Ms. Behavior

Ms. Behavior

It's not uncommon for professionals in college student conduct to hear "Glad I don't have your job," but the impacts of how we approach conflict, crisis and discomfort have the potential to ripple out in beautiful ways. If you need a free dose of professional development, community support or humor, Ms. Behavior is the place for you.

Episodes

May 21, 2026 55 mins

Send Us a Text or Voice Message!

Higher education practitioner and innovator, Mark Salisbury shares insights on applying improv principles to improve student conduct outcomes, fortify leadership, and manage what he describes as the gnarly problems of everyday life. Discover practical activities, mental models, and the transformative power of 'Yes, and' for fostering authentic connections and growth. If you think improv is...

Listen
Watch
Mark as Played

Send Us a Text or Voice Message!

In this mini end-of-year recap, let's reflect on the academic year, graduation celebrations, summer plans, and innovative ideas for professional development in student conduct. Colette and Kurt share personal stories, future plans, and invite community engagement as staffs ponder what sorts of creative work they can do to learn, grow and update practices.

Follow us for updates:
YouTube Chann...

Listen
Watch
Mark as Played
May 7, 2026 17 mins

Send Us a Text or Voice Message!

In this mini end-of-year episode, Colette and Kurt explore the concerns they've heard from colleagues who fear being "too nice" to students. Themes explored include the long-term impacts of clarity and kindness in disciplinary processes. Our hosts explore a misconception that since the outside world is harsh, we're preparing students for life by expecting them to navigate non-opt...

Listen
Watch
Mark as Played

Send Us a Text or Voice Message!

Ethicist Jeffrey Nesteruk, author of the new book Seeking Your Better Self, explores the deeper purpose of ethics in higher education, the importance of humility, and how to foster meaningful student development through seeking out students' whole selves. We can use Jeff's practical insights on modeling and cultivating ethical self-reflection and supporting students in becoming their bette...

Listen
Watch
Mark as Played

Send Us a Text or Voice Message!

Join us as we explore the intersections of creativity, rule-breaking, and education with bestselling author Dr. Keith Sawyer, a renowned expert in educational innovation and creativity. Discover how constraints foster creativity, the importance of improvisation in learning, and insights into nurturing innovative minds.

Follow us for updates:
YouTube Channel
Instagram: @MsBehaviorCollege
L...

Listen
Watch
Mark as Played

Send Us a Text or Voice Message!

Conduct professional Logan Lasher shares his journey from musical theater major to criminology scholar to student conduct professional, highlighting the importance of authenticity, empathy, and keen investigative skills in higher education. Discover insights on campus culture, supporting marginalized students, and innovative approaches to educational outcomes.

Follow us for updates:
YouTube Chann...

Listen
Watch
Mark as Played

Send Us a Text or Voice Message!

Most college students are taught to follow rules blindly—until neurodivergence, anxiety, and unspoken expectations turn that obedience into a double-edged sword.

 In this eye-opening episode, Jamie D'Amico, an executive leadership coach and former RA, reveals the surprising ways institutional policies can do more harm than good—and what we can do to change that.

Discover how rigid enforcement and...

Listen
Watch
Mark as Played

Send Us a Text or Voice Message!

Join us as we explore the depths of the Enneagram with Justin Mulvaney, a conscious leadership coach, who shares insights on personality types, motivation, and how understanding ourselves can transform student conduct and personal growth.

Follow up with Justin at https://justinmulvaney.com/ and https://www.linkedin.com/in/justinmulvaney/

Follow us for updates:
YouTube Channel
Instagr...

Listen
Watch
Mark as Played

Send Us a Text or Voice Message!

Most college conduct professionals are caught off guard by AI's rapid rise—until now. Dive into a conversation with Colette and Kurt as they explore how generative AI like ChatGPT is revolutionizing student engagement, conduct practices, and professional development. Discover how AI can foster honesty, deepen reflection, and transform traditional approaches—without sacrificing trust or ethical ...

Listen
Watch
Mark as Played

Send Us a Text or Voice Message!

Samantha Collette studied fashion in college, but fell in love with her R.A. job. Now, she combines both of her superpowers as a conduct professional at her alma mater. Hear about the way she weaves her educational philosophy into relationships of respect, trust and magical authenticity with students. She's the "cool girl" on campus who eases fears and promotes reflective learning. Wh...

Listen
Watch
Mark as Played

Send Us a Text or Voice Message!

Colette and Kurt reminisce about their trip to the national conference of the Association of Student Conduct Administrators. Their first on-site podcasting experience generated friendship, professional growth and fashion inspiration.

 **WARNING** The audio files from the conference interviews are very poor quality, but we really wanted to honor all the folks who generously gave time for interviews. T...

Listen
Watch
Mark as Played

Send Us a Text or Voice Message!

While getting back into our routines after the conference for the Association of Student Conduct Administrators (and enjoying a snow day!) we wanted to provide a quick bonus episode about a unique way to address the ubiquitous noisy neighbor issue. We'd love to hear what approaches you've used with residence hall community members who are just plain fed up. 

