Daughters in Danger: Navigating Online Manipulation

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From Likes to Lies: When IG Fantasy Turns Daughters Against Their Parents

This week on Let Me Pull Your Coat: The Unfiltered World of Master Silk, Silk and China Doll go deep into one of the most painful realities parents face today — daughters walking away from school, home, and family because of the glamorous lies they see online… and the manipulative men whispering in their ears.

From false abuse reports to relatives being turned against you, this unfiltered conversation unpacks:

• Why IG “soft life” dreams crash hard in real life.
• How predators groom girls to betray their own parents.
• Legal and emotional steps when your child lies to police.
• Protecting your name, your home, and your legacy.
• When and how to leave a door open for their return.

Silk draws on decades of real-world experience from the streets to the boardroom, and China pulls no punches with the lessons she learned the hard way. If you’re a parent in the crosshairs of lies, manipulation, and social-media fantasy — this is your blueprint.

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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
Welcome back to Let Me Pull your Coat the unfiltered
world of Master Silk.
Tonight we are going straightat a hard truth Girls dropping
out, chasing IG glamour, cuttingoff the very parents who fed
them, often coached bymanipulative men online.
If you're dealing with falsepolice reports, gaslighting and

(00:20):
a daughter who suddenly callsyou toxic, you are not alone and
you are not crazy.
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Speaker 2 (00:54):
Victor from Vallejo, california, writes my
17-year-old wants to drop outand be an influencer, says
school is useless.
How do I stop this crash?
First, do not negotiate withdelusion.
Ig shows the edited highlightreel, not the cost of the camera

(01:14):
, rent or the quiet nightscrying when views dip.
Sit her down and do a realbudget on paper List things like
rent.
Do a real budget on paper listthings like rent, food, internet
gear, taxes, healthcare.
Then compare to an entry-levelsalary from a trade,

(01:38):
certification or degree.
Numbers cut through nonsenselike a hot blade.
When I left the streets for theboardrooms, math, not pride,
kept me honest.
Next, tie privileges toprogress.
No car keys without credits, noWi-Fi without coursework.
She wants a brand Fine Pilot, acreator semester.
She must post three value-basedvideos weekly, teaching videos,

(02:02):
not thirst traps.
Track analytics and keep a 3.0or the plug gets pulled.
Consequences are not abuse,they are boundaries.

Speaker 1 (02:12):
I know the soft life lie.
I was groomed and glamorizedbefore I understood the invoice.
What saved me was a mentor whomade me prove results.
If she truly wants that lane,teach her about boring
excellence, things like scripts,content, calendars, editing,
and one income that isn't herbody, like so many girls think

(02:34):
is worth a fortune.
Give her 90 days to showprofessionalism.
If not, she returns to school,trade or training.
Love her enough to say babyfantasy doesn't pay the rent.
Skills do.
Bafara from Montreal, canada,asks my daughter's 18.
A man, alman, is telling her tofile a false report against us

(02:57):
so she can move in with him.
We're terrified.
What do we do?
Predators isolate.
They start with your parentsare too controlling.
Then they're very abusive.
Then come to me, I'll protectyou.
It is textbook grooming.
You need to document everything.
Take screenshots, timestamps,dm, the encouragement he gives

(03:20):
to lie.
If it escalates, consult alocal attorney and ask how to
protect yourselves legally,while keeping contact attempts
calm and written.
Do not scream or threatenAbuses.
Feast on loud parentsEmotionally.
Write her a non-reactive letter, say we love you, we are here
for you.
But he will meet with a neutralthird-party counselor pastor,

(03:42):
mediator, anytime but he willmeet with a neutral third-party,
counselor, pastor, mediator,anytime.
We will not attack you and wewill not attack him.
We just want the truth in thedaylight.
Predators hate daylight.

Speaker 2 (03:54):
Take it from a man who's seen both sides.
I've seen clouds whisper poison.
Do not take the bait.
If she files a report, comply,stay calm, bring counsel.
Ask for a recorded statementprocess.
If the story changes, itchanges on record.
Meanwhile, quietly secure yourhouse cameras.

