December 3, 2025 • 72 mins
There’s a moment in midlife when everything you thought you knew about yourself starts to fall apart… and even though it feels terrifying, something inside whispers, This is the beginning.
In today’s episode, we explore what your soul has been trying to tell you all along — that you didn’t come here to chase purpose… you came here to remember. Joined by metaphysical guide and evolutionary astrologer Jeanne Comeau, we dive into your soul’s blueprint, the emotional patterns you incarnated with, and the identity shifts that awaken during midlife.
We also go straight into the last 20 minutes of the episode — where Jeanne breaks down the truth about perimenopause and menopause, how hormonal changes impact your clarity, mood, energy, and sense of self, and what practical options can support your wellbeing.
By the end, you’ll feel held, informed, and empowered — able to see your midlife chapter not as a breakdown, but as your soul guiding you home.
✨ In This Episode, You’ll Learn
- How your soul’s blueprint reveals the woman you’re becoming
- Why midlife triggers a spiritual awakening and identity shift
- What happens when you stop seeking answers outside yourself
- How your thoughts shape your emotional and physical reality
- The truth about aligning with your soul’s timing and purpose
- How perimenopause + menopause shifts impact your mind, emotions, and identity
🦋 Reflection Questions
- Where in your life are you being invited to remember who you truly are — beyond roles, expectations, and old stories?
- How are your physical shifts (perimenopause or menopause) asking you to slow down, listen, or support yourself differently?
- What becomes possible when you trust your inner wisdom more than your fear?
✨ Connect with Jeanne:
- Website: jeannecomeau.com
- Instagram: @jeannecomeau_metaphysician
- Facebook: @jeannecomeau_metaphysician
- LinkedIn: Jeanne Comeau
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Kena Siu (00:01):
What if your soul came here with a blueprint?
A cosmic map whispering who youare meant to become?
In a world that teaches us tochase purpose, what if true
fulfillment comes fromremembering instead?
Today we are exploring how thestars, metaphysics, and the
wisdom of the unseen can guideus back home to ourselves with
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my guest, Jeanne Comeau.
Midlife butterfly, a woman inthe sacred in-between.
She's not who she once was, andnot quite who she's becoming
yet.
She's unraveling, awakening,remembering.
She's navigating lifetransitions, divorce, loss,
rainbow, and moods, with aburning desire for freedom, joy,
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and solid living.
She feels the pull to rise, tofly.
She's no longer afraid of herown wings.
Welcome back to the MidlifeButterfly Podcast.
I am Kena Siu, your host, andtoday I'm joined here with
Jeanne Comeauus.
Blending deep metaphysicalwisdom with practical life
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coaching, she helps peopledecode their bird chart as a
living roadmap to awaken theirsoul's blueprint.
Through her signature Know YourStar Sessions, Jeanne
illuminates karmic patterns,reveals hidden gifts, and offers
clear direction for living inalignment with one's truest
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path.
Her work bridges spiritualityand psychology, inspiring
confidence, healing, and thecourage to step boldly into the
life your soul was always meantto live.
Welcome to the podcast,Jeannie.
Oh, thank you, Ken.
Jeanne Comeau (02:06):
What a wonderful introduction.
I wow, is that really me?
Kena Siu (02:11):
It seems like it is.
I mean, and I kind of likesummarize it because you have
quite a lot of knowledge andwisdom and yes.
Jeanne Comeau (02:22):
And thank you for that.
And as I was listening to that,there are so many guides and
healers and people that we seekout in this world because life,
you know, it hurts.
You know, like like the humanexperience comes with its ups
and its downs.
We like the ups, but we get thedowns.
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And so we're always looking forwell, who can help me feel
better?
Who can help me get what Iwant?
Who can help me?
And so while that introductioncertainly sounded like I I could
help everything and you know,make you a cake and with a
cherry on the top, the truth ofthe matter is the one that can
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help you is you and only you.
The answers are within.
And so, all in all of what Ido, my goal is to lead, and even
that word kind of turns me offsometimes, but but to guide
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others, to show others, toreveal to others that the
answers are within.
Yes, they're not out there.
And you know, Ken, I I re I'mon a roll now, so you set me on
a roll, but I remember my lifecoming up before midlife.
And you know, don't want tototally age myself, but I've
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been through midlife.
Okay.
So the internet wasn't thatprevalent when I was in my
teens, and you had to go to thebookstores for the books, and
there weren't a lot ofquote-unquote self-help books or
helpers, but we we all feltthat we we needed help to get to
get through life.
And I started to build mylibrary of self-help books, one
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after another after another.
And I liken it, Kenna, to youknow, where where was the
answer?
Which teacher, which guru,which guide was really gonna fix
me.
Oh, you want $200?
Oh, you want a thousand.
Well, how much is this onegonna cost?
And then depending on the thethe way they tapped into my
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psyche and triggered my fears,which which is another topic I'd
love to get to because ascoaches, you and I, triggering
fears is not the way to lead.
But, anyways, these varioushealers would trigger the fears,
and I would sign up and I wouldbelieve that this would be it.
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And of course, it never reallywas, right?
Until I came through uh, youknow, a spiritual journey, you
know, when we're young, youknow, who wants to hear about
God?
You know, depending on yourupbringing, of course, but my
upbringing, who wants to hearabout God?
Because that means I'm gonnahave to stop living, you know,
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because the fear of the wrath ofGod, I can't do anything, you
know, everything is sinning.
Roman Catholic, everything'sthe sin.
Yes.
Right, right, right.
So, at any rate, through thespirituality of it, and then
finally leading to metaphysicsand what led me to want to
become fully ensconced inmetaphysics and where the PhD
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came from, okay, right?
That that's that's a nice thingto have, but it shows that I
went through the work and Icontinue to go through the work.
I'm working on anotherdoctorate in metaphysical
physical science because I wantto feel it within me.
I want it, I want to know howto tap into those answers that
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are within me.
No one outside of us can fixus, and all the people that we
work with can only get us a stepcloser.
Yeah, yes.
Oh hopefully that opened us up.
Kena Siu (06:17):
Oh, yeah.
I mean, that's what we are herefor to again to find our own
answers.
And as you said, there are toomany people out there, and even
us as coaches, and we are simplyguides, because as you're
saying, the answers are withinus.
Jeanne Comeau (06:39):
The answers are within us, and and a and a lot
of times with clients, and and Iremember even in my story too,
it was like I had to be givenpermission to believe that.
I had to be given permission tobelieve that because there's so
much external pressure thattells us, I've got the thing
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that's gonna make you happy.
You know, and in the youngeryears, it can be that beautiful
bag, purse, and you know, allthese external things that are
gonna make or a person is gonnamake you happy.
No way, it can't, it's it's aninside job.
And so, how do we do the insidework?
Well, we have to get to knowwho we are, and we have to face
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the things that hurt andunderstand why they hurt, right,
Kina?
Kenna?
Yes, that's that's what Ifound, and it hurt.
Kena Siu (07:34):
Yeah, yeah, I yeah, I I feel you so much, like just
your words are just giving meshields because yeah, since we
are born, we are always, I mean,our upbringing is to focus
always in the exterior, right?
And then they tell you howyou're supposed to behave and
what to say and what to think,and then they put consciously or
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unconsciously all theseprograms, right?
Either if it's for culture,society, religion.
And it's just crazy howconfusing we became that fast, I
mean, that young in between ourzero, even before, probably
since we are in our mom's wombuntil seven, by that time, we
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already think we learn from thebeginning, yes, that love is
outside of us, you see.
Jeanne Comeau (08:40):
So we we you know, mom and dad, bless us that
have had them and and othersthat have loved and cared to for
us and various capabilitiesthat they had, right?
So we have to give them, but welearned that even love, and so
then self-love was outside ofus, yes.
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And so so there there becameit's part of the separation from
universal one, it's the humanexperience to lead us back to
self-love and and you know,we're all one pixel in the big
bright picture of life, yeah.
Kena Siu (09:21):
And the thing is to to come back to that self-love.
I mean, everyone has their ownjourney, but for me, it took me
four decades.
Jeanne Comeau (09:32):
You know, four decades is not unusual, is is is
what I've seen.
Uh, you know, and and here weare on the midlife butterfly
podcast, which which I loved.
The midlife, I think, you know,midlife is midlife is when we
start the journey home.
Yeah, I totally agree.
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Is the awakening?
It it is.
And and for some people, youever everything that you've done
up to then prepares you for it,you know, really does prepare
you for it.
So it's it's yes.
Kena Siu (10:10):
Yes.
So I would like before we moveforward to to know what is it or
how do you find you how do youdefine the what's the soul's
blueprint, and also since youknow a lot about metaphysics,
also to explain what ismetaphysics.
Jeanne Comeau (10:32):
Metaphysics is a science, I believe it's a
science, and it's the search forthe meaning of life.
So metaphysics is the searchfor the truth.
So all of these various thingsfall under the umbrella of
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metaphysics.
We we've heard of well, it'shad a long storied history, but
for me, it's the search for themeaning of life.
It is true philosophy, it is,it transcends all religions, it
is comprised of all all of themasters, Buddha, Jesus, Allah.
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You bring them all in becausethere is no separation.
So in the beginning, in thebeginning, in the beginning, was
the one.
There was the one energy.
Call it energy, call it light,call it love, because it really
is love.
Where did it come from?
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Well, I can't answer that, andand I don't feel bad about that
because no one's been able toanswer that.
It just always was, is the bestthat we can say.
But this energy was alwaysthere, and this energy was pure
light and pure love to to theessence that no one can truly
understand.
I mean, think about feelingtrue love in your life, maybe
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from one of your parents or oran aunt or an uncle, and you
just felt so loved, that'swonderful, but the pure love of
our creator exceeds that beyondall imagination.
So it is all pure love.
And this light, as the story istold to us, uh, wanted to
experience itself, and itcouldn't experience itself being
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itself, and it created, itcreated other entities, created
what eventually on planet Earthbecame humans.
You know, we'll leave all ofall of the other galaxies, and
that'll blow your mind outthere, right?
But it but it created humans,and so we all are from the one,
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and and that is the essence ofmetaphysics.
We we believe that I believeeverything is energy because
everything is energy.
So I get a I get a lot intoenergy healing, and you we are
our physical bodies are 99.999something percent energy.
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We are only the smallest,minutest amount of matter, and
so we can get into the scienceof all of that.
But what people need to realizeis they're made up of energy,
they're made up of the earth,they're made up of the cosmos.
We are holograms, you know.
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We can get there, we truly areholograms.
We are creating our ownindividual reality with our
thoughts.
Your thoughts create your life,and I work with my clients in
this space a lot.
Your thoughts create your life,guard them, they're your
treasure, right?
Really guard the be what'scoming into your mind.
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So, metaphysics kind of touchesinto all of these spaces, and
and for me, it it answered allof the questions that I've been
asking and asking and asking,and it allowed me to truly tap
into the belief that I am partof the one.
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You see, religion didn't dothat for me, you know.
Christianity, I was raisedRoman Catholic, and then I
delved into non-denominationalChristianity, which was part of
the journey.
It helped a lot, actually,because it allowed me to break
away from the strictness ofRoman Catholicism and it allowed
me to understand the love ofJesus, right?
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Who was here and and did bringlove and showed us that we are
all part of the one.
You see, he was the way shower,brought the message to us, as
many others have.
And so that that to me ismetaphysics.
I might have gone off on on asideways there, but we're we're
all one, and and we have to, Idon't say we have to, in time,
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either be it this lifetime oranother lifetime, because I do
believe in reincarnation and andthat souls come come and
reincarnate.
Uh, it's either this lifetimeor another lifetime, but
throughout every lifetime, thegoal is to become closer to the
essence of the one.
The goal is to transcend all ofthe lessons of the human
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experience.
And the closer you become,eventually you become quote
unquote enlightened.
You know, eventually you don'treincarnate as a human unless
you want to, unless by choice tohelp the people, such as the
enlightened masters would do.
They they they would come backby choice because it, you know,
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it's not an easy journey foranybody, no matter, no matter
what your circumstances are.
Somebody born into poverty,somebody born into extreme
wealth, different lifestyles,still human pain, still human
psycho pain.
It doesn't make it easier oneway or another.
Kena Siu (16:13):
Yeah, no, yeah, that's true.
And yeah, because it doesn'tmatter, each of us, we have our
own experience or humanexperience here.
And as you said, I also believein reincarnation, so it means
that every time it's gonna bedifferent, right?
Because every time we arrive, Imean, we come from a blank
canvas.
Jeanne Comeau (16:33):
Yes, and well, actually, I'd like to add to the
blank canvas.
