Date 60 Was The One | Tara Viswanathan & Alex Modon

Tara Viswanathan (founder who recently sold her startup) and Alex Modon (startup founder) share their journey from a 15-minute Bumble date to marriage. They discuss Tara's systematic approach to dating (including analyzing 60 first dates), building a relationship while running startups, and their thoughts on balancing ambitious careers with starting a family. A rare glimpse into two founders making partnership work. Modern Relationships is a podcast from Turpentine. Learn more: www.turpentine.co -- SPONSOR: Relationship Hero  It’s an open secret in Silicon Valley that people are using relationship coaches. Sign up for 1-on-1 relationship coaching (from anywhere) at RelationshipHero.com/modern. Get $50 off your first session. -- FOLLOW ON X: Tara - @TaraViswanathan Alex - @alexmodon Erik - @eriktorenberg Turpentine - @turpentinemedia -- RECOMMENDED IN THIS EPISODE: Books The Defining Decade by Meg Jay: https://www.amazon.com/Defining-Decade-Your-Twenties-Matter/dp/0446561754 Never Split the Difference by Chris Voss: https://www.amazon.com/Never-Split-Difference-Negotiating-Depended/dp/0062407805 -- TIMESTAMPS: (00:00) Intro and Preview (01:41) Tara's Unconventional Quest for "The One" (05:19) Alex's Journey to Finding Love Unintentionally (07:53) Tara's "Crazy" Playbook: Love Hacks and Radical Self-Improvement (12:59) Lessons Learned from Countless "I Dos" (and "I Don'ts") (14:14) Sponsor: Relationship Hero (15:49) A Dynamic Approach to Partnership (18:24) Considering Age Rate and Stage of Life (19:35) Reclaiming Authentic Power in Love and Life (23:36) Decoding Each Other's Communication Styles (28:41) Integrating Family and Work Adventures (32:50) A Shared Vision for Family and Career (36:26) Future Family Plans: Adoption (50:39) Hot Takes on Dating (51:26) The Core of the Decision: Ask "What Feels Right" (55:05) Protecting Your Relationship (59:19) The Dream: An Integrated Life (1:03:14) Wrap