May 22, 2025 • 55 mins
Ep.20: Opposite Attraction / Opposition of Unity -Chasing what's not chasing, giving energy to the wrong beings, attracting the wrong doings by following social actions. To learn and gain through mutuality is to experience Celf Love. Loving yourcelf unconditionally for the outwardly connections by people, places, and things. In this episdoe, you'll learn to match your energy for the position of applying growth in your life from relationships, career paths, and finding the purposes or meaning to the life you're living.
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My energy, ecliptic.
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Love, circle persona.
Self love, best love, world love.
You know it's my honor.
Greetings, Dabi, your host, Jamez Peter Bastin.
In peace, prosperity, power, it's my honor
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to share my affirmations, visualizations,
and unison manifestations in all satisfactions.
The mind, body, and soul is to grow in all facets.
Presented in procreation, this is MB90 Podcast Show.
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May you be at peace in whatever the action is proclaiming.
Ascending the greatest of all satisfactions,
like your goals are bullseye, your actions the dark.
Believe in you, no matter the ending or the start
for your life, must you claim it.
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Peace, prosperity, power.
And today's episode, titled Opposite Attracts
The Opposition of Unity.
Opposition, naturally, we're mirrored to the idealization
of men opposing the difference of being a woman, right?
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Sexual genders, opposition of male, female, right?
So you have those standard perception of the opposition,
right, or what would be called opposite.
But within unity, complies to the sums of numbers
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by either people, places, and things confining into numbers,
again, that you can place into the terms, right, numbers
to be units, which in terms goes into unity.
So where power itself is confined by one plus one,
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galvanizing together so you can get the equation up to,
a lot of time for us, differences by opposition
based on our social, studying and upraising
catch a further intriguement rather than the interest
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of what is good for me, right?
Opposite attraction versus the opposition of unity.
To begin this conversation, I think always, you know,
you may hear me say the term self-love, best love,
one love a lot, but it goes to having that relationship
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itself before others, you know?
And for someone to be able to comprehend what that means
in regards to like how you can comply the opposition
of attraction to polarize the power of unity, right?
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What I mean by that is that just for the title itself,
I think it may confuse you, but for me,
I was subjugated among this subject to discuss
because in transparency, it was an experience
that I had earlier on today where I had a social correlation
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of being, I guess, virtually acquainted
with a young lady, a young woman,
and I was compelled by her in regards
to how she wanted to conceive based on either her own
experience or her own perception of what expected from me
or what is expected from men among the, I mean, dare I say,
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among the toxicity.
And for me, I've always been potent.
My potency among communicating, among growth
goes with mutuality, you know what I'm saying?
And I think a lot of times for us in a society,
we force ourselves and also engrave
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ourselves with people placing their things that's not
intact to our purpose, you know what I mean?
And really, the clarity of what I'm saying
is that good souls sometimes end up
with bad souls in regards to relationships, right?
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Whether it's friendship, romance, marriage, whatever
it stays to that point.
And I'm also a person to me, if you call yourself
a good soul that end up with a bad person,
it normally means that it's not that person that's bad to me.
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I would personally take the initiative,
take the ownership in that to where I would say,
it's me that made that decision.
So I take accountability to say, hey, it just
didn't work out rather than that person being bad.
And the clarity amongst that for me
is that I think socially we're driven
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amongst the narratives of being a great soul, right?
So much that we end up making that pop.
I'm sorry, we end up making our decision
based on popular outside success, right?
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What other people from the outside
would deem upon being a good or bad thing, right?
And the reason why I say that is that from my comprehension
at least, the good girl always feels
like she can be the one to change the bad guy, right?
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And vice versa, the good guy naturally
end up what they say finish last because he
gets taken advantage of.
So why is it that that good girl and that good guy
just seemingly don't say, hey, we're meant to be, right?
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You have somebody with a conservative personality
going on with somebody.
Like, I guess you can say more outgoing and so on and so forth,
more extroverted, right?
And that's naturally what you say opposite attract, right?
Well, that's naturally what you say that, hey,
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a tall guy like a short girl or a short girl like a tall guy.
Right, those things I think seemingly
makes the human experience from that perspective
have that understanding of what opposite attracts mean, right?
But I also feel that like no pun intended,
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I'm just being blunt and transparent.
I think there's beautiful people that's
beautiful in their minds, right?
And I think there's beautiful people that's
beautiful within their own flesh skin,
like undeniably beautiful, right?
And the problem with our society is
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that we want to labelize everything beautiful
to a public standard, right?
But again, for that term, beauty is
within the eye of its beholder.
So why not be transparent enough to say,
we know that person, whether he or she may not
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be so attractive, right?
But beauty is defined in its own way, so let it be as that.
But what we would attempt to do is
to submerge ourself in a place in our mind, right,
based on our society's upbringing,
to feel like we should have more than what we're given outward.
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Meaning that if I'm being transparent, I'm just being,
like I said, I'm being a blunt being.
I can't expect a beautiful, down piece of a woman
if I don't physically exert the same way.
And again, there might be a beautiful, down piece
of woman that like me for who I am that might find me
a physical, attractive male, like make her cream, whatever,
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like, you know what I'm saying, make her jewel, whatever,
or think of marriage, whatever, right?
And that's not to say it's impossible for me
to view a beautiful, down piece that way
and for her to not view me that, right?
I come to understand life and understand that beauty,
like I say, is in the eye of the beholder,
because I've known in my lifetime
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to where one lady might see me beautiful,
and the next lady might see me as ugly, right?
But what I've learned in mutuality
of being powerful for me is that, like, the lady
that calls me beautiful, I don't necessarily have
to be with her if I don't feel the same way, right?
And the lady that called me ugly,
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I don't necessarily have to agree with her
or follow a path of chasing a woman
that doesn't find me desirable.
So for me, the conversation of opposite attract for me,
it's a little different because as a male,
I'm a lot more different than most of my counterpart males
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where it's like the chase game has been everything.
And I don't know, well, I know it's not cockiness
or anything like that, but I understand
that it may come off as that for me
in some of my experiences.
But I feel no need for a woman to chase me,
and vice versa, I feel no need to chase a woman.
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Because like the freedom, like the freedom choice
that I respect a relationship to be in idealization
that nobody's forced me to speak or talk
or merit my time with this woman,
like whoever this woman may be at this time, right?
Because that's not forced, I feel no need to chase no one.
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I would feel no need to alternate my personality
or my persona to satisfy somebody else, right?
Who any day, any moment can lose dissatisfaction
to my own persona, so why would I alternate that?
So it's a little different for me because,
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but meaning that, because like I know socially
our society is ready to upon
finding ways of attracting those who don't attract you,
right, our society plague the idea of being likable
for the mass, right, the majority.
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Our society plagues the gamesmanship
that goes into the gamesmanship of dating or marriage
and so on and so forth, right?
So there's so much standards amongst
the games that opposite plays,
that for me, I learned to kind of just back off
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from all those games by understanding
that I'm naturally a magnetic force
to a woman who's naturally an energy field
based on her gender or being a womb, right?
Creating by her vagina, her yoni, right?
Her feminism, by her thought process,
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her mental approach, right?
I'm naturally gonna be attracted to this woman
whether she wear makeups or whether she wear
the most beautiful gown or anything
because naturally her figure,
scopes culture for my heterosexual mind
of being a procreative man to wear like,
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it's not much I need, right,
to understand my attraction to a woman
because I'm a heterosexual male.
So in that same standpoint, I do my best in getting away
from those little BS games that we learn
in the social standard because that position though,
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attempting to attract somebody
that you're totally opposite from,
I feel at least for me in my experience,
it doesn't get you closer in harmony
to what you're looking for.
So some of us may have the terminology
of what a twin flame is, right?
Some of us say meant to be,
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some of us say a life partner, so on.
However you wanna phrase or look into that perspective
of finding your right person,
to me, goes in, it goes in about the experiences
that you're implementing into relationships
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and also the experiences that you're learning
that gives you a true comprehension
in overstanding what you need, desire,
and going for it, right?
Rather than playing the repetitive games of the time changing.
Like this is what's happening now socially in relationship
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or in standards of dating and so on and so forth.
So you're just keeping on with the time
transitioning to whatever is called new and cool,
but yet organically, organically, you're just changing,
you know what I'm saying?