Yes.
You come from the DNA of allthe previous lives, the
energetic, emotional DNA.
You know, and so I'm anevolutionary astrologer.
(16:54):
There, there are many, uh, I'lldevil into that for a second
and then come back to thecanvas, but there are many
branches of astrology.
And astrology has existed foreons and eons.
Ancient Mesopotomia, theearliest recorded evidence of
astrology, I say it goes backbefore then, to civilizations
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that are still buried on thisplanet, right?
So astrology has has alwaysguided humans to understanding
their what was happening onEarth, which was really what it
was used first and foremost for,for farming and just keeping
society intact and together.
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And then it moved into well,you're a Leo or you're a Pisces,
so these are yourcharacteristics.
And then coming up through the60s, and after Sigmund Freud
brought us psychology, Carl Jungcame along and took that deeper
into what is called depthpsychology, where we really
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understand the triggers of thehuman psyche through
evolutionary through astrology.
Astrology plays into depthpsychology.
And so evolutionary astrology,just to way fast forward that,
asks us why do you have thechart you have?
And by chart I mean birthchart.
Why do you have the birth chartyou have?
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And so this takes us back tothe blank canvas or the canvas,
if you will.
In every lifetime, the soulcomes forward to experience
again, still still looking toevolve, to never have to
experience the pain of humanexistence again, but comes to
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experience again and chooses uhthe time and moment of birth and
place and birth family, choosesthe situations for the soul's
evolutionary uh intention forthe lifetime.
And so we the what whattranscends death and rebirth is
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the emotional DNA.
I'll call it DNA, but theemotions we you know, I I
remember I'm just by the way,I'm the fourth of nine children,
and so that's a lot of kids.
And I remember my mom saying, Idon't know how you can all be
so different.
You all came out of the samekitchen.
What a great saying, right?
Well, we are different becausewe're different souls, and if
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only she'd have known, she mighthave had an easier go at it.
Yes, but we all come in withsoul intention, agenda for the
lifetime.
Kena Siu (19:49):
Is this the soul's blueprint?
Jeanne Comeau (19:52):
It is okay, it is the soul's blueprint.
Now, there are a lot of waysnowadays that we're looking at
the soul's blueprint, certainlyhuman design taps into it, you
know, and we can go back to theearlier personality tests like
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Myers Briggs.
You know, maybe a number ofpeople have had that tap into
it.
I am a Gallup strengths findercoach.
And even though that assessmentdoesn't ask for birth
information, it's uncanny howjust by asking a number of
questions, it taps into yourpsyche and it ties back to the
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the the blueprint.
I I can see that.
So all these tests have comealong and they do tell us a lot
about ourselves.
So we we come in withintention, and I'll I'll I'll
come to this part, Kenna.
The key to going within,tapping into your inner self,
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the key to self-love is knowingyourself, knowing yourself,
yeah.
Totally agreed.
You know, the the ancient Greektemple at Apollo, if I said
that right, um, know thyself.
Yes.
The the ancient philosophersknow thyself.
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Many teachers know thyself.
So what does that mean?
Know what your soul's blueprintis.
Evolutionary astrology.
I I I'm a practitioner of it,I'm certified in it because I
see it works.
It works.
So feel free to interrupt me atany time, can't examine.
Kena Siu (21:50):
I'm just in you got a Leo here.
She'll just keep going.
Um I'm just in awe with allthese wisdom that you are
sharing.
And yeah, thank you for askingme because I want to go back to
a couple of things.
At one point, you mentioneddots are your treasure.
I love this because I mean, theway we have programmed, we at
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one point during my journey, youknow, I was hearing a lot of
stuff that, oh, the ego is yourenemy.
It's like, and now I know he'snot my enemy anymore, right?
But it's just about then uhrealizing or knowing those
different voices that are in ourhead.
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I mean, that's the way I Iperceive it.
So I do love this part of youthat you said, dots are your
treasures, because if weconsider them that way, we will
be more aware, conscious, and ofkeeping them like that as a
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treasure, and saying, What is itreally, you know, gold in here,
and what it is not, to havethat awareness to really take
them away.
Jeanne Comeau (23:11):
It's extremely powerful.
It's extremely powerful.
You know, in Genesis, God spokethe word.
So speak about the word, right?
A word is first a thoughtbefore it's spoken, right?
Yeah, and it creates is themessage there.
If you think a thought, you'recreating, if you speak a
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thought, you're creating morepowerfully because everything is
energy, so it's got vibrationand it goes out.
Yes.
When I it uh we our minds gooff all the time, it's not easy
to stop the mind.
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But if we if we start on thejourney, and uh I just back up
for a second.
Everything that we're sayinghere is not easy.
I just have to point that out.
It's not easy, but when youknow better, you do better, to
quote Maya Angelo.
Oh, yeah, I know better.
And for some of our listeners,maybe this is the first time
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they're really hearing whatwe're saying about their
thoughts.
And so this can be a seed, thiscan be a beginning, but it
doesn't mean that you're able tostop the negative thoughts now
because you aren't.
I'll go back to the ego.
Everything about you is good,even the ego.
You need the ego.
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If you didn't have the ego, youwouldn't exist.
All right, so it's part of thehuman experience.
The the interesting thing aboutthe ego is we're led to believe
that the ego is only interestedin self self-preservation at
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the expense of everybody else,and to some degree it is, and
that's because it's fittest of,you know, we have to survive,
right?
So the ego keeps us surviving.
But if we can know that our egois there to help us survive and
work it to the point wherewe're thinking more about others
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than we are about ourselves.
How can I be kinder to others?
How can I how can I stopthinking about just me, just me
and what I need, but start tothink about others in a
nutshell.
I may come back to that topic.
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And so I come back to thoughts.
What you think you create, thatis absolutely true.
Yes, be it negative orpositive.
So when we look at our lives,and this is when I work with
clients, when we look at ourlives, we have to realize and
accept we're responsible.
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We're responsible.
Another great mom quote,because I my mom had them all.
Your life is what you make it,she told me.
I was in my young 20s.
I'm like, you you gotta bekidding me.
You know, that this is not whatI want.
This is not what I want, youknow, and and and it's what I
created.
Well, how do I do better?
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I think that just got me to goto the bookstore and buy more
self-help books, right?
Yeah, right.
And so, so thoughts of thingsand thoughts create.
And the the key to getting awayfrom the negative thoughts, be
they uh beating yourself up, ornegative thoughts about others
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as you seek to compare yourselfto others so you can feel better
about yourself, those arenegative thoughts, or negative
thoughts about what you didwrong in the past, they all
create this dark cloud aroundyou, and and you just sink.
Kena Siu (27:05):
Yeah, because then from there also came our
emotions, right?
What you also mentioned, andbecause as you said, like if we
are blaming ourselves for whatwe did in the past is when the
shame and the guilt is, and wehave so many.
I mean, it depends on ourhistory, but as humans, we those
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emotions are also there, yes,and and unfortunately, it can
bring us to this rabbit hold andthen not be able then to allow
ourselves to shine or to feelbetter because we are stuck in
those emotions that in a waycome from the buttons.
But I do believe that the bodyis the subconscious mind, so
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it's like a well, it'll bringit'll bring illness, it'll make
you sick.
Jeanne Comeau (27:59):
Yes.
So energy and motion, emotions,emotions, energy and emotions.
So these dark clouds that webring about through negative
thoughts do create an emotion inour physical body that brings
disharmony that will bringillness.
You see, it's difficult toaccept this, but unless we're
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we're being poisoned, and we areto some degree through food and
water in this world these days,unless we're being poisoned,
we're we're creating thedisharmony in our body with our
thoughts.
So we're making ourselves sickwith our thoughts.
So, how do we stop the negativethoughts?
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It takes courage.
And even when and even whenyou're crying, and I've been
there, and even when you'recrying, you say God loves me,
and the tears are coming down,or whatever you refer to higher
consciousness as loves me, lovesme, loves me.
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Start to just just keep sayingit, keep saying it, start small.
I am loved, I am loved, I amloved.
And bat out the negativethoughts to the best of your
ability.
You know, the sun will come uptomorrow, you know, it will, and
so it'll feel better.
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And and sometimes, yes, just goto bed and pull the covers up
and cry, and the sun will comeup tomorrow.
And I am loved, I am loved.
And it's really important totry to stay in the here and now.
A great line, Kenna, is Kina.
I don't know why.
Kenna, apologies, is I'mcompletely aware in the here and
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now.
I am completely aware in thehere and now.
This is a phrase that comes tous through a methodology called
the fourth way.
It's a spirit.
Virtual path.
I am completely aware in thehere and now.
And it seeks us to teach us toremember who we are, which is
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part of the one pure love.
I am loved, I am loved, I amloved.
I'm completely aware in thehere and now.
And as far as beating ourselvesup, which I've done, I can
still do that.
Right.
I learned, I don't know where Iever got it from, but early on,
because I was almost taking onthe guilt of what happened in
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the family home, you see.
And I just, it dawned on me oneday.
I was a kid.
What did I know?
I I couldn't fix it.
I was only, I was only a child.
So forgive yourself what youweren't for what you weren't
able to do.
Help your mom, help your dad,help your siblings.
I was only a child.
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I did the best I could.
I did the best I could.
Kena Siu (30:57):
And you know, even as grown-ups, too.
Yeah.
Yeah.
Because I think the fact thatwe're gonna do and have mistakes
in life, like uh or failures,but I don't like calling them
failures anymore.
They are learning lessons, theyare, right?
So they are it's about justknowing that we are in this
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journey, and it's about that,about keep learning, because
that's that's the only way wecan get to know ourselves
better.
Jeanne Comeau (31:29):
That is the only way, and we we have to know
ourselves better.
Uh know thyself, know thyself,know thyself is the and and the
surrender to know thyself, knowthyself, accept thyself,
surrender to who you are, tosurrender to everything that's
happened, let it go.
(31:49):
Tomorrow's another day.
Yeah, yeah.
I wonder, I wonder what is itabout society?
I'd love, you know, what is itabout society that's got us
locked into just beating thehell out of ourselves?
Well, it's the way they canmanipulate us, yeah.
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Right?
Do you think there's a sense ofif they're if they're not
happy, then then you knowthey'll they'll tell the line.
They won't be independentlyhappy.
And yeah.
Kena Siu (32:26):
Yeah.
Jeanne Comeau (32:28):
Well, I'm all I'm all about helping people, all
of us, reach an enlightenedsociety.
That's what motivates me everyday.
There is an enlightenedsociety, and and it's a it's a
time where we all have have cometo an understanding that we are
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part of the one, that becauseof that, there is self-love, and
there's love of others beforethyself, and that takes care of
that ego that wants to just youknow, discount other people or
or say bad things about otherpeople or do bad things to other
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people.
You know, they're you, yes,they're you, and agony, you
know, just another version ofit.
What's interesting about energyis there's the boomerang
effect.
So let's go back to thoughts,right?
Okay, yeah, I I could bedriving down the street with a
friend, and and you know,somebody cuts them off and he's
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got a few words to say.
And I say, that's coming rightback at you, honey.
Right back at you.
It's the boomerang.
And you know, so let's bring upthat dark cloud again.
All those negative thoughtsthat that we have about
ourselves that we seek to makeourselves feel better by
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dragging others down.
And social media is a great wayto drag others down, right?
Oh, look at that, oh, look atthat, oh, look at that.
Um, so you know, puffingourselves up, puffing up the the
the the false ego, the falseego, dragging each other,
dragging others down, not lovingthe others for simply being who
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they are, will darken yourcloud.
Kena Siu (34:17):
Yes.
And we come back again to theknow yourself because the more
we get to know ourselves byaccepting and understanding our
light and our shadow, the morewe're gonna be able to accept
others.
It has to come from within.
Again, it's the self, the selfis first, the self is first.
Jeanne Comeau (34:41):
So, so know yourself, know why you're
different than others.
You know, this is anotherinteresting thing.
When you know yourself, youknow you're different than
others, and that's cool.
That's really cool.
Why do you want to be likeeverybody else?
Again, social media.
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Why do you want to look likethese people, talk like these
people, dress like these people?
You want to be yourself.
You were, you know, theeverybody else is taken.
I forget who I think I forgetwho said that.
Everybody else is taken, justbe you, and and when you know
yourself and you accept yourselffor the DNA that you came in
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with and and what you're here todo in this lifetime, then the
ego takes a side step, you know,because it doesn't have to hold
up the false self anymore.
It's not about that.
Yeah, it's about living why youcame here, it's about living
your mission.
