Special Edition: Breaking Chains and Building Futures

Elevate Your Game

Raw truths hit different when they come straight from someone who's lived them. Master Silk takes the mic solo this week while China handles overseas business ventures, delivering a special episode that cuts through the noise on life's hardest situations.

Silk doesn't sugarcoat reality when tackling questions about infidelity, financial exploitation, and abuse. "Cheating is never an accident. It's not a slip on the ice," he explains, breaking down when second chances make sense and when they're just setting yourself up for more heartbreak. His take on financial wisdom comes from hard-learned lessons: "When I was young, I spent every dollar showing off. Then I sat in boardrooms with men wearing jeans and old sneakers who had investment accounts fatter than any hustler I'd ever known. That's when I learned the real flex is freedom, not fashion."

The episode delivers particularly powerful guidance for those trapped in abusive or narcissistic relationships. Silk addresses both women and men facing these situations, acknowledging the different challenges each might encounter while providing concrete strategies for safety and escape. His parenting insights challenge common disciplinary mistakes, offering compassionate alternatives that correct behavior without breaking trust. Throughout it all runs his signature code: "Never confuse apologies with accountability. Apologies are words. Accountability is action."

Whether you're questioning a relationship, struggling with parenting, looking for financial wisdom, or trying to escape toxicity, this episode delivers the unfiltered guidance you need. Visit LetMePullYourCoat.com to access our blogs, shop our merch, and leave your own questions for future episodes. Remember to respect yourself, demand loyalty, and never ignore that inner voice saying something isn't right.

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Episode Transcript

SPEAKER_00 (00:03):
Welcome to a very special edition of Let Me Pull

Your Coat (00:07):
The Unfiltered World of Master Silk.
Now, usually you hear China andme together, but this week she's
away handling business for usoverseas.
She's lining up a few newventures we're about to launch
together in the near future.
So I'm holding down the mic soand since this is a special

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drop, I'm going deeper thanusual.
This ain't just a regular ridewith Silk.
This is the full breakdown.
We're covering cheating, abuse,parenting, money hustles, and
how to survive narcissism.
If you're new here, welcome tothe raw, uncut truth.
And for my day ones, you alreadyknow.

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Grab your glass, light yoursmoke, and settle in because
this one's going to be fire.
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Question from Elena in Vienna,Austria.
Does a cheating wife deserve asecond chance?
Let me pull your coat.
Cheating is never an accident.
It's not a slip on the ice.
It's deliberate, it's text,lies, lipstick wiped off before
she walks through the door.
That's betrayal with planning.

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Now, a lot of people sayeverybody deserves a second
chance, but that's a myth.
Second chances aren't automatic,they're earned, and most
cheaters don't do the work toearn them.
If she's on her kneesfiguratively speaking, owning
up, cutting ties with that manor woman, showing remorse,
giving you full access andtransparency, you might consider

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rebuilding.
But if she's slick talking,minimizing, or blaming you,
that's when you hand her her hatand the coat and tell her to
agitate the gravel.
Because staying in arelationship with a cheater who
won't change is slowself-destruction.
Question from La Toya inHouston, Texas.

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My boyfriend, who's a marriedman, doesn't feel comfortable
asking his wife for money butalways asks me since he's not
working.
What does this mean?
It means you're not hisgirlfriend, you're his sponsor.
He doesn't ask his wife becauseshe'd hold him accountable.
She'd say, Why are you notworking?
Why are you sitting around?

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What do you need it for?
He knows she'll check him, so hecomes to you because you let it
slide.
That's not romance, that'smanipulation.
If you're financing a marriedman who refuses to stand on his
own, you're not building love.
You're funding his laziness,you're bankrolling somebody
else's husband, and at the endof it, all you'll have is

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overdraft fees and a brokenheart.
Love should elevate you, notdrain you.
Cut him off before you end upbroke in both pockets in spirit.
Question from Sophia in Milan,Italy.
My boyfriend of two years lashesout at me and treats me harshly.
What should I do?
Love is supposed to lift you,not break you down.