So you have no real direct,
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I guess you could say more of the principle
amongst how that goes for you.
So with that, I feel like for most relationship,
there's that yang and that yang, right?
Or there's that leverage aspect that goes into it.
And a part of that for me, like I said,
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yeah, that was the experience that I had earlier
with a conversation that really I was so baffled
amongst why this woman wanted the narrative
of being so negative.
And I was so baffled like why even,
I don't know for me, I've always been a person of,
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if my disinterest is disinterested,
then let's not be malicious, you know what I'm saying?
Let's serve your time before it's time to burn.
But for some people, I think whatever,
like they say the term hurt people, hurt people,
it's about being as vicious or possibly is about being
as hurtful as something they felt prior,
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you know what I'm saying?
And for me, rather than just looking on to that to be
an egotistical state for me to where I go back
and forth for it, I just take those moments of appreciation
like, okay, cool, this ain't for me.
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This is something I could work on that will allow me
to align myself better with the,
people placing their thing that's naturally
to and care for me.
And I think, I don't know, that's how I get into resolution
when I found either like differences,
dissatisfaction in my life.
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I don't look to battle it with like trying to beat
whatever that differences or dissatisfaction with me
overwhelmingly, it's more so like me looking at like,
okay, cool, respect that from my side.
Respect yours from your side.
And I'm respect that life has so much opportunities
and decisions that can't be made that like,
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happiness is not here in this moment.
So why make it more unhappy with my own thoughts
or making you feel less of yourself with my thoughts of you?
And some people are just down for that, you know,
it's to make, again, it's easy to say like hurt people,
hurt people, but you know, it also made me want,
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like I said, go to the topic of this title,
again, opposite attraction to opposite of unity
because we're so down to give our good energy
to bad people.
Sometimes it's like, yo, like again, I'm a male,
so I can only say this in one side of the street, right?
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But I've experienced that myself as being a good guy
and also a bad guy, right?
Where you're implementing as much energy as you could,
like organically, like not setting yourself up
to speak with any woman at a time trying to do it one,
you know, one person thing, right?
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And you get played, you probably,
I don't know if like, if that person,
whoever the situation, my, long story short,
to say that good guys sometimes burn, they get burned,
they get burned very badly, right?
And you've got the guys that's like paying her no mind,
giving her the least amount of attention,
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like knowing that he got multiple other girls,
but she's intrigued to that, right?
It's like the fact of like, really it's like seeing,
it's like, it's good seeing bad as good,
you know what I'm saying?
It's the fact of,
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I think sometimes we aid ourselves closer to problematic
issues rather than to what's peaceful.
And socially, that's why I said with the toxicity trait
earlier with that correlation that I had in conversation
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with the young lady earlier, I feel like socially, like,
that toxicity, that purple devil emoji that's running
to be so cool now, like, you know, cause it's like,
you know, it's like, oh, I'm bad, I'm a demon out here.
Like everybody loved that term.
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And to me it's crazy cause that's something like,
whether you as religious or not, you want to,
we all like, I think at least 10 years ago,
socially as a country or as human beings understood like,
now demons were something to be,
you never say like, oh, you're out there like,
using it as a terminology of saying, I'm bad right now.
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I'm on demon town, you feel me?
And I think that kind of correlates with our relationships
status because it's like, having spikes in our life
for some people is having drama in their life,
you know what I'm saying?
Having argumentative issues, like, you know what I'm saying?
It's like, it's saying that they're living.
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And I'm not there to, like I say,
all to or fighting about amongst that,
but I, for me personally, I'm not gonna like,
guilt myself of wanting to do for others
than what I would do for myself at time,
you know what I'm saying?
I would proclaim myself to the higher purpose
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and higher demand.
And really, like I said, this conversation had to happen
because I think a lot of us in totality
constantly blame our society
for like the people placing their things
or sort of like negative things
that's being aligned to our life that we don't understand
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or we won't take the accountability
in understanding that we're the one that's attracting such,
you know what I'm saying?
And for me, I don't give a fuck how beautiful a woman is.
I don't give a damn like how much she can offer me
regarding either like by surrounding people
placing their thing.
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That does nothing for me.
That does nothing to my soul and respect,
you know what I'm saying?
So I need comprehension, you know what I'm saying?
I need respect, you know what I'm saying?
I need my time to be valued the same way
as I value your time for me to confine
at least myself to say it.
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There's a setting of a relationship
that's possibly to be embark upon, you know what I'm saying?
Like I think a lot of time,
the men and women in our society, how we live in now,
is more like altering ourself to what we want, right?
And not nearly getting closer to what we need,
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you know what I'm saying?
Because the wants is such a physical,
visual idealization that seems to be so acceptable, right?
Right, the house, the kids, the dog, the cars, right?
It's a very, I think it's intangible for a lot of people
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because if your need doesn't confine
into your perpetuity in this lifetime,
if your need doesn't have a relinquished perceptual view
to what does a relationship mean to you
rather than what socially you've been educated
that relationship looks like, right?
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If you don't have a meaningful impact
behind what you look upon experiencing,
receiving in this lifetime,
then your needs won't never be something adequately
to that would be a potency that you wanna
galvanize yourself upon, right?
It's gonna be the desires.
And there was gonna be always altering
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because your surrounding by people placing their things
gonna keep pushing what's important
amongst your needs by desirable states.
You know what I mean?
It takes a lot, but I think if you're a person
that you can take the acceptance amongst that.
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I may not choose my parents, right?
I may not choose my surrounding amongst
how my parents started me in my upbringing
regarding like if we're rich, if we're struggling,
all that, there's a lot of things,
but however the value of your spirit
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nobody can ever put upon you besides you, right?
The value of your mind nobody can establish
besides what you wanna input into such mind, right?
And the temple that you possess of which is called your body,
only one person can defy that to be a temple, which is you,
or to be a virtue of utilization for other people, right?
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And their needs.
It's all upon you.
And I think a lot of times we victimize ourselves
based on the experiences that we've gained to life
rather than realizing that those experiences are moments
that should empower us more to the action
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that we're doing and being in life.
You know what I'm saying?
If I've had bad experience in something
about people placing things,
it's up to me to learn from it, right?
So I can say, hey, this is not something that I want to,
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physically, emotionally, spiritually want to have,
I wanna have a, I would like to be a part of my life.
This is not something I'm in interest of, right?
So that's one, right?
It comes the recognition of you assessing such issue, right?
But again, we're all not gods, right?
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We all don't snap our finger and say,
I don't want this, I don't want that.
So boom, it goes disappear.
But it's the accountability of knowing what you dislike,
knowing what you like and moving forward, right?
And understanding what you want, right?
And what you're yearning for, right?
What you setting your mind for,
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what you're setting your energy towards to say,
even if it doesn't happen the way I want it,
but I know my mindset, I know what I,
what my intrigue me is,
gravitationally pulled upon rather than
what my social standards is by people, places and things.
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And a lot of times, the experiences that we have,
if you're a woman, the experiences that you have with men
are socially judgmental to men being men
based on those experiences, right?
You're not galvanizing the idealization that,
hey, I did chose that man, maybe that was a bad seed,
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you know what I'm saying, from such apple,
so on and so forth.
We don't take the accountability of life, right?
A lot of us take life as if life is just happening to us
rather than understand that we can make life happen for us.
And that's what I mean by that.
Like, you can't be a quote unquote good girl,
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but you're attracted to the bad boys, right?
You're attracted to everything that you're not, right?
So either you gotta be honest with yourself and say,
I'm only faking myself, right?
By the social standards of pretending to be good
and knowing that then they mentally,
emotionally, physically, I wanna be bad, right?
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So you either faking it to yourself
or you understand that, yeah, like,
with me being attracted with this bad notion
or bad narrative, because I have a good notion,
I have a good narrative, right?
With that opposition comes a different role
in things that I must expect.
Like, I'm not saying that you're walking around,
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soon as you date, what is called or defined to be a bad guy
to expect your heart broken, but hey, expect it to be, right?
Or not say a good guy can't break your heart
or anything like that.
Yeah, anything can happen,
but it's about having accountability
to what you set yourself up for.