(04:16):
Lock down your financialaccounts.
If you don't have anyprotection in your home, get
some.
You never know who believes herlies and may want to come and
defend her so-called honor.
Also, keep your own timeline.
If she walks out, keep one dooropen.
Tell her.
If you ever feel unsafe, callme, no questions asked.

(04:40):
You fight the lie and hopefullydon't lose the child.
Alita from Krakow, poland,writes my niece bought my sister
, spread lies and made relativespick sides.
How do we answer withoutfeeding drama?
You starve a fire by removingoxygen.
Stop group chat warfare.

(05:00):
Issue one family statement welove her.
We will not respond to rumors.
If anyone wants facts, we'llshare them one-on-one.
Then go quiet.
Predators and narcissists needan audience.
Remove the audience.
Second, build a receipts folderor, as I call it, a paper trail

(05:24):
.
Keep dates, messages, schoolcounselor notes.
You do not use it to humiliateher.
You use it to defend yourselfwith precision when police and
institutions ask.
Silence is a weapon when pairedwith evidence.

Speaker 1 (05:41):
You can also leave a breadcrumb trail back home for
her.
Send birthday texts, holidayinvites, text things like your
seat is saved at the table,that's if she hasn't blocked you
from all access to her.
When I was younger, shame keptme away longer than anger.
The moment a safe bridgeappeared for me, I crossed it as

(06:03):
fast as wheels could turn.
Love loud and private.
Defend quiet in public.
Jamal from Birmingham, uk, asksmy stepdaughter is telling
police I'm controlling andviolent.
None of it is true.
I'm scared it will ruin my life.
What should I do?
First, protect your name.

(06:24):
Get an attorney.
If you've ever set house rules,put them in writing and have
mom sign them.
List curfew, chores, phonehours.
It turns control intoagreed-upon household standards.
Use non-emotional language.
Say something like we enforceroutines for safety and academic
success.

(06:44):
Second, move the proof out ofyour phone.
Back it up to two locations.
Keep a log with dates.
What was said, who witnessed it?
If a welfare check happens, bethe calmest man they've met that
day.
Calm beats chaos.

Speaker 2 (07:01):
Whatever you do, do not flex.
No, I'll show her.
The legal system doesn't carehow tough you are, it cares
about facts.
I've seen many people losetheir cases for ego and revenge.
The legal system doesn't carehow tough you are, it cares
about facts.
I've seen many people losetheir cases for ego and revenge.
The only thing that travelswell is paperwork, not pride.
Keep your hands clean, yourvoice low and your evidence

(07:25):
ready.
Priyanka from Edison, new Jersey, asks my 19-year-old sister has
a pimp that takes her money.
She worships him.
How do we break the spell?
You can't argue with worship.
You must out-mentor it.
Offer resources, not insults.
Tell her we booked you a freemeeting with a female business

(07:47):
owner who scaled up legally.
She keeps 100% of her money.
Predators sell magic.
You sell math plus mentorship.
Show her a written contracttemplate where she is the CEO
and no boyfriend or pimp is onthe payroll.
Create a two-path choice.

(08:07):
Path A is him no contract, nosavings, no health care.
Path B is incorporation,business bank account.
And tell her you'll match herfirst $500 as she finishes a
certification, something likemakeup, nails coding, something

(08:28):
real.
If she's loyal to the game,give her options.
If that doesn't work, you'vebasically lost her to the
streets.
If that doesn't work, youbasically lost her to the
streets, and she'll only realizeher actions when prison
hospitalization or disease hastaken her body over.
Manipulators hate options thatcome with receipts.

Speaker 1 (08:48):
I was that girl once.
A brocket was meeting MasterSilk.
His girls had the life my pimppromised me.
Silk set up women-only spaces,co-working days,
entrepreneurship circles.
Silk also gave us what hecalled Master Silk's Family Fun
Day Sundays.
Those were the days we spent asa family.
Each girl had a differentSunday that we would do whatever

(09:12):
they wanted to do.
Some girls would pick going outto dinner, shopping or going to
the movies.
Me, I always picked juststaying home together, watching
movies or doing yard work orsimply playing cards and having
a fish fry or barbecue.
I enjoyed the bonds we allshared as a family and still do.