And mission doesn't need to begrand, but everybody came here
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for a purpose.
And you know, did you come hereto be a writer, a singer?
Did you come here to be thebest mom ever, the best aunt
ever, whatever it is, andthey're all wonderful things
because it's you, and that's whyyou came here.
Uh, so we are all to express inour unique ways, yeah.
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And it's it's like if you lookat the one and and you you take
a look at earth, take a look atall the souls that are on earth
incarnated today, and each oneis is is a pixel in the large
picture, a unique pixel.
And so when we're all ourauthentic self, then the earth
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lights up, it's enlightened.
Kena Siu (36:34):
Yeah, I want to come back to that purpose because I
do think that since we we arevery young, we are pushed to
know that purpose, and sometimesit's so frustrated.
I mean, it took me a while tothen become an entrepreneur and
knowing what I wanted to do, andthat has evolved anyway.
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But I I felt at one point thatthere was like this pressure and
pressure, and now what I havecome kind of like to a
conclusion, still getting thatanswer between quotes, is the
fact that our purpose really isto live, to live this human
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experience, yes, and because Ihave talked to women, and
sometimes it's like, you know,and more if they are in in life
transitions, it's like I don'tknow who I am, I feel lost and
broken, and etc.
etc.
And it's like I don't know whatmy life purpose is.
Well, what about if at thisvery moment your life purpose is
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to I don't know, grieve yourmarriage, or your life purpose
at this moment is to take careof your children because they're
growing up and they need youthere.
We always think that as yousaid, it needs to be something
big, the purpose in life.
No, it's about living and whatare you choosing to live now in
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this present moment.
Jeanne Comeau (38:06):
And and you started off with uh saying the
woman says, I don't know who Iam.
That's the key right there.
Yes, know yourself.
The other, the other thing isthe purpose changes throughout
the lifetime.
True, it changes according tothe stage of life.
When when you're in your, youknow, uh at 29, 30, you go
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through your first Saturnreturn, you know, you're you're
you're you're leavingadolescence, you're going into
adulthood.
So it just as an example, butit it changes as you go through
life.
But what doesn't change is theenergy that you came in with by
way of skills and talents,they're there, they're there in
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your chart.
And you were created or youincarnated with particular
skills and talents that you aremeant to express in in the world
through yourself, creativity.
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Everybody is supposed to becreating, okay?
Creativity brings joy, it'slife.
Yes, it's life, you know.
When when we're in that darkcloud, who we no one can create,
right?
We we just tunnel dug ourselvesand we got to get out of there.
I am loved, I am loved, I amloved to get yourself out of the
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hole.
And so the purpose of life,what is the purpose of life?
Absolutely, Kenna, it is tolive your life, to create, to
bring joy, to use the skills andtalents that you came in with
to express and love humanitywith.
(39:58):
Right?
So see, we're all here to bepart of the whole, not as
individual false egos, but we'reall here to be part of the
whole and yeah.
Kena Siu (40:15):
I love this so much.
Yes, I would like to know likewe can which kind of
metaphysical practices can youoffer to, in this case, midlife
women who are in transitions toget to know themselves better,
to get into alignment with theirsoul's blueprint.
Jeanne Comeau (40:38):
Meditate.
Meditate.
And and so it's it's and whatdoes meditate mean?
It can be it means manydifferent things to many
different people.
You can go so far as to havethe candle, have the incense,
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have the chimes, you you know,you have all the paraphernalia.
That's wonderful, if that's howyou like to meditate.
It can be as simple as I'msitting at a dining room chair,
back straight, feet on thefloor, closing your eyes, and uh
making the room as quiet as youcan, starting for five minutes
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a day.
The key is consistency.
So the the what I would firstrecommend is be still, go
within.
Remember, everything is within.
Feel it.
See, we we don't like tomeditate because we then start
to feel.
But if we're unable to feel whowe really are, how can we
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connect with who we really are?
We have to feel it.
You know, in the up in up untilmidlife, life keeps us busy.
So we don't have to feel.
We're on the treadmill.
You know, we go, we come up, weget we get through the family
experience, God bless us, andthen we get through the whole
socialization, and we're lookingto mate, and we're looking to
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have families and go to school,and then it's the job, and you
know, and then finally all ofthis is done, and you get to
midlife, and none of it, none ofthat holds any more value.
You're going through atransition, you're going home.
And so, how do you how do youget home?
You go within and you meditate.
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So I recommend startingmeditating.
And you know, one thing thatworks works great is you can get
it out on YouTube, TibetanSinging Bulls.
Just Tibetan Singing Bulls, andit's a 10-minute YouTube video.
So when it stops, you're done.
But just keep your eyes closed.
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And yes, you're gonna thinkabout everything, every and the
negative thoughts are gonnacome.
So, what I would recommend thenthat you add is a mantra.
I am loved, I am loved, I amloved until you feel loved by
source, because that's the onlylove that matters, that's the
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only love that's true.
There's no you humans will tellyou they love you.
Well, we've all experiencedthat, okay?
Some of it holds and most of itdoesn't.
And so, because people arepeople and they're going along
their way, and we forgive themfor that, and so meditate.
That's that's what I reallyrecommend is start there, bring
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in an affirmation.
Okay, I am loved, I am loved.
Another great affirmation thatI love that I'd love to share
with your audience is I lookwith wonder at that which lies
before me.
That's a hopeful one.
So write that down.
I look with wonder at thatwhich lies before me.
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This is metaphysical prayer,it's it's an affirmation, and
it's hard to say it when you'recrying, but then if you keep
doing it, you might startlaughing.
Okay, okay.
So we have we have to we haveto drag ourselves through it.
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No one can do it for us.
Kena Siu (44:22):
Definitely, yeah.
Jeanne Comeau (44:24):
And some days are easier than others, and why?
Well, there are energeticinfluences that that are
influencing you, and there'senvironmental influences, and so
we talk energetically.
I'll come back to astrology.
You were born with a birthchart and your soul's blueprint.
There are positions of planetsin different realms of your
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human experience.
We call them houses, and thoseplanets have what we call
aspects in astrology, butthey're geometric connections,
and so they're energeticconnections.
And so some planets help eachother and some planets oppose
each other and create frictionin the life, and that's part of
the life blueprint story.
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So if you understand yourchart, if you know yourself
through evolutionary astrology,and I'm one and there are others
out there, evolutionaryastrology is the type of
astrology to go into.
It is soul blueprint astrology.
If you understand yourself thatway, you're under able to
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understand what your triggersare.
What's triggering you?
Okay.
Why do I find myself in thatposition again?
What triggers you?
Now then, when you're able toabsorb your soul's blueprint and
those energies that are playingout in your life, I guarantee
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it.
I this is real stuff.
They're playing out, it'shappening whether you know about
it or not.
Some years you can look back onyour life, some years were
great, some not so great.
Well, things were happening.
You were going through keypoints in your evolutionary soul
blueprint.
What then happens, Kenna, isthe sky is changing all the
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time.
And so there are furtherinfluences to your birth chart
that comes from the changingsky.
And it is uncanny when I when Iread people's astrology, excuse
me for the allergies, when Iread people's astrology, it is
uncanny how at the differentphases of life, different
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planetary configurations comealong and say, it's time to do
that soul lesson.
It's time to do that soullesson.
So let's talk about knowingbetter and doing better.
When you know that you're in aphase of life, and sometimes
they can be two, three yearslong.
Okay, you're in a phase of lifewhere you're in a soul lesson
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phase of life.
When you understand that, youremotions are easier to deal
with.
I don't say they go away, butyou understand what's triggering
them.
And you can almost even laugh.
You can say, Oh, that's thatthat's that thing happening
there.
And you know, the astrologertold me this is all lifting by
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January 2026.
Thank God.
Right?
And it will, and it will.
Okay.
So hopefully that answered.
I got carried away.
Kena Siu (47:38):
I got carried.
I guess I'm gonna have to havea reading with you because I
have something that I've beenworking for a few years.
It's it would be nice to have adate, I guess.
Jeanne Comeau (47:49):
You know, one one of the more interesting points
is what is called the progressedmoon.
So you're born with the moon ina particular position, and the
moon uh there is in astrologywhat's called progressions, and
there's a mathematicalcalculation about it.
Who cares about that?
But every two and a half yearsyou enter into a different
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emotional phase of life.
Oh, it's a different emotionalphase of life, and it's what it
means for an individual is alldictated by where that
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progressed moon lands in theirchart, what astrological sign
it's landing in, and what birthchart planets it is uh
connecting to.
And so we go through every twoand a half years, and and in
(48:52):
fact, it takes the progress moon27 and a half years to come
through every house and everysign.
20.
So we go it goes around thecircle every 27 and a half
years, and at any point in time,you can look back to 27 and a
half years ago in your life andget a sense of your emotional
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self.
Okay, and it's reallyinteresting to do that.
You know, COVID, COVID broughtus all many gifts, right?
Many gifts.
That's how I look at COVID.
Yeah, me too.
Me, yeah.
I I I landed in themetaphysical school and I really
studied my stars.
Know your stars, you know,which is which is my trademark
(49:35):
for for know you know your knowthyself through evolutionary
astrology.
But I really studied it, and itwas amazing to me what the the
patterns, the patterns, thepatterns.
And so I love working with witheverybody actually.
But it's never too late.
Well, it's never too late to bewhat you might have always been
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or should have been.
Oh, never, or was created tobe.
Yeah, what were you created tobe?
Okay, we can add the do andhave because we were all created
to have uh joy and abundance,and abundance just doesn't mean
a big bank account, right?
Kena Siu (50:14):
So cannot so much juiciness in here.
I'm just thinking, what can wego now?
Jeanne Comeau (50:32):
Yes, well, we're our our audience is primarily
women, yes?
Yes, okay.
So you and I on the warm-up, wewere gonna have a little bit of
a chat about the physics, thethe physical of midlife.
Yes, hormones, yes, yeah.
Oh yes, yes, yes.
We mentioned something.
(50:53):
Yes, let's talk about estrogen.
Let's talk about testosterone,let's talk about progesterone,
and and you know, there'sthyroid and there's all sorts of
hormones.
So a passion of mine, and Ithink one of your follow-on
questions was what is it do Ilike to do?
You know, some people like togo for a walk in the garden.
Well, I I love to research allthings health.
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So menopause comes upon us inin our early 50s on average, but
perimenopause can start up to10 years ahead of that.
And to understand how difficultthe transition can be.
(51:40):
Oh, I uh another funny oneabout my mother.
I remember visiting her beforeI uh, you know, I was in my 30s
and maybe 40s, that was it hadto be the 40s.
She says, Oh, you're gonna begoing through the change soon.
I said, The change?
I'm looking at my clothes, thechange.
I had no idea what she'stalking about, the change.
Yes.
And I she offered some wisdomwords, I'm sure, which
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unfortunately I don't remember,but I did go through it.
And if if a woman physically iswell endowed, you know,
voluptuous woman, she's had alot of estrogen raging through
her body through her entirelife.
It is hard for estrogen-richwomen to go through menopause.
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Why?
Because the estrogen that yourbody thrived on, and it had a
lot of it, is leaving.
It's leaving, it's it's doneits purpose, it's gonna go away,
and it's more difficult.
If a woman less voluptuous,okay, she she had more, we could
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say more testosterone.
And by the way, women havetestosterone just like men do.
It's very important for womentestosterone.
It's what keeps us from fallingwhen we're 90, right?
So it's very important hormone.
So in perimenopause, the thesehormones start to go crazy.
And we can experience nightsweats, waking up soaking wet,
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we're not sleeping, we'relaughing and we're crying at the
same time.
We're crying, we don't know whywe're crying.
It's it's a range of emotions.
I was looking at the clock andI've lost track of time.
But, anyways, I was goingthrough it and I came across a
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book by Suzanne Summers, who hasnow passed, and yes, she did
pass away of cancer, but I don'twant that to deter people from
what I'm about to share.
At any rate, her book calledThe Sexy Years changed my life.
I remember I read it in oneweekend and I cried the whole
weekend because everything thatshe said, I was going through.
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And there was a time in ourcountry's history, in the
history of the world, where wewhere men, men could legally
submit their wives to insaneasylums when they went through
menopause.
Kena Siu (54:03):
My God.
Jeanne Comeau (54:04):
Legally, legally, just check them in.
And they did that.
And a lot of women felt likethey were going insane.
It's a very difficultexperience for a lot of women.
For for me, what finally got megoing was I found bioidentical
hormone therapy.
So it's not for everybody.
Everybody do their homework.
(54:24):
There's been controversy on itabout does it cause breast
cancer, does it not breast causebreast cancer?
