was experiencing.
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So now everything that I go through, I always write about it. As soon as I feel something, I'll write it.
And that's like where the quickest, like fastest songs come from, whatever situation I'm going through, a situation someone else tells me.
Like I have a lot of empathy and I can feel energy and I can feel people's situations and I'll just write about it.
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So it comes solely from my life, from those around me, from situations where people tell me what they're going through.
And I feel like it's a very healing thing. How many times have you heard a song where you're like, wow, that's exactly what I'm going through.
And I had no idea how to put it into words or you hear a song and you're like, I can resonate that when I went and I was with my family on vacation and it makes you feel safe.
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It makes you feel good. I think that's like the most important thing about music is that it's healing and it's something that is transformative and something that can also show you the growth in yourself.
It's a very vulnerable thing to do to just put my life in a song and then release it.
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And I love that because I think what that does is you're tapping into what your, you know, what your sole purpose is, right?
You're inner genius and through that, you're healing other people through your music.
Like that's what we're called to do. I really do believe that. That is incredible.
So from the time you were like, OK, I think I want to to to really go into this industry, you know, was that a long time for you?
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Did that take you a long time and what kind of rejection did you face?
It did take me a little while to be like, yeah, I want to do this because I had it in my heart.
Like, I should do music. I should do music.
But something inside my brain was like fighting against it, like, no, you can't do it.
Like, you're not good enough. So I wasn't trying. So you had a belief system that was running, which is basically a paradigm that's externalized behavior, supporting that belief system, telling you you're not good enough.
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So how did you rewrite that? So I woke up one day just kind of disgusted with with just being just not living what I want, the life that I wanted to live.
And I just woke up one day and I was like, this is not who I am. I'm not going to be unhappy.
I'm not going to stay where I am right now. I'm going to move to L.A. I'm going to wake up every day.
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I'm going to write everything that I want. I'm going to journal as much as possible.
And I realized that putting my thoughts on paper helped me kind of realize exactly what kept coming up again and again.
And it was that I wanted to do music. So, OK, so for one, this is really important.
Because journaling is very, you know, it's a big therapeutic modality, but it's also really important for people to get clarity.
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And I think one thing that a lot of people I work with struggle with is that they're just not clear. Right.
You just don't have the clarity of like, what do I want? I mean, so many of us walk through life very in this reactive pattern. Right.
We're not like we're asleep to to this life from this perspective of that. We're really called to be co-creators of our life, not just to be reactive to it.
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So and journaling is interesting because I have found that I've got really super clear when I really started to just like write stuff down.
And, you know, they say when you wake up in the morning and you're in that brainwave pattern of where all your creativity is stored, like the first 10 minutes of your day should be spent like just journaling stuff out.
And if you do that over like a 30 day period, you'll start to see a pattern emerge. Right.
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And then you can be like, wow, I started here and look at all of this clarity that I'm actually, you know, you know, experiencing for me to start understanding where, you know, what I should be walking towards.
And I think that's really important. So is that part of your daily routine now?
So not as much as I would love it to be. But I do I do write every other day in a journal and I write out how I feel. I write out my prayers as well.
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I just think it's just powerful to be able to write something down. I meet people where they're like, oh, I don't like writing, but I'm anxious and I'm like, you should write in a journal.
And they're like, no, I don't like writing like everything's in my mind. Exactly. Everything's in your mind. Where is it supposed to go?
And that's a scary place to live. If you're only living in your mind, there's a prison up there. You got to get out of that.
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So it's like if you're only living in your mind and you're having anxiousness, you should try to journal.
You should try to write it out because something keeps coming up in your mind. Maybe you should just write it out and then see the patterns and see, oh, it can help you.
You know what to work on. It can help you realize things about yourself that you would never know.
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So you decided to do this music career, but you had these thoughts. So walk me through how you overcame those.
So how I overcame those is I just started surrounding myself with people that were like minded and want were doing music and doing that.
And it kind of just happened. I met I became really close with this girl that I had met and she just so happened to do music and I didn't know.
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And she helped me write my first song. She took me to my first studio and it just was really inspiring.