(09:33):
We never discussed work onSunday.
You see, predators like toisolate their girls, but Silk
knew that sisterhoodreintegrates.
My advice to you is if yoursister falls, don't say I told
you so.
Say the shower's hot, thefood's on the stove, let's

(09:54):
rebuild.
Tsubisiso from Johannesburg,south Africa, writes my daughter
, filed with child services,claiming we're emotionally
abusive.
We are structured, not cruel.
What now?
You handle feelings and fileseparately With her.
We hear you.
You need to sit with acounselor to name what feels

(10:16):
abusive versus what is aboundary With the system papers,
timelines, school records,therapist notes.
Ask your counselor to documentthat house rules were explained
and appropriate.
Also, reduce triggers that getmislabeled as abuse, things like
yelling door, slamming,profanity Keep your voice calm.

(10:37):
If she is 16 plus, offer weeklyneutral space check-ins with a
third party.
A state respects families whoconstruct repair plans.

Speaker 2 (10:46):
Mateo from San Juan, puerto Rico, asks my little
sister met a guy online andvanished to the mainland.
I am angry enough to dosomething stupid.
I've buried men who acted onstupid.
Do not Use strategy.
File a missing person report,if warranted.
Share photos, last knownhandles and his aliases.

(11:09):
Check hotel apps, cash apps andride receipts, if you have
account access, and ridereceipts if you have account
access.
Quietly pull in an advocate whounderstands trafficking.
Red flags not to accuse but toprepare.
Keep one lifeline message open.
I'm not mad.
Text me a one if you're okay.
Two if you need help.

(11:30):
Abusers often read phones.
Keep it simple.
If she returns, do notinterrogate.
Get her medical care, sleep anda non-judgmental shower.

Speaker 1 (11:49):
Then talk.
I mentored girls who wererecovered because one brother
stayed calm.
When she resurfaces, talkfuture, not failure.
Ged programs, job training,tiny wins the first 72 hours
back are fragile.
Love has to be practical Rides,food documents, a phone with
Find my On.
Yvonne from Marseille, france,states my granddaughter calls us

(12:11):
toxic because we won't fund herbrand.
How do I love her withoutfunding foolishness?
Love with standards.
I will cheer for you.
I will not fund anything thatrisks your safety or dignity.
Offer approved lanes, communitycollege, cosmetology, ux design
, pharmacy tech, whatever fits.
If she chooses the IG path,require proof of plan content,

(12:35):
calendar budget, legal name onpayments, no boyfriends on
accounts.
You model adult love, open arms, closed wallet.
The first time I touched realmoney it came from structure.
Grandma.
Be the structure.
Money without mentorship isgasoline E offer mentorship or

(12:58):
say no.
Either way, you sleep clean sayno.

Speaker 2 (13:02):
Either way, you sleep clean.
Carla from San Antonio, texas,writes my son's 16.
A girl online is pushing him tocall me, controlling and leave.
Is this a girl problem or a kidproblem?
It's mostly girls in the IGglamour economy because the
market objectifies them, butboys are prey too.

(13:23):
They're gambling apps, hustlescams and radical circles that
sell fake respect, same defense,boundaries, receipts,
mentorship.
I've guided young men out ofmesses where a queen was really
a recruiter.
The method never changes.
Protect the kid, starve thepredator, feed the truth, teach

(13:48):
him language for manipulation,love, bombing, gaslighting,
isolation.
Boys who can name the trick.
Don't fall for it as hard.
Put him in male mentorshipspaces.
Barbershop talks coaches,mentorship spaces, barbershop
talks coaches, uncles withintegrity.
Community is vaccination.

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Speaker 2 (14:52):
Here is your Coke poll of the week.
Love is not a ransom.
Note.
If your child makes you pay insilence, lies and humiliation
just to be in their life, thatis not love.
That is leverage.
Keep your door open and yourspine straight Boundaries.
Do not break Families' lies.
Do when the smoke clears, thetruth keeps receipts, predators.

(15:16):
Isolate Parents.
Illuminate, turn on every light.
Budgets, contracts, mentorship,therapy and watch the rats
scatter.
If she stumbles home, meet herat the door with dignity and a
plan.

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