Same thing with a guy claiming bitches are,
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they all females are whores, my man, like,
you been with the wrong one, or also my man, like,
well, with the punches, you gotta look at the times
that we're in, you gotta see the person
that you're dealing with,
meaning that if that person do she think for herself,
is she a crowded person, meaning that like,
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if her surrounding is doing this,
is she just gonna be abide by it?
Is she a leader, do she lead her own life,
like, based on her own morals and values and principle,
or does that get changed and altered by those
that bestow much more powerful energy around her?
So those things that men, we do and claim negative
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about women, it's negative things about us
that we don't assess ourself.
So the first mirror goes into you reflecting
amongst yourself of your negativity, right?
Amongst yourself and your positivity, right?
You have to know the good and bad that you bring,
and also so that you can correlate yourself
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with your balance.
Correlate yourself with your balance.
Stop chasing something that's, you know,
you're running 100 miles to get to them
and as soon as you're about to, you know, catch up,
they decided to go ahead and go 200 mile
and tell you, hey, put it in the extra burst.
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So it's like, hey, you're wasting your time,
you're wasting your energy at this moment in time.
You know what I'm saying?
And I get it, in life, a lot of time,
we may want something challenged in things of that nature,
but you can't use your partner,
you can't use power, which is mutuality,
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in a way that you're stretching such,
oh, you're ripping away from it, right?
You can combine, you can conform, you can align, right?
You can, what's the other word I'm looking for?
You can pace, you can put a placement of pace
by like duration of understanding, what's another word?
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God damn it, I just saw the word.
But just fluidity, like having a fluidity,
a good flow on something, right?
Nothing could be so fast
while somebody else moving so slow,
that won't have a good pace,
it won't have a good balance, right?
So a good correlation of balance
is what you want to seek and what you want to desire.
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But again, for a lot of us, we don't.
And I'm acceptable to understand that,
which makes me live a happy life
when it comes to a relationship,
whether I'm single or whether I'm in a relationship,
which is that I have a relationship with myself, right?
I'm the perfection of imperfection.
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So my imperfection knows that nobody's perfect.
My perfection is that like,
I'm gonna work to be as perfect as I could possibly be.
You know what I'm saying?
And that's that balance and groundsmanship
that knows that, I mean, and me knowing that like,
there's segues by segments that I know I can evolve
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based on the way that I treat myself.
And I know there's segments of ways
that nobody could love me the way I love me.
You know what I'm saying?
And I'm not running,
I would never run from my imperfection.
All I can do is attempt to make that the best version of me.
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And what you see in relationship,
and most opposite tracking is that
most people will try to close their weaknesses
with somebody else's strength.
And it's like, you could do that,
but for how long can you actually comply that
to be a beneficial, a winning result to you?
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You know what I'm saying?
So in a lot of ways,
you could run from your own problems
to have somebody close it up for you,
but the moment that person not available,
that problem reopens.
So why run away from it?
Why not fixate it?
Whether it is with somebody that you can fixate that with.
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Don't be fearful that sometime it may be by yourself.
Right?
A lot of time we're waiting for a partner
to help us get this or get there,
but maybe you need to get there by yourself.
Sometime going through the darkness by yourself
allows you to find mutuality in that light by unity.
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You know what I'm saying?
Everybody would love that story to say that
you find your match or you find your partner
before you reach your ultimate peak,
your ultimate success.
I get it because it makes it that much harder
to know if somebody love you because you got your best.
But if that's what it's gonna take
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for you to find your best person,
then that's what it's gonna take, right?
Why be insecure in so many different rooms
and area of your life
and want somebody else to accept these insecurities
that you don't accept right now,
but right now you accept to receive unconditional love.
It makes no fucking sense.
You have to have the unconditional love
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for yourself first, right?
Work yourself in all ways,
then such match shall find you,
but that's the problem with our society.
We're gazed upon never having that strength
to deal with our loneliness,
never having that strength to deal with our issues
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so that way we can fix those issues
to be the best version of ourselves.
But with entertainment,
but with the different things,
the different glimpses that we cover ourselves up with,
whether it's men or the material,
this is stuff that we buy and so on,
whether it's the women and the cosmetic viewership
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that's alternated to the viewership of beauty, right?
All these things are just pushing us further away
from our purpose rather than getting us closer
to such divine timing, you know what I'm saying?
So like I said, the position that unity possesses itself in
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is us working towards our best and greatest goal, right?
So a lot of time what you find in our social standard
that gets completed is solidified by us taking whatever we,
by us taking whatever we accept
or liking the things that we like
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but are as not good for us is that like we get
moment of excitement, we get moment of bliss,
we get moments, right?
And we get these moments of experiences then
where you don't even get the true idealization
what that experience mean,
which is learn earn a gift, right?
You learn from it, you're able to earn from it
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right by either spiritually, physically,
emotionally and then you're able to give back
not only to yourself but your surrounding
what you just learned, earned and get, right?
Those are things that's not being taught upon that life.
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Life itself is a huge, big lesson
that's continuously happening to us every fucking day
that we exist, right?
But because we take life on this emotional roller coaster
of like me, me, me, me, this narcissistic view of like
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everything has to be for me, we have a selfish way
of learning from these experiences
because it's so tumultuously singularly looking
at the viewership like this is the best life
or this is the worst life if something good happened to us
or something bad happened to us.
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Not realizing these are the experiences
that we learn from and earn from, right?
We should be more courageous to find ourselves
into our likings, right?
Rather than like keep changing or subjugating
and such to whatever our surroundings said to be.
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You can't choose for social acceptance
over your own inner purpose, right?
Your inner perpetuity.
Good lovers, bad partners.
It's the game that you find within the game
because it's the auto manipulation, right?
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A bad partner of a woman find a good lover of a man
because she know that good lover man desire.
She knows that good lover man needs
so she can comply that, right?
A bad lover man find a good lover woman
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and the same vice versa of those reasoning.
He knows how to confine in her, what she looks for, right?
So as much as that she could be a good girl,
super conservative, but what attracts her
is his possible ability of being so outlandish
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and looking like the overprotective dominant male
because in her own way she's not an overly dominant female.
So naturally she find this man to be such a powerful man
because it's nothing like her.
But in reality, does it actually work?
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You know what I'm saying?
So those are the type of truth and understanding
that we must have in regards to conversation with ourselves
to know, okay, like, if this is good or this is bad for me.
And a lot of times we pick our wants, desires, fantasies
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a lot over our needs, a lot over the needs for our mind,
our bodies, right, our spirits.
We don't understand like, yeah, this woman may be beautiful
but the mindset, the spiritual energy that I've gotten
for either being around or having sexual intercourse
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with these beautiful women that have these
negative, drainful energy, what does that do to me?
What does that do to me in a long road
when I'm looking for or if I'm seeking,
what does that to me in a long time
if I'm seeking a fulfilling relationship
that correlates to me to be a father one day,
to be a husband one day, right?
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To learn better ways of treating a woman.
How does that work with me if I've been dealing
with toxic women that want me to slug them out
or talk to them all kind of way, this, that and that, right?
Super fun maybe at the moment time for the sexual actions
but mentally for me, spiritually for me
when it comes to the growth, when it comes to
what I'm actually making and creating in this lifetime,
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does it work out?
And naturally it doesn't.
Well, let's say, I can admit,
I won't say naturally it doesn't,
I would just say it comes with difficulty, right?
And even in this conversation, I'm a sort of person
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I could never tell you the best relationship,
you know what I'm saying, for you.
It's about, relationships are all personal.
And I think we're not doing ourselves enough justice.
And I think that's really what I wanted to relay
in this conversation is that like,
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do yourself enough justice to know what you like,
to know what you love.
Why be afraid like to be into the things
that makes you happy?
Why be afraid of living the life that you choose
for yourself, you know what I'm saying?
Cause like realistically, the more you keep placing yourself
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in a life that others want for you,
the more you keep living a life that you feel
desirably only based on social requirement
or what would be defined as social success is like,
you're the only one that's gonna be the one fighting
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yourself for those moments that you feel unsuccessful,
unhappy, unhappiness, right?
I think I know for me, I'm living the life
that's purposeful because I set intention
in all my doings and being.
Am I perfect?
Far from it, far, far from it.
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But the accountability, the ownership that I take
in my relationships regarding women,
friendship with homies, work relations, things like that,
it's set forward, it's set with some principles and more
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that goes like, I know what I'm not gonna do
or do to handle myself and vice versa.
