Episode 15: Hemorrhoids, Nose hairs and Bad Breath

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Vanessa and Kayla dive into the complexities of breakups, cancel culture, and AI's impact on their careers while celebrating personal milestones.

• Kayla opens up about her post-breakup journey and rediscovering herself after a year and a half relationship
• Discussion about how AI is replacing models in the industry, with Vanessa sharing her experience being replaced by an AI blonde model
• Exploration of Sydney Sweeney's American Eagle "My genes are blue" controversy and whether it deserved the backlash
• Critical conversation about cancel culture and how it prevents meaningful dialogue between people with different perspectives
• Celebration of Kayla's 25th anniversary of becoming a foster child and how it changed her life trajectory
• Movie recommendations including the new Dave Franco/Allison Brie horror-comedy and Nobody 2
• Honest discussion about long-distance relationships and the importance of communication
• The Honey Jar question: "Name something that should be embarrassing, but absolutely isn't for you"

Next week: Vanessa and Kayla will share stories and photos from their school days, comparing experiences growing up in Catholic and Southern Baptist Christian schools.

Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
We could be the first OnlyFans models on the moon the
moon done and done.

Speaker 2 (00:04):
We're manifesting that Boy.
I'll take you outside of thisgalaxy.

Speaker 1 (00:08):
I'm screaming.
I'll be your only star.

Speaker 2 (00:16):
Hello everyone, welcome back to Milk and Honeys.
I am your host, vanessa Curry,alongside the beautiful, and I
just have to say it yeah, kayla.

Speaker 1 (00:24):
Becker, this is only episode 15,.
Am your host, vanessa Curry,alongside the beautiful, and I
just have to say it?
Yeah, kayla Becker, this isonly episode 15, and we're
figuring out how to introduceourselves.
But, yes, it is us.
We are here, episode 15, thoughisn't it crazy?
Crazy, that is crazy, but I'mso proud of us.
I am too Again.
This all started from onedrunken night in Vanessa's
kitchen, drinking two bottles ofChardonnay, and we're like we

(00:47):
have the gift of gab.

Speaker 2 (00:48):
We should share this with the world.
Yep, it's funny.
People ask me sometimes whatmade you want to start a podcast
with your friend.
Is it because you like to talka lot and I'm like, wow, is that
a job or is that a compliment?

Speaker 1 (01:00):
They're probably so grateful, it's like oh, you're
my friend who talks all the time.
I'm so glad you get that energyout to somebody else.

Speaker 2 (01:06):
It's not me Yep, yep.
And here she is.

Speaker 1 (01:08):
My parents would have been so thankful if I had a
podcast growing up, becausethey'd be like oh my gosh, you
shut up at dinner.

Speaker 2 (01:18):
She has nothing else to talk about.

Speaker 1 (01:18):
Yeah, yeah, no I get that.

Speaker 2 (01:19):
But yes, it is because I like to talk a lot and
we have a lot to say.
We do Get over it.

Speaker 1 (01:23):
But, yes, lots to say , as always, including today.
So we have some updates on somepeople's breakups big cookies,
the latest Jordan Peele mindtrip Plus.
We're also diving into what wethink about cancel culture,
movie recommendations and, ofcourse, like every episode,
we're going to wrap it up withthe honey jar.

Speaker 2 (01:42):
So we've got a fun little, fun little day.
Yes, let's, let's get into yourrecent breakup.
How's, how's it going?
How's the fallout been?
How's it been emotionally it's?
How long has it been now?

Speaker 1 (01:53):
it's been about a month now, I think since the
breakup happened, um, it's beengood, you know it's.
It's still one of those.
I think it's the first likereal breakup breakup I've
experienced to where, where,when people say, those highs and
lows will hit you out ofnowhere.
Oh yeah, because I've talkedabout before I've been.
Notoriously I try to staysingle.
It's just a thing that I reallylove doing.

(02:14):
It's my favorite hobby.
But then I got into thisrelationship and it was a great
relationship.
For the most part it lasted ayear and a half.
We were living together, wewere sharing a dog.
So I think the harder like Ihave a hard time with, like it's
funny, it's like this twofoldthing with me where I'm really
good at cutting people off butat the same time, goodbyes are
really hard for me.

(02:34):
Yes, so I think I stillstruggle with, you know, in the
middle of the day, seeingsomething that reminds me of he
and the dog, and then I getreally sad.
But I'm like finding myselfagain, you know, realizing what
I'm passionate about findingKayla.
You came to my place recentlyand you're like, oh my god, this
is your apartment again.

Speaker 2 (02:50):
Yes, it just felt I mean, obviously, when there's
only one person living in aplace, it's gonna feel more, a
little more empty, I'm sure, butit just felt more aligned to
who you were.
I was like, oh, because I don'tthink I'd ever actually been to
your place single.
No, yeah, you, we always cameto like my house.
Yeah, um, but yeah, so it's,it's nice to kind of like we've.

Speaker 1 (03:13):
I've been in her space like three times more than
pretty much anybody else has Inever really had people over
when I was dating him justbecause we had different like
lifestyles or whatever, and, um,we had a couple of joint
parties together, but together.
But for the most part I didn'treally have people over and I
live in a beautiful apartment inWest Hollywood that I worked so
hard to get when I moved outhere three years ago.
So it makes me really sad thatI haven't hosted more gatherings

(03:34):
there and I'm going to start.
I'm going to start having gamenights with my friends watching
sports, although I don't reallywatch sports but my friends do.

Speaker 2 (03:45):
Yeah, come watch the big game at my house.

Speaker 1 (03:46):
We know how to cheer on appetizers and the brewskis,
and it'll be a grand old timemeanwhile me and Vanessa will be
in the back taking selfies andnot really paying attention to
what's going on.

Speaker 2 (03:53):
We're gonna just be taking um content.
We'll just be making contentwhile you're watching the super
bowl.

Speaker 1 (04:00):
so yeah, so it's been nice kind of having my space
back, but I think some of thesadder parts of it are like I
used to cook for both of us andnow I'm cooking for myself, so
that I'm doing a lot more Uber.

Speaker 2 (04:13):
Eats and.

Speaker 1 (04:13):
DoorDash than I should, which by the way is so
expensive.
I wanted chocolate cake.
Let me tell you, I wantedchocolate cake the other day so
bad and I ordered on Uber Eatsfrom Bossa Nova, the Brazilian
place, and I forgot to add icecream to it.
And so I messaged the Uber Eatsperson.
I'm like hey, can you pleaseadd on the ice cream?

(04:33):
He said we can't do it on ourend.
So then I called Bossa Nova.
They had me on hold, talked totwo different people and they
couldn't add it either, and theysaid listen, we're going to
send you some free ice cream.

Speaker 2 (04:42):
That's so nice, that never happens.

Speaker 1 (04:45):
It was so nice, but that's where I am in my breakup
where I'm just orderingoverpriced chocolate cake and
then talking to the hostesses atthe restaurants trying to get
ice cream.
Yes, that's okay, so thebreakup is going really well.

Speaker 2 (04:55):
That's okay.
That actually means that it isgoing well, so that's good, good
.
But you also have been a littlesick lately.