So I'm not telling anybody whatto do except for to do your
homework and research theEuropean nations, not just the
United States, which, by theway, the FDA is now coming out
saying that bioidentical, notsynthetic, bioidentical hormone
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therapy is beneficial to womenin their aging years.
And the key is to come intothem within 10 years of exit of
menopause, all right, for thebest long-lasting effects.
So yeah, I say to women, ifyou've never heard of it or
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you're afraid of it, just doyour own homework and make your
own decisions.
Can you share?
Sorry, can you share a bitabout what this can't therapy
does?
Um sure.
So bio bioidential issynthesized naturally, so it's
not chemical.
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Okay.
So it's as close to what yourbody would create if your body
were creating it.
And it there are doctors allover now that are doing this.
Bioidentical.
There are traditional doctorsthat are going to be starting to
prescribe it and areprescribing it too, but they're
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prescribing the synthetic formof it.
That's not what you want.
You don't want what theinsurance companies are going to
pay for.
Okay.
And it's not too expensiveconsidering what you're going to
get, which is your life back.
Your life back.
You can't think uh the story islong.
(56:12):
So you you work with abioidentical therapy doctor.
They they either through asaliva test or a blood test,
they extract stuff from you, andthey're able to tell you what
they're going to start you on.
I mean, essentially, they'regoing to give you estrogen and
they're going to give youtestosterone, and they're going
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to give you progesterone,they're going to give you all
three, and they're going to giveit in enough dose, just enough
dose, to relieve the symptoms toget your life back on track.
So the woman who said to you,the women who say, I don't know
who I am anymore.
(56:54):
Well, no, because you can'tthink straight.
You can't think straight.
And you've lost all sense.
You know, another thing thathappens when these hormones
start to leave us, we start tofeel old.
You know, it it all happens.
And I'm not just talking abouthow you look, but you feel it.
There's a real depression thatsets in.
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And by the way, when thehusbands could no longer lock
the women up, and you know, thewomen's revolution came along in
the 60s and the 70s, birthcontrol came about.
And what was birth control?
Birth control started givingwomen synthetic hormones, you
know.
So birth control, synthetichormones, you know, that's
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that's questionable, right?
But then again, working withthe hormones and big pharma
making money, they came up withsupplementation for women in
menopause.
And so there were thesedifferent types of
prescriptions.
I can't recall their names now.
And women were starting tothrive.
(58:00):
You know, that this was reallyhelping the women in the in the
60s and the 70s, you know, thein the 80s.
They were thriving.
And then along in 2002, I'llnever forget that year, came
something called the Women'sHealth Initiative.
This study, which is now, andeven the FDA put out a report on
this, had false evidence.
I mean, it was a bad, it was abad study all around, all around
(58:24):
bad study.
But what it did was that it putthe fear into big pharma, who
stopped prescribing it, who tookthe women off of it.
Why?
Yes, cancers were coming andheart disease was coming.
Was it the synthetic hormones?
Uh, likely, yes.
It was the synthetic, is it thebioidentical?
No.
So I got off on a tangent alittle bit because I'm very
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passionate about it because itdrives me crazy that women have
to suffer this way.
And by the way, Alzheimer's,all right, losing your mind.
Heart disease is very prevalentwith women.
And so bioidentical hormonetherapy.
How do you take it then?
Okay, so you go to the doctor,he does all of this.
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There are many ways that theycan prescribe it.
They can put it in a cream thatyou rub in your skin once,
twice a day.
They can put it in a sublingualtablet that you put under your
tongue.
Some doctors put pellets in inyour in your back butt, you
know, and they dissolve slowly.
There are many ways for this.
Oh, okay.
(59:28):
For this to come into yourbody.
I I will tell you that now withthe FDA on board and whatever's
happening in Washington, Idon't, I don't go there, you're
going to see more and more ofit.
And so keep your ears open forit.
You know, look look for adoctor.
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If you're really, reallysuffering, you don't have to, is
my message.
Your your regular doctor, ifyou go to talk to your regular
doctor about how you're feeling.
I'm depressed.
I mean, a lot of a lot ofmenopausal women are depressed a
lot.
Well, you're losing yourhormones.
Okay.
(01:00:09):
Even even Suzanne Summers wroteabout that.
I I was even, I was somedoctor, I'll never forget her.
She wanted to give me Prozac.
I said, I'm not taking Prozac.
Oh my God.
You know, because I couldn'tthink.
I I just couldn't get my mojogoing, right?
Something was wrong.
And but a regular doctor isless and less now, but you know,
(01:00:35):
certainly in the last 10, 15,20 years, the regular doctors,
controlled by the results ofthat 2002 women's initiative
poor study would not haveprescribed bio hormone therapy,
be it synthetic or bioidentical.
They they would not haveprescribed it.
(01:00:56):
But the bioidentical peoplewere always coming up and had a
different story.
And so they they were alwaysthere.
And but the regular doctor thatyou're going to, just your
regular doctor, is gonna want togive you an antidepressant.
Kena Siu (01:01:13):
Okay.
Well it's good to know that I Ilove that you are sharing this
because yeah, I remember when Iwent to I went to my family
doctor this year, and I uh I hadto ask her to get you know test
about my hormones.
I mean, I'm I'm 47.
I needed to ask her.
Yes, like you suppose and andit's it's a she, so I'm like,
(01:01:38):
it's why they don't considerthis stuff part of you know a
regular testing, it's it's soimportant.
Jeanne Comeau (01:01:46):
They don't.
And so about the she, well,there's two points.
There's a great book calledEstrogen Matters.
Estrogen matters for you andyour audience.
That's a great read.
And the another thing is thereis an organization called the
Menopause Society.
You should probably be checkinginto that given given you know,
(01:02:08):
midlife butterfly.
But the menopause society, andthis is comprised of a lot of
doctors at the helm now, andthey're they're doing a lot of
talks about hormone bioidenticalhormone therapy.
So they're getting at the leadof it.
They're getting at the lead ofit, and not to get too too crazy
(01:02:30):
juicy about it, I guess, butI'll I'll share one thing.
Another thing that happens towomen is we dry up, you know,
it's like the Sahara.
You know, when you got ahusband and he doesn't
understand the dry up Sahara, ifyou know what I mean, right?
Kena Siu (01:02:44):
Yeah.
Jeanne Comeau (01:02:46):
And so, you know, you go to the jelly aisle at
CVS, and you know, you're tryingto make your husband happy.
These all doctors now, alldoctors now are totally open to
prescribing vaginal creams.
And what's the vaginal cream?
Estrogen.
(01:03:06):
They have proven that it neverleaves that area and it doesn't
cause cancer.
So for women that you know,you're you're in a mater
relationship and you you want tohave intimacy, but it's
difficult.
Talk to your doctor about thesethese vaginal creams.
(01:03:29):
And they, you know, big farmersells them, insurance covers
them, and they they don't causecancer, and they make a big
difference in that area.
So all of this is is gonna comeout more and more.
Kena Siu (01:03:43):
Yeah, yeah, I know there's been more research about
that, and yeah, it's coming outmore and then women also are
going like, hey, hello, we are alot of us.
I mean, there's a we are havingthe privilege of aging, so I
mean, right?
Jeanne Comeau (01:04:00):
Yes, it's and and you know, and as far as the
aging goes, I mean, what happensa lot with the women is our
bone density.
This, this is a real problem,our bone density.
And so the estrogen certainlyhelps with that, but the
testosterone, and any, any, anydoctor, you know, is going to
give you enough to to helpmaintain your bone strength
(01:04:24):
because that leaves our bodytoo.
And so, why why do we get hipfractures?
And, you know, first of all, weteeter and fall because we're
all we're off balance, becausewe we don't have the hormones to
keep us balanced.
I should have been a doctor, Ishould have been a doctor of
that.
Well, you can add it to theirlist still, I guess.
(01:04:46):
Yeah.
Wow, no, this is delightful,but I think we went over time,
and but that's okay with me.
Kena Siu (01:04:54):
It's fine.
Yeah, I'm so glad that youshared about this because it's
as and what you said, it's aboutdoing our own doing homework.
Yes, our own homework and tosee what can work for us because
each of us we are different anddifferent things work for
different women, and it'simportant for us to dig in and
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what kind of called us more, butbe well informed.
Jeanne Comeau (01:05:19):
Be well informed, be your own doctor because
otherwise you don't have adoctor.
I want to make that very clear.
It's like go within, knowyourself, be your own doctor.
Only you can heal yourself, youand and and and universal
spirit.
Kena Siu (01:05:36):
Yeah, I agree, because we are the only ones who knows
our body.
So it's important to see ifwe're trying different things to
see, okay, this is working,this is not working, this feels
this way, this feels that way,and then from there really
decide what we want to preserveour own health.
(01:05:56):
Because, yeah, agreed.
We are our own doctors.
Jeanne Comeau (01:06:00):
We are our own doctors, and there are solutions
out there.
We we don't have to go down, wedon't have to age out.
Kena Siu (01:06:08):
Oh no, very no.
Jeanne Comeau (01:06:11):
Oh, there's so much to enjoy.
There's too much.
There's too much.
We just we just, you know, Iwell, we were talking too that
the great, there are many greatthings about midlife, but one of
the great things is, you know,when when you no longer get your
cycle, when the monthly thingstarts happening, stops
happening.
What freedom?
(01:06:31):
It's freedom from the emotionalroller coaster.
And it's like it's like uh, youknow, when you you you take an
airplane ride and finally yourears pop.
Yes, it's like that in life.
Wow, oh the cloud, the cloud islifted.
(01:06:52):
Wow, I am a strong, dynamicbeing.
Love that.
It's true.
Wow.
That's true.
Kena Siu (01:07:03):
Oh, Jean has been such a pleasure talking to you.
I love your energy, your light,your wisdom.
Can you share with our audiencewhere they can find you?
Jeanne Comeau (01:07:14):
Yes, please.
Thank you.com.
And that that's the best way tofind me.
I'm out on YouTube too, butgeniecomo.com.
If anyone is interested indiscovering what's possible, no
commitment of anything, sign upfor a discovery call,
(01:07:37):
complimentary discovery call.
I love meeting people, I lovetalking to people.
Anyone want to talk abouthormones?
I'm always happy to talk abouthormones.
Anything you want to talkabout, send me any questions on
the contact me form.
And if you're interested inknowing your soul's blueprint,
please check out my Know YourStars page on my website,
(01:07:58):
geniecamo.com.
Kena Siu (01:08:01):
Thank you, Jeannie.
I'll be sharing the link in theshow notes.
And before we go, I would liketo know how would you call these
midlife chapters that you arein at this moment.
Jeanne Comeau (01:08:13):
The midlife chapter that I'm in at this
moment.
Well, I'm beyond midlife, whichis interesting, just a little
bit.
And oh, it's a great question.
I mean, I I hesitate because Ijust find that who I was is so
(01:08:41):
distant.
It's the only way I can say it.
It's so distant.
And who I am now and who I ambecoming is very different, and
I could have never seen thatcoming.
Never.
Kena Siu (01:09:02):
Thank you for sharing that because that's so
wonderful.
It's there is some women I'veheard conversations that they
feel stuck, that they are aging,that they are at the end of
life when I do believe that thisis the best chapter of life,
itself midlife, which is severalyears, and just you know, and
(01:09:26):
yeah, it's that keeping thatexplorations, exploration about
again, know that itself.
So I think that's the the themode of the engine that keeps us
going and exploring and knowingand enjoying and having that
curiosity for life again andagain.
Jeanne Comeau (01:09:48):
Yes, and but I but I must add, because I had
been through it in theperimenopause stage, for many
women find themselves, they justcan't get the mojo, you know,
they they just can't snap out ofit.
So there's a physical thinghappening here.
Find the courage to get theanswers and start to resolve
(01:10:13):
that.
The answers, and I will say itagain, are not in the
antidepressants.
Right.
And I'm sorry, I probably manyhave many have benefited from
them.
It's just my personal opinionthat it won't keep the light
shining in the long run.
Kena Siu (01:10:30):
Yeah.
And what's the pleasure do youenjoy the most?
Researching.
Jeanne Comeau (01:10:39):
You know, I I I have a lot of Virgo in my
charts.
So, you know, I I I love I loveto research things and a lot of
health things and a lot of uhspiritual things, and just
research is is my biggestpleasure, and I delight in every
new day.
I love getting up early for thenew day.
(01:11:00):
So that's very important.
Kena Siu (01:11:05):
Well, Jeannie, thank you so much for being here.
It has been really, really aprecious talking to you.
