February 14, 2025 • 36 mins
Ep.7: What is a Man in 2025: in this episode, JaMes expresses the man and woman role constant changes with our social standards and moral and principles through civilization being altered. In this episode, Mr.basTiEn decodes varies of topic including:
*Setting morals and principles on the social construct of the male gender
*LGBTQ changing society rules
*The relationship roles and behavior of a man
*leadership & finance, ownership and accountability
*The lack of respect for manhood and wombman hood
*Confining into your care abouts
*Moving with a purpose
*Be transparent and yours views and believes
*Balancing a respectful life the people, places, and things share with
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In peace prosperity power, it’s my honor
To share my affirmations- visualizations in unisons manifestation in all satisfactions
The mind, body & soul is to grow in all facades
Presented in procreation
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My energy ecliptic love circle persona. Self love, best love, world love, you know is my honor.
(00:13):
Greetings, that be your host, Jemez Peter Bastion. In peace, prosperity, power, it's my honor to share my affirmation,
visualization, and unisense manifestations and all satisfactions.
The mind, body, and soul grow in all facets. Presented in procreation, this is MB9T Podcast show.
(00:38):
May you be at peace in whatever the action is proclaiming.
Ascending you to the greatest of all satisfaction like your goals are bullseye, your actions the dart.
Believing you no matter the ending or the start, for your life, must you claim it.
May all be well with everyone.
Today we start in ascend this episode, What is a man? What is a man in 2025?
(01:06):
In this episode we have many diverse conversation regarding how does a man and his denies set about his morals and principles
on the social construct of what the male gender is.
The society rules change in regards to the LGBTQ and extra community.
(01:33):
You know the relationship, roles, and behavior of a man, meaning how he's able to lead himself and his surrounding.
How he's governizing himself in regards to finance, taking ownership and accountability through his lifetime.
The lack of respect for manhood and womanhood in this day and age.
(01:55):
How does a man propel and keeping that still to be something powerful and defiant to their care about in that sense, right?
Moving with a purpose, being transparent with your views and beliefs rather than hindering it or pampering it to the society idea of what is or what not to be.
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And overall, how do we find balance? How do we find respect for our society and how do we implement that to be understanding that differences is what makes this society such a great society, right?
So, in all, I thank you for your time. I truly appreciate you giving me your ears as with your ears I can like a cup pour into you more.
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I can like a, what's the name, like a sponge, right? I could soak more into you in regards to letting me your ears allows you still to have your eyes to be able to put these words into vision, right?
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And you still have your mind to act upon or allow your spirit to give you your inner perception of what's being heard out, right?
So, in all, I wanted to have this episode being that for me, in so many ways and facets, I think that we're living in a society that's trying to make it okay for everything to be okay, right?
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To almost not have a dislike for anything. But in reality is that like true love comes from the idealization of having dislike for something else, right?
Being able to separate what's meaningful to you is what we call love, right? So, I'm not sure if we're programmed to be in this place where we're losing morals and principles that is happening because this is helping us from the perspective of being more open, being less judgmental.
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But to me, without morals and principles, although with morals and principles, they're assessed to have like, oh, this is not for me, that's not for me. I don't look at it as such a thing to be judgmental.
It's one of those things to know what's good or what's not for you. And socially, just being transparent amongst that, for a man who's a man that believes in procreation, for a man who believes in the idealization of his sexual gender is him matching with the compatibility of a woman, right?
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For a man to feel that way and having to, at a lesser degree, hinder that, having to not being able to express that as he much wanted or was freely able to do prior because we're in a society that's trying to make it in the sense of like, hey, don't raise us all to believe in one way, which is an procreation aspect.
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Don't raise us all to look into the marriage as a powerful potency for everyone, right?
We're in a society that's like, nah, if you want to date the same sex, go for it. If you want to marry the same sex, go for it, right? If you want to change the sex that you were born with, go for it. Everything is a go, go, go, right?
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So how do you actually stay in a place that is grounded by some sort of structure and stability?
So the construction of what the male gender and the female gender has changed in totality in our society, right?
Well, we're going to a place where everything is, is to be acceptable, right? It's to be okay with, well, yeah, you don't have to be with that, but just be okay with that. And the problem is,
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we don't realize, and we also don't take the initiative to understand that
no matter how free my action or my decision can be, I still intake and I still impart like affect the future, right?
So as much sometimes people look into the situation like, yeah, this is what I want to do. This is for me or whatnot.
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It still eradicates where people are lost and not understand that you still have to move forward,
move forward in the motion of understanding whatever you're doing affects tomorrow. Understanding your actions today propels views for what's good or not good for tomorrow, right?
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Because tomorrow is really the baby that's in today, right? Learning from what we're doing for what should be or not be for tomorrow.
So without morals and principles, yeah, you can be in your 20s or so on and so forth.
Shit, to this, to that point, we see that some parents are allowing their kids to change their sex, right? Or to, to feel as they feel or to alter what they feel.