Speaker 1 (05:04):
I've had a little cold.
I think it's been going around.
But how are you like whenyou're sick?
Because I know I think I couldbe one of the most insufferable
humans on the planet, even withthe tiniest cold.

Speaker 2 (05:16):
See, I feel like I've had really bad sicknesses.
Like you know, I had COVID,probably three times that I know
of.
I just had the flu during NewYear's, which was horrible.
So when I do get sick and Istruggle with from migraines
every time around my moon cycle,aka my period, if that's not

(05:37):
what you call it.

Speaker 1 (05:38):
I feel glad you're finally saying it.
You always say moon cycle and Ifeel like trash.
I'm like when I'm on my period,when I'm on my rag, when I'm on
my rag when Aunt Flo comes tovisit, on the rag yeah.

Speaker 2 (05:47):
I just feel like my moon cycle just sounds.
I still want to give it love insome ways.

Speaker 1 (05:53):
And that's where I go with it.
No loving for me?

Speaker 2 (05:55):
No, but yeah, when I'm out I'm out, yeah, like I am
out, especially when I havethose migraines, especially
during that time of the month.
I close everything.
I have migraine medication,actual pills that I can just pop
in and I'll chug some water andgo to sleep and usually it does
help.
But it is weird because evenwhen I take a migraine pill, you

(06:17):
can feel it happening, you canfeel it tensing up in certain
areas where you're probablyholding tension, and then your
body just feels interesting.
So feel the medicine working,which is kind of weird, yeah,
but you get used to it and,honestly, I'd rather feel it
working because I know, oh, it'sgonna happen it's gonna get rid
of it.
You like the medicine, like,yeah it's, it's better than the
alternative but like usually, mysickness is if I have like a

(06:39):
cold, it lasts 24, 48 hours andthat's how mine's been like.

Speaker 1 (06:44):
I think I started feeling it like on winds or
sorry, on sunday and then wasn'tfeeling great tuesday.
Yesterday I felt my worst andtoday I'm like, oh, I'm, I feel
better now.
Right, but I took mucinex, notthe pill, because also I can't
take pills okay since I was akid, I can't take pills.
I have to hype myself up for it,like when I was little.

(07:04):
My parents got so angry with mebecause I'd have to sit at the
counter to take my medicine andit would be an hour before I
could actually swallow it.
So we start like breaking upcapsules and teaching a young
kid bad skills, but I knew howto smash up.

Speaker 2 (07:17):
How to chop up those pills, man Chop them up.

Speaker 1 (07:21):
But yeah, I always hated it.
So last night I took a thing ofMucinex and I'm like how is it
2025?
And how does medicine stilltaste this bad?
Like I would rather just sufferthrough being sick than have to
taste that shit again.
It was so bad, that's how.

Speaker 2 (07:37):
I feel about NyQuil and it just makes you super high
.

Speaker 1 (07:39):
I didn't hate that part.

Speaker 2 (07:41):
See, really.

Speaker 1 (07:42):
I thought I just all of a sudden I was like walking
to the fridge, I was like, butmaybe I also was a little stoned
too.
So I think, mixing that withbeing Mucinex?

Speaker 2 (07:49):
Well, also didn't you say that you realized, oh, not
Mucinex, but Midol.
Midol has, I don't know.

Speaker 1 (07:55):
It makes you sleepy.
Yeah, no-transcript pop a mitol, which I never take.
I normally take ibuprofen.
Took the mitol.

(08:15):
I'm like why am I so sleepy allof a sudden?
And I couldn't figure it out.
I thought maybe it was justlike my body, um, and then I did
research and yeah, there's akey ingredient in that people
will take as a sleep aid.
My what?

Speaker 2 (08:27):
the hell, what the hell I never knew what the hell?

Speaker 1 (08:33):
so no, no, no, no, no , no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no
, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no
, no, no no yeah, no, I don'tnormally take my doll.

Speaker 2 (08:39):
I usually take ibuprofen.
Yeah, for almost everything, ortylenol, which is I mean,
aren't they kind of, are theythe same, the same?

Speaker 1 (08:46):
I get them on advil tylenol yeah advil, tylenol and
ibuprofen.
They kill pain yeah, that's allI know, that's all I want I
know it works.

Speaker 2 (08:52):
Give me two, three, four pills 600 milligram good to
go good to go.

Speaker 1 (08:57):
Our liver is dead, but there's worse things we
consume that are killing exactlythe ibuprofen, exactly for sure
uh, anyway, on that note yes, Iknow you've been busy.
We talked about that.
We're thankful that we aregetting a little busier, um, but
man, it's been rough, I think,for both of us living in
hollywood trying to find work inour industry, you being a model

(09:19):
and an actress performer, mebeing a broadcaster.
How's it been?
It's it's I've been havingconversations with people in the
business.
How's it been?
It's it's?
I've been having conversationswith people in the business and
they're like it's just deadeverywhere, right it?

Speaker 2 (09:30):
it is.
I mean, I've been gettingauditions, which I'm so grateful
for.
I've been getting in-personcastings for modeling jobs
lately, so I have hope thatthings are turning around a
little bit, but I, I don't wantto wait anymore.
Yeah, I want to make, startmaking my own projects.

(09:53):
I want, I know that we know howto write like I, you know,
let's write our own stuff.
And so I've just been reallybrainstorming with people who
are super creative because,hello, most of our friends are
in the creative field, move tothe city exactly overpriced, yes
, toxic cities, because we allhave.

Speaker 1 (10:13):
Now I have a question for you, though I was talking
to another model and you'vetalked to me about this too,
about how ai is replacing a lotof models like, like how has
that?
Been.
Is that like a terrifyingrealization to you?
Yeah, absolutely.

Speaker 2 (10:27):
How does that work?
I so I've done.
I won't name the brand that itwas for, but I did an AI model
situation for a company and it'sinsane.
There's obviously no hair andmakeup.
You just come in, you still tryon all the clothes, but I do
feel like eventually that'sgoing to change.

(10:48):
They're not even going to needyou for that, but you try on the
clothes, you do a normal e-comday and then when the photos get
put onto the site, it's not you, it's a completely different
person, that's so weird, I was ablonde, blonde, blue-eyed you
in a different dimension, girl Imean I'm kind of into that.

Speaker 1 (11:10):
I mean I'm not all.

Speaker 2 (11:10):
They'd be like oh, I was like yeah, now, now I'm a
gemini, not only do you get twoof me, but you get like
literally another version of me,um, I mean she's, she's pretty,
like she's gorge, but I mean,obviously she's not me and um,
obviously, the the rate is alittle bit less than a normal
e-com day, but at the end of theday, I mean, of course I'm
going to take it.

(11:31):
It's money, I got to make moneyand if this is another outlet
to do that, I'm going to use it,of course.
So I do think it's very scaryand you know, I've seen, you
know, mango just had a campaignthat was fully AI.
Vogue just released their firstAI campaign in their magazine,

(11:54):
which is interesting, and I knowa lot of people were kind of
upset because, you know, vogueis such a prestigious brand that
I think people thought theywould protect them, yeah, and
not do that.
But I'm not gonna lie when Isaw the ad it's gorge I mean,
why do you think these brands?