I know the respect that I have for others,
you know what I'm saying?
And I think that's that balanced ground
and the ship that I speak on.
It's not more so about what is the social standard,
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which is leverages in relationship, you know what I'm saying?
Whether it's the friends, whether it's the romance,
like most relationship, if not any,
comes with this leverage play.
And I've just been so
poking into this idealization of mutuality
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that I'm aware that it's something that's rare
in our society, you know what I'm saying?
To actually just wanna be with somebody
because you care for them, you know what I'm saying?
To not need that person, but actually
enjoy that person so much that it becomes a need,
you know what I'm saying?
To have yourself set and balanced
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for your own capabilities, right?
To not have that capability
to where you're taken from somebody
to where you can be aiding or providing to someone life,
to aiding and providing to someone life is the best.
I mean, why wouldn't you wanna be,
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why wouldn't you wanna be a part of someone life
for the positivity, right?
So much of us having relationships,
but all of us for majority of the conversation are negative.
I hate my ex, I hate my baby daddy,
I hate my baby mama.
Yo, aren't you forgetting this was your fucking decision?
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This was somebody you chose to light those means
of people out there.
And obviously that's another platform to the conversation
that I can have on, right?
Which is that, yeah, we have so much options
in our society currently, right?
Our DMs is filled with so many options,
but you still have to be accountable, right?
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If you're not ready for one person,
if you're not ready to assess yourself for one person
because you can't commit or you feel like damn,
there's too many options out there.
Be a man or be woman enough to be like,
yo, I'm out here doing me.
But the problem is that the man don't wanna really seem
like a hoe as much he is a hoe, same with a woman.
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If we hoeing, we hoeing.
And if we loving, we loving.
But we can't continuously lie to ourself
because our society is hindered by that.
You know what I'm saying?
So the relationships to where a lot of the experiences
cultivating a negative to where the people can't even really
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like, yeah, I love, I appreciate the moment
at time I have my ex.
It's all galvanized into like, fuck that person,
da, da, da, da, da.
It's that toxicity background that's flourishing
with these experiences, which means that we're having
too many of these experiences, you know what I'm saying?
And again, it's going to the courtmanship of,
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like I say, with the social epidemic that we have
when it comes to being able to choose and pick,
swipe, should I say, our likes and dislikes.
And it's just like, the souls have become physically,
just as that physical bodies, you know what I'm saying?
The conversation has become alienated, Lord have mercy.
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Alienated, Lord, I still stuck on this one.
But the conversation has like laws, purposeful groundsmanship,
you know what I'm saying?
Or it's purposeful, but it's in a fantasy perspective
because it's all like, like I say, direct messages.
It's all like, you know, dating profile, subjugated.
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It's not really plural to be something meaningful,
but we grab something like it's something meaningful,
you know what I'm saying?
The man has a lot of options because he got,
hey, it might not be all,
it may not be the best option
that he desires or wants, right?
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But he's gonna get whatever options given
based on these dating apps or these social media profiles,
and same thing with her vice versa.
It's like, how could you settle down to one guy?
You know what I'm saying?
You got husband, boyfriends, sugar daddies,
and all these different apps.
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You know what I'm saying?
So what you realize in our society is that like,
some people feel like they can get love
by playing the game of love at the same time.
Some people feel like relationship itself is a game,
while some people feel like love is life
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and just be pure to it.
So within those coexistence that those differences exist,
but yet it's one societal life
that's living between these different mindset
comes to where we are in this societal place
where a lot of us can't even respect that.
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You know what I'm saying?
Like the idealization of having a slut club,
having a wife club, you know what I'm saying?
Having a husband club, having a trick club.
We're not even able or capable to separate ourself
as a society like that.
What I mean by that, if you're a trick man as a tricker,
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take your ass in those clubs where you know women
is sucking tricks, right?
And vice versa, if you're a woman that you know
that's all you want from men is gift,
take your ass to the clubs that dudes that tricks be at.
You know what I'm saying?
Rather than like now you do this,
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certify, settle in looking for love.
You wanna go to the club knowing that you just
wanna get the man with the richest money in that club
that's actually there for love.
You know what I'm saying?
Like set yourself up to the bar or the club
that's in the path of the life that you want,
that you're going for, that you desire
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or wanna energetically attract yourself to.
But no, the play for our society is that like we're greed.
Right, it's the greed.
It's like we want the cake, can't eat it too.
We want all, you know what I'm saying?
The attractive man is not worried that like
he got a beautiful wife at home.
You know what I'm saying?
It's like, wait a minute, how about this be other beautiful
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attractive women?
Is she attracted to me too?
Can I get her as well?
A lot of us are addicted to that power field
that comes with the numbers, idealization, right?
But you can get a lot of pussy from a lot of different
places and still feel incomplete and still feel weak.
You can get a lot of pussy for the same place and still
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and feel strong as hell because you feel like
there's a secrecy behind that.
All spectrum of perspective, you know what I mean?
So, in this journey, in this lifetime that we live,
maybe be closer to your attractions.
You know what I'm saying?
And your attraction to view a heterosexual male or female
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doesn't mean that the mirror of your soul is exactly
identical to you, right?
But the more is in principle, meaning like,
what's the groundmanship of what a relationship
is set upon?
How,
how and how,
what and how, why am I saying how again?
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I mean, what, what, how,
and who would you like have kids with?
You know what I'm saying?
Like the goals that you have in life,
whether it's through marriage and through kids
and relationships, stuff like that,
those are the important balance that shall be spoken upon
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in conversation, right?
We're naturally gonna be opposite whether if we are male,
you're a woman in different heights and so on and so forth.
But truly if something that makes you happy,
meaning that you are male, you are fit,
and you want a fit male,
don't demoralize yourself because you feel like
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you're a bad person because somebody that
you're not attracted to, you like you,
but you feel like you should like because that person
liked you that bad.
No, it doesn't fit your standard.
So make sure you're appeasing yourself first
with your relationship concepts.
Don't appease somebody else amongst what their concept
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is of such and then be living in a sad universe,
which is your world because you place yourself
and putting somebody else's happiness over yours.
It doesn't make sense.
It truly don't.
So appreciate your time and your patience
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and in the process of hearing me out today
in the process of giving me
the ability to let my mind set free.
The dharma mind speaking upon what's purposeful,
meaningful, caring to my divine soul.
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I'm grateful for that.
Truly, truly, truly grateful for such.
You know what I'm saying?
Because we're in the society too as well, obviously.
Everybody's just trying their best to,
you know what I'm saying?
Look for attention, chase attention,
you know what I'm saying?
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We're craving it in so many ways.
And for me, artistically, I think it's always been hard
for me to create, just to create for the attention idea
rather than the intentional purpose.
I think art should be able to enhance people,
whether it's through the mind, the body,
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and the experience of emotions, stuff like that, right?
Whether it's the emotional joys, things like that.
I think we're here to propel one another,
not see each other as a dollar sign
and really art and everything else in our societies
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plague on numbers of making money off people,
you know what I'm saying?
And like I said, we never,
we're not down to accept our downfalls for the long runs.
But for me, I understand my impact
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and I understand I'm a father of many kids.
You know what I'm saying?
Whether it's not my kids physically
that I birthed from my penis,
but I'm a father of many kids being that as an adult male,
there's a lot of things that I do
that's being followed by my actions,
you know what I'm saying?
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Whether I like it or not.
You know, and a lot of time we don't see
that we have enough power to change the world
as much that we actually do.
So for me, as the God that I am,
I have the power to change myself
and that's gonna go into changing the universe within me.
And that's gonna go affect the earth well
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that I share with the rest of the other people,
places and things.
So, and that's what's in my control.
You know what I'm saying?
And I look in virtues to match myself.
I've meant to be with a beautiful queen,
but at the same time I'm not looking to just empathetically
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say I have something out of desperation, you know,
out of loneliness, you know what I'm saying?
No, that's not purposeful for me.
So I stand ground, ten toes down,
I'm always like, what my care abouts is
and understand the separation of my whereabouts
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and I'm okay with that.
So in all, I hope the same for you.
You know what I'm saying?
May you affirm, visualize, manifest the life
that you are waiting to bestow upon.