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And we're not comprehending the construction of changes that evolves in the young child mind. So when you as an adult or a young adult make these adult decisions
among your sexualities, among what you're putting out there because you feel freely because there's no, there's no, what's the word? There's no, there's no fallback from you, right?
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Because it's like, well, I know I'm trolling. I know I'm doing this for attention, so on and so forth. But the young, the young soul, the young mind doesn't know that.
So the young mind is taking our actions and to be reasonable views, right? So if a young mind don't comprehend why a male is dressed up as a woman or a woman is dressed up as a male,
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they might grow to be acceptable to that when we as a society is just saying it's okay to be. If we're in society telling people it's okay to be bisexual,
and I'm not the person to say it's okay or not okay, but also to tell someone it's okay to be bisexual is to tell someone to be okay with being confused, right?
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Because they both kind of align with the idealization of you not knowing what you want, right? You not being aligned with your sexual energy, right?
From the sense of like, what's right for you, what's wrong for you, right? We're in a society that's like plaguing the idealization of experiences of how many is okay, experience of whoever is okay.
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And that to me goes to the second stand of the society rules change that's been assessed along the idealization that comes with.
So as the motioning of the statement of what is the matter 2025 and beyond the social construction of the rules changing amongst what is our sexuality, not just for the men and women, but of course, like
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the transgenders right to whatever you want to proclaim to be.
I found that very like disrespectful like a slap in the face almost. I say slap in the face almost as a man, just because I think we don't
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You know it's crazy. I think we're in a society that's like hurtful to itself in the sense that like nobody really truly want balance. Everybody wants power for whatever their choices, their decision, their beliefs are, right?
You know, the Christians want to run the world. The Jews want to run the world.
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If you African American, you feel like Caucasian people or you like everybody is so stigmatized to their views of power, their beliefs of what is or what not to be.
So in that sense, I think it goes to the same view of what we have when it comes to the construction socially that the LGBTQ community want to do with the rest of the world.
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And to me it's so demoralizing because that person don't understand that it was birthed off the natural procreation.
I can't speak on a lab made situation or lab current situation that's going to be happening because obviously now we know that babies are starting to be being born from labs and however they construct such, I don't know.
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But my thing is if you are a LGBT person in this day and age, I think it's a very disrespectful state of mind to be in to where you want everybody and everybody in the rest of the world to be asked that, right?
Because even your birth came from a mom and a father, right?
So it's one thing to make your ways and views into your actions, right?
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So your dues in life. But it's another thing to tell the world that you're wrong because you're not living like me and you're only accepted if you live like me.
And it's super sad. The reason why it's super sad because it comes from a place of malicious intention.
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And that's why it's so sad. And you know it comes from a malicious place of intention because this was an exiled group, right?
Being whatever you want to call gay or unordinary from the procreation of men and women was something that for gay men or whatever, I don't know for gay women if it was to that extremity, but obviously gay men were stoned.
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They were cast out. They would exit out the community in so many ways and forms.
And I think to me, realizing that, I think the LGBTQ community took that to the extremity of saying since I was exercised, cast out, then I'm going to do that to the rest of the world now.
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But in reality, my thing is like you were a baby before, you know what I'm saying? Before you got into your sexuality and again, what made you come to that mindset? Was it trauma? Was it your true divine spirit that was into the LGBTQ community vibe?
I don't know. But realistically, the issue comes to that. We now want everybody to be the way that we are. Beauty of our world is differences.
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And I don't, I don't play to say because I'm a straight man that like every gay man or women that's not into men, you know, stuff like that. I don't proclaim that to be right.
I just know what feels right to my spirit. So I always have enough respect to myself to say, okay, I understand that the world is different. I understand there's macho men's right that act super, super, you know, they may be intimate.
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And I think that's kind of like where I'm at with it in general. There's no disrespect to any LGBTQ community, stuff like that. Or is there's no, there's no disrespect about being gay or being whatever you're into.
I think it's the balance of like one for me to have a respect for you to be like, okay, dude, that's what you're into. That's not, that's not what I'm into. Whatever you do privately, I have no care or judgment about it, right?
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I think it's, it'll be disrespectful for me to just be mad or angry because you are right because your choice is different in mine.
That's, that's what my angle is. It's like, let's, let's not go to a place of hating our decision or liking because it's not the same as what we want it to be.
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And the more that you see in our world gets divided is being divided by the roles in the relationship that we learn by the behavior that confine a man or woman through such relationship, whether it's a relationship of a friendship, whether it's a relationship of love, right?
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Or a sexual connection and so on and so forth. Those, the correlation of those relationships to me have lost a true connection because through that, the most, the most conversation a true straight heterosexual male conversation can have with a straight
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heterosexual female is like love. We talk about family, like, you know, building. It's a lot of futuristic stuff. It's a lot of fantasy stuff among your sexual pleasures.
And realistically, the depth of our conversation doesn't go any further. You know, and I think with with with the loss of diversity among the conversation that men and women can have.