Speaker 1 (12:08):
I mean, you think it's just a money thing, that
reason like sure because alsoyeah, it is completely just
erasing like all like dignityand work and like what we've all
been working our entire livesto be like even on tiktok.
I'll see news reports and watcha news anchor and then I'll see
, oh, this is an ai newsreporter.
I'm like, and you don't evenknow, like how, it's so good,
but like what?
I'm like why we should havebeen a fucking doctor.

(12:29):
But no, not even that.
So I'm sure they're gonna havefucking robots, they're gonna
have doctors.
So is our whole like okay?

Speaker 2 (12:35):
can the?
Mothership, just land and justtake us all out at this point,
because or just like, show ushow to like, show us how to do
this, like the mothers you know,because you know that they're
the ones that are controlling itor just pick us up and just
take us back with you yes, Iwill start at the bottom, on a
new planet.

Speaker 1 (12:47):
Yes, I will be a fry cook.
Yes, maybe I'll do OnlyFans onanother planet.

Speaker 2 (12:50):
Take me to the moon.
Take me to the moon.

Speaker 1 (12:56):
Moon OnlyFans.
Oh my God, Take me to the moonwe're manifesting Boy.

Speaker 2 (13:01):
I'll take you outside .

Speaker 1 (13:02):
Of this galaxy.
I'm screaming.

Speaker 2 (13:09):
I'll be your only star.
I haven't slap laughed in along time.

Speaker 1 (13:14):
Anyway, yes, it is really frustrating, but it is
and I get it.

Speaker 2 (13:17):
Look, times are changing and it's just when
technology first started comingout, when we were kids, our
parents.
It's like you either sink orswim.
You got to learn technology,you got to learn the deep dark
web and you have to know how tonavigate it, otherwise you're
going to fall behind.
And that's kind of how I feeltoo.
You know, and I I use my mom asan example, because she is so

(13:37):
good at teach me, teach me,teach me.
She wants to learn chat, gpt,she wants to learn everything
that she needs to know, becauseshe does not want to fall behind
and she wants her brain to keepworking and challenge her, you
know.

Speaker 1 (13:50):
So I'm like if she can do it we can we can keep up
with that too that's a goodpoint, because I think we did
make fun of our parents growingup like who were so against
learning new technology, likewhen we had the flip phone or
like the nokia phone, like thesidekick, the the sidekicks.
I grew up in a town that had nocell reception, so we were all
like walkie-talkie and we hadthe beep-beep phones.
What, what do you?

Speaker 2 (14:10):
mean it was called Southern.

Speaker 1 (14:11):
Link.
What do you mean, wait?
So it was just like youcouldn't text or do.
It was just like it was like abrick phone.
And when you?
What year was this?
Like in real life, like 2000 to2008.
But like in the rest of theworld, like 1990.
Did you guys Count of 500people?

(14:31):
No stoplights.
We got a Dollar General.
That was the biggest thing thatever happened to us.
Like my mom ran around in ouryard with a Dollar General bag
on her head because she was soexcited about this new huge
market that we had.

Speaker 2 (14:45):
That is insane.

Speaker 1 (14:46):
So, that being said, when they were always scared to
like move to new technology, Iwas like y'all just got to get
with the times, you're going tobe left behind.
But now I think, at our age,we're starting to see that we're
turning into our parents bythen, where I'm like I got the
new iPhone 16.
And I don't know who maybe ourfriend Cole the other day was
like you know all these thingsyou can do on this phone.
I'm like yes, no idea, no idea,I just get it for like the good

(15:07):
camera.

Speaker 2 (15:08):
Yeah, even my chat GBT.
He saw me opening up my phoneto like go to the app and he
goes why is it on your homebutton?

Speaker 1 (15:15):
And I go.
Yeah, I said, well, show me,cole, you know what I mean.

Speaker 2 (15:21):
Show us the way, show us the way.
But it is crazy.
And you know, like I said,that's why I think, being a
creative, even for you and I, weare looking at different realms
and different realms.
Different realms, yes, butdifferent avenues of work that
we can do and that still fulfillus, and even, maybe, things

(15:43):
that we did in the past, likeokay, let's try this again, Like
let's, let's bring it back intoour life and see where this can
go, cause everything ischanging so quickly.
And, you know, I'd like tothink that I'm a good enough
model to that that I won't losemy career completely.
But who knows, right?
I mean, you don't know, and Iknow a friend who got paid I

(16:04):
think it was fifteen thousanddollars to use whore whore, not
whore use her body as an ai forbackground in films, really, and
so and it's uh, what is it in?

Speaker 1 (16:18):
perpetual, or oh and perfect perpetual well, I can't
neither one of us said this wordforever.
It's forever forever if kaylintoday we've had this thing where
neither one of us can sayremember words, phrases or
anything.
It's just been one of thoseweeks I was I'm gonna dub.
I'm gonna dub it in here yeah,perpetual yeah, I couldn't.

(16:41):
I was trying to think of theword research earlier okay, and
I, yeah, and I could try to tellher you know, like education,
like data, data like percentages.

Speaker 2 (16:51):
I'm thinking it's gonna be some like crazy word
that I was not in the spellingbee booklet, and she's like
research.

Speaker 1 (16:56):
Oh, okay, I know that one, I know that word.
But yes, but yes yes, okay,yeah, and you know, if you think
about it, I signed a deal whenI worked for WWE.
I'm pissed that I did it, but Iwas in a video game for several
years.
And I had trading cards and Ihad like merch and stuff and I
signed a deal because I kind offorced it down my throat.
So it's like you have to signthis, we're going to pay than

(17:18):
$10,000 worth of merch.

Speaker 2 (17:29):
But when I think about some, like the other
people, I don't know about that,I'm pretty sure you probably
sold more than a lot of tradingcards, more than I thought
because they're all over theInternet like jacked up.

Speaker 1 (17:38):
I don't have any of my own trading cards because the
company never gave us any.
Like I have like 10 or 12trading cards, tops trading
cards.
I don't own any of them becausethe company like we would get
in trouble if we kept any forourselves that gives to our
family because we had to accountfor all of them.
So I've been going on ebay tobuy them all but like they're
expensive on ebay, she's likethe ones I've autographed, so if
you, have any of my tradingcards and you just want to send

(17:59):
them to me just one.
You're so mean no, you need tohave kids or something one day.
These are cool like hey kids,look your mom is cool one day
exactly?

Speaker 2 (18:08):
you need to put it in a little case and like keep it
for keepsake.
Speaking of we all we knowkayla is like obviously the
coolest person.
I totally forgot to do this inthe intro in the beginning, but
today is kayla's 25thanniversary of becoming a foster
child.

Speaker 1 (18:26):
Yes, it is my gotcha, day.

Speaker 2 (18:28):
It's her gotcha day, so I got her some beautiful
little flowers because today isher gotcha day.
Oh my God, this journey for you, I know, has not been easy, and
I know sunflowers are yourfavorite flowers.
They are.
And Lisa Vanderpump.
Lisa, this is her, this is herbrand.

(18:49):
Should I message Lisa and thankyou for the flowers bloom house
by Lisa Vanderpump.
And how beautiful are these?
So they are these are for you,we'll call this like your happy,
your happy gotcha day, like ahappy birthday.