In this moment I send to you peace, prosperity, power
of every second to every minute of every hour.
Thank you again.
This is the MB90 Podcast though.
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And full transparency, that'll be our Mr. Bastion 9 tablets.
That's what MB90 would stand for, okay?
So again, thank you for your time and understanding.
May you have a great day and also a great moment
continuously in every day of this lifetime that you live.
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I wish you all the best and I promise love.
My energy, ecliptic.
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Self love, best love, world love.
You know it's my honor.
Greetings, Dabi, your host, Jamez Peter Bastin.
In peace, prosperity, power, it's my honor
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May you be at peace in whatever the action is proclaiming.
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Believe in you, no matter the ending or the start
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Peace, prosperity, power.
And today's episode, titled Opposite Attracts
The Opposition of Unity.
Opposition, naturally, we're mirrored to the idealization
of men opposing the difference of being a woman, right?
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Sexual genders, opposition of male, female, right?
So you have those standard perception of the opposition,
right, or what would be called opposite.
But within unity, complies to the sums of numbers
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by either people, places, and things confining into numbers,
again, that you can place into the terms, right, numbers
to be units, which in terms goes into unity.
So where power itself is confined by one plus one,
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galvanizing together so you can get the equation up to,
a lot of time for us, differences by opposition
based on our social, studying and upraising
catch a further intriguement rather than the interest
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of what is good for me, right?
Opposite attraction versus the opposition of unity.
To begin this conversation, I think always, you know,
you may hear me say the term self-love, best love,
one love a lot, but it goes to having that relationship
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itself before others, you know?
And for someone to be able to comprehend what that means
in regards to like how you can comply the opposition
of attraction to polarize the power of unity, right?
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What I mean by that is that just for the title itself,
I think it may confuse you, but for me,
I was subjugated among this subject to discuss
because in transparency, it was an experience
that I had earlier on today where I had a social correlation
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of being, I guess, virtually acquainted
with a young lady, a young woman,
and I was compelled by her in regards
to how she wanted to conceive based on either her own
experience or her own perception of what expected from me
or what is expected from men among the, I mean, dare I say,
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among the toxicity.
And for me, I've always been potent.
My potency among communicating, among growth
goes with mutuality, you know what I'm saying?
And I think a lot of times for us in a society,
we force ourselves and also engrave
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ourselves with people placing their things that's not
intact to our purpose, you know what I mean?
And really, the clarity of what I'm saying
is that good souls sometimes end up
with bad souls in regards to relationships, right?
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Whether it's friendship, romance, marriage, whatever
it stays to that point.
And I'm also a person to me, if you call yourself
a good soul that end up with a bad person,
it normally means that it's not that person that's bad to me.
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I would personally take the initiative,
take the ownership in that to where I would say,
it's me that made that decision.
So I take accountability to say, hey, it just
didn't work out rather than that person being bad.
And the clarity amongst that for me
is that I think socially we're driven
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amongst the narratives of being a great soul, right?
So much that we end up making that pop.
I'm sorry, we end up making our decision
based on popular outside success, right?
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What other people from the outside
would deem upon being a good or bad thing, right?
And the reason why I say that is that from my comprehension
at least, the good girl always feels
like she can be the one to change the bad guy, right?
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And vice versa, the good guy naturally
end up what they say finish last because he
gets taken advantage of.
So why is it that that good girl and that good guy
just seemingly don't say, hey, we're meant to be, right?
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You have somebody with a conservative personality
going on with somebody.
Like, I guess you can say more outgoing and so on and so forth,
more extroverted, right?
And that's naturally what you say opposite attract, right?
Well, that's naturally what you say that, hey,
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a tall guy like a short girl or a short girl like a tall guy.
Right, those things I think seemingly
makes the human experience from that perspective
have that understanding of what opposite attracts mean, right?
But I also feel that like no pun intended,
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I'm just being blunt and transparent.
I think there's beautiful people that's
beautiful in their minds, right?
And I think there's beautiful people that's
beautiful within their own flesh skin,
like undeniably beautiful, right?
And the problem with our society is
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that we want to labelize everything beautiful
to a public standard, right?
But again, for that term, beauty is
within the eye of its beholder.
So why not be transparent enough to say,
we know that person, whether he or she may not
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be so attractive, right?
But beauty is defined in its own way, so let it be as that.
But what we would attempt to do is
to submerge ourself in a place in our mind, right,
based on our society's upbringing,
to feel like we should have more than what we're given outward.
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Meaning that if I'm being transparent, I'm just being,
like I said, I'm being a blunt being.
I can't expect a beautiful, down piece of a woman
if I don't physically exert the same way.
And again, there might be a beautiful, down piece
of woman that like me for who I am that might find me
a physical, attractive male, like make her cream, whatever,
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like, you know what I'm saying, make her jewel, whatever,
or think of marriage, whatever, right?
And that's not to say it's impossible for me
to view a beautiful, down piece that way
and for her to not view me that, right?
I come to understand life and understand that beauty,
like I say, is in the eye of the beholder,
because I've known in my lifetime
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to where one lady might see me beautiful,
and the next lady might see me as ugly, right?
But what I've learned in mutuality
of being powerful for me is that, like, the lady
that calls me beautiful, I don't necessarily have
to be with her if I don't feel the same way, right?
And the lady that called me ugly,
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I don't necessarily have to agree with her
or follow a path of chasing a woman
that doesn't find me desirable.
So for me, the conversation of opposite attract for me,
it's a little different because as a male,
I'm a lot more different than most of my counterpart males
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where it's like the chase game has been everything.
And I don't know, well, I know it's not cockiness
or anything like that, but I understand
that it may come off as that for me
in some of my experiences.
But I feel no need for a woman to chase me,
and vice versa, I feel no need to chase a woman.
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Because like the freedom, like the freedom choice
that I respect a relationship to be in idealization
that nobody's forced me to speak or talk
or merit my time with this woman,
like whoever this woman may be at this time, right?
Because that's not forced, I feel no need to chase no one.
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I would feel no need to alternate my personality
or my persona to satisfy somebody else, right?
Who any day, any moment can lose dissatisfaction
to my own persona, so why would I alternate that?
So it's a little different for me because,
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but meaning that, because like I know socially
our society is ready to upon
finding ways of attracting those who don't attract you,
right, our society plague the idea of being likable
for the mass, right, the majority.
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Our society plagues the gamesmanship
that goes into the gamesmanship of dating or marriage
and so on and so forth, right?
So there's so much standards amongst
the games that opposite plays,
that for me, I learned to kind of just back off
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from all those games by understanding
that I'm naturally a magnetic force
to a woman who's naturally an energy field
based on her gender or being a womb, right?
Creating by her vagina, her yoni, right?
Her feminism, by her thought process,
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her mental approach, right?
I'm naturally gonna be attracted to this woman
whether she wear makeups or whether she wear
the most beautiful gown or anything
because naturally her figure,
scopes culture for my heterosexual mind
of being a procreative man to wear like,
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it's not much I need, right,
to understand my attraction to a woman
because I'm a heterosexual male.
So in that same standpoint, I do my best in getting away
from those little BS games that we learn
in the social standard because that position though,
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attempting to attract somebody
that you're totally opposite from,
I feel at least for me in my experience,
it doesn't get you closer in harmony
to what you're looking for.
So some of us may have the terminology
of what a twin flame is, right?
Some of us say meant to be,
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some of us say a life partner, so on.
However you wanna phrase or look into that perspective
of finding your right person,
to me, goes in, it goes in about the experiences
that you're implementing into relationships
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and also the experiences that you're learning
that gives you a true comprehension
in overstanding what you need, desire,
and going for it, right?
Rather than playing the repetitive games of the time changing.
Like this is what's happening now socially in relationship
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or in standards of dating and so on and so forth.
So you're just keeping on with the time
transitioning to whatever is called new and cool,
but yet organically, organically, you're just changing,
you know what I'm saying?
So you have no real direct,
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I guess you could say more of the principle
amongst how that goes for you.
So with that, I feel like for most relationship,
there's that yang and that yang, right?
Or there's that leverage aspect that goes into it.
And a part of that for me, like I said,
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yeah, that was the experience that I had earlier
with a conversation that really I was so baffled
amongst why this woman wanted the narrative
of being so negative.