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And the other factor like being straight up like whether a person is LGBTQ, right, because it's now crowded to be that right. So if you if you was in a closet if you are gay person because you are so out there now.
And I think that's a good thing for men like me to even have mutual respect factor to where we can have a communication level because I think what a lot of gay men don't see that they do into a statement is that like you're trying to disrespect my aura naturally when we meet
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like dude, I can know you get you don't have to be overly gay you don't have to overly express to me that you're a gay man, you know I'm saying and I think a lot of time.
The need or desire or the, the requirement to feel accepted for the LGBTQ community don't realize how much they're discerning everyone else in this society.
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You know, making everybody else like a little smaller just to brighten theirs.
You don't have to be that way, and it shouldn't be that way. But in reality it is this way.
And ways like that, and ways like this we can actually alternate right we can alternate because we understand when we're doing too much and when we are when we could do a little less.
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Those are those are choices of being accountable.
So, going to what I'm saying with for a real man.
How do you go about your relationship and behavior in a society that's like plaguing you amongst.
This is the way you do something. That's the way you do something you want to have a happy wife a happy life right. There's so many saying for a man, we understand that unconditional love is for kids and for women.
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We receive level we provide when we protect.
When we offer structure and stability.
So I, I love my manhood.
I think it's a tough place for a lot of man to be in this day and age because you can never be worthy enough in the sense right, you constantly being judged from what what your greatest days was yesterday to what you're going to do greater tomorrow.
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It's not easy but I would tell any man that's a real man is that like, there's leaders as followers.
You have a dick, so you can't be a swallow you know I'm saying. So, if a man understand that he's a leader to his life and he's a conqueror to the actions about his ability, then a man is not descending with his surrounding.
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And in that same standpoint, our civilization by societies, raise great man or, you know I'm saying, break, great man.
And a lot of us are being broken because our testosterone are being told to being to be suppressed.
And being told to not be idealistic, not be as logical as we're birth to be right to stay in an emotional state when it comes to appeasing our surrounding.
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You know I'm saying so if the truth hurt, how does the universe heals if we keep lying.
How do we go about that as men, and we got to keep tucking our ballsack tucking our penis.
How does the universe actually get to be strong in a sense of like being able to have vitality, not just into the strength of reproduction but vitality vitality and thought imbalance right masculinity and the femininity.
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We can't have a full feminine feminism society that's constructed on the on the emotional realm.
Yet we're being erratic erratic we illogical to the causes and effect that we're producing.
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They got to be balanced.
They got to be balanced.
And then, no matter what your society says leadership, being accountable, taking ownership, and leading yourself in a financial financial way that like we always going to need people and that's one thing about finance.
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And I think that as well, not only with the LGBT q misled idealization of relationship, but just on a financial perspective to because man we only look at success from a 1% view that they've been governers to look at right.
So, to be successful making 60,000 70,000 being able to pay your bills, and having something left over just do when you can or when it's possible. Is that successful.
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If you're looking at it from the view of somebody making 500,000 and being able to do two or three vacation is that less successful compared to that person making a million with multiple multiple cars or both so on.
The level two of success has become so externally explained as hard for the internal purpose to be to be to be a righteous one for most men, right, because we're, we're defined by the exterior things that we have or the things we get accomplished.
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But for our hearts.
It's not really much that we can really proclaim to anyone because for our hearts is something that you, you either going to see for the unconditional value that present.
You're going to be looking for the emotional attachment that that heart as women. You know I'm saying speaking from the women's perspective, you're looking for you're looking for the emotional attachment of that man heart that that's drawn to you, right.
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But realistically, we don't have unconditional love to be receiving the society as man.
We have love based on the condition of what we can do and we what we can offer.
So for any man may that be your conquer, sorry not conquer but may that be your comfort to understand that. And the more you're comfortable to understand that unconditional love doesn't exist for you it comes into the conditions of what we can do and offer the world.
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You understand the power of what it is to be a man. You understand that and not get lost in the ideas of what success is for anyone else but for you. Right.
The ability that you can
lead yourself that you can have the accountability amongst what you've done or what you said the ownership to your days, based on your actions and thoughts right.
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That's the true value of quarter core of you taking responsibility
with responsibility.
It makes it tough for a man.
I'm not going to make it just one way because like I said our society is doing the doing the best to make us forget or remove us from from the true divine understanding of what unity mean which is power, you know I'm saying so the lack of respect for the man
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and womanhood is is the relevant, the future.
Because like I was saying earlier, if we have means upon people now they're looking to the idealization that procreation is not a beautiful thing no more than the day that they're gone based upon what they experienced.
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It's just going to be that.
It's just going to be that like they don't get the idealization that we're all here in today, being the year 2025 representing literally the same blood lineage of the first year of creation in this society, in this earth realm.
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It's still one big family, you know I'm saying so like
whoever service, whoever they're, they're doing this service for in regards to changing the body changing their bodies changing their mindset, and to not leave nothing left in this God green earth or this earth realm.