Jeanne Comeau (01:11:11):
Same here, same here.
Thank you to all your guestsfor listening into us, and God
bless.
I I wish for all the light thatyou feel in your heart that it
comes through you to thosearound you because that's what
(01:11:32):
it's meant to do.
Kena Siu (01:11:33):
Yes.
Jeanne Comeau (01:11:35):
Thank you.
Kena Siu (01:11:39):
Thank you for tuning in to Midlife Butterfly.
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Until next time, keep spreadingthose wings and live, enjoy,
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growth, and pleasure.
What if your soul came here with a blueprint?
A cosmic map whispering who youare meant to become?
In a world that teaches us tochase purpose, what if true
fulfillment comes fromremembering instead?
Today we are exploring how thestars, metaphysics, and the
wisdom of the unseen can guideus back home to ourselves with
(00:25):
my guest, Jeanne Comeau.
Midlife butterfly, a woman inthe sacred in-between.
She's not who she once was, andnot quite who she's becoming
yet.
She's unraveling, awakening,remembering.
She's navigating lifetransitions, divorce, loss,
rainbow, and moods, with aburning desire for freedom, joy,
(00:49):
and solid living.
She feels the pull to rise, tofly.
She's no longer afraid of herown wings.
Welcome back to the MidlifeButterfly Podcast.
I am Kena Siu, your host, andtoday I'm joined here with
Jeanne Comeauus.
Blending deep metaphysicalwisdom with practical life
(01:28):
coaching, she helps peopledecode their bird chart as a
living roadmap to awaken theirsoul's blueprint.
Through her signature Know YourStar Sessions, Jeanne
illuminates karmic patterns,reveals hidden gifts, and offers
clear direction for living inalignment with one's truest
(01:48):
path.
Her work bridges spiritualityand psychology, inspiring
confidence, healing, and thecourage to step boldly into the
life your soul was always meantto live.
Welcome to the podcast,Jeannie.
Oh, thank you, Ken.
Jeanne Comeau (02:06):
What a wonderful introduction.
I wow, is that really me?
Kena Siu (02:11):
It seems like it is.
I mean, and I kind of likesummarize it because you have
quite a lot of knowledge andwisdom and yes.
Jeanne Comeau (02:22):
And thank you for that.
And as I was listening to that,there are so many guides and
healers and people that we seekout in this world because life,
you know, it hurts.
You know, like like the humanexperience comes with its ups
and its downs.
We like the ups, but we get thedowns.
(02:42):
And so we're always looking forwell, who can help me feel
better?
Who can help me get what Iwant?
Who can help me?
And so while that introductioncertainly sounded like I I could
help everything and you know,make you a cake and with a
cherry on the top, the truth ofthe matter is the one that can
(03:04):
help you is you and only you.
The answers are within.
And so, all in all of what Ido, my goal is to lead, and even
that word kind of turns me offsometimes, but but to guide
(03:24):
others, to show others, toreveal to others that the
answers are within.
Yes, they're not out there.
And you know, Ken, I I re I'mon a roll now, so you set me on
a roll, but I remember my lifecoming up before midlife.
And you know, don't want tototally age myself, but I've
(03:46):
been through midlife.
Okay.
So the internet wasn't thatprevalent when I was in my
teens, and you had to go to thebookstores for the books, and
there weren't a lot ofquote-unquote self-help books or
helpers, but we we all feltthat we we needed help to get to
get through life.
And I started to build mylibrary of self-help books, one
(04:11):
after another after another.
And I liken it, Kenna, to youknow, where where was the
answer?
Which teacher, which guru,which guide was really gonna fix
me.
Oh, you want $200?
Oh, you want a thousand.
Well, how much is this onegonna cost?
And then depending on the thethe way they tapped into my
(04:35):
psyche and triggered my fears,which which is another topic I'd
love to get to because ascoaches, you and I, triggering
fears is not the way to lead.
But, anyways, these varioushealers would trigger the fears,
and I would sign up and I wouldbelieve that this would be it.
(04:57):
And of course, it never reallywas, right?
Until I came through uh, youknow, a spiritual journey, you
know, when we're young, youknow, who wants to hear about
God?
You know, depending on yourupbringing, of course, but my
upbringing, who wants to hearabout God?
Because that means I'm gonnahave to stop living, you know,
(05:18):
because the fear of the wrath ofGod, I can't do anything, you
know, everything is sinning.
Roman Catholic, everything'sthe sin.
Yes.
Right, right, right.
So, at any rate, through thespirituality of it, and then
finally leading to metaphysicsand what led me to want to
become fully ensconced inmetaphysics and where the PhD
(05:40):
came from, okay, right?
That that's that's a nice thingto have, but it shows that I
went through the work and Icontinue to go through the work.
I'm working on anotherdoctorate in metaphysical
physical science because I wantto feel it within me.
I want it, I want to know howto tap into those answers that
(06:01):
are within me.
No one outside of us can fixus, and all the people that we
work with can only get us a stepcloser.
Yeah, yes.
Oh hopefully that opened us up.
Kena Siu (06:17):
Oh, yeah.
I mean, that's what we are herefor to again to find our own
answers.
And as you said, there are toomany people out there, and even
us as coaches, and we are simplyguides, because as you're
saying, the answers are withinus.
Jeanne Comeau (06:39):
The answers are within us, and and a and a lot
of times with clients, and and Iremember even in my story too,
it was like I had to be givenpermission to believe that.
I had to be given permission tobelieve that because there's so
much external pressure thattells us, I've got the thing
(07:02):
that's gonna make you happy.
You know, and in the youngeryears, it can be that beautiful
bag, purse, and you know, allthese external things that are
gonna make or a person is gonnamake you happy.
No way, it can't, it's it's aninside job.
And so, how do we do the insidework?
Well, we have to get to knowwho we are, and we have to face
(07:25):
the things that hurt andunderstand why they hurt, right,
Kina?
Kenna?
Yes, that's that's what Ifound, and it hurt.
Kena Siu (07:34):
Yeah, yeah, I yeah, I I feel you so much, like just
your words are just giving meshields because yeah, since we
are born, we are always, I mean,our upbringing is to focus
always in the exterior, right?
And then they tell you howyou're supposed to behave and
what to say and what to think,and then they put consciously or
(07:58):
unconsciously all theseprograms, right?
Either if it's for culture,society, religion.
And it's just crazy howconfusing we became that fast, I
mean, that young in between ourzero, even before, probably
since we are in our mom's wombuntil seven, by that time, we
(08:24):
already think we learn from thebeginning, yes, that love is
outside of us, you see.
Jeanne Comeau (08:40):
So we we you know, mom and dad, bless us that
have had them and and othersthat have loved and cared to for
us and various capabilitiesthat they had, right?
So we have to give them, but welearned that even love, and so
then self-love was outside ofus, yes.
(09:04):
And so so there there becameit's part of the separation from
universal one, it's the humanexperience to lead us back to
self-love and and you know,we're all one pixel in the big
bright picture of life, yeah.
Kena Siu (09:21):
And the thing is to to come back to that self-love.
I mean, everyone has their ownjourney, but for me, it took me
four decades.
Jeanne Comeau (09:32):
You know, four decades is not unusual, is is is
what I've seen.
Uh, you know, and and here weare on the midlife butterfly
podcast, which which I loved.
The midlife, I think, you know,midlife is midlife is when we
start the journey home.
Yeah, I totally agree.
(09:52):
Is the awakening?
It it is.
And and for some people, youever everything that you've done
up to then prepares you for it,you know, really does prepare
you for it.
So it's it's yes.
Kena Siu (10:10):
Yes.
So I would like before we moveforward to to know what is it or
how do you find you how do youdefine the what's the soul's
blueprint, and also since youknow a lot about metaphysics,
also to explain what ismetaphysics.
Jeanne Comeau (10:32):
Metaphysics is a science, I believe it's a
science, and it's the search forthe meaning of life.
So metaphysics is the searchfor the truth.
So all of these various thingsfall under the umbrella of
(10:55):
metaphysics.
We we've heard of well, it'shad a long storied history, but
for me, it's the search for themeaning of life.
It is true philosophy, it is,it transcends all religions, it
is comprised of all all of themasters, Buddha, Jesus, Allah.
(11:18):
You bring them all in becausethere is no separation.
So in the beginning, in thebeginning, in the beginning, was
the one.
There was the one energy.
Call it energy, call it light,call it love, because it really
is love.
Where did it come from?
(11:39):
Well, I can't answer that, andand I don't feel bad about that
because no one's been able toanswer that.
It just always was, is the bestthat we can say.
But this energy was alwaysthere, and this energy was pure
light and pure love to to theessence that no one can truly
understand.
I mean, think about feelingtrue love in your life, maybe
(12:01):
from one of your parents or oran aunt or an uncle, and you
just felt so loved, that'swonderful, but the pure love of
our creator exceeds that beyondall imagination.
So it is all pure love.
And this light, as the story istold to us, uh, wanted to
experience itself, and itcouldn't experience itself being
(12:28):
itself, and it created, itcreated other entities, created
what eventually on planet Earthbecame humans.
You know, we'll leave all ofall of the other galaxies, and
that'll blow your mind outthere, right?
But it but it created humans,and so we all are from the one,
(12:50):
and and that is the essence ofmetaphysics.
We we believe that I believeeverything is energy because
everything is energy.
So I get a I get a lot intoenergy healing, and you we are
our physical bodies are 99.999something percent energy.
(13:12):
We are only the smallest,minutest amount of matter, and
so we can get into the scienceof all of that.
But what people need to realizeis they're made up of energy,
they're made up of the earth,they're made up of the cosmos.
We are holograms, you know.
(13:32):
We can get there, we truly areholograms.
We are creating our ownindividual reality with our
thoughts.
Your thoughts create your life,and I work with my clients in
this space a lot.
Your thoughts create your life,guard them, they're your
treasure, right?
Really guard the be what'scoming into your mind.
(13:54):
So, metaphysics kind of touchesinto all of these spaces, and
and for me, it it answered allof the questions that I've been
asking and asking and asking,and it allowed me to truly tap
into the belief that I am partof the one.
(14:15):
You see, religion didn't dothat for me, you know.
Christianity, I was raisedRoman Catholic, and then I
delved into non-denominationalChristianity, which was part of
the journey.
It helped a lot, actually,because it allowed me to break
away from the strictness ofRoman Catholicism and it allowed
me to understand the love ofJesus, right?
(14:38):
Who was here and and did bringlove and showed us that we are
all part of the one.
You see, he was the way shower,brought the message to us, as
many others have.
And so that that to me ismetaphysics.
I might have gone off on on asideways there, but we're we're
all one, and and we have to, Idon't say we have to, in time,
(15:05):
either be it this lifetime oranother lifetime, because I do
believe in reincarnation and andthat souls come come and
reincarnate.
Uh, it's either this lifetimeor another lifetime, but
throughout every lifetime, thegoal is to become closer to the
essence of the one.
The goal is to transcend all ofthe lessons of the human
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experience.
And the closer you become,eventually you become quote
unquote enlightened.
You know, eventually you don'treincarnate as a human unless
you want to, unless by choice tohelp the people, such as the
enlightened masters would do.
They they they would come backby choice because it, you know,
(15:51):
it's not an easy journey foranybody, no matter, no matter
what your circumstances are.
Somebody born into poverty,somebody born into extreme
wealth, different lifestyles,still human pain, still human
psycho pain.
It doesn't make it easier oneway or another.
Kena Siu (16:13):
Yeah, no, yeah, that's true.
And yeah, because it doesn'tmatter, each of us, we have our
own experience or humanexperience here.
And as you said, I also believein reincarnation, so it means
that every time it's gonna bedifferent, right?
Because every time we arrive, Imean, we come from a blank
canvas.
Jeanne Comeau (16:33):
Yes, and well, actually, I'd like to add to the
blank canvas.
Yes.
You come from the DNA of allthe previous lives, the
energetic, emotional DNA.
You know, and so I'm anevolutionary astrologer.
(16:54):
There, there are many, uh, I'lldevil into that for a second
and then come back to thecanvas, but there are many
branches of astrology.
And astrology has existed foreons and eons.
Ancient Mesopotomia, theearliest recorded evidence of
astrology, I say it goes backbefore then, to civilizations
(17:16):
that are still buried on thisplanet, right?
So astrology has has alwaysguided humans to understanding
their what was happening onEarth, which was really what it
was used first and foremost for,for farming and just keeping
society intact and together.
(17:38):
And then it moved into well,you're a Leo or you're a Pisces,
so these are yourcharacteristics.