And I was like, oh, this is what I'm doing. Like, there's no other option. Like, this is so you made the decision.
So I made the decision to do it and I don't regret it. It's like really amazing to me that again, you're creating something that doesn't exist.
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You have the power to influence people with emotion, help heal people. And I think that's just so important.
And I think the world needs more people that are authentic to themselves and are willing to like kind of put their heart out there so that other people can receive it.
And like heal. I mean, if you think about it, if you if everybody healed themselves and got really clear and authentic, we would have a very different world.
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Yeah. You know, it would just be a very different place to live. I think it would be amazing.
And that's why I like to surround myself with people like that, too, because that's I don't know.
I mean, that's your some of the parts of all the people you surround yourself with.
Yeah, you are. And I do notice that since I've like worked on myself and since I've really like tried to meditate and pray and just get more clear on what is authentic to me,
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that it's helped me a lot more because before I was always trying to like please people. And I still do like I'm not perfect.
Yeah. Everybody still has tendencies, but it's an ongoing. That's what so that if I could tell anyone anything, it's like the best thing to do is it's not a I'm going to read this book and then it's going to heal me.
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I'm I'm going to journal this day and then it's going to heal me. It's like an ongoing thing.
It's something that you have to work at every single day. It's not something you do once a week, twice a week.
It's like something you have to do consistently. And I think it starts with awareness.
Right. So if you start to get really aware of I mean, even if you think about the story that you tell yourself every day, like I I actually have an app that goes off every hour.
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And it's like my mindfulness app. But I have it there because I want to make sure I don't get lost in the story, the old story I used to tell myself and that I'm consistently creating, you know, the story of what I choose my life to be.
Right. Because it doesn't matter where we came from. It matters right now in this present moment. That's really all you have. Right.
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So it's like in this present moment, what is the story I'm telling myself and how is that helping me create the life that I want.
So would you say in your journey and you have such an interesting journey, I mean, the fact that you had that medical condition and that's what woke you up to go completely change your life.
Yeah. I mean, that's really the story I want to get out so much is that, you know, you had what would you we would consider a forced awakening, right? Like something had to happen.
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Like your soul was calling you to do something different and you were meant to do something specific. Yeah. So and we all have that we all have some sort of energy genius within us that's waiting to come out and waiting to be, you know, escalated.
And so what I love about these conversations is that you don't have to have something happen to you in order to get to the place where you're like, wait a second. What is the story I'm telling myself?
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Like, what is the thoughts that I have going in my head every day? I mean, I just went through this with somebody last week and we talked about the fact that, you know, you if you think about your belief system, you have a belief. Right.
And from that belief, and this is psychology one on one, but yeah, from that beliefs, you have thoughts and those thoughts and evoke a feeling. Right. And that feeling is just solidifying that belief that you have.
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And so if it's a belief that doesn't serve you, like, I'm really not good enough to do this. You know, I want to go. I want to do something totally different.
And but my thoughts are not supporting that because I don't think it's I'm good enough for it. Then you're going to have feelings that solidify that. Then you're going to take actions. Right. That are in that are congruent with the belief you have.
And your result is just going to solidify the fact that you didn't feel good enough. Right. So it's like this cyber synthetic.
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It's just yeah. Just you saying like, yeah, that that lie is true. Yeah. Yeah. So it's like you have to like cut that cycle.
And that's where I think I see a lot of people stuck is that they're they're going through this like cycle. And it's like, well, how do it? What?
And really, it's David Bayer talks about this a lot. Actually, he's like, it's just a decision. Like, you just got to make a new decision.
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And unfortunately, for some people, you get to a place where it's like life threatening or your life falls apart or, you know, there's like something traumatic that happens that makes you have to make a new decision.
But I think in so many people, if you're like listening to this and you're like, you know what? Yeah, I don't feel like I'm totally fulfilled.
I think I made for something more. So it's like, how do you get to that place to the place of, OK, now I'm going to go find my passion.
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I'm going to go find my purpose and I'm going to go create fulfillment in my life. It's like I think the bridging of that gap is what a lot of people struggle with.