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It's astonishing but at the same time, you have to respect that.
Clearly everybody don't see the world to be the same clearly everybody don't expect their internal womb, or their internal penis to be the same.
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And that leads you to confining in your care about and expressing more, what you feel the world wants you to talk about the where about the who what where and how right the external actions and the happening that's going on going on around you.
And then you speaking on the internal cares, right, you know the intuition doing to it to flows of your thought process, the mindfulness of your spirit engaging you and things that you didn't know but only consists right those engagement.
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Are more or less to be affected, because they're being depleted within our psychic to not be a careful thought, you know I'm saying, and that actually all careful thoughts are to be replaced with the social thoughts right, the current events and so on so forth that
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the guns be begins to then take on our moments, and those moments take on our time within the time takes takes on the scheduling to what we're creating.
You know I'm saying so the cycle remains, it's all.
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What is called sanity, you know I'm saying doing the same thing over, over and over again.
And I would decode that to changes happen changes come but we also still got to move with purposes.
You still got to move with a reasoning that's defined to your spirit.
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And the most you can do with that is actually in the practice of meditation actually in the, in the practice of mindfulness actually in the practice of.
How do you practice accountability. For me.
It's not being a bullshitter be not being a bullshitter somebody that you can be honest with. And if you can be honest with yourself you can be you can be a super accountable person that takes ownership on your ship, any moment of the day, because if you don't
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bullshit yourself. It makes it that much harder for you to bullshit anyone. And also when we, when we bullshit ourselves what you realize is that you will, you will always accept your bullshit your bullshit will always sound good.
You know I'm saying always makes sense.
Like you know I'm saying excuses excuses bullshit procrastination they're all in the same realm.
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You know I'm saying laziness they all in the same realm it's the realm of.
I can do later, right. It's like it's like the time perspective. Now, later, tomorrow, you know I'm saying.
For most people later makes sense because now I could just be lazy now I can just not do anything.
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But if you do now.
Then later you have more freedom.
But then later, without even being able to be in control later. If I say let me do something later when they come.
I can't control only that to be the only thing I'm gonna do later. There's multiple things that can come in later.
So when you have the moment and now it's best to take that moment and run with it.
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Because the next moment is what is not promised.
You know so it's not an easy thing in that regard being transparent of your views and your beliefs because I get it.
You're in a place we're in a place in a society where I'm that like.
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Different since make people's screens screens and a lot of people don't think for themselves.
So a lot of decisions are being made in the sheep.
Sheep mentality perspective like you know the mass the mass majority being a decision maker.
So.
Well where the mass make this make a decision and a sheep don't think for themselves is naturally the sheep going to say OK this is what should be.
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And.
Like I said that's the hardest thing because to be an independent mind where you have everybody else that's not caring or being to your mindset or your views.
It's not easy at all.
But you still got to be transparent.
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Amongst what your beliefs your views your care is because if you're not then anything in life can foster you.
Anything can alter your your care about anything can alter what you should be doing because your days is not directive enough your views are not being explained enough.
You know I'm saying your beliefs your more than principle you don't you don't want to hurt anyone or express them.
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So how could you actually live out to be those since you had them.
So in all.
A man what is a man woman in 2025.
It's about learning yourself and it's about not running from yourself.
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The good or bad. It's about not.
Not being in the business of pleasing people and I think a lot of us stay in that business for a long long time.
You know it's a it's the business of thinking if well people like me then I got a happy life.
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No.
Well do you love yourself first then you have a happy life.
Right.
Because you could love yourself and have nobody else who love you and have the best life.
You cannot love yourself and have 100 people to love you and have the worst life.
Because it's not up to those hundred people to love you it's up to you.
So self love and who you are have to be something that you unconditionally confined and and also being able to.
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Forgive yourself in those imperfection moment.
It's something you have to be able to confine in.
So in totality.
A man or woman in 2025.
It's all about balancing yourself.
Living a respectable life based upon the people place and thing that they share this life with.
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Because like I said we all have our own universe within us but within Earth we do share life we do share this realm.
So be what be mindful.
Choose wisely among not just the people but the place and things that you place into and or and or any surrounding your life.
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You know so.
I'm grateful as thankful like I said for any any time I'm able to get the opportunity to be learning to opportunity where you land me your ears.
I do my best in a sense to to sit with my spirit and let my spirit speak.
Again I try my best to stay on a topic or conversation.
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There's some time I know maybe I could do well off and.
Sometimes it's spiritually driven and sometimes it's more mindfully based on experiences that come back to me to be expressed in the moment.
But sure again consistency is the key so I thank you for loving me as I always will be loving me and vice versa.
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I love you so you can love you.
You know I'm saying my body and soul for all to become true.
That's where it starts.
Believing you no matter the ending or the start.
Again this is the NB 90 podcast so I'm your humble humble host your mess Peter Bastian.