And then coming up through the60s, and after Sigmund Freud
brought us psychology, Carl Jungcame along and took that deeper
into what is called depthpsychology, where we really
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understand the triggers of thehuman psyche through
evolutionary through astrology.
Astrology plays into depthpsychology.
And so evolutionary astrology,just to way fast forward that,
asks us why do you have thechart you have?
And by chart I mean birthchart.
Why do you have the birth chartyou have?
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And so this takes us back tothe blank canvas or the canvas,
if you will.
In every lifetime, the soulcomes forward to experience
again, still still looking toevolve, to never have to
experience the pain of humanexistence again, but comes to
(18:44):
experience again and chooses uhthe time and moment of birth and
place and birth family, choosesthe situations for the soul's
evolutionary uh intention forthe lifetime.
And so we the what whattranscends death and rebirth is
(19:10):
the emotional DNA.
I'll call it DNA, but theemotions we you know, I I
remember I'm just by the way,I'm the fourth of nine children,
and so that's a lot of kids.
And I remember my mom saying, Idon't know how you can all be
so different.
You all came out of the samekitchen.
What a great saying, right?
Well, we are different becausewe're different souls, and if
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only she'd have known, she mighthave had an easier go at it.
Yes, but we all come in withsoul intention, agenda for the
lifetime.
Kena Siu (19:49):
Is this the soul's blueprint?
Jeanne Comeau (19:52):
It is okay, it is the soul's blueprint.
Now, there are a lot of waysnowadays that we're looking at
the soul's blueprint, certainlyhuman design taps into it, you
know, and we can go back to theearlier personality tests like
(20:14):
Myers Briggs.
You know, maybe a number ofpeople have had that tap into
it.
I am a Gallup strengths findercoach.
And even though that assessmentdoesn't ask for birth
information, it's uncanny howjust by asking a number of
questions, it taps into yourpsyche and it ties back to the
(20:38):
the the blueprint.
I I can see that.
So all these tests have comealong and they do tell us a lot
about ourselves.
So we we come in withintention, and I'll I'll I'll
come to this part, Kenna.
The key to going within,tapping into your inner self,
(21:01):
the key to self-love is knowingyourself, knowing yourself,
yeah.
Totally agreed.
You know, the the ancient Greektemple at Apollo, if I said
that right, um, know thyself.
Yes.
The the ancient philosophersknow thyself.
(21:26):
Many teachers know thyself.
So what does that mean?
Know what your soul's blueprintis.
Evolutionary astrology.
I I I'm a practitioner of it,I'm certified in it because I
see it works.
It works.
So feel free to interrupt me atany time, can't examine.
Kena Siu (21:50):
I'm just in you got a Leo here.
She'll just keep going.
Um I'm just in awe with allthese wisdom that you are
sharing.
And yeah, thank you for askingme because I want to go back to
a couple of things.
At one point, you mentioneddots are your treasure.
I love this because I mean, theway we have programmed, we at
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one point during my journey, youknow, I was hearing a lot of
stuff that, oh, the ego is yourenemy.
It's like, and now I know he'snot my enemy anymore, right?
But it's just about then uhrealizing or knowing those
different voices that are in ourhead.
(22:38):
I mean, that's the way I Iperceive it.
So I do love this part of youthat you said, dots are your
treasures, because if weconsider them that way, we will
be more aware, conscious, and ofkeeping them like that as a
(22:59):
treasure, and saying, What is itreally, you know, gold in here,
and what it is not, to havethat awareness to really take
them away.
Jeanne Comeau (23:11):
It's extremely powerful.
It's extremely powerful.
You know, in Genesis, God spokethe word.
So speak about the word, right?
A word is first a thoughtbefore it's spoken, right?
Yeah, and it creates is themessage there.
If you think a thought, you'recreating, if you speak a
(23:34):
thought, you're creating morepowerfully because everything is
energy, so it's got vibrationand it goes out.
Yes.
When I it uh we our minds gooff all the time, it's not easy
to stop the mind.
(23:55):
But if we if we start on thejourney, and uh I just back up
for a second.
Everything that we're sayinghere is not easy.
I just have to point that out.
It's not easy, but when youknow better, you do better, to
quote Maya Angelo.
Oh, yeah, I know better.
And for some of our listeners,maybe this is the first time
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they're really hearing whatwe're saying about their
thoughts.
And so this can be a seed, thiscan be a beginning, but it
doesn't mean that you're able tostop the negative thoughts now
because you aren't.
I'll go back to the ego.
Everything about you is good,even the ego.
You need the ego.
(24:39):
If you didn't have the ego, youwouldn't exist.
All right, so it's part of thehuman experience.
The the interesting thing aboutthe ego is we're led to believe
that the ego is only interestedin self self-preservation at
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the expense of everybody else,and to some degree it is, and
that's because it's fittest of,you know, we have to survive,
right?
So the ego keeps us surviving.
But if we can know that our egois there to help us survive and
work it to the point wherewe're thinking more about others
(25:24):
than we are about ourselves.
How can I be kinder to others?
How can I how can I stopthinking about just me, just me
and what I need, but start tothink about others in a
nutshell.
I may come back to that topic.
(25:44):
And so I come back to thoughts.
What you think you create, thatis absolutely true.
Yes, be it negative orpositive.
So when we look at our lives,and this is when I work with
clients, when we look at ourlives, we have to realize and
accept we're responsible.
(26:07):
We're responsible.
Another great mom quote,because I my mom had them all.
Your life is what you make it,she told me.
I was in my young 20s.
I'm like, you you gotta bekidding me.
You know, that this is not whatI want.
This is not what I want, youknow, and and and it's what I
created.
Well, how do I do better?
(26:27):
I think that just got me to goto the bookstore and buy more
self-help books, right?
Yeah, right.
And so, so thoughts of thingsand thoughts create.
And the the key to getting awayfrom the negative thoughts, be
they uh beating yourself up, ornegative thoughts about others
(26:49):
as you seek to compare yourselfto others so you can feel better
about yourself, those arenegative thoughts, or negative
thoughts about what you didwrong in the past, they all
create this dark cloud aroundyou, and and you just sink.
Kena Siu (27:05):
Yeah, because then from there also came our
emotions, right?
What you also mentioned, andbecause as you said, like if we
are blaming ourselves for whatwe did in the past is when the
shame and the guilt is, and wehave so many.
I mean, it depends on ourhistory, but as humans, we those
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emotions are also there, yes,and and unfortunately, it can
bring us to this rabbit hold andthen not be able then to allow
ourselves to shine or to feelbetter because we are stuck in
those emotions that in a waycome from the buttons.
But I do believe that the bodyis the subconscious mind, so
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it's like a well, it'll bringit'll bring illness, it'll make
you sick.
Jeanne Comeau (27:59):
Yes.
So energy and motion, emotions,emotions, energy and emotions.
So these dark clouds that webring about through negative
thoughts do create an emotion inour physical body that brings
disharmony that will bringillness.
You see, it's difficult toaccept this, but unless we're
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we're being poisoned, and we areto some degree through food and
water in this world these days,unless we're being poisoned,
we're we're creating thedisharmony in our body with our
thoughts.
So we're making ourselves sickwith our thoughts.
So, how do we stop the negativethoughts?
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It takes courage.
And even when and even whenyou're crying, and I've been
there, and even when you'recrying, you say God loves me,
and the tears are coming down,or whatever you refer to higher
consciousness as loves me, lovesme, loves me.
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Start to just just keep sayingit, keep saying it, start small.
I am loved, I am loved, I amloved.
And bat out the negativethoughts to the best of your
ability.
You know, the sun will come uptomorrow, you know, it will, and
so it'll feel better.
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And and sometimes, yes, just goto bed and pull the covers up
and cry, and the sun will comeup tomorrow.
And I am loved, I am loved.
And it's really important totry to stay in the here and now.
A great line, Kenna, is Kina.
I don't know why.
Kenna, apologies, is I'mcompletely aware in the here and
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now.
I am completely aware in thehere and now.
This is a phrase that comes tous through a methodology called
the fourth way.
It's a spirit.
Virtual path.
I am completely aware in thehere and now.
And it seeks us to teach us toremember who we are, which is
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part of the one pure love.
I am loved, I am loved, I amloved.
I'm completely aware in thehere and now.
And as far as beating ourselvesup, which I've done, I can
still do that.
Right.
I learned, I don't know where Iever got it from, but early on,
because I was almost taking onthe guilt of what happened in
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the family home, you see.
And I just, it dawned on me oneday.
I was a kid.
What did I know?
I I couldn't fix it.
I was only, I was only a child.
So forgive yourself what youweren't for what you weren't
able to do.
Help your mom, help your dad,help your siblings.
I was only a child.
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I did the best I could.
I did the best I could.
Kena Siu (30:57):
And you know, even as grown-ups, too.
Yeah.
Yeah.
Because I think the fact thatwe're gonna do and have mistakes
in life, like uh or failures,but I don't like calling them
failures anymore.
They are learning lessons, theyare, right?
So they are it's about justknowing that we are in this
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journey, and it's about that,about keep learning, because
that's that's the only way wecan get to know ourselves
better.
Jeanne Comeau (31:29):
That is the only way, and we we have to know
ourselves better.
Uh know thyself, know thyself,know thyself is the and and the
surrender to know thyself, knowthyself, accept thyself,
surrender to who you are, tosurrender to everything that's
happened, let it go.
(31:49):
Tomorrow's another day.
Yeah, yeah.
I wonder, I wonder what is itabout society?
I'd love, you know, what is itabout society that's got us
locked into just beating thehell out of ourselves?
Well, it's the way they canmanipulate us, yeah.
(32:10):
Right?
Do you think there's a sense ofif they're if they're not
happy, then then you knowthey'll they'll tell the line.
They won't be independentlyhappy.
And yeah.
Kena Siu (32:26):
Yeah.
Jeanne Comeau (32:28):
Well, I'm all I'm all about helping people, all
of us, reach an enlightenedsociety.
That's what motivates me everyday.
There is an enlightenedsociety, and and it's a it's a
time where we all have have cometo an understanding that we are
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part of the one, that becauseof that, there is self-love, and
there's love of others beforethyself, and that takes care of
that ego that wants to just youknow, discount other people or
or say bad things about otherpeople or do bad things to other
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people.
You know, they're you, yes,they're you, and agony, you
know, just another version ofit.
What's interesting about energyis there's the boomerang
effect.
So let's go back to thoughts,right?
Okay, yeah, I I could bedriving down the street with a
friend, and and you know,somebody cuts them off and he's
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got a few words to say.
And I say, that's coming rightback at you, honey.
Right back at you.
It's the boomerang.
And you know, so let's bring upthat dark cloud again.
All those negative thoughtsthat that we have about
ourselves that we seek to makeourselves feel better by
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dragging others down.
And social media is a great wayto drag others down, right?
Oh, look at that, oh, look atthat, oh, look at that.
Um, so you know, puffingourselves up, puffing up the the
the the false ego, the falseego, dragging each other,
dragging others down, not lovingthe others for simply being who
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they are, will darken yourcloud.
Kena Siu (34:17):
Yes.
And we come back again to theknow yourself because the more
we get to know ourselves byaccepting and understanding our
light and our shadow, the morewe're gonna be able to accept
others.
It has to come from within.
Again, it's the self, the selfis first, the self is first.
Jeanne Comeau (34:41):
So, so know yourself, know why you're
different than others.
You know, this is anotherinteresting thing.
When you know yourself, youknow you're different than
others, and that's cool.
That's really cool.
Why do you want to be likeeverybody else?
Again, social media.
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Why do you want to look likethese people, talk like these
people, dress like these people?
You want to be yourself.
You were, you know, theeverybody else is taken.
I forget who I think I forgetwho said that.
Everybody else is taken, justbe you, and and when you know
yourself and you accept yourselffor the DNA that you came in
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with and and what you're here todo in this lifetime, then the
ego takes a side step, you know,because it doesn't have to hold
up the false self anymore.
It's not about that.
Yeah, it's about living why youcame here, it's about living
your mission.
And mission doesn't need to begrand, but everybody came here
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for a purpose.
And you know, did you come hereto be a writer, a singer?
Did you come here to be thebest mom ever, the best aunt
ever, whatever it is, andthey're all wonderful things
because it's you, and that's whyyou came here.
Uh, so we are all to express inour unique ways, yeah.
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And it's it's like if you lookat the one and and you you take
a look at earth, take a look atall the souls that are on earth
incarnated today, and each oneis is is a pixel in the large
picture, a unique pixel.
And so when we're all ourauthentic self, then the earth
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lights up, it's enlightened.
