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January 15, 2025 35 mins

In this episode, Heddy and her father, Professor Doron Ben-Atar, explore historical hostage situations in the US, including the Iranian hostage crisis, Hezbollah capturing American hostages, the actions of Barbary pirates, and the 1704 Deerfield massacre and hostage taking. They discuss the implications of these events on current hostage negotiations, particularly in relation to the ongoing situation between Israel and Hamas. The conversation transitions into life advice, focusing on the complexities of marriage and the decision to stay or leave a relationship.


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Chapters


00:00 Introductions: Talking about Hostages

02:52 American Hostages taken by Hezbollah in the 1980s

05:23 Hostages taken by Native Americans in the Colonial period

07:53 The Deerfield Massacre and Its Aftermath

14:18 Historical Narratives Analysis

14:39 Piracy and Tribute: The Barbary Pirates and Early America

16:08 Jefferson and the Barbary Pirates: A Turning Point

23:49 Modern Hostage Situations: Lessons from the Past

24:14 Correction from the last episode

25:28 Life Advice: Should I Stay or Should I Go?


Keywords

hostage situations, US history, Iran, Barbary pirates, Deerfield Massacre, life advice, marriage, negotiation, historical analysis, family dynamics, divorce, affairs, Hezbollah, Hamas, October 7th, Israel, Bibas family, Eunice Williams, Jefferson, Early Republic, Early American History, American History



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