Speaker 1 (19:00):
This is you know so before we move on.

Speaker 2 (19:03):
I just needed to make sure I appreciate that you know
that you know we love on.
I just needed to make sure youknow that you know we love you
and you're strong and that isnot an easy thing to go through
as a child and I just I'm soproud of you for doing all the
work to make yourself understandlike that process for you as a
kid.
So thank you, kudos.

Speaker 1 (19:22):
Yeah, it's weird.
Like 25 years is one of thosenumbers where you're like, oh,
that was so long ago.
People might even hear it andbe like get over it, but I was
nine years old when I got rippedaway from my mom.

Speaker 2 (19:32):
My niece is nine years old.

Speaker 1 (19:34):
She's going into the fourth grade.

Speaker 2 (19:37):
And I looked at her and when you said nine years old
, I'm like and I don't evenunderstand how she would have
fathomed that process if she hadto go through that.

Speaker 1 (19:48):
Even just seeing a nine-year-old.
I mean, you remember being nine, right I do?

Speaker 2 (19:51):
but it's different when you see a physical child
who is nine years old and thinkabout what you went through.

Speaker 1 (19:58):
Yeah, it's a lot.
Yeah, it was a lot, it was alot, and I think I remembered
everything so clearly because Ihad to go through so much as a
kid.
Like thing so clearly because Ihad to go through so much as a
kid, like I think my earliermemories probably were earlier
than a lot of people's becauseof like that's what trauma is.
But yeah, 25 years ago, takenfrom my family in Texas and put
into a foster home with a bunchof strangers in Alabama and yeah

(20:20):
, one definitely one of thehardest things but one of the
things I'm most thankful for,because it completely like took
my life on a completelydifferent track, like there's no
telling what would havehappened to me if I had just
stayed or lived with my mom's,friends or whatever.
And then I was put with thebest people Like.
My foster parents areincredible.
They fostered, at this point,like 35 kids.

(20:40):
We they actually just texted usa couple of weeks ago, this took
in another little boy, sothey've been doing this since
they were younger than me, whichalso I'm like, which is crazy.
I can imagine being so.
When I moved in, there waseight other foster kids, I think
, or six to eight at 34 yearsold.
If I had to go home to sixlittle shitty ass, bratty,
trauma filled foster kids whodon't understand really what's

(21:01):
going on in the world.
and they did that and they'vedone it non-stop, like, oh my
God, I'm just so thankful.
But yeah, I am, yeah, and sothat's why my tattoo on my arm
has the date.
But there's a big.
You can't really tell becauseit's old, but it's a big cookie
because growing up, on all ofour foster care anniversaries,
my parents would make us alllike our individual big pizookie

(21:24):
, big like chocolate chip cookiewith ice cream on top of it,
and then we would sit around thetable with all the other foster
kids and we get to eat our owncookie.
And then everyone around thetable would say, like a memory
they had from the first timethat you walked in the house.
So it was always very special.
What?

Speaker 2 (21:38):
was your first memory .
I don't know if we've talkedabout this.

Speaker 1 (21:41):
I don't think we have my first memory of moving in.
I think I was just like who areall these people?
Yeah, you know, I just I thinkit was just more like shock, um,
but I think one of the biggestthings, my family foster family
was so big on family dinnersevery night.
It is this giant like 12 footlong wooden table and there was
no like.
It was very rare that we didn'tall sit around that table and I
never experienced that it waslike before foster care.

(22:04):
My mom would come home from herdouble shift, throw a bag of
Jack in the Box or Taco Bell atus.
Ayo, taco Bell, sponsor us.

Speaker 2 (22:11):
We would love that.
It's my favorite restaurant,double Decker's.
It's my favorite restaurant inthe world.

Speaker 1 (22:15):
Cinnamon Twist.

Speaker 2 (22:16):
Pepsi, even though I'm a Coke girl.
But Pepsi Selena Gomez orVinnie?

Speaker 1 (22:19):
Blanco, I think, selena Gomez, I think we
proposed to her and did a wholeTaco Bell thing.
That's all I want in this world, oh good to know yeah, I'll
keep that in mind.

Speaker 2 (22:27):
Will you propose to me?
Well, not me, but like in caseyou get proposed to another time
, one day I'm going to be like,hey, this is what you need to do
.

Speaker 1 (22:33):
We're going to go to Vegas, rent out that Taco Bell
yeah, the Taco Bell cantina andpropose to her there I will be a
happy gal no-transcript flightif I can.

Speaker 2 (23:17):
But yeah it's.
Look, it's not hard to do along distance relationship when
you do have a healthyrelationship.
I feel like we trust each other.
Our communication's great, buthaving to schedule when we're
seeing each other is like itdoes.

(23:38):
It takes a toll.

Speaker 1 (23:39):
You're both so busy.

Speaker 2 (23:40):
You have all your stuff going on here you have all
this stuff going on there, andso sometimes I do think, when we
talk about who's going to move,where am I going to move?
There, you're like when it'sdifficult, because I do, right
now, feel like a lot of thingsare happening, a lot of things
are shifting for me here and I'mstarting to maybe let go of

(24:01):
past versions of myself in myindustry and my work life.
Not to say that I'm givinganything up, I'm just I've we
like we talked about mourningpast versions of, like your work
self, and so I am getting intodifferent avenues of creativity
for a job and it's nice andlovely and I can't leave.

(24:24):
I just feel like I can't leavehere yet, and so that's been
difficult.
You know, and it's funny, I'mthe person that always says oh,
I miss you, you know, and forhim sometimes he won't
necessarily say it back, but Iknow it's not because he doesn't
miss you I think he's expressedto me like sometimes it's just

(24:45):
like it's a little too hard.
It's hard sometimes, like I,it's like like, yes, like we
hate saying, we hate having tosay miss you, miss you, you know
.
So it's difficult, but I dothink we're great in a sense.
We know how to navigate it and,like I said, our communication
is great.
So if we're feeling some typeof way, like I said, our

(25:06):
communication is great.
So if we're feeling some typeof way, we'll always talk about
it.
You know, we have these therapysessions is what he likes to
call them.
Is when he knows.
I'm about to ask him a deepquestion, or sometimes I like to
have check-ins.
You know how are we doing Like,are you receiving everything
that you need to receive from me?
Like, do you need more from meor vice versa?
You know, I want to have thatopen format where we can be

(25:30):
really honest with each other,because I think a relationship
is about figuring out what theother person needs and wants,
and how can we mesh those twotogether that it's not hindering
the other person.
But it's funny because he alwayswill say is this a therapy
session?
And I say yes, yes.

Speaker 1 (25:48):
I tell you me and Ozzy are so similar, I know.
I receive stuff, because that'show I would get like anytime.
My ex would want to like checkin.
I'm like why are you asking methis question?
Like you should know how I feel.
Yeah, he's like no, like I justwant to.
You know we should just checkin with each other.
I'm like you know, no feedbackis good feedback.
Okay, that's what I've alwaysbeen taught.
Okay, back off, let me watch mypictures.