Kena Siu (36:34):
Yeah, I want to come back to that purpose because I
do think that since we we arevery young, we are pushed to
know that purpose, and sometimesit's so frustrated.
I mean, it took me a while tothen become an entrepreneur and
knowing what I wanted to do, andthat has evolved anyway.
(36:57):
But I I felt at one point thatthere was like this pressure and
pressure, and now what I havecome kind of like to a
conclusion, still getting thatanswer between quotes, is the
fact that our purpose really isto live, to live this human
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experience, yes, and because Ihave talked to women, and
sometimes it's like, you know,and more if they are in in life
transitions, it's like I don'tknow who I am, I feel lost and
broken, and etc.
etc.
And it's like I don't know whatmy life purpose is.
Well, what about if at thisvery moment your life purpose is
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to I don't know, grieve yourmarriage, or your life purpose
at this moment is to take careof your children because they're
growing up and they need youthere.
We always think that as yousaid, it needs to be something
big, the purpose in life.
No, it's about living and whatare you choosing to live now in
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this present moment.
Jeanne Comeau (38:06):
And and you started off with uh saying the
woman says, I don't know who Iam.
That's the key right there.
Yes, know yourself.
The other, the other thing isthe purpose changes throughout
the lifetime.
True, it changes according tothe stage of life.
When when you're in your, youknow, uh at 29, 30, you go
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through your first Saturnreturn, you know, you're you're
you're you're leavingadolescence, you're going into
adulthood.
So it just as an example, butit it changes as you go through
life.
But what doesn't change is theenergy that you came in with by
way of skills and talents,they're there, they're there in
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your chart.
And you were created or youincarnated with particular
skills and talents that you aremeant to express in in the world
through yourself, creativity.
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Everybody is supposed to becreating, okay?
Creativity brings joy, it'slife.
Yes, it's life, you know.
When when we're in that darkcloud, who we no one can create,
right?
We we just tunnel dug ourselvesand we got to get out of there.
I am loved, I am loved, I amloved to get yourself out of the
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hole.
And so the purpose of life,what is the purpose of life?
Absolutely, Kenna, it is tolive your life, to create, to
bring joy, to use the skills andtalents that you came in with
to express and love humanitywith.
(39:58):
Right?
So see, we're all here to bepart of the whole, not as
individual false egos, but we'reall here to be part of the
whole and yeah.
Kena Siu (40:15):
I love this so much.
Yes, I would like to know likewe can which kind of
metaphysical practices can youoffer to, in this case, midlife
women who are in transitions toget to know themselves better,
to get into alignment with theirsoul's blueprint.
Jeanne Comeau (40:38):
Meditate.
Meditate.
And and so it's it's and whatdoes meditate mean?
It can be it means manydifferent things to many
different people.
You can go so far as to havethe candle, have the incense,
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have the chimes, you you know,you have all the paraphernalia.
That's wonderful, if that's howyou like to meditate.
It can be as simple as I'msitting at a dining room chair,
back straight, feet on thefloor, closing your eyes, and uh
making the room as quiet as youcan, starting for five minutes
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a day.
The key is consistency.
So the the what I would firstrecommend is be still, go
within.
Remember, everything is within.
Feel it.
See, we we don't like tomeditate because we then start
to feel.
But if we're unable to feel whowe really are, how can we
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connect with who we really are?
We have to feel it.
You know, in the up in up untilmidlife, life keeps us busy.
So we don't have to feel.
We're on the treadmill.
You know, we go, we come up, weget we get through the family
experience, God bless us, andthen we get through the whole
socialization, and we're lookingto mate, and we're looking to
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have families and go to school,and then it's the job, and you
know, and then finally all ofthis is done, and you get to
midlife, and none of it, none ofthat holds any more value.
You're going through atransition, you're going home.
And so, how do you how do youget home?
You go within and you meditate.
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So I recommend startingmeditating.
And you know, one thing thatworks works great is you can get
it out on YouTube, TibetanSinging Bulls.
Just Tibetan Singing Bulls, andit's a 10-minute YouTube video.
So when it stops, you're done.
But just keep your eyes closed.
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And yes, you're gonna thinkabout everything, every and the
negative thoughts are gonnacome.
So, what I would recommend thenthat you add is a mantra.
I am loved, I am loved, I amloved until you feel loved by
source, because that's the onlylove that matters, that's the
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only love that's true.
There's no you humans will tellyou they love you.
Well, we've all experiencedthat, okay?
Some of it holds and most of itdoesn't.
And so, because people arepeople and they're going along
their way, and we forgive themfor that, and so meditate.
That's that's what I reallyrecommend is start there, bring
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in an affirmation.
Okay, I am loved, I am loved.
Another great affirmation thatI love that I'd love to share
with your audience is I lookwith wonder at that which lies
before me.
That's a hopeful one.
So write that down.
I look with wonder at thatwhich lies before me.
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This is metaphysical prayer,it's it's an affirmation, and
it's hard to say it when you'recrying, but then if you keep
doing it, you might startlaughing.
Okay, okay.
So we have we have to we haveto drag ourselves through it.
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No one can do it for us.
Kena Siu (44:22):
Definitely, yeah.
Jeanne Comeau (44:24):
And some days are easier than others, and why?
Well, there are energeticinfluences that that are
influencing you, and there'senvironmental influences, and so
we talk energetically.
I'll come back to astrology.
You were born with a birthchart and your soul's blueprint.
There are positions of planetsin different realms of your
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human experience.
We call them houses, and thoseplanets have what we call
aspects in astrology, butthey're geometric connections,
and so they're energeticconnections.
And so some planets help eachother and some planets oppose
each other and create frictionin the life, and that's part of
the life blueprint story.
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So if you understand yourchart, if you know yourself
through evolutionary astrology,and I'm one and there are others
out there, evolutionaryastrology is the type of
astrology to go into.
It is soul blueprint astrology.
If you understand yourself thatway, you're under able to
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understand what your triggersare.
What's triggering you?
Okay.
Why do I find myself in thatposition again?
What triggers you?
Now then, when you're able toabsorb your soul's blueprint and
those energies that are playingout in your life, I guarantee
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it.
I this is real stuff.
They're playing out, it'shappening whether you know about
it or not.
Some years you can look back onyour life, some years were
great, some not so great.
Well, things were happening.
You were going through keypoints in your evolutionary soul
blueprint.
What then happens, Kenna, isthe sky is changing all the
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time.
And so there are furtherinfluences to your birth chart
that comes from the changingsky.
And it is uncanny when I when Iread people's astrology, excuse
me for the allergies, when Iread people's astrology, it is
uncanny how at the differentphases of life, different
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planetary configurations comealong and say, it's time to do
that soul lesson.
It's time to do that soullesson.
So let's talk about knowingbetter and doing better.
When you know that you're in aphase of life, and sometimes
they can be two, three yearslong.
Okay, you're in a phase of lifewhere you're in a soul lesson
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phase of life.
When you understand that, youremotions are easier to deal
with.
I don't say they go away, butyou understand what's triggering
them.
And you can almost even laugh.
You can say, Oh, that's thatthat's that thing happening
there.
And you know, the astrologertold me this is all lifting by
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January 2026.
Thank God.
Right?
And it will, and it will.
Okay.
So hopefully that answered.
I got carried away.
Kena Siu (47:38):
I got carried.
I guess I'm gonna have to havea reading with you because I
have something that I've beenworking for a few years.
It's it would be nice to have adate, I guess.
Jeanne Comeau (47:49):
You know, one one of the more interesting points
is what is called the progressedmoon.
So you're born with the moon ina particular position, and the
moon uh there is in astrologywhat's called progressions, and
there's a mathematicalcalculation about it.
Who cares about that?
But every two and a half yearsyou enter into a different
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emotional phase of life.
Oh, it's a different emotionalphase of life, and it's what it
means for an individual is alldictated by where that
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progressed moon lands in theirchart, what astrological sign
it's landing in, and what birthchart planets it is uh
connecting to.
And so we go through every twoand a half years, and and in
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fact, it takes the progress moon27 and a half years to come
through every house and everysign.
20.
So we go it goes around thecircle every 27 and a half
years, and at any point in time,you can look back to 27 and a
half years ago in your life andget a sense of your emotional
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self.
Okay, and it's reallyinteresting to do that.
You know, COVID, COVID broughtus all many gifts, right?
Many gifts.
That's how I look at COVID.
Yeah, me too.
Me, yeah.
I I I landed in themetaphysical school and I really
studied my stars.
Know your stars, you know,which is which is my trademark
(49:35):
for for know you know your knowthyself through evolutionary
astrology.
But I really studied it, and itwas amazing to me what the the
patterns, the patterns, thepatterns.
And so I love working with witheverybody actually.
But it's never too late.
Well, it's never too late to bewhat you might have always been
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or should have been.
Oh, never, or was created tobe.
Yeah, what were you created tobe?
Okay, we can add the do andhave because we were all created
to have uh joy and abundance,and abundance just doesn't mean
a big bank account, right?
Kena Siu (50:14):
So cannot so much juiciness in here.
I'm just thinking, what can wego now?
Jeanne Comeau (50:32):
Yes, well, we're our our audience is primarily
women, yes?
Yes, okay.
So you and I on the warm-up, wewere gonna have a little bit of
a chat about the physics, thethe physical of midlife.
Yes, hormones, yes, yeah.
Oh yes, yes, yes.
We mentioned something.
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Yes, let's talk about estrogen.
Let's talk about testosterone,let's talk about progesterone,
and and you know, there'sthyroid and there's all sorts of
hormones.
So a passion of mine, and Ithink one of your follow-on
questions was what is it do Ilike to do?
You know, some people like togo for a walk in the garden.
Well, I I love to research allthings health.
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So menopause comes upon us inin our early 50s on average, but
perimenopause can start up to10 years ahead of that.
And to understand how difficultthe transition can be.
(51:40):
Oh, I uh another funny oneabout my mother.
I remember visiting her beforeI uh, you know, I was in my 30s
and maybe 40s, that was it hadto be the 40s.
She says, Oh, you're gonna begoing through the change soon.
I said, The change?
I'm looking at my clothes, thechange.
I had no idea what she'stalking about, the change.
Yes.
And I she offered some wisdomwords, I'm sure, which
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unfortunately I don't remember,but I did go through it.
And if if a woman physically iswell endowed, you know,
voluptuous woman, she's had alot of estrogen raging through
her body through her entirelife.
It is hard for estrogen-richwomen to go through menopause.
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Why?
Because the estrogen that yourbody thrived on, and it had a
lot of it, is leaving.
It's leaving, it's it's doneits purpose, it's gonna go away,
and it's more difficult.
If a woman less voluptuous,okay, she she had more, we could
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say more testosterone.
And by the way, women havetestosterone just like men do.
It's very important for womentestosterone.
It's what keeps us from fallingwhen we're 90, right?
So it's very important hormone.
So in perimenopause, the thesehormones start to go crazy.
And we can experience nightsweats, waking up soaking wet,
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we're not sleeping, we'relaughing and we're crying at the
same time.
We're crying, we don't know whywe're crying.
It's it's a range of emotions.
I was looking at the clock andI've lost track of time.
But, anyways, I was goingthrough it and I came across a
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book by Suzanne Summers, who hasnow passed, and yes, she did
pass away of cancer, but I don'twant that to deter people from
what I'm about to share.
At any rate, her book calledThe Sexy Years changed my life.
I remember I read it in oneweekend and I cried the whole
weekend because everything thatshe said, I was going through.
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And there was a time in ourcountry's history, in the
history of the world, where wewhere men, men could legally
submit their wives to insaneasylums when they went through
menopause.
Kena Siu (54:03):
My God.
Jeanne Comeau (54:04):
Legally, legally, just check them in.
And they did that.
And a lot of women felt likethey were going insane.
It's a very difficultexperience for a lot of women.
For for me, what finally got megoing was I found bioidentical
hormone therapy.
So it's not for everybody.
Everybody do their homework.
(54:24):
There's been controversy on itabout does it cause breast
cancer, does it not breast causebreast cancer?
So I'm not telling anybody whatto do except for to do your
homework and research theEuropean nations, not just the
United States, which, by theway, the FDA is now coming out
saying that bioidentical, notsynthetic, bioidentical hormone
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therapy is beneficial to womenin their aging years.
And the key is to come intothem within 10 years of exit of
menopause, all right, for thebest long-lasting effects.
So yeah, I say to women, ifyou've never heard of it or
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you're afraid of it, just doyour own homework and make your
own decisions.
Can you share?
