Relationship Yoga | Aike Ho & Camilla Hermann

Aike Ho (Partner, ACME Capital) and Camilla Hermann (entrepreneur) discuss "relationship yoga" - viewing intimate relationships as paths to growth through how we trigger each other. They explore how relationship patterns reveal unresolved aspects of ourselves and why finding a partner who's willing to evolve together matters more than matching a checklist of ideal traits. Modern Relationships is a podcast from Turpentine. Learn more: www.turpentine.co -- SPONSOR: Relationship Hero  It’s an open secret in Silicon Valley that people are using relationship coaches. Sign up for 1-on-1 relationship coaching (from anywhere) at RelationshipHero.com/modern. Get $50 off your first session. -- FOLLOW ON X: Aike - @aikeho Camilla - @CamillaFHermann Erik - @eriktorenberg Turpentine - @turpentinemedia -- LINKS Enneagram personalities https://www.enneagraminstitute.com/type-descriptions/ Dr. Becky "Good Inside" https://www.amazon.com/Good-Inside-Guide-Becoming-Parent/dp/0063159481 Hoffman Process https://www.hoffmaninstitute.org/ Evolution of The Internal Family Systems Model By Dr. Richard Schwartz, Ph. D.: https://ifs-institute.com/resources/articles/evolution-internal-family-systems-model-dr-richard-schwartz-ph-d Concept of Basic Trust from Book 'Facets of Unity' by AH Almaas: https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/2533/facets-of-unity-by-a-h-almaas/ TIMESTAMPS: (00:00) Intro and Preview (01:33) What is Relationship Yoga? (02:22) Relationship as a Canvas for Wholeness (04:54) Triggers and the Opportunity for Healing (08:40) Observing and Processing Triggers (09:38) The Role of Past Experiences (10:51) Holding Space & Interlocking Patterns (11:32) Using the Enneagram (12:56) Example of Reactivity and Softness (14:00) Reparenting & the Little Ones (15:39) Interlocking Triggers & Internal Family Systems (IFS) (16:39) Working with Internal Parts (20:07) Free Will & Running Patterns (21:00) Growth, Ego Death & Commitment in Relationships (23:11) Seeing With Fresh Eyes (23:16) Sponsor: Relationship Hero (24:59) The Art of Loving & Unconditional Acceptance (28:30) Reflections on Being Single (34:50) Challenges & Bouncing Back (39:44) Patterns Want to be Liberated (42:34) Causes of Struggle in Relationships (55:57) Tension of Triggers and Attraction (1:00:04) Advice For Making It Fantastic (1:02:04) Connection: Spark, Attraction, Intimacy (1:05:23) Wrap