Speaker 2 (26:10):
Yeah, no, I mean it's it's, it is.
It's it's funny Cause, yeah,you guys are very similar in so
many ways and so, yeah, but Ibut, like I said, even if he's
not necessarily comfortable withthat, he's getting more
comfortable and I'm so gratefulfor that, cause I am somebody
who needs to have those in-depthconversations.
I want to know, I want to go,want to know what's behind the

(26:30):
soul.
I want to know, like reallywhat you're feeling.
I want to get deep.

Speaker 1 (26:33):
My family makes fun of me, can never be my boyfriend
.

Speaker 2 (26:36):
Yeah, my boyfriend makes fun of me.

Speaker 1 (26:37):
But he makes funny but he still doesn't appreciate
it obviously he's probably oneof the first people who's ever
like pushed him in that way too?

Speaker 2 (26:43):
I would imagine yeah, so yeah, like, even like his
brother's very quiet, his mom'svery quiet.
I unfortunately didn't ever getto meet his dad, but I know his
dad probably was the life ofthe party because he that's kind
of like what his job was, um,and so I know that he was a
lively man.
I can only imagine, but I dothink it's ozzy and his brother
do resemble his mom and like thethe quieter just kind of the

(27:06):
observer Reserve.

Speaker 1 (27:07):
Yes, sit back and kind of watch.

Speaker 2 (27:08):
Yes, yeah, but I mean , like I will say, the more
drama I see is when I'm at theairport traveling to go see him.

Speaker 1 (27:18):
You ever see like couples fighting in the airports
?

Speaker 2 (27:20):
Yes, that's my favorite thing to watch.

Speaker 1 (27:21):
Yes, I have a few on camera.

Speaker 2 (27:23):
Do you?
I love watching.
Oh my gosh, if you can findthem, we should like put them in
.
I don't know if we're allowedto.
I don't know.
I don't want to be like wecould, we could, we could.
Like blur, like people blurtheir faces in, like the public
like I don't.

Speaker 1 (27:34):
I don't like raising.
I think comes from being achild and maybe it's how our
parents were like if we acted upin the grocery store and he's
like you shut your mouth rightnow, you cry, I'm gonna give you
something to cry about.
That was that deep southernredneck accent right there.

Speaker 2 (27:46):
Yeah, there it is.
That's Alabama, that Roanoke inthe parking lot.
No, you can't have that toy.
You wait till Christmas.
God damn it.

Speaker 1 (27:52):
But I think, like now , any public confrontations, I
feel even if you're yelling atyour dog in public I saw that at
a dog park I get souncomfortable, it's so
uncomfortable.

Speaker 2 (28:05):
So least Like what's going on.
I've had one incident with anex-boyfriend once where we were
leaving a nightclub and it was anormal thing for us to fight
once both of us were drinking,like he would always try and
start something and I just therewould be moments where I just

(28:26):
couldn't take it anymore and Iwould lash back at it instead of
just being quiet.
And I remember I'll neverforget us waiting for an Uber
and him pushing me up againstthe wall.
We're like in public, on thesidewalk.
It's probably 2.30 in themorning.
You know like the clubs are.
Probably we were in Atlanta, sothe clubs don't close, I think,
until like 4 or something.
Atlanta, so the clubs don'tclose, I think until like four

(28:50):
or something.
And I remember this random guywalking past and his arms were
like this, up against the wall,like screaming at me.
Don't remember what we were.
He was yelling at me for andthe guy asked like excuse me,
miss, like are you okay?
And of course I looked at himand I said yes, but obviously I
wasn't, you know, and it's just,it's just crazy to think that
people can do that in publicsettings.

(29:10):
I think I just froze in thatmoment Cause I'm like we're in
public, like how embarrassing isthis?

Speaker 1 (29:15):
Where's this?
Like the embarrassment.
It's like I'm not scared of you, I'm just like I'm embarrassed
that people are watching.

Speaker 2 (29:19):
And you think that I'm weak because I'm not yelling
back at you whatever you needto do.

Speaker 1 (29:24):
At the end of the day , you're not the one looking bad
.
He is no.

Speaker 2 (29:27):
But in the airport it happens all the time.
I see people sitting there andthey're like well, this is why I
told you not to do that, andI'm just.
I sit back and I'm like, oh myGod, thank goodness I don't
think Ozzy and I have everreally like we've maybe snapped

(29:47):
like once, but it's not a snap.
It's not like an argument, it'slike something you two know is
like a fight.
And then you like yes, likethere was one time we were going
to Japan and I thought he wasalready in the gate, but he was
walking to the gate and so whenI got there I had paid for my
bag.
He's like why did you pay foryour bag?
I paid for it, I'm like, becauseI didn't know, you know and
then, and then he comes up andlike gives me a hug and we're

(30:09):
like we could just tell we werelike a little flustered, like
stressed.

Speaker 1 (30:12):
Flying is stressful, especially like traveling
internationally and, yeah,traveling with your significant
other like that, me and my ex,same thing like I I have this
thing where I have.
I, when I worked for wwe, I wastraveling all the time.
I'm a professional airportperson, but there there's little
things I still do that youwouldn't think that I would do.
Like I need to go see the gatephysically and then I can walk
around and maybe go do otherthings.

Speaker 2 (30:33):
I need to make sure, okay.

Speaker 1 (30:34):
Because there's been too many times where, like the
gate gets changed For sure, andhe didn't understand that, and
so I'm like I need to walk allthe way to the gate Just to see
the gate.
So I'm storming down, you know,I'm like storming down the
moving sidewalk so I can justmove faster.

(30:54):
You know, just like looking forthis guy, and then I see him
behind me.
He'd come out of the bathroom,so he just went to the bathroom.
That's all he did.
Stressed out, I was about this.
He's like whoa.
It's like mama needs a glass ofwine and some carbs, and that
was like.

Speaker 2 (31:15):
I immediately apologized.

Speaker 1 (31:16):
Of course, it's like a monster, the traveling monster
, comes out of you and you'rejust like, oh my God.

Speaker 2 (31:21):
Yeah, and it's hard to put her back in.
It really is.
I get that.
That.
It really is.
I get that.
That happened one time Again.
We were, we landed in, welanded in Tokyo, and we were
going through customs and so hewent before me and you know,
there's like double doors.
He goes out and then I go and Idon't see him.
Like I go out the double doorsand I'm like, oh my God, where
is he?
And in my head I'm like, did heleave me?

(31:42):
And when I tell you thefunniest thing, I look over,
like I'm starting to panic.
You know, like I'm like I don'tknow where I'm at, I don't even
know what hotel we're stayingat.
I'm just following him.
You know, like I don't, I don'tcare, I like him to like know
everything and I'll just gowhere you're going.
But I look, finally look over,and there's the news, with a
camera and a news reporterinterviewing him no he was just

(32:05):
sitting there.
He was getting interviewed by atokyo news station asking him
what are you excited for, likefor tokyo?
Yeah, so I was so mad at him,right, I was so mad.
And then I look at him and then, of course, like I take my
phone out and like record itbecause I'm like this is hella

(32:26):
funny, like they probablythought because he's so tall and
does you know, he looks very,he had blonde hair at the time.

Speaker 1 (32:32):
Yeah, he's a traveler here from America.

Speaker 2 (32:35):
Yes, exactly, and I just was like not you getting
interviewed by the news?

