Make Life Fun Again

Episode 7 - The Lie of the "Half-Full" Glass: Why Space is Your Greatest AssetIn this mind-bending episode, Sharlene explores the unique wiring of Harry's mind... His positive outlook, his weird and wonderful perspectives, and finding joy in chaos.We tackle the biggest lie in motivational speaking: the "Glass Half Full" mentality. Harry reveals his unique perspective that the glass is always full (Water + Ai...

Episode 6 - Life isn't Hard, People MAKE it Hard

In this powerful episode, Harry and Sharlene step away from relationships to dive into a controversial truth: Life isn't hard, people make it hard. We explore the massive difference between real hardship and the self-inflicted chaos that prevents us from finding joy.

We discuss:

😊Why simplifying your life brings immediate joy.

☑️The difference between Accountability vs. ...

Episode 5 - How to Keep Marriage Fun - Even After 16 Years

Welcome back to Make Life Fun Again, where today we’re diving into something every couple wants but very few prioritize:

How do you keep your marriage FUN, playful, alive, and full of joy… even after years together?

By this point, you know our story. How we met, how we navigated depression, how we approached sex, and how we built a communication style without fight...

Episode 4 — Everyone Told Us Marriage Would Be Hard... They Were Wrong

Welcome back to Make Life Fun Again, where today we’re diving into a topic everyone is curious about…

what actually makes a marriage last?

If you listen to most relationship advice out there, you’ll hear things like:

“Fighting is normal.”

“Every couple screams sometimes.”

“Conflict is healthy.”

Well… not for us.

And honestly? We don’t think it has to be for anyone.

In th...

Episode 3 — Saving Ourselves for Marriage: What No One Told Us

In this episode of Make Life Fun Again, we’re talking about something that most couples don’t talk about, especially not with microphones rolling:

✨ Sex.

First-time sex.

Awkward, hilarious, heartfelt, faith-filled newlywed sex.

We saved ourselves for marriage, BOTH OF US, and that decision shaped our relationship more than anything else. But it also made our wedding consumma...

Episode 2 - Loving Someone Through the Darkness

In this raw and vulnerable episode of Make Life Fun Again, we take you into one of the most difficult chapters of our entire relationship, the season of deep clinical depression that hit Sharlene during the months leading up to our wedding.

On the outside, everything looked perfect:

We were in love. We were planning a beautiful future. We were getting ready for the fairytale God had writ...

Episode 1 - Our Fairytale Beginning

Welcome to the very first episode of Make Life Fun Again with Harry & Sharlene! 🎉

We're kicking off this journey by taking you right back to where it all began, long before the wedding, long before the struggles, long before the lessons we now get to share with the world.

This is the story of how two kids met in primary school and how God quietly kept us set apart for each other...