LIT: Erotic Leadership for a World On Fire
This is not your average leadership course. The world is burning—systems collapsing, communities dividing, the planet in distress. The old scripts of leadership—measured in KPIs, productivity hacks, and polished communication models—cannot carry us through this moment. They were built for control, not creation. For survival, not aliveness. LIT is a paradigm shift. It’s leadership rooted in the erotic—the raw, vital life force that fuels creativity, courage, and connection. Here, pleasure is not a distraction but a compass. Desire is not weakness but power. Aliveness is not indulgence but the deepest form of leadership we have left. Inside LIT, you’ll shed the inherited scripts of control and performance and step into a new way of leading—one that doesn’t conform to broken systems, but creates new worlds. This isn’t about doing more. It’s about leading from the fullness of who you are—body, spirit, and desire lit from within. The world is on fire. The leaders who will carry us forward are the ones willing to burn with it—alive, turned on, and unafraid. This is Erotic Leadership. This is LIT.
Episodes
PLEASURE is a leadership technology. Let’s reframe pleasure as fuel for leadership and as an embodied resource that strengthens intuition, creativity, presence, and resilience. In this lesson, you’ll meet the Pleasure Purse framework, a metaphorical toolkit for carrying the essentials of a turned-on, embodied life.
What did your Pleasure Inventory tell you? I'd love to know at shauna@lingerboutique.com.
FEEL dismantles one of the most dangerous myths about leadership: that feeling your feelings makes you weak. In this lesson you’ll learn why leaders today must build emotional range to stay resourced in a burning world, and the science of emotion (and why suppression wreaks havoc on your body and creativity). The world doesn’t need more polished, stone-faced leaders—it needs leaders who are alive.
How did swamping feel for you? Let ...
CO-CREATE challenges one of the most entrenched myths in relationships, leadership, and culture: that compromise is the key to connection. I’ll show you why compromise dilutes desire, flattens creativity, and keeps us living in the “good enough” instead of the “fully alive.”
How does it feel to co-create rather than compromise? Let me know at shauna@lingerboutique.com.
INTEGRATE unravels one of the deepest distortions of our time: the belief that leadership should be fueled only by logic, output, and control. For centuries, culture has taught us to fly with one wing—the masculine: production, strategy, competition. Meanwhile, the feminine—intuition, pleasure, embodiment—has been clipped, dismissed, or distorted.
The result? A collective death spiral of burnout, exploitation, and disconnection. It...
SLOW isn’t romantic—it’s raw, costly, and inconvenient. But it’s also the only doorway to true pleasure and sustainable leadership. In this lesson, you’ll learn why urgency culture is burning us out, and how choosing slow rewires your life, leadership, and worth.
You did it! Let me know how it feels to be an erotic leader at shauna@lingerbotuique.com.
TRUTH takes aim at the most damaging myths about women’s sexuality. These myths don’t just shape our sex lives, they shape how we lead, love, and take up space. It’s time to burn the lies and return to the erotic fire that was never meant to be silenced.
What myth are you unraveling? Let me know at shauna@lingerboutique.com
REPLENISH reframes rest as rebellion—an essential act of leadership that nourishes body, nervous system, and spirit, allowing us to hold others with depth and authenticity. Through story, science, and three embodied practices—meditation, movement, and self-pleasure—you’re invited to stop running on fumes and start leading lit from within, rooted, resourced, and radiantly alive.
How are you replenishing your self and your leadership?...
INTRO is a call to remember a different way of leading. One rooted not in depletion, perfection, or hustle, but in desire, embodiment, and truth.
This lesson lays the foundation for the course by exploring why eroticism is the fire beneath leadership, how pleasure and rest are essential resources, and why the world needs leaders turned on to their bodies, desires, and purpose now more than ever.
Tell me what stirs: shauna@lingerbout...
IGNITE dismantles the myths of self-care culture and work-life balance, revealing how they perpetuate burnout, disconnection, and performance over true nourishment. Erotic leadership transforms the way we care for ourselves, connect with others, and integrate our lives and work—not by striving for balance, but by leading from aliveness.
Let me know how it lands: shauna@lingerboutique.com
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