Check me out on Instagram Facebook all that beautiful stuff on as.
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You can I guess type in NB 90 podcast show of course on YouTube.
Anyway you listen to your podcast Apple iTunes Apple iTunes the same thing dumbass Spotify.
Yeah yeah yeah yeah you name them I'm there so again stay great stay you.
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Be the best version in the mirror.
Stay true.
My energy ecliptic love circle persona. Self love, best love, world love, you know is my honor.
(00:13):
Greetings, that be your host, Jemez Peter Bastion. In peace, prosperity, power, it's my honor to share my affirmation,
visualization, and unisense manifestations and all satisfactions.
The mind, body, and soul grow in all facets. Presented in procreation, this is MB9T Podcast show.
(00:38):
May you be at peace in whatever the action is proclaiming.
Ascending you to the greatest of all satisfaction like your goals are bullseye, your actions the dart.
Believing you no matter the ending or the start, for your life, must you claim it.
May all be well with everyone.
Today we start in ascend this episode, What is a man? What is a man in 2025?
(01:06):
In this episode we have many diverse conversation regarding how does a man and his denies set about his morals and principles
on the social construct of what the male gender is.
The society rules change in regards to the LGBTQ and extra community.
(01:33):
You know the relationship, roles, and behavior of a man, meaning how he's able to lead himself and his surrounding.
How he's governizing himself in regards to finance, taking ownership and accountability through his lifetime.
The lack of respect for manhood and womanhood in this day and age.
(01:55):
How does a man propel and keeping that still to be something powerful and defiant to their care about in that sense, right?
Moving with a purpose, being transparent with your views and beliefs rather than hindering it or pampering it to the society idea of what is or what not to be.
(02:22):
And overall, how do we find balance? How do we find respect for our society and how do we implement that to be understanding that differences is what makes this society such a great society, right?
So, in all, I thank you for your time. I truly appreciate you giving me your ears as with your ears I can like a cup pour into you more.
(02:55):
I can like a, what's the name, like a sponge, right? I could soak more into you in regards to letting me your ears allows you still to have your eyes to be able to put these words into vision, right?
(03:17):
And you still have your mind to act upon or allow your spirit to give you your inner perception of what's being heard out, right?
So, in all, I wanted to have this episode being that for me, in so many ways and facets, I think that we're living in a society that's trying to make it okay for everything to be okay, right?
(03:53):
To almost not have a dislike for anything. But in reality is that like true love comes from the idealization of having dislike for something else, right?
Being able to separate what's meaningful to you is what we call love, right? So, I'm not sure if we're programmed to be in this place where we're losing morals and principles that is happening because this is helping us from the perspective of being more open, being less judgmental.
(04:35):
But to me, without morals and principles, although with morals and principles, they're assessed to have like, oh, this is not for me, that's not for me. I don't look at it as such a thing to be judgmental.
It's one of those things to know what's good or what's not for you. And socially, just being transparent amongst that, for a man who's a man that believes in procreation, for a man who believes in the idealization of his sexual gender is him matching with the compatibility of a woman, right?
(05:19):
For a man to feel that way and having to, at a lesser degree, hinder that, having to not being able to express that as he much wanted or was freely able to do prior because we're in a society that's trying to make it in the sense of like, hey, don't raise us all to believe in one way, which is an procreation aspect.
(05:47):
Don't raise us all to look into the marriage as a powerful potency for everyone, right?
We're in a society that's like, nah, if you want to date the same sex, go for it. If you want to marry the same sex, go for it, right? If you want to change the sex that you were born with, go for it. Everything is a go, go, go, right?
(06:08):
So how do you actually stay in a place that is grounded by some sort of structure and stability?
So the construction of what the male gender and the female gender has changed in totality in our society, right?
Well, we're going to a place where everything is, is to be acceptable, right? It's to be okay with, well, yeah, you don't have to be with that, but just be okay with that. And the problem is,
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we don't realize, and we also don't take the initiative to understand that
no matter how free my action or my decision can be, I still intake and I still impart like affect the future, right?
So as much sometimes people look into the situation like, yeah, this is what I want to do. This is for me or whatnot.
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It still eradicates where people are lost and not understand that you still have to move forward,
move forward in the motion of understanding whatever you're doing affects tomorrow. Understanding your actions today propels views for what's good or not good for tomorrow, right?
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Because tomorrow is really the baby that's in today, right? Learning from what we're doing for what should be or not be for tomorrow.
So without morals and principles, yeah, you can be in your 20s or so on and so forth.
Shit, to this, to that point, we see that some parents are allowing their kids to change their sex, right? Or to, to feel as they feel or to alter what they feel.
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And we're not comprehending the construction of changes that evolves in the young child mind. So when you as an adult or a young adult make these adult decisions
among your sexualities, among what you're putting out there because you feel freely because there's no, there's no, what's the word? There's no, there's no fallback from you, right?
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Because it's like, well, I know I'm trolling. I know I'm doing this for attention, so on and so forth. But the young, the young soul, the young mind doesn't know that.