Sorry, can you share a bitabout what this can't therapy
does?
Um sure.
So bio bioidential issynthesized naturally, so it's
not chemical.
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Okay.
So it's as close to what yourbody would create if your body
were creating it.
And it there are doctors allover now that are doing this.
Bioidentical.
There are traditional doctorsthat are going to be starting to
prescribe it and areprescribing it too, but they're
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prescribing the synthetic formof it.
That's not what you want.
You don't want what theinsurance companies are going to
pay for.
Okay.
And it's not too expensiveconsidering what you're going to
get, which is your life back.
Your life back.
You can't think uh the story islong.
(56:12):
So you you work with abioidentical therapy doctor.
They they either through asaliva test or a blood test,
they extract stuff from you, andthey're able to tell you what
they're going to start you on.
I mean, essentially, they'regoing to give you estrogen and
they're going to give youtestosterone, and they're going
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to give you progesterone,they're going to give you all
three, and they're going to giveit in enough dose, just enough
dose, to relieve the symptoms toget your life back on track.
So the woman who said to you,the women who say, I don't know
who I am anymore.
(56:54):
Well, no, because you can'tthink straight.
You can't think straight.
And you've lost all sense.
You know, another thing thathappens when these hormones
start to leave us, we start tofeel old.
You know, it it all happens.
And I'm not just talking abouthow you look, but you feel it.
There's a real depression thatsets in.
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And by the way, when thehusbands could no longer lock
the women up, and you know, thewomen's revolution came along in
the 60s and the 70s, birthcontrol came about.
And what was birth control?
Birth control started givingwomen synthetic hormones, you
know.
So birth control, synthetichormones, you know, that's
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that's questionable, right?
But then again, working withthe hormones and big pharma
making money, they came up withsupplementation for women in
menopause.
And so there were thesedifferent types of
prescriptions.
I can't recall their names now.
And women were starting tothrive.
(58:00):
You know, that this was reallyhelping the women in the in the
60s and the 70s, you know, thein the 80s.
They were thriving.
And then along in 2002, I'llnever forget that year, came
something called the Women'sHealth Initiative.
This study, which is now, andeven the FDA put out a report on
this, had false evidence.
I mean, it was a bad, it was abad study all around, all around
(58:24):
bad study.
But what it did was that it putthe fear into big pharma, who
stopped prescribing it, who tookthe women off of it.
Why?
Yes, cancers were coming andheart disease was coming.
Was it the synthetic hormones?
Uh, likely, yes.
It was the synthetic, is it thebioidentical?
No.
So I got off on a tangent alittle bit because I'm very
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passionate about it because itdrives me crazy that women have
to suffer this way.
And by the way, Alzheimer's,all right, losing your mind.
Heart disease is very prevalentwith women.
And so bioidentical hormonetherapy.
How do you take it then?
Okay, so you go to the doctor,he does all of this.
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There are many ways that theycan prescribe it.
They can put it in a cream thatyou rub in your skin once,
twice a day.
They can put it in a sublingualtablet that you put under your
tongue.
Some doctors put pellets in inyour in your back butt, you
know, and they dissolve slowly.
There are many ways for this.
Oh, okay.
(59:28):
For this to come into yourbody.
I I will tell you that now withthe FDA on board and whatever's
happening in Washington, Idon't, I don't go there, you're
going to see more and more ofit.
And so keep your ears open forit.
You know, look look for adoctor.
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If you're really, reallysuffering, you don't have to, is
my message.
Your your regular doctor, ifyou go to talk to your regular
doctor about how you're feeling.
I'm depressed.
I mean, a lot of a lot ofmenopausal women are depressed a
lot.
Well, you're losing yourhormones.
Okay.
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Even even Suzanne Summers wroteabout that.
I I was even, I was somedoctor, I'll never forget her.
She wanted to give me Prozac.
I said, I'm not taking Prozac.
Oh my God.
You know, because I couldn'tthink.
I I just couldn't get my mojogoing, right?
Something was wrong.
And but a regular doctor isless and less now, but you know,
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certainly in the last 10, 15,20 years, the regular doctors,
controlled by the results ofthat 2002 women's initiative
poor study would not haveprescribed bio hormone therapy,
be it synthetic or bioidentical.
They they would not haveprescribed it.
(01:00:56):
But the bioidentical peoplewere always coming up and had a
different story.
And so they they were alwaysthere.
And but the regular doctor thatyou're going to, just your
regular doctor, is gonna want togive you an antidepressant.
Kena Siu (01:01:13):
Okay.
Well it's good to know that I Ilove that you are sharing this
because yeah, I remember when Iwent to I went to my family
doctor this year, and I uh I hadto ask her to get you know test
about my hormones.
I mean, I'm I'm 47.
I needed to ask her.
Yes, like you suppose and andit's it's a she, so I'm like,
(01:01:38):
it's why they don't considerthis stuff part of you know a
regular testing, it's it's soimportant.
Jeanne Comeau (01:01:46):
They don't.
And so about the she, well,there's two points.
There's a great book calledEstrogen Matters.
Estrogen matters for you andyour audience.
That's a great read.
And the another thing is thereis an organization called the
Menopause Society.
You should probably be checkinginto that given given you know,
(01:02:08):
midlife butterfly.
But the menopause society, andthis is comprised of a lot of
doctors at the helm now, andthey're they're doing a lot of
talks about hormone bioidenticalhormone therapy.
So they're getting at the leadof it.
They're getting at the lead ofit, and not to get too too crazy
(01:02:30):
juicy about it, I guess, butI'll I'll share one thing.
Another thing that happens towomen is we dry up, you know,
it's like the Sahara.
You know, when you got ahusband and he doesn't
understand the dry up Sahara, ifyou know what I mean, right?
Kena Siu (01:02:44):
Yeah.
Jeanne Comeau (01:02:46):
And so, you know, you go to the jelly aisle at
CVS, and you know, you're tryingto make your husband happy.
These all doctors now, alldoctors now are totally open to
prescribing vaginal creams.
And what's the vaginal cream?
Estrogen.
(01:03:06):
They have proven that it neverleaves that area and it doesn't
cause cancer.
So for women that you know,you're you're in a mater
relationship and you you want tohave intimacy, but it's
difficult.
Talk to your doctor about thesethese vaginal creams.
(01:03:29):
And they, you know, big farmersells them, insurance covers
them, and they they don't causecancer, and they make a big
difference in that area.
So all of this is is gonna comeout more and more.
Kena Siu (01:03:43):
Yeah, yeah, I know there's been more research about
that, and yeah, it's coming outmore and then women also are
going like, hey, hello, we are alot of us.
I mean, there's a we are havingthe privilege of aging, so I
mean, right?
Jeanne Comeau (01:04:00):
Yes, it's and and you know, and as far as the
aging goes, I mean, what happensa lot with the women is our
bone density.
This, this is a real problem,our bone density.
And so the estrogen certainlyhelps with that, but the
testosterone, and any, any, anydoctor, you know, is going to
give you enough to to helpmaintain your bone strength
(01:04:24):
because that leaves our bodytoo.
And so, why why do we get hipfractures?
And, you know, first of all, weteeter and fall because we're
all we're off balance, becausewe we don't have the hormones to
keep us balanced.
I should have been a doctor, Ishould have been a doctor of
that.
Well, you can add it to theirlist still, I guess.
(01:04:46):
Yeah.
Wow, no, this is delightful,but I think we went over time,
and but that's okay with me.
Kena Siu (01:04:54):
It's fine.
Yeah, I'm so glad that youshared about this because it's
as and what you said, it's aboutdoing our own doing homework.
Yes, our own homework and tosee what can work for us because
each of us we are different anddifferent things work for
different women, and it'simportant for us to dig in and
(01:05:14):
what kind of called us more, butbe well informed.
Jeanne Comeau (01:05:19):
Be well informed, be your own doctor because
otherwise you don't have adoctor.
I want to make that very clear.
It's like go within, knowyourself, be your own doctor.
Only you can heal yourself, youand and and and universal
spirit.
Kena Siu (01:05:36):
Yeah, I agree, because we are the only ones who knows
our body.
So it's important to see ifwe're trying different things to
see, okay, this is working,this is not working, this feels
this way, this feels that way,and then from there really
decide what we want to preserveour own health.
(01:05:56):
Because, yeah, agreed.
We are our own doctors.
Jeanne Comeau (01:06:00):
We are our own doctors, and there are solutions
out there.
We we don't have to go down, wedon't have to age out.
Kena Siu (01:06:08):
Oh no, very no.
Jeanne Comeau (01:06:11):
Oh, there's so much to enjoy.
There's too much.
There's too much.
We just we just, you know, Iwell, we were talking too that
the great, there are many greatthings about midlife, but one of
the great things is, you know,when when you no longer get your
cycle, when the monthly thingstarts happening, stops
happening.
What freedom?
(01:06:31):
It's freedom from the emotionalroller coaster.
And it's like it's like uh, youknow, when you you you take an
airplane ride and finally yourears pop.
Yes, it's like that in life.
Wow, oh the cloud, the cloud islifted.
(01:06:52):
Wow, I am a strong, dynamicbeing.
Love that.
It's true.
Wow.
That's true.
Kena Siu (01:07:03):
Oh, Jean has been such a pleasure talking to you.
I love your energy, your light,your wisdom.
Can you share with our audiencewhere they can find you?
Jeanne Comeau (01:07:14):
Yes, please.
Thank you.com.
And that that's the best way tofind me.
I'm out on YouTube too, butgeniecomo.com.
If anyone is interested indiscovering what's possible, no
commitment of anything, sign upfor a discovery call,
(01:07:37):
complimentary discovery call.
I love meeting people, I lovetalking to people.
Anyone want to talk abouthormones?
I'm always happy to talk abouthormones.
Anything you want to talkabout, send me any questions on
the contact me form.
And if you're interested inknowing your soul's blueprint,
please check out my Know YourStars page on my website,
(01:07:58):
geniecamo.com.
Kena Siu (01:08:01):
Thank you, Jeannie.
I'll be sharing the link in theshow notes.
And before we go, I would liketo know how would you call these
midlife chapters that you arein at this moment.
Jeanne Comeau (01:08:13):
The midlife chapter that I'm in at this
moment.
Well, I'm beyond midlife, whichis interesting, just a little
bit.
And oh, it's a great question.
I mean, I I hesitate because Ijust find that who I was is so
(01:08:41):
distant.
It's the only way I can say it.
It's so distant.
And who I am now and who I ambecoming is very different, and
I could have never seen thatcoming.
Never.
Kena Siu (01:09:02):
Thank you for sharing that because that's so
wonderful.
It's there is some women I'veheard conversations that they
feel stuck, that they are aging,that they are at the end of
life when I do believe that thisis the best chapter of life,
itself midlife, which is severalyears, and just you know, and
(01:09:26):
yeah, it's that keeping thatexplorations, exploration about
again, know that itself.
So I think that's the the themode of the engine that keeps us
going and exploring and knowingand enjoying and having that
curiosity for life again andagain.
Jeanne Comeau (01:09:48):
Yes, and but I but I must add, because I had
been through it in theperimenopause stage, for many
women find themselves, they justcan't get the mojo, you know,
they they just can't snap out ofit.
So there's a physical thinghappening here.
Find the courage to get theanswers and start to resolve
(01:10:13):
that.
The answers, and I will say itagain, are not in the
antidepressants.
Right.
And I'm sorry, I probably manyhave many have benefited from
them.
It's just my personal opinionthat it won't keep the light
shining in the long run.
Kena Siu (01:10:30):
Yeah.
And what's the pleasure do youenjoy the most?
Researching.
Jeanne Comeau (01:10:39):
You know, I I I have a lot of Virgo in my
charts.
So, you know, I I I love I loveto research things and a lot of
health things and a lot of uhspiritual things, and just
research is is my biggestpleasure, and I delight in every
new day.
I love getting up early for thenew day.
(01:11:00):
So that's very important.
Kena Siu (01:11:05):
Well, Jeannie, thank you so much for being here.
It has been really, really aprecious talking to you.
Jeanne Comeau (01:11:11):
Same here, same here.
Thank you to all your guestsfor listening into us, and God
bless.
I I wish for all the light thatyou feel in your heart that it
comes through you to thosearound you because that's what
(01:11:32):
it's meant to do.
Kena Siu (01:11:33):
Yes.
Jeanne Comeau (01:11:35):
Thank you.
Kena Siu (01:11:39):
Thank you for tuning in to Midlife Butterfly.
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Until next time, keep spreadingthose wings and live, enjoy,
(01:12:01):
growth, and pleasure.
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