Triggered to Transformed with Art of Accomplishment's Joe Hudson and Tara Howley

This week, Erik sits down with Joe Hudson and Tara Howley, the extraordinary couple behind Art of Accomplishment, whose coaching has helped CEOs like Sam Altman. They share their journey from a toxic relationship to a deeply connected partnership, offering personal stories, practical strategies, and insights on how self-growth, therapy, and commitment to transformation can foster resilient, loving relationships. Modern Relationships is a podcast from Turpentine. Learn more: www.turpentine.co -- SPONSOR: Relationship Hero It’s an open secret in Silicon Valley that people are using relationship coaches. Sign up for 1-on-1 relationship coaching (from anywhere) at RelationshipHero.com/modern. Get $50 off your first session. -- LINK/S: Art of Accomplishment: https://www.artofaccomplishment.com/ Joe and Esme — The Teenage Years: https://youtu.be/Eg70lbiElrI?si=bK-8FB-bzYh6HqL1 How to Be a Parent (Without Messing Everything Up) | Joe Hudson and Nathan Baschez: https://www.artofaccomplishment.com/podcast/how-to-be-a-parent-without-messing-everything-up-joe-hudson-and-nathan-baschez -- FOLLOW ON X: Joe - @FU_joehudson Erik - @eriktorenberg Turpentine - @turpentinemedia Chapters 00:00:00 Preview and Intro 00:01:48 Disclosure 00:02:54 Welcome Joe and Tara 00:03:01 How Joe and Tara Met 00:13:03 Early Challenges and Growth 00:14:11 The Role of Self-Development 00:16:39 Navigating Relationship Dynamics 00:17:14 Sponsor: Relationship Hero 00:18:49 Transformation and Trust 00:27:10 Marriage Requirements and Challenges 00:28:27 Evaluating a Life Partner 00:30:27 Trade-offs and Compromises in Marriage 00:35:57 The Importance of Being Seen 00:43:11 Triggers and Personal Growth 00:44:53 Grieving and Moving On 00:46:55 Choosing the Right Partner 00:53:54 Life Changes and Marriage 00:55:18 Wrap