Speaker 1 (32:40):
And I'm over here having a panic attack.

Speaker 2 (32:42):
Don't see it like you'll see it on.

Speaker 1 (32:52):
Oh, see it on.
Oh, no, I wish I bet you couldfind it somewhere.
We should.
We should search for it becausethat's really funny.
Oh, relationships, well, youknow, that brings us into this
next uh, topic, movies thatwe've seen.
I didn't.
You haven't seen this movie yet.
I just went and saw the new.
Uh, dave franco and allisonbrie movie together.
You wouldn't like it, no I sawthe preview and I am not
watching it um, basically it'sthis horror romance comedy about
a couple that physically fusestogether after getting into some
water.
They shouldn't have beendrinking.

(33:12):
It was so disgusting, but itwas like I, so I have I'm
notoriously dismissive of it.
I don't like a lot of.
You know intimacy and you knowemotion, and so I felt like that
was what this movie was kind oftrying to like portray, like,
the extreme codependence thatsome couples have on each other,
um, to the point where, like,they do become one person, and

(33:35):
so I don't know.
I thought I thought it was areally, really good movie.

Speaker 2 (33:38):
It's not scary maybe I'll watch it during the day,
watch it in the day, maybe I'llwatch it after this you should
do that, I'll just.

Speaker 1 (33:43):
We have to go to theater, that's it's not, it's
just hit.
Oh, it just hit.
Yeah, no, we, we have to go tothe theater.

Speaker 2 (33:46):
That's, it's not out.
It's just hit theaters.
Oh, it just hit theaters, justhit theaters.
Yeah, no, we're going to haveto wait until I can watch it at
my house with the blinds openand all the lights on.

Speaker 1 (33:53):
But it wasn't scary, but just it was really gross.
But it's funny how it just kindof makes your mind kind of kind
of go with the message wasbehind it.
Like I'm just trying to find mymissing piece, I'm like, why
would you want that?
Like, are you not whole right?
Don't you want to find likeanother hole?
and then you two holes cometogether and you can just fuse a

(34:14):
little bit and then you just goabout your whole little lives
like you want to find you wantto be a half and find somebody
else to mesh with, like no, no,and I think that's a very like
naive and young thing thatpeople say to find your missing
piece.
Um, but again, I think that'skind of what the movie was about
.
Funny thing about this movie,though they ripped it off, they
stole this film.
So real life couple, obviouslydave franco and allison brie the

(34:35):
whole controversy is someonelike gave them this like
screenplay or script a while agoto look at it, and then they
came out with this movie andthey didn't even care to change,
like the most miniscule things,like to the record that was
played at the very end, which Ithink is kind of funny.

Speaker 2 (34:51):
So what is happening with that?

Speaker 1 (34:53):
I mean, I don't know, it's all gone quiet, so I'm
sure they paid the person off orsomething.
But I'm like, okay, well,that's a real-life couple who
did some shit like that.
I'm curious as to like how arethey as real people?
You know how are they actually?
Because if my significant othercame up to me and said her own,
I'd be like you're not theperson I thought you were.

Speaker 2 (35:12):
They would do something like that.
So I've got some questions foryou.

Speaker 1 (35:16):
Dave Nelson, you look really cute on camera.
You did a great job with themovie.
But I just have some questions.

Speaker 2 (35:21):
That's it.
Yeah, interesting, great movie,though.
Very fun.
Okay, love that you went to asee Nobody.
2.
Never saw the first one.
I watched the first one rightbefore the second one.
It's with Bob Odenkirk and heis just amazing.

(35:43):
I thought you were going to sayhot.

Speaker 1 (35:47):
No, no, no, no, no, no offense.

Speaker 2 (35:49):
No offense.

Speaker 1 (35:51):
He's got a little daddy thing going on.

Speaker 2 (35:51):
Yeah, he's dad.

Speaker 1 (35:52):
Not daddy, but like dad.
No, you know, he's dad.
Not daddy, but like dad um no,it was amazing.

Speaker 2 (35:57):
He's amazing his, his physical, um ability to do
these fight scenes and he'sdoing it and he's doing them.
Okay, he's doing them.
And uh, daniel barnhart andkirk jakins were who
choreographed those fight scenesin the beginning or in the
beginning in the first movie andeven Daniel Barnhart said he

(36:20):
was so blown away by Bob's workethic and how he was able to
retain the choreography and doit and they were able to push
really hard in the second onefor him and it's really cool,
even the choreographer, daniel,was given a role in the second
film.

Speaker 1 (36:37):
Oh nice, as one of the assassins he did that good
of a job in the first one, yeah.

Speaker 2 (36:42):
And it's just really cool, like that's like even like
we were talking about earlier,it's nice to see like Hollywood
do that sometimes.
You know, like to give him hisflowers, then gave him a role in
the film and he did amazing.
I mean it's not like a big rolebut he did great.
He plays one of the headassassins, next to the head

(37:04):
honcho woman assassin, but itwas a great movie.
I did like the first one better, okay.
So, that's the consensus for alot of sequels.
But if they come out withanother movie, because they kind
of left it open and we gottaget like a john wick situation.
Yeah well, you know what'sfunny?
Is that daniel barnhart, uh,choreographed, oh for john wick.

Speaker 1 (37:23):
For john wick.

Speaker 2 (37:24):
Oh, so he's like he's in, yes he literally has my, my
friend and I who were watchingit.
He mentioned he goes.
I wonder if he choreographedlike john wick.
He and we looked it up and hedid and so it's a lot of
parallels there and it'sphenomenal, it's great like
there's there's bus, this busscene.

(37:46):
That's just insane.

Speaker 1 (37:47):
It's so gruesome and gross but the fighting is just
incredible okay it's incredible,so I'll give it a whirl.

Speaker 2 (37:56):
I think it's out august 13 in theaters, okay and
um yeah, so everyone go watch it.

Speaker 1 (38:01):
It's, it's great, it's a fun film streaming on
prime, so if you haven't watchedthe second one, you can go
watch it.

Speaker 2 (38:06):
Yep the first one's on amazon prime.
The second one comes out august13th um in theaters.
And it was just, it was so fun,okay, it's so fun yeah, I loved
it.

Speaker 1 (38:15):
Watch together and watch nobody too.
Yes and uh.
Yeah, yeah, we have other movierecommendations, but we got to
move through this show.

Speaker 2 (38:23):
Yeah, yeah, we'll just we'll just we'll post about
it.
We'll post about it, but justto give a shout out like happy
go more to his best, I'm sorrywe had to say it like yeah, the
best nostalgia.
Oh, I just I loved it.
The cameos were amazing,everything was amazing.

Speaker 1 (38:39):
It was just I mean, obviously, like we said, it's
never going to be the like thefirst one, but it was so close
it felt like I was hanging outwith your old pals and yes, and
I loved what I loved about itlike I think a very intelligent
way to do a sequel is that Ididn't like rely on people to
have already seen the first oneright bought enough back like
flashbacks.
We can kind of piece it togetherright, but I still like paying

(38:59):
a lot of respect to like, yes,you know the actors that were in
it before, people that are veryclose to uh, to Adam.
So, yeah, very well done.
Yep, I loved it.
I'm gonna watch it again it was.

