Love, Loyalty & the Narcissist Next Door — Smooth Baritone Edition

Elevate Your Game

We pull the mic solo to break down how to spot manipulation, set clean boundaries, and protect peace across love, family, money, and work. We answer listener questions from around the world with practical steps that turn chaos into calm systems.

• narcissism as reaction-seeking, not love
• documenting facts over feelings to reveal patterns
• ending early when peace disappears
• boundary test with deadlines and responses
• safe exits planned like missions with allies
• distance and written communication with toxic parents
• calm, immediate correction for public disrespect
• daily income systems that stack and scale
• shared finances with matched accountability
• loyalty tests through controlled access and pauses
• scheduling availability to stop impulse giving
• respect pricing and control of personal access

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Episode Transcript

SPEAKER_00 (00:05):
Chapter 1.
China is still overseas handlingbusiness for our new ventures.
While she's locking inpartnerships, I'm holding the
mic solo tonight.
Welcome to Let Me Pull YourCoat, the unfiltered world of
Master Silk.
This episode is aboutrecognizing manipulation,
setting boundaries, andprotecting your peace.

(00:26):
We're diving into loyalty,narcissism, relationships, and
real independence.
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show.
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highlights on the video page.

(00:47):
Let's get into it.
Chapter 2.
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(01:08):
mugs and whiskey glasses.
Now, let's pull some copes.
Chapter 3.
Alicia from Sao Paulo, Brazilasks, What's the first thing you
tell someone who suspects theirpartner might be a narcissist?
I tell them, narcissists don'tlove you.
They love your reaction.

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The first thing I tell people isto start observing, not
explaining.
When you stop reacting, theirperformance falls apart.
Keep a journal, write downdates, patterns, and triggers.
Once you have eminence, you'llsee it's not confusion.
It's control.
When I learned that lesson, Istopped debating their lies and

(01:52):
started protecting my peace.

Quick story (01:54):
I coached a client who recorded nothing but her
feelings.
We switched her feelings tofacts.
I had her document the times,words, and consequences.
Two weeks later, the maskslipped on its own.
She didn't argue her way free.
She documented her way free.

(02:16):
Chapter 4.
Deshaun from Toronto, Canadaasks, When should someone
immediately end a newrelationship?
You end it the moment you feelyour spirit shrinking.
If you're already explainingyour work to someone, you're
already losing ground.
A healthy start feels peaceful,not exhausting.

(02:37):
I've seen too many peoplemistake chaos for chemistry.
You leave when the patternrepeats twice.
Love doesn't requiretranslation.
I once told a young brother,you're solving problems you
didn't create.
He kept trying for a thirdchance.
I had him take a week ofsilence.

(02:57):
No texts, no rescues.
The piece he felt answered hisquestion better than I ever
could.
Chapter 5.
Mei Ling from Hong Kong wants toknow what is small business
insurance?
It's the armor for your grind.
Small business insuranceprotects you from lawsuits,
property loss, or employeeissues that can wipe you out

(03:19):
overnight.
I learned early, hustle withoutprotection equals risk without
reward.
Every bar, club, and company Iowned had full coverage.
It costs less to prepare torepair.
When a pipe burst at one of myspots, insurance turned a
disaster into a detour.

(03:39):
We reopened in days.
Without it, I'd have been thetough guy with a clothes sign.
Chapter 6.
Elena from Vienna, Austria asks,When should someone end a
relationship without trying tofix it?
When effort becomes evidenceagainst you, if fixing it only
proves how much more you careand not them caring the same or

(04:02):
making the same effort, it'stime to close the book.
I once stayed in something toolong trying to heal what didn't
want healing.
The peace I found after walkingaway was louder than the love I
begged for inside it.
Here's the test.
Set one boundary with a cleardeadline.

(04:22):
If the response is drama, delay,or disrespect, walk away.
You're not leaving love.
You're leaving the illusion ofit.
Chapter 7, Nandita from Mumbai.
India wants to know how do Ileave a narcissistic husband of
31 years?
You leave quietly, safely, andpermanently.

(04:45):
Gather documents, cash, andallies before you speak a word.
Narcissists perform calm untilcontrol slips away from them.
I've helped women plan exitslike military missions.
You move once everything's inplace.
Your new housing, your finances,and your legal support.
Love doesn't mean staying whereyou're shrinking.

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A woman I advise rehearsed herexit like a job interview.
Two bags ready.
Duplicate keys.
Bank access, she moved duringher routine grocery run.
Calm steps, clean break, futureintact.
Chapter 8.
Gabrielle from Paris, Franceasks, How can you protect your

(05:31):
own family from a toxicnarcissistic mother?
You protect with distance,boundaries, and documentation.
Stop explaining your truth tosomeone committed to distortion.
You owe her respect for givinglife, not access to destroy it.
I had to cut off blood relativesfor my peace.