And I was so baffled like why even,
I don't know for me, I've always been a person of,
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if my disinterest is disinterested,
then let's not be malicious, you know what I'm saying?
Let's serve your time before it's time to burn.
But for some people, I think whatever,
like they say the term hurt people, hurt people,
it's about being as vicious or possibly is about being
as hurtful as something they felt prior,
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you know what I'm saying?
And for me, rather than just looking on to that to be
an egotistical state for me to where I go back
and forth for it, I just take those moments of appreciation
like, okay, cool, this ain't for me.
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This is something I could work on that will allow me
to align myself better with the,
people placing their thing that's naturally
to and care for me.
And I think, I don't know, that's how I get into resolution
when I found either like differences,
dissatisfaction in my life.
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I don't look to battle it with like trying to beat
whatever that differences or dissatisfaction with me
overwhelmingly, it's more so like me looking at like,
okay, cool, respect that from my side.
Respect yours from your side.
And I'm respect that life has so much opportunities
and decisions that can't be made that like,
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happiness is not here in this moment.
So why make it more unhappy with my own thoughts
or making you feel less of yourself with my thoughts of you?
And some people are just down for that, you know,
it's to make, again, it's easy to say like hurt people,
hurt people, but you know, it also made me want,
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like I said, go to the topic of this title,
again, opposite attraction to opposite of unity
because we're so down to give our good energy
to bad people.
Sometimes it's like, yo, like again, I'm a male,
so I can only say this in one side of the street, right?
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But I've experienced that myself as being a good guy
and also a bad guy, right?
Where you're implementing as much energy as you could,
like organically, like not setting yourself up
to speak with any woman at a time trying to do it one,
you know, one person thing, right?
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And you get played, you probably,
I don't know if like, if that person,
whoever the situation, my, long story short,
to say that good guys sometimes burn, they get burned,
they get burned very badly, right?
And you've got the guys that's like paying her no mind,
giving her the least amount of attention,
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like knowing that he got multiple other girls,
but she's intrigued to that, right?
It's like the fact of like, really it's like seeing,
it's like, it's good seeing bad as good,
you know what I'm saying?
It's the fact of,
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I think sometimes we aid ourselves closer to problematic
issues rather than to what's peaceful.
And socially, that's why I said with the toxicity trait
earlier with that correlation that I had in conversation
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with the young lady earlier, I feel like socially, like,
that toxicity, that purple devil emoji that's running
to be so cool now, like, you know, cause it's like,
you know, it's like, oh, I'm bad, I'm a demon out here.
Like everybody loved that term.
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And to me it's crazy cause that's something like,
whether you as religious or not, you want to,
we all like, I think at least 10 years ago,
socially as a country or as human beings understood like,
now demons were something to be,
you never say like, oh, you're out there like,
using it as a terminology of saying, I'm bad right now.
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I'm on demon town, you feel me?
And I think that kind of correlates with our relationships
status because it's like, having spikes in our life
for some people is having drama in their life,
you know what I'm saying?
Having argumentative issues, like, you know what I'm saying?
It's like, it's saying that they're living.
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And I'm not there to, like I say,
all to or fighting about amongst that,
but I, for me personally, I'm not gonna like,
guilt myself of wanting to do for others
than what I would do for myself at time,
you know what I'm saying?
I would proclaim myself to the higher purpose
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and higher demand.
And really, like I said, this conversation had to happen
because I think a lot of us in totality
constantly blame our society
for like the people placing their things
or sort of like negative things
that's being aligned to our life that we don't understand
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or we won't take the accountability
in understanding that we're the one that's attracting such,
you know what I'm saying?
And for me, I don't give a fuck how beautiful a woman is.
I don't give a damn like how much she can offer me
regarding either like by surrounding people
placing their thing.
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That does nothing for me.
That does nothing to my soul and respect,
you know what I'm saying?
So I need comprehension, you know what I'm saying?
I need respect, you know what I'm saying?
I need my time to be valued the same way
as I value your time for me to confine
at least myself to say it.
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There's a setting of a relationship
that's possibly to be embark upon, you know what I'm saying?
Like I think a lot of time,
the men and women in our society, how we live in now,
is more like altering ourself to what we want, right?
And not nearly getting closer to what we need,
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you know what I'm saying?
Because the wants is such a physical,
visual idealization that seems to be so acceptable, right?
Right, the house, the kids, the dog, the cars, right?
It's a very, I think it's intangible for a lot of people
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because if your need doesn't confine
into your perpetuity in this lifetime,
if your need doesn't have a relinquished perceptual view
to what does a relationship mean to you
rather than what socially you've been educated
that relationship looks like, right?
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If you don't have a meaningful impact
behind what you look upon experiencing,
receiving in this lifetime,
then your needs won't never be something adequately
to that would be a potency that you wanna
galvanize yourself upon, right?
It's gonna be the desires.
And there was gonna be always altering
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because your surrounding by people placing their things
gonna keep pushing what's important
amongst your needs by desirable states.
You know what I mean?
It takes a lot, but I think if you're a person
that you can take the acceptance amongst that.
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I may not choose my parents, right?
I may not choose my surrounding amongst
how my parents started me in my upbringing
regarding like if we're rich, if we're struggling,
all that, there's a lot of things,
but however the value of your spirit
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nobody can ever put upon you besides you, right?
The value of your mind nobody can establish
besides what you wanna input into such mind, right?
And the temple that you possess of which is called your body,
only one person can defy that to be a temple, which is you,
or to be a virtue of utilization for other people, right?
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And their needs.
It's all upon you.
And I think a lot of times we victimize ourselves
based on the experiences that we've gained to life
rather than realizing that those experiences are moments
that should empower us more to the action
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that we're doing and being in life.
You know what I'm saying?
If I've had bad experience in something
about people placing things,
it's up to me to learn from it, right?
So I can say, hey, this is not something that I want to,
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physically, emotionally, spiritually want to have,
I wanna have a, I would like to be a part of my life.
This is not something I'm in interest of, right?
So that's one, right?
It comes the recognition of you assessing such issue, right?
But again, we're all not gods, right?
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We all don't snap our finger and say,
I don't want this, I don't want that.
So boom, it goes disappear.
But it's the accountability of knowing what you dislike,
knowing what you like and moving forward, right?
And understanding what you want, right?
And what you're yearning for, right?
What you setting your mind for,
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what you're setting your energy towards to say,
even if it doesn't happen the way I want it,
but I know my mindset, I know what I,
what my intrigue me is,
gravitationally pulled upon rather than
what my social standards is by people, places and things.
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And a lot of times, the experiences that we have,
if you're a woman, the experiences that you have with men
are socially judgmental to men being men
based on those experiences, right?
You're not galvanizing the idealization that,
hey, I did chose that man, maybe that was a bad seed,
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you know what I'm saying, from such apple,
so on and so forth.
We don't take the accountability of life, right?
A lot of us take life as if life is just happening to us
rather than understand that we can make life happen for us.
And that's what I mean by that.
Like, you can't be a quote unquote good girl,
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but you're attracted to the bad boys, right?
You're attracted to everything that you're not, right?
So either you gotta be honest with yourself and say,
I'm only faking myself, right?
By the social standards of pretending to be good
and knowing that then they mentally,
emotionally, physically, I wanna be bad, right?
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So you either faking it to yourself
or you understand that, yeah, like,
with me being attracted with this bad notion
or bad narrative, because I have a good notion,
I have a good narrative, right?
With that opposition comes a different role
in things that I must expect.
Like, I'm not saying that you're walking around,
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soon as you date, what is called or defined to be a bad guy
to expect your heart broken, but hey, expect it to be, right?
Or not say a good guy can't break your heart
or anything like that.
Yeah, anything can happen,
but it's about having accountability
to what you set yourself up for.
Same thing with a guy claiming bitches are,
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they all females are whores, my man, like,
you been with the wrong one, or also my man, like,
well, with the punches, you gotta look at the times
that we're in, you gotta see the person
that you're dealing with,
meaning that if that person do she think for herself,
is she a crowded person, meaning that like,
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if her surrounding is doing this,
is she just gonna be abide by it?
Is she a leader, do she lead her own life,
like, based on her own morals and values and principle,
or does that get changed and altered by those
that bestow much more powerful energy around her?
