This week, Melanie and Allison dive into the common phrases we say to our children that might be more problematic than we realize. They share personal anecdotes and discuss the impact of these phrases on their kids. From exploring different parenting styles to reflecting on their own experiences, they offer insights and tips on how to communicate more effectively with our little ones. Tune in for an engaging and heartfelt conversation that every parent can relate to!
Information provided in this episode is credited to parents.com, specifically "These Common Phrases Said to Kids Are Actually Problematic," published 8/27/2024. Written by Michelle Crouch and reviewed by Laura Anderson, PhD.
Sources:
When Parents' Praise Inflates, Children's Self-Esteem Deflates. Child Dev. 2017.
The Truth About Child Abduction Statistics in 2024. Safeatlast. 2024.
Timestamps:
00:00 Intro and Chit Chat
03:41 Parent Categories
06:11 What Type of Parent are You?
09:23 "Great Job"
13:34 "Practice Makes Perfect"
15:49 "You're OK"
19:38 "I'm on a Diet"
23:45 "We Can't Afford That"
28:30 "Don't Talk to Strangers"
32:57 "Be Careful!"
35:57 "No Dessert Unless You Finish Dinner"
41:40 "Let Me Help"
44:20 Benefits of Showing Off Your Kids' Artwork
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