So the young mind is taking our actions and to be reasonable views, right? So if a young mind don't comprehend why a male is dressed up as a woman or a woman is dressed up as a male,
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they might grow to be acceptable to that when we as a society is just saying it's okay to be. If we're in society telling people it's okay to be bisexual,
and I'm not the person to say it's okay or not okay, but also to tell someone it's okay to be bisexual is to tell someone to be okay with being confused, right?
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Because they both kind of align with the idealization of you not knowing what you want, right? You not being aligned with your sexual energy, right?
From the sense of like, what's right for you, what's wrong for you, right? We're in a society that's like plaguing the idealization of experiences of how many is okay, experience of whoever is okay.
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And that to me goes to the second stand of the society rules change that's been assessed along the idealization that comes with.
So as the motioning of the statement of what is the matter 2025 and beyond the social construction of the rules changing amongst what is our sexuality, not just for the men and women, but of course, like
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the transgenders right to whatever you want to proclaim to be.
I found that very like disrespectful like a slap in the face almost. I say slap in the face almost as a man, just because I think we don't
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You know it's crazy. I think we're in a society that's like hurtful to itself in the sense that like nobody really truly want balance. Everybody wants power for whatever their choices, their decision, their beliefs are, right?
You know, the Christians want to run the world. The Jews want to run the world.
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If you African American, you feel like Caucasian people or you like everybody is so stigmatized to their views of power, their beliefs of what is or what not to be.
So in that sense, I think it goes to the same view of what we have when it comes to the construction socially that the LGBTQ community want to do with the rest of the world.
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And to me it's so demoralizing because that person don't understand that it was birthed off the natural procreation.
I can't speak on a lab made situation or lab current situation that's going to be happening because obviously now we know that babies are starting to be being born from labs and however they construct such, I don't know.
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But my thing is if you are a LGBT person in this day and age, I think it's a very disrespectful state of mind to be in to where you want everybody and everybody in the rest of the world to be asked that, right?
Because even your birth came from a mom and a father, right?
So it's one thing to make your ways and views into your actions, right?
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So your dues in life. But it's another thing to tell the world that you're wrong because you're not living like me and you're only accepted if you live like me.
And it's super sad. The reason why it's super sad because it comes from a place of malicious intention.
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And that's why it's so sad. And you know it comes from a malicious place of intention because this was an exiled group, right?
Being whatever you want to call gay or unordinary from the procreation of men and women was something that for gay men or whatever, I don't know for gay women if it was to that extremity, but obviously gay men were stoned.
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They were cast out. They would exit out the community in so many ways and forms.
And I think to me, realizing that, I think the LGBTQ community took that to the extremity of saying since I was exercised, cast out, then I'm going to do that to the rest of the world now.
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But in reality, my thing is like you were a baby before, you know what I'm saying? Before you got into your sexuality and again, what made you come to that mindset? Was it trauma? Was it your true divine spirit that was into the LGBTQ community vibe?
I don't know. But realistically, the issue comes to that. We now want everybody to be the way that we are. Beauty of our world is differences.
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And I don't, I don't play to say because I'm a straight man that like every gay man or women that's not into men, you know, stuff like that. I don't proclaim that to be right.
I just know what feels right to my spirit. So I always have enough respect to myself to say, okay, I understand that the world is different. I understand there's macho men's right that act super, super, you know, they may be intimate.
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And I think that's kind of like where I'm at with it in general. There's no disrespect to any LGBTQ community, stuff like that. Or is there's no, there's no disrespect about being gay or being whatever you're into.
I think it's the balance of like one for me to have a respect for you to be like, okay, dude, that's what you're into. That's not, that's not what I'm into. Whatever you do privately, I have no care or judgment about it, right?
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I think it's, it'll be disrespectful for me to just be mad or angry because you are right because your choice is different in mine.
That's, that's what my angle is. It's like, let's, let's not go to a place of hating our decision or liking because it's not the same as what we want it to be.
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And the more that you see in our world gets divided is being divided by the roles in the relationship that we learn by the behavior that confine a man or woman through such relationship, whether it's a relationship of a friendship, whether it's a relationship of love, right?
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Or a sexual connection and so on and so forth. Those, the correlation of those relationships to me have lost a true connection because through that, the most, the most conversation a true straight heterosexual male conversation can have with a straight
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heterosexual female is like love. We talk about family, like, you know, building. It's a lot of futuristic stuff. It's a lot of fantasy stuff among your sexual pleasures.
And realistically, the depth of our conversation doesn't go any further. You know, and I think with with with the loss of diversity among the conversation that men and women can have.
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And the other factor like being straight up like whether a person is LGBTQ, right, because it's now crowded to be that right. So if you if you was in a closet if you are gay person because you are so out there now.