Follow us for updates:
YouTu...

Listen
Watch
Mark as Played
February 14, 2026 3 mins

Send Us a Text or Voice Message!

As the national conference of student conduct professionals comes to a close, Kurt and Colette reflect on the dedication, expertise and fashion sense of college conduct officers. ***Heads up that the audio quality of our road recordings was very poor, but we are editing our hearts out in hopes of making our colleagues shine in our conference recaps.***

Follow us for updates:
YouTube Channel
I...

Listen
Watch
Mark as Played
February 13, 2026 8 mins

Send Us a Text or Voice Message!

Just as their microphones were starting to die, Colette and Kurt learned that the podcast had reached its first big milestone of 1000 downloads. As they are surrounded by conduct colleagues, they reflect on their original goals and unexpected rewards, and dreams for the future of Ms. Behavior.

Follow us for updates:
YouTube Channel
Instagram: @MsBehaviorCollege
LinkedIn: https://www.linke...

Listen
Watch
Mark as Played
February 13, 2026 1 min

Send Us a Text or Voice Message!

Colette and Kurt are at the national student conduct conference in Arlington, VA. Let the games begin! (As long as they're not drinking games, of course.)

Follow us for updates:
YouTube Channel
Instagram: @MsBehaviorCollege
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/ms-behavior-podcast
FB Page: Ms. Behavior
Threads: @MsBehaviorCollege
Tik Tok: @MsBehaviorCollege


Theme...

Listen
Watch
Mark as Played

Send Us a Text or Voice Message!

Kurt invites his first conduct supervisor, Cyndi Freeman, to reflect on her journey and philosophy in student conduct and engagement. They discuss memorable discipline cases, the importance of educational outcomes, and the role of mentorship in shaping future conduct officers. They note the significance and long-lasting impact of safe spaces for dialogue for all. Cyndi talks about the relevance of p...

Listen
Watch
Mark as Played
January 29, 2026 43 mins

Send Us a Text or Voice Message!

Colette and Kurt engage in a deep conversation with Emily, a student conduct and care professional, about her experiences managing a crisis on campus involving a hate group. They discuss the importance of community communication, the emotional toll of such events, and the strategies for processing and coping with the aftermath. Emily shares insights on the significance of being present, maintaining ...

Listen
Watch
Mark as Played

Send Us a Text or Voice Message!

In this episode of "Ms. Behavior," Colette Shaw and Kurt Doan dive into the complexities of attending the National ASCA Conference in Washington, DC. They discuss the excitement of reconnecting with Association of Student Conduct Administrator colleagues, the challenges of navigating ICE-related concerns, and the importance of activism and dialogue in today's educational landscape. Jo...

Listen
Watch
Mark as Played

Send Us a Text or Voice Message!

Former college deans Colette and Kurt reflect on their New Year experiences, discuss personal resolutions, and delve into the themes of the show 'Pluribus.' They explore the importance of hobbies and personal interests in maintaining mental health and well-being, particularly in the context of their roles in college administration. The conversation wraps up with a look ahead to the new sem...

Listen
Watch
Mark as Played

Send Us a Text or Voice Message!

Ms. Behavior hosts Kurt and Colette discuss the recent tragic shooting at Brown University and its implications for campus safety and community. They explore the challenges of communication during crises, the desensitization of students to violence, and the importance of mental health support. The conversation emphasizes the need for proactive leadership and self-care in the wake of such events, hig...

Listen
Watch
Mark as Played

Popular Podcasts

    Hey Jonas! The official Jonas Brothers podcast. Hosted by Kevin, Joe, and Nick Jonas. It’s the Jonas Brothers you know... musicians, actors, and well, yes, brothers. Now, they’re sharing another side of themselves in the playful, intimate, and irreverent way only they can. Spend time with the Jonas Brothers here and stay a little bit longer for deep conversations like never before.

    Stuff You Should Know

    If you've ever wanted to know about champagne, satanism, the Stonewall Uprising, chaos theory, LSD, El Nino, true crime and Rosa Parks, then look no further. Josh and Chuck have you covered.

    Dateline NBC

    Current and classic episodes, featuring compelling true-crime mysteries, powerful documentaries and in-depth investigations. Follow now to get the latest episodes of Dateline NBC completely free, or subscribe to Dateline Premium for ad-free listening and exclusive bonus content: DatelinePremium.com

    The Bobby Bones Show

    Listen to 'The Bobby Bones Show' by downloading the daily full replay.

    The Clay Travis and Buck Sexton Show

    The Clay Travis and Buck Sexton Show. Clay Travis and Buck Sexton tackle the biggest stories in news, politics and current events with intelligence and humor. From the border crisis, to the madness of cancel culture and far-left missteps, Clay and Buck guide listeners through the latest headlines and hot topics with fun and entertaining conversations and opinions.

Advertise With Us
Music, radio and podcasts, all free. Listen online or download the iHeart App.

Connect

© 2026 iHeartMedia, Inc.

  • Help
  • Privacy Policy
  • Terms of Use
  • AdChoicesAd Choices