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If you're two years in and he'sharsh, lashing out and leaving
you in tears, that ain't love,it's control dressed up as
affection.
Every time you excuse it, youteach him it's acceptable.
And men test boundaries.
If he knows he can get away withverbal abuse, next, it's

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slamming doors, breaking things,and maybe worse.
You can't love a man intorespect.
Staying will only make yousmaller, quieter, and weaker
over time.
The Silk Truth?
If he can't handle his temper,you don't stay away to be his
regret story.
Walk away with your head highand let him sit in the silence

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of losing a good woman.
Question from Priya in Kokota,India.
My 13-year-old bullies herfriend for wearing secondhand
clothes.
How do I stop it?
Bullying ain't kids being kids.
It's cruelty, and it grows likeweeds if you don't ribbon up
early.
Your daughter clowning anotherchild for thrift store clothes

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isn't about fashion, it's aboutego.
She feels bigger by makingsomeone else feel small.
If you don't correct that now,tomorrow she'll be disrespecting
co-workers, partners, maybe evenyou.

Sit her down and make it clear: bullying is zero tolerance. (05:05):
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And don't just lecture her,teach her.
Take her shopping at a thriftstore, let her pick out an
outfit and wear it.
Show her humility by experience.
Because here's the truth clothesfade, but character lasts.

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The humble child today becomes acompassionate adult tomorrow.
Question from Michael inToronto, Canada.
What's a simple financial ruleyou wish you learned earlier?
Pay yourself first.
That means before you pay visa,the rent, or grab those
sneakers, you take a piece ofthat chick and stash it away.
Even if it's 10%, even if it's20 bucks, you put it aside.

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Because if you spend 100% ofwhat you make, you're broke.
If you save and invest even alittle, you're building.
When I was young, I spent everydollar showing off cars,
clothes, drinks.
I thought money was for flexing.
Then I sat in boardrooms withmen wearing jeans and old
sneakers who had investmentaccounts fatter than any hustler

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I'd ever known.
That's when I learned the realflex is freedom, not fashion.
Question from Nadine and Accra,Ghana.
How could I recognize anarcissistic rage attack and
what do I do?
Narcissistic rage ain't regularanger.
It's ego and meltdown.
You'll notice it because thereaction never matches the

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situation.
You point out something small,like forgetting the milk, and
they explode like you betrayedthem.
Their voice sharpens, their eyesgo cold, and they're not trying
to fix anything, they're tryingto punish you.
The worst mistake?
Trying to argue back with logic.
Logic doesn't exist when theirego's bleeding.

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You protect yourself, createspace, leave if you need to.
Words escalate to holes in wallsand bruises on faces real quick.
Don't sit around waiting for itto pass.
Safety first, pride second.
Question from Caroline inDenver, Colorado.
My husband slapped me once, thencried all night apologizing.

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What should I do?
The first slap is the mostdangerous because it breaks the
barrier.
Once that line has crossed, it'seasier to cross again.
Tears and apologies are proof ofchange.
They're proof of guilt and fear.
Real change comes withcounseling, accountability, and
long-term effort.

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If you stay without demandingchange, that slap becomes two,
then three.
I've seen women believe he'ssorry, only to call me years
later from a hospital bed.
Love doesn't fix violence, onlyhe can fix himself, and most
don't.
Protect yourself and don'tgamble with your life on his

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tears.
Question from Hans in Straubing,Germany.
A firm says I have inheritanceif I pay them 10%.
Do I pay?
No, you don't pay them.
That's a paper hustle.
Real inheritance comes throughcourts or government offices,
not random firms.
If money is truly yours, you'llbe contacted officially or can

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find it yourself on stateunclaimed property websites.
These scams feed on hope.
They dangle free money.
Then rob you buying when youhand over fees or personal info.
Guard your pockets and youridentity.
Real money don't need middlemenhustlers to reach you.
Question from Jamal in Atlanta,Georgia.

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How do I make money in IPOs?
IPO stands for Initial PublicOffering.
That's when a private companyfirst sells stock to the public.
It's like the company finallyopening its doors after years of
only letting insiders eat.
That's when regular folks canbuy in.
Sounds sweet, right?

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But here's the catch.
By the time IPO day comes, theinsiders are already cashed in.
Most IPOs spike with hype, thendip hard when reality sets in.
You can make money, but you needstrategy.
Research the company, do theymake profit, or are they hype
like we work?