(05:53):
My success multiplied when thenoise stopped.
Your most practical move is tocommunicate in writing.
Short messages.
Clear topics, no debates.
Every word you don't say ispower you keep.
Chapter 9.
Cynthia from Atlanta, Georgiaasks, What should a mother do if

(06:15):
her child hits her in public?
You correct that shitimmediately, with calm
authority.
Take your child aside, look yourchild in the eye, and set the
boundary.
No yelling, no humiliation, justcontrol.
Children test leadership.
The moment you allow publicdisrespect, they learn private

(06:37):
dominance.
Leadership isn't loud and it'sconsistent.
I worked with parents who waiteduntil they got home to address
it.
By then, it's too late.
Address it where it happened andwhen it happened.
Be short, firm, and certain.
Then follow up with aconsequence that fits the age of
the child in the act.

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Chapter 10.
Felipe from Real de Janeiro.
Brazil wants to know, how can Imake$300 a day?
It's not hard.
You sell your skills, not ours.
Drive deliveries, flip items,offer online services, or trade
digital goods, but you muststructure it.

(07:21):
When I left the streets, Ilearned that value beats hustle
every time.
Build one system that pays dailyand grows monthly.
Fast money fades, smart moneyrepeats.
Examples of what stacks, morningdeliveries, midday listing
flips, evening gig work you canscale, photo edits, voiceovers,

(07:43):
simple websites, track time andmargin, keep what compounds, cut
what drains.
Chapter 11.
Marisol from San Juan, PuertoRico says, my husband and I earn
almost the same.
He wants me to share finances.
Isn't it his duty to provide?

(08:05):
Provision is partnership now.
If both of you work, both shouldinvest.
But accountability must matchaccess.
I tell couples, either build onetransparent pot or two
independent ones, but never letmoney become a weapon.
Equality without respect ischaos with receipts.

(08:27):
One client kept joint talk butran solo behavior.
We set a monthly meeting.
Budgets on the table, goes onpaper, arguments drop when
numbers replace narratives.
Chapter 12 Oliver from Berlin,Germany asks, How do you know if
someone's taking advantage ofyou when they're subtle about

(08:48):
it?
You measure what you giveagainst what you receive.
If gratitude disappears butrequests multiply, you're being
used, not loved.
Real loyalty shows an effort,not excuses.
I test people by removing myaccess to them.
I wait to see who still showsup.
I once paused every favor for 30days.

(09:12):
The ones who called just to talkstayed in my life.
The rest found another source toget their benefits from.
Chapter 13.
Attica from Stockholm, Swedenasks, My friends only call when
they want something.
Am I wrong for backing away fromthem?
No, you're not wrong.

(09:32):
You're just finally awake.
Friendship without reciprocityis emotional labor without pay.
I've been the one feedingeveryone at the table until I
learned people will get full andforget who did the cooking.
Step back and watch who noticesyour silence.
That's your answer.

(09:53):
Your action step is move youravailability to a schedule.
When you give, give on purpose,not on impulse.
You'll be shocked how fast theiremergencies disappear.
Chapter 14.
This week's Spotlight goes toLuca in Italy for his first
five-star review, Sasha inSingapore for posting her hoodie

(10:16):
selfie on the Your Post page,and Jerome in Texas, who sent a
note saying the podcast kept himsane during his divorce.
Check your inboxes, there'smerch on the way to you.
Chapter 15, Shout Outs.
Love Tarina in Malaysia, Davidin London, Isabella in Canada,

(10:37):
Andre in Brazil, Lee in Austria,and Noah in Australia.
You keep this Coke pullingmovement global.
Chapter 16, Coke Pull of theWeek.
Here's your Coke Pull of theWeek.
Respect has a price.
If you hand it out for free,don't be shocked when people

(10:58):
keep the change.
Stop teaching people they candisrespect you and still be
welcomed around you.
You control the access to you.
They control the outcome theyget.
Choose peace like you choosepartners.
Carefully and with proof.
Chapter 17, Final Call toAction.

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Chapter 18, closing reflection.
Sit back, pour something smooth,smoke it if you got it, and
breathe.

(11:40):
You did the brave thing tonight.
You told yourself the truth.
The right people don't drain youto love you.
The right choices don't bruiseyou to bless you.
Move with class.
Speak with power.
Protect your peace.
For China, I'm Master Soup, andas always, we wish you much love

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and much respect.