And I think that's a good thing for men like me to even have mutual respect factor to where we can have a communication level because I think what a lot of gay men don't see that they do into a statement is that like you're trying to disrespect my aura naturally when we meet
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like dude, I can know you get you don't have to be overly gay you don't have to overly express to me that you're a gay man, you know I'm saying and I think a lot of time.
The need or desire or the, the requirement to feel accepted for the LGBTQ community don't realize how much they're discerning everyone else in this society.
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You know, making everybody else like a little smaller just to brighten theirs.
You don't have to be that way, and it shouldn't be that way. But in reality it is this way.
And ways like that, and ways like this we can actually alternate right we can alternate because we understand when we're doing too much and when we are when we could do a little less.
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Those are those are choices of being accountable.
So, going to what I'm saying with for a real man.
How do you go about your relationship and behavior in a society that's like plaguing you amongst.
This is the way you do something. That's the way you do something you want to have a happy wife a happy life right. There's so many saying for a man, we understand that unconditional love is for kids and for women.
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We receive level we provide when we protect.
When we offer structure and stability.
So I, I love my manhood.
I think it's a tough place for a lot of man to be in this day and age because you can never be worthy enough in the sense right, you constantly being judged from what what your greatest days was yesterday to what you're going to do greater tomorrow.
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It's not easy but I would tell any man that's a real man is that like, there's leaders as followers.
You have a dick, so you can't be a swallow you know I'm saying. So, if a man understand that he's a leader to his life and he's a conqueror to the actions about his ability, then a man is not descending with his surrounding.
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And in that same standpoint, our civilization by societies, raise great man or, you know I'm saying, break, great man.
And a lot of us are being broken because our testosterone are being told to being to be suppressed.
And being told to not be idealistic, not be as logical as we're birth to be right to stay in an emotional state when it comes to appeasing our surrounding.
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You know I'm saying so if the truth hurt, how does the universe heals if we keep lying.
How do we go about that as men, and we got to keep tucking our ballsack tucking our penis.
How does the universe actually get to be strong in a sense of like being able to have vitality, not just into the strength of reproduction but vitality vitality and thought imbalance right masculinity and the femininity.
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We can't have a full feminine feminism society that's constructed on the on the emotional realm.
Yet we're being erratic erratic we illogical to the causes and effect that we're producing.
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They got to be balanced.
They got to be balanced.
And then, no matter what your society says leadership, being accountable, taking ownership, and leading yourself in a financial financial way that like we always going to need people and that's one thing about finance.
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And I think that as well, not only with the LGBT q misled idealization of relationship, but just on a financial perspective to because man we only look at success from a 1% view that they've been governers to look at right.
So, to be successful making 60,000 70,000 being able to pay your bills, and having something left over just do when you can or when it's possible. Is that successful.
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If you're looking at it from the view of somebody making 500,000 and being able to do two or three vacation is that less successful compared to that person making a million with multiple multiple cars or both so on.
The level two of success has become so externally explained as hard for the internal purpose to be to be to be a righteous one for most men, right, because we're, we're defined by the exterior things that we have or the things we get accomplished.
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But for our hearts.
It's not really much that we can really proclaim to anyone because for our hearts is something that you, you either going to see for the unconditional value that present.
You're going to be looking for the emotional attachment that that heart as women. You know I'm saying speaking from the women's perspective, you're looking for you're looking for the emotional attachment of that man heart that that's drawn to you, right.
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But realistically, we don't have unconditional love to be receiving the society as man.
We have love based on the condition of what we can do and we what we can offer.
So for any man may that be your conquer, sorry not conquer but may that be your comfort to understand that. And the more you're comfortable to understand that unconditional love doesn't exist for you it comes into the conditions of what we can do and offer the world.
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You understand the power of what it is to be a man. You understand that and not get lost in the ideas of what success is for anyone else but for you. Right.
The ability that you can
lead yourself that you can have the accountability amongst what you've done or what you said the ownership to your days, based on your actions and thoughts right.
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That's the true value of quarter core of you taking responsibility
with responsibility.
It makes it tough for a man.
I'm not going to make it just one way because like I said our society is doing the doing the best to make us forget or remove us from from the true divine understanding of what unity mean which is power, you know I'm saying so the lack of respect for the man
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and womanhood is is the relevant, the future.
Because like I was saying earlier, if we have means upon people now they're looking to the idealization that procreation is not a beautiful thing no more than the day that they're gone based upon what they experienced.
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It's just going to be that.
It's just going to be that like they don't get the idealization that we're all here in today, being the year 2025 representing literally the same blood lineage of the first year of creation in this society, in this earth realm.
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It's still one big family, you know I'm saying so like
whoever service, whoever they're, they're doing this service for in regards to changing the body changing their bodies changing their mindset, and to not leave nothing left in this God green earth or this earth realm.
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It's astonishing but at the same time, you have to respect that.
Clearly everybody don't see the world to be the same clearly everybody don't expect their internal womb, or their internal penis to be the same.
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And that leads you to confining in your care about and expressing more, what you feel the world wants you to talk about the where about the who what where and how right the external actions and the happening that's going on going on around you.