Yeah, I strongly believe that. And I feel like they also like they just allow themselves to stay in that one spot and they're too scared.
Yeah, they're too afraid. Their fear just has a hold on them. That's probably the most difficult thing for people to just get over that fear.
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And I have this rule. I learned it from a TV show that I used to watch.
But it's like if you feel that fear, just allow that fear to have five seconds and that's it. And then do what you need to do.
Obviously, only if it's beneficial to you, not if it's something that's negative or bad.
But if it's something you feel that you're aligned with and you're like, I should go do this like it would be good for me.
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But you're like, oh, I don't know if I'm good enough for that. Like you should just do it because that's when the best things happen.
You're afraid and you do it anyways. And it's like the best outcome comes from that because there's growth.
You're learning and understanding even if you end up not having fun or not liking whatever you chose to do.
You're learning more about yourself. And I think that's something that some people still need to discover is every day you're learning something about yourself.
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When you build friendships, when you go on dates, when you are doing anything in your life, you're learning about yourself.
And a lot of people have different triggers and they don't realize it until they have until they delve into relationships.
Then they see what triggers them. Like when you're close to somebody.
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Yeah, yeah. I like the five second rule because, you know, I think when you start to take the journey into self-awareness and you really start to get clear on these things and, you know, some people get scared.
They're like, wait, I'm not supposed to feel like I can't feel these feelings. And that's not true. You're supposed to honor your human body, right?
Like if you have a, you know, if you're feeling triggered, if you have it's just how you bounce back from that.
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So it's like, I like that, though. You give yourself five seconds, you let yourself feel it, and then you figure out how to pivot and move on.
And those are strategies, I think, that differ for everybody. Right. And how they do that. But I think being aware of that is really, you know, is really important.
Yeah. So if somebody wants to get into the music industry, since that's where you are, what advice would you have for someone who's like, hey, I think that I have a voice and I want to be heard and a talent here?
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I think that your biggest, your best asset is like TikTok, Instagram, and YouTube. Because obviously if you're not posting anything, how is someone supposed to discover you?
Yeah. And now we have all these like tools that you can just do that. You don't need a PR, you don't need to, you know, you can kind of do that yourself.
I think it's a lot easier for people to decide to do something in the music industry because we have all those social media platforms.
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TikTok, Instagram, and YouTube. At any moment on TikTok, someone can go viral if they put in the work and try hard enough. It just takes that one video.
So you could be one video away from your dreams, literally. And then that just catapults into just an accumulation of viral videos.
And then you're doing music and you're doing concerts and stuff like that. So I think the best advice I could give for that is to start making videos and to start writing, to start learning and going on YouTube.
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Like you should be learning something new every single day or every week when you have the opportunity. If you should be able to just, yeah.
So what if you get to a place though, you're like, I've experienced so much rejection and you know, your mindset, you're back to being a prisoner in your mindset because you're not seeing the forward movement.
Like where do you lean in to get that inspiration and move you forward?
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So for me, I believe that every passion is put in your heart for a purpose and God didn't just create you to have that heart for that for no reason.
So I think that if something's in your heart and it keeps coming up, keeps coming up and you keep experiencing rejection, that's just making you better. That's just, it's hard.
Whatever is difficult doesn't come easy. So there's going to be rejection. Like when you're doing anything in life, not everyone's going to like you.
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Not everyone is going to tell you yes, but if you don't knock, the answer is always going to be no. But for those 100, 1000 nos, there's going to be five yeses.
And maybe all the other nos is because it wasn't for you. And then those five yeses have more quality. It's more powerful. It's more, it's more meaningful.
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And it also helps you appreciate what you're doing. If I woke up tomorrow or if I was 13 years old and just became the biggest star, I never had to work for it.
Like, let's say my parents were famous or for whatever reason, my cards were whatever was in the cards for me was that I was 13 years old and famous and never had to work for anything.
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Didn't have to learn on my own. Didn't get rejection. You'll have a certain personality and you won't have depth to you.