Speaker 2 (39:09):
I've watched it three times already really.
I have.
I'll just turn it on before Igo to bed because it's just that
good.
I love Adam Sandler and BadBunny MVP of all time.
It was so funny he's gettingcast in all these different
roles.

Speaker 1 (39:27):
He sold the show.
It was great.
Someone else who's beenstealing the show and the
headlines that sounds soofficial I gotta talk about.

Speaker 2 (39:35):
Sydney Sweeney for a minute.

Speaker 1 (39:36):
It was so good.
Someone else who's beenstealing the show and the
headlines.
That sounds so official.
I know I got to talk aboutSydney Sweeney for a minute.
She, you know, we kind of allgot introduced to her and
Euphoria she did a great jobplaying Cassie, the big crybaby
pick-me girl with a nice rack,and then she's like done very
well with her career since then,yep, but she's getting under a
fire, a lot of fire right nowfor this american eagle ad.

(39:56):
Um, the my genes are blue.
People took that and ran with itand decided to turn it into
this whole, like you know,privilege and talking about,
like your genetics and is thisracist?
And blah, blah, blah, blah.
Um, american eagle, said by her.
The stock went up.
Um, I've been watching andfollowing and like reading all
the comments about it personally.
I think it's a massiveoverreaction by people.

(40:19):
I think we live in this worldof like selective outrage.
People just want to find areason to be mad.
Especially you want to be madat the pretty white girl with
blonde hair and blue eyes andbig boobs who's?
getting booked in all the roles?
Yes, um, how did you feel about?
You saw the backlash.

Speaker 2 (40:33):
I did.
I saw the backlash and I don'tknow.
Maybe call me crazy because I'min the industry, like we're in
the industry, so we understandcampaigns and what goes into it
and all these things, and to meI was like, well, she was just
reading a script.

Speaker 1 (40:50):
It's not like she came up with that.

Speaker 2 (40:51):
It's like I'm going to brag to everybody that I'm
better than all of y'all becauseof my genes Like give this girl
a break.
Yeah, I don't think.

Speaker 1 (40:58):
I mean, I thought it was a good ad, I didn't even
think of it that way untilpeople and I feel like as a non,
we are women of color, and so Ithink we could be the first
people who, if we were that kindof like we want to be mad about
something, would have found aproblematic right it didn't even
cross my mind.
I was like oh, that's cute, youknow.

Speaker 2 (41:17):
Question do you think that, like somebody in american
eagle made it an issue because,like you said, the stock is up?
The sales are up just to get,just to get people talking about
it and then I mean, I don'tknow, I mean even the movie she
did with glenn powell?

Speaker 1 (41:35):
anything, wait, was it called anything?
Anyone but you?
Yes, everyone thought for awhile that was all very planned,
just to get like because he wasdating what's her face.
For a while, yes, and theneveryone thought that sydney and
glenn were together and shejust did her podcast about it,
about how she was going to comevisit.
She got her like a work, workvisa to go to australia and be

(41:55):
there and he's like, actuallythe production crew doesn't
think it's a good idea for youto come out here because it's
going to ruin our sexualchemistry.
I'm like that is completely.
They're being told that becausethey know this.
All this shit, tabloid stuff iscoming out.
It's going to make this movieblow up.

Speaker 2 (42:10):
So there's it's so, who knows, I don't know what to
believe anymore, but all I'msaying is that you know, I, I've
seen this, like you know, theCindy Crawford ad for Calvin
Klein back in the 90s.
It's, it's all.
It's.
It's all the same, like we'vesaid since you know 1959, that
sex sells.
It does you know?
And I get it like, maybe, ifit's specifically for a back to

(42:33):
school ad, maybe not the bestchoice to do it right now.

Speaker 1 (42:37):
They're mad about the sex sales thing.
I think it was mad that theyfelt like you're making this
white girl privilege like I'vegot good jeans, yeah.
So like people who are.

Speaker 2 (42:46):
She does have good jeans.

Speaker 1 (42:48):
I mean, you know she's gorged I mean god, if my
mom mom, damn it, you gave mehips and you gave me an ass and
you gave me no tits, right, andno blue eyes.
No blue eyes.
And my mom has blue eyes, so dotwo of my sisters.

Speaker 2 (43:00):
How dare you.
Do you think, though, if, let'ssay, if it was a woman of color
who had blue eyes who did thisad, do you think people would
have?

Speaker 1 (43:12):
No, I mean you know what.
Yes, who did this ad?
Do you think we were asking?
Do you think people would have?
No, I mean you know what?
Yes, they would have found anissue with that too, like they,
people, and that's what we livein this fucking world of just
outrage.

Speaker 2 (43:22):
You're damned.
If you're due, if you're damned.

Speaker 1 (43:23):
You're annoying getting on social media every
day and people are just mad andthat leads us to talking about
like cancel culture and how it's.
It's so disappointing thatpeople can make a mistake when
they're 16, which, around thetime we were 16, is when social
media started kind of coming up,and so you could have gotten
your first twitter account at 16, posted some stupid shit and
back then the office was stillplaying.
You could say stupid shit backthen and not get canceled.

(43:43):
It was just a different time.
Nowadays, people, if they seesuccess, they want to get.
They want to.
They will spend hours.
You're trying to find a way toruin you because they're so
miserable in their own lives andand bam, they find it.
It goes viral and then you'recanceled and you can say sorry
to your blue in the face.
You can do all of the work, youcan prove that you've done the
work, but it doesn't matter,because people want to cancel
you, they want to bury you andthey don't want to let you get

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back up, and I hate it.

Speaker 2 (44:15):
And you know, or just have have, have an opinion,
have an opinion.
You can't have an opinion.
It's okay like we, we could seethings differently, and it's
okay like I'm not gonna hate you, you know what I mean like
there's a there's so many thingsout there that everyone sees
and it's such a different way,and it's okay, I know that's.
What makes the world sobeautiful is that we can all
have these different opinions,you know.
So I, I don't know, I thinkcancel culture is.
It's a.
It's like a happy trigger, youknow, it's like people who are

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behind a screen and-.

Speaker 1 (44:40):
It's the woke mob, as I call it.

Speaker 2 (44:42):
They're just waiting, they're just waiting, they're
waiting.

Speaker 1 (44:44):
Too many people have too much time on their hands.
Howard Stern's show is gettingcanceled after how many years
now, like decades?
Like, because I mean the youknow the thought process told
you know his audience if youvoted for trump, if you're a
trump fan, stop watching my show.
And now people are saying ifyou are a public figure for the
public platform, keep politicsout out of it.
It's like, colbert, you'regetting, you're getting taken

(45:05):
off air and taking off theseplatforms now because,
unfortunately, the world is justbeing operated this way.
You cannot speak your truth, youcannot speak your mind, you
can't have a different opinion.
Like I got blocked on socialmedia by a lot of the people I
grew up with because I spoke outabout, like when the um, when
the capital got stormed a fewyears ago, I was like, hey,
listen, we can have differentopinions.
However, we can all agree,hopefully, that that is wrong.