So those things that men, we do and claim negative
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about women, it's negative things about us
that we don't assess ourself.
So the first mirror goes into you reflecting
amongst yourself of your negativity, right?
Amongst yourself and your positivity, right?
You have to know the good and bad that you bring,
and also so that you can correlate yourself
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with your balance.
Correlate yourself with your balance.
Stop chasing something that's, you know,
you're running 100 miles to get to them
and as soon as you're about to, you know, catch up,
they decided to go ahead and go 200 mile
and tell you, hey, put it in the extra burst.
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So it's like, hey, you're wasting your time,
you're wasting your energy at this moment in time.
You know what I'm saying?
And I get it, in life, a lot of time,
we may want something challenged in things of that nature,
but you can't use your partner,
you can't use power, which is mutuality,
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in a way that you're stretching such,
oh, you're ripping away from it, right?
You can combine, you can conform, you can align, right?
You can, what's the other word I'm looking for?
You can pace, you can put a placement of pace
by like duration of understanding, what's another word?
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God damn it, I just saw the word.
But just fluidity, like having a fluidity,
a good flow on something, right?
Nothing could be so fast
while somebody else moving so slow,
that won't have a good pace,
it won't have a good balance, right?
So a good correlation of balance
is what you want to seek and what you want to desire.
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But again, for a lot of us, we don't.
And I'm acceptable to understand that,
which makes me live a happy life
when it comes to a relationship,
whether I'm single or whether I'm in a relationship,
which is that I have a relationship with myself, right?
I'm the perfection of imperfection.
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So my imperfection knows that nobody's perfect.
My perfection is that like,
I'm gonna work to be as perfect as I could possibly be.
You know what I'm saying?
And that's that balance and groundsmanship
that knows that, I mean, and me knowing that like,
there's segues by segments that I know I can evolve
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based on the way that I treat myself.
And I know there's segments of ways
that nobody could love me the way I love me.
You know what I'm saying?
And I'm not running,
I would never run from my imperfection.
All I can do is attempt to make that the best version of me.
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And what you see in relationship,
and most opposite tracking is that
most people will try to close their weaknesses
with somebody else's strength.
And it's like, you could do that,
but for how long can you actually comply that
to be a beneficial, a winning result to you?
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You know what I'm saying?
So in a lot of ways,
you could run from your own problems
to have somebody close it up for you,
but the moment that person not available,
that problem reopens.
So why run away from it?
Why not fixate it?
Whether it is with somebody that you can fixate that with.
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Don't be fearful that sometime it may be by yourself.
Right?
A lot of time we're waiting for a partner
to help us get this or get there,
but maybe you need to get there by yourself.
Sometime going through the darkness by yourself
allows you to find mutuality in that light by unity.
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You know what I'm saying?
Everybody would love that story to say that
you find your match or you find your partner
before you reach your ultimate peak,
your ultimate success.
I get it because it makes it that much harder
to know if somebody love you because you got your best.
But if that's what it's gonna take
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for you to find your best person,
then that's what it's gonna take, right?
Why be insecure in so many different rooms
and area of your life
and want somebody else to accept these insecurities
that you don't accept right now,
but right now you accept to receive unconditional love.
It makes no fucking sense.
You have to have the unconditional love
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for yourself first, right?
Work yourself in all ways,
then such match shall find you,
but that's the problem with our society.
We're gazed upon never having that strength
to deal with our loneliness,
never having that strength to deal with our issues
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so that way we can fix those issues
to be the best version of ourselves.
But with entertainment,
but with the different things,
the different glimpses that we cover ourselves up with,
whether it's men or the material,
this is stuff that we buy and so on,
whether it's the women and the cosmetic viewership
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that's alternated to the viewership of beauty, right?
All these things are just pushing us further away
from our purpose rather than getting us closer
to such divine timing, you know what I'm saying?
So like I said, the position that unity possesses itself in
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is us working towards our best and greatest goal, right?
So a lot of time what you find in our social standard
that gets completed is solidified by us taking whatever we,
by us taking whatever we accept
or liking the things that we like
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but are as not good for us is that like we get
moment of excitement, we get moment of bliss,
we get moments, right?
And we get these moments of experiences then
where you don't even get the true idealization
what that experience mean,
which is learn earn a gift, right?
You learn from it, you're able to earn from it
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right by either spiritually, physically,
emotionally and then you're able to give back
not only to yourself but your surrounding
what you just learned, earned and get, right?
Those are things that's not being taught upon that life.
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Life itself is a huge, big lesson
that's continuously happening to us every fucking day
that we exist, right?
But because we take life on this emotional roller coaster
of like me, me, me, me, this narcissistic view of like
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everything has to be for me, we have a selfish way
of learning from these experiences
because it's so tumultuously singularly looking
at the viewership like this is the best life
or this is the worst life if something good happened to us
or something bad happened to us.
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Not realizing these are the experiences
that we learn from and earn from, right?
We should be more courageous to find ourselves
into our likings, right?
Rather than like keep changing or subjugating
and such to whatever our surroundings said to be.
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You can't choose for social acceptance
over your own inner purpose, right?
Your inner perpetuity.
Good lovers, bad partners.
It's the game that you find within the game
because it's the auto manipulation, right?
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A bad partner of a woman find a good lover of a man
because she know that good lover man desire.
She knows that good lover man needs
so she can comply that, right?
A bad lover man find a good lover woman
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and the same vice versa of those reasoning.
He knows how to confine in her, what she looks for, right?
So as much as that she could be a good girl,
super conservative, but what attracts her
is his possible ability of being so outlandish
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and looking like the overprotective dominant male
because in her own way she's not an overly dominant female.
So naturally she find this man to be such a powerful man
because it's nothing like her.
But in reality, does it actually work?
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You know what I'm saying?
So those are the type of truth and understanding
that we must have in regards to conversation with ourselves
to know, okay, like, if this is good or this is bad for me.
And a lot of times we pick our wants, desires, fantasies
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a lot over our needs, a lot over the needs for our mind,
our bodies, right, our spirits.
We don't understand like, yeah, this woman may be beautiful
but the mindset, the spiritual energy that I've gotten
for either being around or having sexual intercourse
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with these beautiful women that have these
negative, drainful energy, what does that do to me?
What does that do to me in a long road
when I'm looking for or if I'm seeking,
what does that to me in a long time
if I'm seeking a fulfilling relationship
that correlates to me to be a father one day,
to be a husband one day, right?
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To learn better ways of treating a woman.
How does that work with me if I've been dealing
with toxic women that want me to slug them out
or talk to them all kind of way, this, that and that, right?
Super fun maybe at the moment time for the sexual actions
but mentally for me, spiritually for me
when it comes to the growth, when it comes to
what I'm actually making and creating in this lifetime,
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does it work out?
And naturally it doesn't.
Well, let's say, I can admit,
I won't say naturally it doesn't,
I would just say it comes with difficulty, right?
And even in this conversation, I'm a sort of person
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I could never tell you the best relationship,
you know what I'm saying, for you.
It's about, relationships are all personal.
And I think we're not doing ourselves enough justice.
And I think that's really what I wanted to relay
in this conversation is that like,
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do yourself enough justice to know what you like,
to know what you love.
Why be afraid like to be into the things
that makes you happy?
Why be afraid of living the life that you choose
for yourself, you know what I'm saying?
Cause like realistically, the more you keep placing yourself
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in a life that others want for you,
the more you keep living a life that you feel
desirably only based on social requirement
or what would be defined as social success is like,
you're the only one that's gonna be the one fighting
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yourself for those moments that you feel unsuccessful,
unhappy, unhappiness, right?
I think I know for me, I'm living the life
that's purposeful because I set intention
in all my doings and being.
Am I perfect?
Far from it, far, far from it.
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But the accountability, the ownership that I take
in my relationships regarding women,
friendship with homies, work relations, things like that,
it's set forward, it's set with some principles and more
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that goes like, I know what I'm not gonna do
or do to handle myself and vice versa.
I know the respect that I have for others,
you know what I'm saying?
And I think that's that balanced ground
and the ship that I speak on.
It's not more so about what is the social standard,
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which is leverages in relationship, you know what I'm saying?
Whether it's the friends, whether it's the romance,
like most relationship, if not any,
comes with this leverage play.