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Don't always buy day one,sometimes waiting pays better.
And always have an exit plan.
I made money in an IPO when Itreated it like chess, not
scratch ops.
Bought in smart, so quick,walked away with profit.
I lost money when I held toolong out of greed.

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The lesson?
Greed robs you faster than thestreets ever could.
Question from Amina in Nairobi,Kenya.
I took my 12-year-old's bed forbad grades.
Now he won't talk to me.
What's wrong with him?
Nothing's wrong with him.
Everything's wrong with thatpunishment.
A bed is safety, not aprivilege.

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You didn't just punish him, youstripped away security.
That's why he's quiet andrunning to his mother.
He doesn't see you as guidance,he sees you as the enemy.
Discipline should correct, notdestroy.
If he's slipping in grades,address the problem.
Study time, tutoring,accountability.

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Don't break his spirit.
The fix now?
Humble yourself.
Apologize, own your mistake, andrebuild trust.
That's how you teach himaccountability.
By showing it yourself.
Question from Teresa in Lisbon,Portugal.
I want a loving man, what shouldI do?

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First, be clear on what lovingmeans.
Too many confuse attention withaffection or gifts with love.
A loving man shows upconsistently, protects your
peace, and invests in yourgrowth as much as his own.
Second, raise your standards.
If he's disrespectful,inconsistent, or selfish, and

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you still entertain him.
You're blocking the real thing.
A loving man can't get to you ifyou're busy with toxic
placeholders.
Love ain't begged for, it'srequired.
Question from Miriam in Cairo,Egypt.
My husband abuses me and myparents in front of me.

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I have a one-year-old.
What do I do?
That ain't just disrespect, it'sabuse, and it won't stop by
itself.
The boldness tells you hedoesn't value you or your
family.
And worse, your baby's soakingit all in.
That child is learning loveequals humiliation.

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Your first move is safety.
Reach out to someone you trust,light up a place to go, and
don't rely on promises orapologies.
Abusers rarely change.
Your baby needs a straw.
Safe mother more than ahousehold with a toxic father.
Don't let abuse be your child'sblueprint for love.

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Question from David in UnionCity, California.
What should someone know beforecalling law enforcement in a
narcissistic relationship?
Involving the law is war.
First rule, document everything.
Texts, calls, dates.
Witnesses.
Narcissists flip the script fastand paint you as the villain.

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Paper trails save you.
Second, don't warn them.
If they know you're calling,they'll love bomb or smear you
first.
Move quietly.
Third, plan safety.
Have somewhere to go.
And expect retaliation.
They'll smear your name, twiststories, and maybe file false
reports.

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Be calm, consistent, and loadedwith facts.
That's how you win.
Question from Patrick in Dublin.
Ireland?
Why is it so hard for men toleave abusive or dead marriages?
Because society doesn't believemen can be victims.
A man says his wife is abusive.

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And people laugh.
The legal system leans againsthim, custody, divorce.
Even cops often side with her.
That traps men in silence, addin shame.
Men don't want to look likefailures or lose daily time with
kids.
They stay chained even when themarriage is dead.

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But staying kills the spirit.
My advice document, plan, andmove smart.
Hard don't mean impossible, butyou gotta play chess.
Question from Keiko in Osaka,Japan.
What's the first thing to do ifyou suspect you're in a
narcissistic relationship?
The very first step?

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Believe yourself.
That voice inside sayingsomething's off, don't silence
it.
Narcissists thrive ondashlighting, making you doubt
your own reality.
Step one is trusting your gut.
Then educate yourself.
Learn the playbook.
Love bombing, devaluing, rage,repeat.

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Start documenting quietly.
Don't confront too soon oncethey know you're on to them, the
mask slips and retaliationbegins.
Knowledge, evidence, and a plan,that's your foundation for
freedom.
Here's your code poll of theweek.
Never confuse apologies withaccountability.

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Apologies are words.
Accountability is action.
If their actions don't change,their words don't mean shit.
Spotlight this week goes tolisteners from Vienna, Houston,
Milan, Kokata, Toronto, Accra,Denver, Straubing, Atlanta,
Nairobi, Lisbon, Cairo, MountainView, Dublin, Osaka.

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