(45:28):
Right, if you disagree with me,then I guess maybe we don't.
You know, we know I got blockedby half the people that I know,
probably for the best.
I mean for the best, but it isweird that those people it's
always people on the other sidewho do that too Right.

Speaker 2 (45:41):
They're the ones who want to be mad at you.

Speaker 1 (45:42):
Sorry, we're not supposed to go political, but
all that being said, you know,hulk Hogan, wrestling legend,
passed away this past year.
I've this past year I've hungout with hulk, you know, a
number of times working for thecompany.
He was always very pleasant tome but it was never lost on me
that he had said some of theworst possible things especially
towards black people.
Yeah, like I'm not going to sayhim here, you can google it, but
I'm sure everyone knows thestuff he has said.

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His daughter, brooke hogan,completely like just disowned
him as her father even asked tobe taken out of the will.
She wants nothing to do withhim um, which is crazy.
I mean, if you're asking that,if you were like you have, yeah,
then there's something to besomething there way deeper than
we even know oh, of course, butI posted on twitter.

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I'm like, hey, because peopleare like, people just need to
get over.
Like, yeah, hulk hogan made amistake, but he apologized, so
get over it.
I'm like, listen, white peoplehave no place telling black
people, when time is up forbeing mad about what the white
person said, that was racist.
Right, we, like you, just can'tdo that.
However, comma, I still don'tthink it's in good taste to be

(46:47):
celebrating publicly aboutsomeone's death the matter,
unless it's like a Hitler or anevil, evil person and you know
people.
Some people think that hogan wastruly an evil person.
I don't think of it in that way.
I think he was a very ignorantperson.
Um, I don't think evil is theword.
Um, but even speaking that outon social media, I got fucked
just on both sides like wethought you were one of us from

(47:07):
the first part of the tweet andthen, like you, just you're
damned if you do and you'redamned if you don't.
Again you get canceled.
There's a whole nother threadabout me.
Like, oh, here she comes, thisbiracial girl.
You know that's the mostbiracial tweet I've ever seen.

Speaker 2 (47:19):
Great yeah great, I love that.
Yeah, it is a biracial tweet,sure, because that's what you
are you are a biracial woman, Imean making an opinion about
something like sure, but that'snot a bad thing, so thank you.

Speaker 1 (47:33):
But the point people just try to find issue with
everything and spin it to theirown narrative, and this is why
the world kind of sucks rightnow it's heavy, it's really
heavy well, anyway, I don't eventhink half that shit was on the
rundown and we're gonna talkabout today.
But here we are let us know ifyou agree or disagree.
Whatever, we won't block youfrom the show if you disagree

(47:55):
with us we want to hear opinionsright.
I want to learn something newevery day.
Some of the best conversationswe've had it with a close friend
of ours is hearing them give ustheir version of their truth
and us being able to discuss itwithout thinking differently of
each other right, and causing awhole scene.
We have other friends.
If you think differently fromthem, you're dead to them.
So I think I would like toencourage everybody to have open

(48:19):
dialogue with your people, thepeople you care about and learn
from each other, because that'sthe only way this world is going
to.
I mean, it's never going tohappen.
Let's be honest the world'snever going to get back on track
, but that's the only way it'sgoing to be on, but it's
probably not the right one.

Speaker 2 (48:34):
But we'll be on some track.
We'll be on some track and youknow, we can try and do our best
.

Speaker 1 (48:38):
Literally that's all we can do.
Do your best and be kind,Absolutely All right.
Before we go, let's do ourhoney jar.

Speaker 2 (48:44):
Yeah, let's do it.
Okay, all right, we'll do one.
Yeah, right, just like onetoday.

Speaker 1 (48:51):
I think one today.

Speaker 2 (48:52):
Yeah, our topics, you know, they just runneth over.

Speaker 1 (48:59):
The cup, the cup, Ooh okay, stay, stay.

Speaker 2 (49:04):
Let's see what we got today.
Name something that should beembarrassing, but absolutely
isn't for you.
Hmm.

Speaker 1 (49:14):
Oh, okay, I take pictures and post this a lot.
I wax my nose hairs, you didmention that, yeah, and I posted
a photo.
yeah, because, like I, you know,some women, I mean, I think
everyone has nose hairs.
But yeah, I get, like my nosehairs, you can see them
sometimes and so I bought thislittle wax you can get on amazon
.
I keep hitting this on accident, this wax on amazon with these

(49:34):
little sticks, and you put it inthere and you just stick them
in your nose for 90 seconds andthen you just rip them out.
It sounds painful, it's not,it's very satisfying, and then I
walk around with just like aclean.

Speaker 2 (49:45):
I've done that one time.
I can do it to you.
I've done it once.
And here's the thing I had suchbad allergies because I ripped
out all my nose hairs, so Ithink like all the pollen was
just like going to my brain andI had the worst allergies for
because you took them out maybefour or five days.

Speaker 1 (50:03):
That's the point.
Nose hairs, right, the nosehairs I'm getting.
Yes, it keeps it to me.
She came as a freak of natureover here.
She's like oh, oh, no, I'm good, like I smell everything.
Oh, my God.

Speaker 2 (50:20):
We could talk about this like another day, but I do
think honestly, like I've had ahemorrhoid before and I feel
like so many people do have themlike every, every so often, and
it's something that people areso not willing to talk about and
it's like look, it happens.

Speaker 1 (50:35):
And they come and happen for you, congratulations
you're one of god's favorites.
Yes, exactly because, I hopeyou have worse nose hairs than
me.

Speaker 2 (50:46):
No, or bad breath.

Speaker 1 (50:49):
If you've never had it, for it at least like let's
give them back breath orsomething.
Oh, God.

Speaker 2 (50:55):
But yeah, it's like, that's like so embarrassing to
like think about, but it's not.
It's something that happens tous, you know.
It's like we learn that we haveto eat more fiber and not push
as hard.
That's right, that's it.
Don't push as hard.
Don't push as hard.
That's about everything in life.
That's about everything in life.
Just don't push so hard?

Speaker 1 (51:12):
Yes, well, I think that's a good note to go on Yep.

Speaker 2 (51:15):
That was great, all right.

Speaker 1 (51:16):
Well, thanks everyone for watching.
We've got a great episode.
Next week.
It is mid-August, which iscrazy.
Well, it's early.

Speaker 2 (51:22):
August.

Speaker 1 (51:25):
Crazy, which means all the children are going back
to school.
So Vanessa and I are going toreminisce a little bit about our
early school days.
Maybe show some pictures of usfrom back then.
Yikes, yep, is that whereyou're wearing the glasses now?

Speaker 2 (51:37):
Yikes, you're kind of like giving little nerds to get
prepared, just to get youprepared for next week.

Speaker 1 (51:42):
And she grew up in a Catholic school and I grew up in
a Southern Baptist Christianschool.
So let me tell you, thesestories are going to be crazy.
You're going to want to comeCome back for that.
But yeah, thanks for watchingthis week and I'll let you do
the sign off.
Oh, oh, my gosh.

Speaker 2 (51:54):
Yes, oh my gosh, why am I nervous today?
To say it and just remember, ifyou're ever looking for the
perfect cup of tea, youringredients are right here with
milk and honeys.
See you next week.
Bye.