What happens when long-term love ends—and you suddenly have to reintroduce yourself to… yourself?
This week on Out of Office Era, I’m joined by Fiona Chen—aka @FindingFiona—your internet big sister for skincare, solo trips, and self-discovery. We talk about the quiet ending of her 8-year relationship and what it’s looked like to find herself again in the aftermath.
We get into:
- The emotional weight of leaving a long-term relationship
- Starting over in your late 20s
- Dating again after nearly a decade
- What sharing online looks like when your real life is shifting
- How to reclaim your story without needing to explain everything
It’s raw, reflective, and full of reminders that healing doesn’t happen all at once—but you’re allowed to take up space in the process.
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