What Makes a Relationship Inevitable? | Sasha Chapin & Cate Hall

Sasha Chapin and Cate Hall have been together for three years. Sasha is a writer and co-founder of a perfume company, while Cate is a former pro poker player and CEO of a foundation. They talk about radical honesty in relationships, why the Enneagram can help bridge extreme personalities, and commitment over connection. Modern Relationships is a podcast from Turpentine. Learn more: www.turpentine.co -- SPONSOR: Relationship Hero  It’s an open secret in Silicon Valley that people are using relationship coaches. Sign up for 1-on-1 relationship coaching (from anywhere) at RelationshipHero.com/modern. Get $50 off your first session. -- FOLLOW ON X: Sasha - @sashachapin Cate - @catehall Erik - @eriktorenberg Turpentine - @turpentinemedia -- TIMESTAMPS: (00:00) Preview and Intro (02:26) How They Met (05:15) Initial Incompatibility vs Sense of Inevitability (11:41) Complementary Extremes (14:37) The Reverse Honeymoon Period (15:05) Sponsor: Relationship Hero (17:57) Reversed Gender Roles (24:51) Radical Honesty (29:02) Levels of Woo (29:38) Spiritual Alignment (31:41) The Enneagram as Relationship Tool (45:02) Relationship Advice: Marriage Timing and Commitment (51:47) Puzzle Difficulty vs Slush Difficulty (57:58) Commitment Before Connection (1:00:12) Reverse Catfishing (1:02:00) Wrap