Out Loud & Laughing

In this engaging episode, Brian and John dive into the concept of lust, one of the seven deadly sins. The conversation kicks off with humor about flavored water and ends with a profound exploration of what lust means beyond just sexual desire. They discuss the definition of lust, seven stages of lust, and how society and marketing can manipulate our feelings. They humorously debate topics like uniform fetishes, digital thirst trapp...

Join us as we sit down with Brian Spitulnik, an inspiring figure known for his empowering social media presence and extensive 15-year career on Broadway. Brian Spitulnik shares his journey from performing in the iconic musical 'Chicago' to becoming a psychotherapist focusing on the gay community. Discover how he transitioned during the pandemic, the importance of vulnerability and courage, and the transformative power of community ...

In this spirited episode, the hosts welcome back Jim as he shares exciting updates on his latest single and the creative process behind its upcoming music video. The conversation delves into the nuances of being a gay artist, the importance of community support, and the challenges of mainstream recognition for queer artists. Jim also opens up about his personal relationships and the experiences that have shaped his journey. The epi...

Join Jon and Bryan as they dive into the fun and creative world of Halloween costumes. From discussing the different tiers of costume effort to exploring the notion of Halloween as 'gay Christmas,' they share amusing anecdotes and costume ideas. They also touch upon Halloween's origins and its evolution into the modern-day celebration filled with outrageous and sexy costumes. It's a lively and entertaining conversation that celebra...

In this spirited episode, the hosts welcome back Jim as he shares exciting updates on his latest single and the creative process behind its upcoming music video. The conversation delves into the nuances of being a gay artist, the importance of community support, and the challenges of mainstream recognition for queer artists. Jim also opens up about his personal relationships and the experiences that have shaped his journey. The epi...

In this hilarious episode, hosts Jon and Bryan reminisce about all the funny and bizarre lies their parents told them as kids. From being warned that making a face would make it permanently stuck like that to the absurdity of believing in pee dye in pools, they cover it all. They also dive into traditional parental lies about pets, eating habits, and more. Listen as they explore these hilarious and sometimes traumatizing moments, a...

In this episode, Jon and Bryan welcome Ben back to dive deep into hilarious and edgy conversations about their personal lives. From wearing shorts in Texas, pumpkin spice lattes, and Starbucks barista behavior to recounting a recent jail experience for speeding, nothing is off-limits. The group also discusses the passionate sides of tech preferences (Android vs. iPhone), Disney adults vs. Universal fans, and the extreme loyalty of ...

Join hosts Jon and Bryan in this hilarious and insightful episode of 'Out Loud and Laughing' as they dive into the world of transportation to determine what modes of travel might be gay, straight, bi, or non-binary. From subways and monorails to ferries and airplanes, no form of public transit is left out of their cheeky and candid analysis. They also discuss various facets of air travel, iconic vehicles like San Francisco's cable ...

Join Jon and Bryan as they introduce Kaelan Strouse, a mindfulness and sex positivity advocate, to the chat. In this insightful conversation, Kaelan discusses his personal journey of overcoming societal and internalized shame regarding sexuality, identity, and spirituality. He shares how mindfulness, a dedicated yogic practice, and exploring various aspects of sexuality helped him find self-love and joy. Kaelan also addresses commo...

In this hilarious and introspective episode, Jon and Bryan explore the world of TikTok algorithms and their implications on their sexual identities. They dive into a series of quizzes to determine whether they're tops, bottoms, or somewhere in between. The results lead to a deeper discussion about the fluidity of sexual roles, the impact of societal labels, and the importance of self-exploration and communication in relationships. ...

In this episode, we dive into the theme of envy, examining its different facets and how it manifests in various aspects of our lives. From light-hearted scenarios like body envy and travel envy to more complex discussions about the gay community and societal norms, we dissect how envy can drive desire and self-improvement. We also explore the thin line between envy and jealousy, and how social media influences these feelings. Join ...

In this inspiring episode, we sit down with David Burtka to discuss his multifaceted life, from being a father through surrogacy with his husband Neil Patrick Harris, to his journey with sobriety. David shares heartfelt insights about parenthood, the evolving dynamics as his children grow older, and the importance of setting examples. He delves into his personal battles and triumphs with sobriety, the lessons learned from the 12-st...

Join Jon and Bryan as they dive into a fun and heartfelt discussion about their first gay experiences, celebrity crushes, college memories, and the reality of aging as gay men. From nostalgic moments to candid confessions, this episode offers humor, insight, and plenty of laughs. Don’t miss out on their personal stories and reflections, all while sporting some fabulous merch from outloudandlaughing.com. Tune in for an episode full ...

In this lively discussion, hosts delve into their favorite fictional characters from popular culture and theorize about their potential secret queer identities. From iconic figures like Captain Hook, Miss Piggy, and Elsa, to Aladdin and He-Man, they cover a wide range of beloved personalities. With a mix of humor and insightful commentary, they challenge traditional perceptions and assign new, inclusive interpretations to these cha...

Join us in this engaging conversation with Sam Leicht, a former Broadway actor turned fitness guru, as he shares his remarkable journey from the stage to building an inclusive online fitness community. Learn about Sam's transition from acting to fitness training during the pandemic, the creation of Pride Fit (pridefit.com), and his dedication to empowering the queer community through accessible fitness solutions. Get insights into ...

In this lively conversation, Jon and Bryan dive into the world of back-to-school shopping as Bryan prepares for his daughter Kenzie's first day of kindergarten. They discuss the importance of presenting oneself, the pressures of standing out (especially with two gay dads), and the impact of fashion trends over the years. From Kenzie's K-pop graphic tee obsession to nostalgic 90s and 2000s fashion trends, the duo shares their fashio...

In this entertaining episode, Bryan and Jon kick things off with a humorous banter about the keto meatloaf dinner and pivot to recollections of 'Trading Spaces.' The conversation transitions into an engaging chat about ideal dinner party guests, including Joan Rivers, Cher, Laverne Cox, Elliot Page, George Takei, and Dolly Parton. The duo imagines various settings for these get-togethers, balancing humor with thoughtful reflections...

Join hosts Bryan and Jon as they welcome the incredibly talented Jennifer McClain to the show. Jennifer, a renowned singer and actress, shares her journey from a young dreamer with Broadway aspirations to performing in South Florida's vibrant LGBTQ+ community. She talks about her experiences performing cabaret, her latest movie 'Big Easy Queens' on Hulu, and her roles in various productions. Jennifer also dives into her unique char...

In this episode, John and Brian dive into the multifaceted concept of greed. They explore various forms of greed, from virtual holdups and political ambitions to humorous instances like battling for toys during the holiday rush and sampling food at Costco. The discussion extends to personal experiences and reflections on whether greed can sometimes be reframed as ambition or self-care. Join the conversation as they analyze how gree...