And then you speaking on the internal cares, right, you know the intuition doing to it to flows of your thought process, the mindfulness of your spirit engaging you and things that you didn't know but only consists right those engagement.
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Are more or less to be affected, because they're being depleted within our psychic to not be a careful thought, you know I'm saying, and that actually all careful thoughts are to be replaced with the social thoughts right, the current events and so on so forth that
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the guns be begins to then take on our moments, and those moments take on our time within the time takes takes on the scheduling to what we're creating.
You know I'm saying so the cycle remains, it's all.
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What is called sanity, you know I'm saying doing the same thing over, over and over again.
And I would decode that to changes happen changes come but we also still got to move with purposes.
You still got to move with a reasoning that's defined to your spirit.
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And the most you can do with that is actually in the practice of meditation actually in the, in the practice of mindfulness actually in the practice of.
How do you practice accountability. For me.
It's not being a bullshitter be not being a bullshitter somebody that you can be honest with. And if you can be honest with yourself you can be you can be a super accountable person that takes ownership on your ship, any moment of the day, because if you don't
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bullshit yourself. It makes it that much harder for you to bullshit anyone. And also when we, when we bullshit ourselves what you realize is that you will, you will always accept your bullshit your bullshit will always sound good.
You know I'm saying always makes sense.
Like you know I'm saying excuses excuses bullshit procrastination they're all in the same realm.
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You know I'm saying laziness they all in the same realm it's the realm of.
I can do later, right. It's like it's like the time perspective. Now, later, tomorrow, you know I'm saying.
For most people later makes sense because now I could just be lazy now I can just not do anything.
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But if you do now.
Then later you have more freedom.
But then later, without even being able to be in control later. If I say let me do something later when they come.
I can't control only that to be the only thing I'm gonna do later. There's multiple things that can come in later.
So when you have the moment and now it's best to take that moment and run with it.
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Because the next moment is what is not promised.
You know so it's not an easy thing in that regard being transparent of your views and your beliefs because I get it.
You're in a place we're in a place in a society where I'm that like.
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Different since make people's screens screens and a lot of people don't think for themselves.
So a lot of decisions are being made in the sheep.
Sheep mentality perspective like you know the mass the mass majority being a decision maker.
So.
Well where the mass make this make a decision and a sheep don't think for themselves is naturally the sheep going to say OK this is what should be.
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And.
Like I said that's the hardest thing because to be an independent mind where you have everybody else that's not caring or being to your mindset or your views.
It's not easy at all.
But you still got to be transparent.
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Amongst what your beliefs your views your care is because if you're not then anything in life can foster you.
Anything can alter your your care about anything can alter what you should be doing because your days is not directive enough your views are not being explained enough.
You know I'm saying your beliefs your more than principle you don't you don't want to hurt anyone or express them.
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So how could you actually live out to be those since you had them.
So in all.
A man what is a man woman in 2025.
It's about learning yourself and it's about not running from yourself.
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The good or bad. It's about not.
Not being in the business of pleasing people and I think a lot of us stay in that business for a long long time.
You know it's a it's the business of thinking if well people like me then I got a happy life.
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No.
Well do you love yourself first then you have a happy life.
Right.
Because you could love yourself and have nobody else who love you and have the best life.
You cannot love yourself and have 100 people to love you and have the worst life.
Because it's not up to those hundred people to love you it's up to you.
So self love and who you are have to be something that you unconditionally confined and and also being able to.
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Forgive yourself in those imperfection moment.
It's something you have to be able to confine in.
So in totality.
A man or woman in 2025.
It's all about balancing yourself.
Living a respectable life based upon the people place and thing that they share this life with.
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Because like I said we all have our own universe within us but within Earth we do share life we do share this realm.
So be what be mindful.
Choose wisely among not just the people but the place and things that you place into and or and or any surrounding your life.
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You know so.
I'm grateful as thankful like I said for any any time I'm able to get the opportunity to be learning to opportunity where you land me your ears.
I do my best in a sense to to sit with my spirit and let my spirit speak.
Again I try my best to stay on a topic or conversation.
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There's some time I know maybe I could do well off and.
Sometimes it's spiritually driven and sometimes it's more mindfully based on experiences that come back to me to be expressed in the moment.
But sure again consistency is the key so I thank you for loving me as I always will be loving me and vice versa.
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I love you so you can love you.
You know I'm saying my body and soul for all to become true.
That's where it starts.
Believing you no matter the ending or the start.
Again this is the NB 90 podcast so I'm your humble humble host your mess Peter Bastian.
Check me out on Instagram Facebook all that beautiful stuff on as.
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You can I guess type in NB 90 podcast show of course on YouTube.
Anyway you listen to your podcast Apple iTunes Apple iTunes the same thing dumbass Spotify.
Yeah yeah yeah yeah you name them I'm there so again stay great stay you.
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Be the best version in the mirror.
Stay true.
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