And so all those rejections, all the things that you have to go through to get to where you want to be, make it so much more special. Why do you just want to be handed something?
Then you don't appreciate it. It's not the same.
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I think what you said is important too because it's almost like you're looking at rejection as something that's happening for you, not to you.
And it's like, and when you can flip the narrative on that and say, you know, I really wanted this to work out, but in some way this is happening for me. This is for my benefit. Right. And then what, what is waiting for you on the other side of that is probably incredible.
How do you navigate your faith in the entertainment industry?
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So, I mean, I have a strong relationship with God and I think that also is what keeps me sane and also gives me a lot of hope.
And how I navigate it is I just, I honestly, I try to be a light in everyone's life. And sometimes it comes off because I try to be so nice to everybody because you never know what someone's going through.
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Like what is, what's the point in being mean or dismissive or acting like someone's not important. Right. Everyone's important. And you have to, you have to act like that.
You have to be like that because everyone is important. And I basically just try to be kind to everyone. I try to be very intentional and genuine.
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And I don't, I'm not someone who will throw God like in your face and like, oh, you need to believe in God. But I do try to display my face with my actions and how I treat people.
Well, yeah. And that'll speak louder than anything you can say.
Yeah. So I think that's like the most important thing for me is I am displaying love that I feel from God to other people because even people that are rude, I'm still going to be nice to them.
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People that are nice, I'm still going to be nice to them. It doesn't matter who you are. I'm going to try my best to show up for you in the best way that I can, whether you do or not.
And that's just what I've learned. And I just think I always get put in situations too, where I'll just randomly be talking to someone and I'll say something.
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They're like, that's exactly what I needed to hear. So I'm just a strong believer. Like you, like the same, we're all connected. Right.
We all come from a source, from God, from energy, from the universe. We're all connected at the end of the day. So we all know and we all like have this feeling and this pull towards certain people.
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And I think at certain points of my life, I have like people come in your life in seasons and I have ran into people or had conversations with people that I really need and that were very pivotal for me
and really showed me a lot about myself and showed me how God will send people to tell you something that you need to hear.
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So I try to just allow God for me to be the vessel when I speak to people. And yeah, but that's so powerful. I love that. Yeah.
So tell me then about your morning routine. Do you have like a specific way that you stay grounded every day?
Yeah. So sometimes I'm not going to lie. Sometimes I would love to stay in bed. Sometimes I stay up late and love to stay in bed.
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But something that I'm in routine of right now is I when I kind of wake up instead of falling back asleep, I will just force myself to get up.
I'm like, no, no, no, I'm not going to do that. I'm just going to get up right away. I'm going to go to the bathroom.
I wash my face with cold water and then I go and I do like 30 minutes on the treadmill. And I feel like that motivates me more.
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Sometimes I wake up really early and do Pilates, which I also think is very like motivating.
I mean, any type of exercise reduces your depression as well. So it's really good for you. And it really like just like jump starts your mind and it's healthy for you.
It's a good thing to help you clear your mind to like when I'm walking on the treadmill, I'll be thinking of ideas.
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It's like the best time to think of ideas or I'll listen to music. Sometimes I sing on the treadmill.
Like if nobody's in the gym at my apartment, I'll like sing on the treadmill with my headphones, like super loud.
It's also beneficial for you as a singer. Yeah. So I'll do that.
Isn't that how Taylor Swift did her prep for her concert? I think she sang for like three hours or six hours while she was running.
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Yeah. So I think that's like the best. I'm going to fix my necklace really fast.
I think that's like the best. My best morning routine is like just forcing myself to get up when I'm like barely getting up.
Because then if you go back to sleep, you can sleep for like five more hours. And then when you wake up, you feel lazy and like draft kind of dragged down.
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So I like to not waste my day. Like every day to me is like new. Anything can happen today.
Anything can happen tomorrow. Like we're not promised tomorrow. So I feel like you should show up.
You should show up every day how you want to be and just like excited.
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Because you could go to the store and you can meet like your husband. You could go to the store and you can meet someone who wants you to be on a song.