And I've just been so
poking into this idealization of mutuality
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that I'm aware that it's something that's rare
in our society, you know what I'm saying?
To actually just wanna be with somebody
because you care for them, you know what I'm saying?
To not need that person, but actually
enjoy that person so much that it becomes a need,
you know what I'm saying?
To have yourself set and balanced
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for your own capabilities, right?
To not have that capability
to where you're taken from somebody
to where you can be aiding or providing to someone life,
to aiding and providing to someone life is the best.
I mean, why wouldn't you wanna be,
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why wouldn't you wanna be a part of someone life
for the positivity, right?
So much of us having relationships,
but all of us for majority of the conversation are negative.
I hate my ex, I hate my baby daddy,
I hate my baby mama.
Yo, aren't you forgetting this was your fucking decision?
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This was somebody you chose to light those means
of people out there.
And obviously that's another platform to the conversation
that I can have on, right?
Which is that, yeah, we have so much options
in our society currently, right?
Our DMs is filled with so many options,
but you still have to be accountable, right?
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If you're not ready for one person,
if you're not ready to assess yourself for one person
because you can't commit or you feel like damn,
there's too many options out there.
Be a man or be woman enough to be like,
yo, I'm out here doing me.
But the problem is that the man don't wanna really seem
like a hoe as much he is a hoe, same with a woman.
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If we hoeing, we hoeing.
And if we loving, we loving.
But we can't continuously lie to ourself
because our society is hindered by that.
You know what I'm saying?
So the relationships to where a lot of the experiences
cultivating a negative to where the people can't even really
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like, yeah, I love, I appreciate the moment
at time I have my ex.
It's all galvanized into like, fuck that person,
da, da, da, da, da.
It's that toxicity background that's flourishing
with these experiences, which means that we're having
too many of these experiences, you know what I'm saying?
And again, it's going to the courtmanship of,
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like I say, with the social epidemic that we have
when it comes to being able to choose and pick,
swipe, should I say, our likes and dislikes.
And it's just like, the souls have become physically,
just as that physical bodies, you know what I'm saying?
The conversation has become alienated, Lord have mercy.
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Alienated, Lord, I still stuck on this one.
But the conversation has like laws, purposeful groundsmanship,
you know what I'm saying?
Or it's purposeful, but it's in a fantasy perspective
because it's all like, like I say, direct messages.
It's all like, you know, dating profile, subjugated.
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It's not really plural to be something meaningful,
but we grab something like it's something meaningful,
you know what I'm saying?
The man has a lot of options because he got,
hey, it might not be all,
it may not be the best option
that he desires or wants, right?
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But he's gonna get whatever options given
based on these dating apps or these social media profiles,
and same thing with her vice versa.
It's like, how could you settle down to one guy?
You know what I'm saying?
You got husband, boyfriends, sugar daddies,
and all these different apps.
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You know what I'm saying?
So what you realize in our society is that like,
some people feel like they can get love
by playing the game of love at the same time.
Some people feel like relationship itself is a game,
while some people feel like love is life
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and just be pure to it.
So within those coexistence that those differences exist,
but yet it's one societal life
that's living between these different mindset
comes to where we are in this societal place
where a lot of us can't even respect that.
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You know what I'm saying?
Like the idealization of having a slut club,
having a wife club, you know what I'm saying?
Having a husband club, having a trick club.
We're not even able or capable to separate ourself
as a society like that.
What I mean by that, if you're a trick man as a tricker,
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take your ass in those clubs where you know women
is sucking tricks, right?
And vice versa, if you're a woman that you know
that's all you want from men is gift,
take your ass to the clubs that dudes that tricks be at.
You know what I'm saying?
Rather than like now you do this,
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certify, settle in looking for love.
You wanna go to the club knowing that you just
wanna get the man with the richest money in that club
that's actually there for love.
You know what I'm saying?
Like set yourself up to the bar or the club
that's in the path of the life that you want,
that you're going for, that you desire
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or wanna energetically attract yourself to.
But no, the play for our society is that like we're greed.
Right, it's the greed.
It's like we want the cake, can't eat it too.
We want all, you know what I'm saying?
The attractive man is not worried that like
he got a beautiful wife at home.
You know what I'm saying?
It's like, wait a minute, how about this be other beautiful
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attractive women?
Is she attracted to me too?
Can I get her as well?
A lot of us are addicted to that power field
that comes with the numbers, idealization, right?
But you can get a lot of pussy from a lot of different
places and still feel incomplete and still feel weak.
You can get a lot of pussy for the same place and still
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and feel strong as hell because you feel like
there's a secrecy behind that.
All spectrum of perspective, you know what I mean?
So, in this journey, in this lifetime that we live,
maybe be closer to your attractions.
You know what I'm saying?
And your attraction to view a heterosexual male or female
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doesn't mean that the mirror of your soul is exactly
identical to you, right?
But the more is in principle, meaning like,
what's the groundmanship of what a relationship
is set upon?
How,
how and how,
what and how, why am I saying how again?
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I mean, what, what, how,
and who would you like have kids with?
You know what I'm saying?
Like the goals that you have in life,
whether it's through marriage and through kids
and relationships, stuff like that,
those are the important balance that shall be spoken upon
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in conversation, right?
We're naturally gonna be opposite whether if we are male,
you're a woman in different heights and so on and so forth.
But truly if something that makes you happy,
meaning that you are male, you are fit,
and you want a fit male,
don't demoralize yourself because you feel like
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you're a bad person because somebody that
you're not attracted to, you like you,
but you feel like you should like because that person
liked you that bad.
No, it doesn't fit your standard.
So make sure you're appeasing yourself first
with your relationship concepts.
Don't appease somebody else amongst what their concept
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is of such and then be living in a sad universe,
which is your world because you place yourself
and putting somebody else's happiness over yours.
It doesn't make sense.
It truly don't.
So appreciate your time and your patience
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and in the process of hearing me out today
in the process of giving me
the ability to let my mind set free.
The dharma mind speaking upon what's purposeful,
meaningful, caring to my divine soul.
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I'm grateful for that.
Truly, truly, truly grateful for such.
You know what I'm saying?
Because we're in the society too as well, obviously.
Everybody's just trying their best to,
you know what I'm saying?
Look for attention, chase attention,
you know what I'm saying?
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We're craving it in so many ways.
And for me, artistically, I think it's always been hard
for me to create, just to create for the attention idea
rather than the intentional purpose.
I think art should be able to enhance people,
whether it's through the mind, the body,
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and the experience of emotions, stuff like that, right?
Whether it's the emotional joys, things like that.
I think we're here to propel one another,
not see each other as a dollar sign
and really art and everything else in our societies
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plague on numbers of making money off people,
you know what I'm saying?
And like I said, we never,
we're not down to accept our downfalls for the long runs.
But for me, I understand my impact
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and I understand I'm a father of many kids.
You know what I'm saying?
Whether it's not my kids physically
that I birthed from my penis,
but I'm a father of many kids being that as an adult male,
there's a lot of things that I do
that's being followed by my actions,
you know what I'm saying?
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Whether I like it or not.
You know, and a lot of time we don't see
that we have enough power to change the world
as much that we actually do.
So for me, as the God that I am,
I have the power to change myself
and that's gonna go into changing the universe within me.
And that's gonna go affect the earth well
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that I share with the rest of the other people,
places and things.
So, and that's what's in my control.
You know what I'm saying?
And I look in virtues to match myself.
I've meant to be with a beautiful queen,
but at the same time I'm not looking to just empathetically
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say I have something out of desperation, you know,
out of loneliness, you know what I'm saying?
No, that's not purposeful for me.
So I stand ground, ten toes down,
I'm always like, what my care abouts is
and understand the separation of my whereabouts
(55:05):
and I'm okay with that.
So in all, I hope the same for you.
You know what I'm saying?
May you affirm, visualize, manifest the life
that you are waiting to bestow upon.
In this moment I send to you peace, prosperity, power
of every second to every minute of every hour.
Thank you again.
This is the MB90 Podcast though.
(55:28):
And full transparency, that'll be our Mr. Bastion 9 tablets.
That's what MB90 would stand for, okay?
So again, thank you for your time and understanding.
May you have a great day and also a great moment
continuously in every day of this lifetime that you live.
(55:48):
I wish you all the best and I promise love.
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