You can go anywhere and just bump into someone at the gas station. It doesn't matter.
And I think people need to start thinking like that and being more passionate about life and seeing the magic in life.
And that's just really what I strongly believe because if you don't think this life is magical, like it's very dull.
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But yeah, and I think that's the difference too with people who, you know, are doing the same thing every day or they're in a job that they're cycling in and they're not excited about.
And they're not. It's like you have to just rewrite that narrative and be like, well, wait a second.
Like, what is today going to bring me? Like what? I always ask people when, you know, they're when they're feeling stuck.
How do you feel about Monday morning? Like what's your approach to Monday morning?
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That's going to tell you a lot in terms of how you feel about what you're doing every day, you know, how you're approaching your work.
Are you, you know, are you able to find fulfillment in that? Are you able to attach your purpose to your work?
There's a lot of the intangibles that are really important, you know, for the human experience to feel like you're living a life that you're excited about.
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And that comes when you are fulfilled and you're, you know, you're helping other people and that that transformation happens for you and for them.
So, well, this was a really amazing conversation and I'm really impressed with you.
And I'm thank you so much for for joining us.
So my last two questions, what would you tell yourself, yourself six months ago?
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And I always ask people this question because, you know, I know there's a lot of times we could say, what would you say to your younger self and so forth?
But our lives can change, like you said, in an instant, right? It can change quickly.
And so I think that evolution, right? Every six months, every eight months, you know, your life can be very different.
And so what would what's the advice you'd give yourself six months ago?
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So I wrote a note, so I'm going to look at it really fast.
Oh, OK. We like notes. Yes, we love notes.
OK. So something I would have told myself six months ago and I tell myself even every day now is to just trust the process.
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Everybody's timing is different. Don't compare yourself. If you're comparing yourself, you're not going to be happy.
Everyone's timing is different. Tomorrow could be your time. A year from now can be your time.
So that is the best advice I would give myself is just trust the process.
You're not on anyone's timeline. There's no there's no timeline.
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Like everything happens for a reason and what's meant for you will come will come at the right timing.
And I like that because if someone's watching and they're like, oh, yeah, it's easy for her to say that because she's already in the industry.
She's working on her music. She's so pretty. But you weren't always sitting in this chair.
You had to go through your own process. Right. Like, yeah, I was sitting in my room working from home because of the because of covid.
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Even after that was still working from home, just depressed all the time.
Yeah. And then finally, I was like, no, I'm not going to do this.
You made the decision that you want something better for yourself. Yes. I'm sick of being mediocre.
I'm going to change everything. Oh, my gosh. I love it. So good.
OK, so if somebody wants to find you in your music and I will put this in the show notes, so you'll have all the links, but tell them how they can find you.
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So if you guys want to find my Instagram, it is Juliet Love, J-U-L-I-E-T-L-E-U-V-E.
And then if you want to find my Spotify, the link is also in my bio.
I have music on Spotify and Apple. It's actually under Jules, J-U-L-E-S.
But she'll also put the link. We'll make sure you have ample access to all of our info.
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So thank you. Thank you guys for joining us.
You know, if you're in a place where you're like, I wonder if I need to really rethink the story I'm telling myself or if I really need to to shift my mindset, you can text 55444.
Text the word shift to 55444.
I'll send you a free assessment checklist and take it and see and see where you land. And, you know, if you need some help, you can always reach out.
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Thank you so much. Can I add something else? You absolutely can.
If you're someone who, let's say, like obviously music could not be your passion, it could be something completely something else.
Or at the same time, maybe you don't even know what your passion is.
It doesn't matter how old you are. I think you should do random things that you would never do to try to figure out what makes you happy.
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To live your life and not just don't allow yourself to feel stuck.
You can do whatever you want to do at any age. Doesn't matter what it is. You can travel to Italy. You can travel wherever you want and you should do it.
You shouldn't waste your time. You shouldn't waste your life. So whatever sign that is for you, I hope that you take it.
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Yeah, I think that's like really important. Absolutely. I agree. I mean, our life is meant to be lived. So thank you. That was awesome. Thank you so much.
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